If a guy told me he thinks he is out of my league along with a lot of other guys does he mean it?
Does he mean it?
Posted by ianthepisces
why would you care.. plenty of fish..
There's plenty, except the fact that I REALLy LIKE LIKE this guy! lol
Posted by PurrHisss
He thinks HE'S out of YOUR league, or YOU'RE out of HIS league?
Just curious, because you're a beautiful young girl, and I can't imagine some stupid young kid thinking he's better looking than you. You have classically beautiful features, obviously.
Well thank you
Posted by PurrHisss
He thinks HE'S out of YOUR league, or YOU'RE out of HIS league?
Just curious, because you're a beautiful young girl, and I can't imagine some stupid young kid thinking he's better looking than you. You have classically beautiful features, obviously.
Excuse me... He's out of my league is what he told me... he said I'm not kidding you so are... .same with a lot of guys lol
Posted by geminicandlePosted by CluelessCancer
You're way too young to give a FUCK What a boy or man thinks. Live your life.
Lol, awww come on CC, don't be so harsh on this young'n.
She has a right to ask, I am much older and I still ask questions like this.
To the OP: you know, maybe he does genuinely feel this way. I've heard it before. Guys could be intimidated and insecure, as well as us girls.
Just be careful that it's not sort of "reverse psychology" type of a thing...where he says one thing (in order to not to hurt your feelings, or just because for whatever motive), but actually means a completely different thing.
Libras are good at this.click to expand
See that's what I was thinking! lol but I mean, that's a pretty good lie if I ever heard one lol I just hope he was honest with me, I think it takes a lot for a guy to say that... right? :o lol
Posted by Seanna93Posted by PurrHisss
He thinks HE'S out of YOUR league, or YOU'RE out of HIS league?
Just curious, because you're a beautiful young girl, and I can't imagine some stupid young kid thinking he's better looking than you. You have classically beautiful features, obviously.
Excuse me... He's out of my league is what he told me... he said I'm not kidding you so are... .same with a lot of guys lolclick to expand
I didn't mean to sound conceited... he said like a lot of guys like you... they are out of YOUR league lol
Posted by geminicandlePosted by CluelessCancer
You're way too young to give a FUCK What a boy or man thinks. Live your life.
Lol, awww come on CC, don't be so harsh on this young'n.
She has a right to ask, I am much older and I still ask questions like this.
To the OP: you know, maybe he does genuinely feel this way. I've heard it before. Guys could be intimidated and insecure, as well as us girls.
Just be careful that it's not sort of "reverse psychology" type of a thing...where he says one thing (in order to not to hurt your feelings, or just because for whatever motive), but actually means a completely different thing.
Libras are good at this.click to expand
God I hope he is honest about that... cause I don't think guys say that right?
Posted by geminicandle
Yeah, the thing is you don't know for sure, and it's quite possible that he did mean it.
So what ya gonna do, you know...what can you do? Do you like him?
I just don't see a Cancer pursuing anyone.
OH I've liked him for like ever! lol I just don't have my heart broken... :/
Posted by geminicandlePosted by Seanna93Posted by geminicandle
Yeah, the thing is you don't know for sure, and it's quite possible that he did mean it.
So what ya gonna do, you know...what can you do? Do you like him?
I just don't see a Cancer pursuing anyone.
OH I've liked him for like ever! lol I just don't have my heart broken... :/
I don't want your heart broken either, but if it happens? It happens. Not much we can do about it, can we? Not everyone will like us, just like we won't like everyone. That's life. Still, gotta live and love. You have to just try, you know?click to expand
True, but it ALWAYS happens to me 😢
Posted by geminicandlePosted by Seanna93Posted by geminicandle
Yeah, the thing is you don't know for sure, and it's quite possible that he did mean it.
So what ya gonna do, you know...what can you do? Do you like him?
I just don't see a Cancer pursuing anyone.
OH I've liked him for like ever! lol I just don't have my heart broken... :/
I don't want your heart broken either, but if it happens? It happens. Not much we can do about it, can we? Not everyone will like us, just like we won't like everyone. That's life. Still, gotta live and love. You have to just try, you know?click to expand
I'm not sure but he made it seem like I'm too good for him
Posted by geminicandlePosted by Seanna93Posted by geminicandlePosted by Seanna93Posted by geminicandle
Yeah, the thing is you don't know for sure, and it's quite possible that he did mean it.
So what ya gonna do, you know...what can you do? Do you like him?
I just don't see a Cancer pursuing anyone.
OH I've liked him for like ever! lol I just don't have my heart broken... :/
I don't want your heart broken either, but if it happens? It happens. Not much we can do about it, can we? Not everyone will like us, just like we won't like everyone. That's life. Still, gotta live and love. You have to just try, you know?
True, but it ALWAYS happens to me 😢
Ah, THAT right there is self-defeating attitude and self-fulfilling prophecy. We gotta get rid of that "attitude", young lady🙂
Start with the premise that yes, things like that have happened to you in the past, but they will not necessarily happen with every guy in the future. And watch the world transform around you.click to expand
Hahaha alright 🙂 that's what he told me... he was like What the hell? Sean, I'm so out of your league that it's not even funny! Same with other guys. You have everything going for you except confidence!"
Posted by geminicandle
Seana,
I feel "bad" for you in a sense that I can sympathize with you (having a venus in Cancer myself, I sort of know what it feels like to FEEL so much inside).
Luckily, I have a Leo moon and mars, and Gemini sun, so sometimes I fake it 'til I make it, if that makes sense. I may not feel confident inside and I may feel shy and inadequate, but I act like I have it all together anyways and I just take the world as it comes, same with the guys. I mean, how bad can it be? It's just some guy, we are not even talking Brad Pitt or whoever, lol.
And also, it is better to be humble than to be some stuck up girl that everyone hates, and she is egoistic.
It will pay off being sweet in the end. The right guy will recognize it and appreciate it.
But seriously, nothing wrong with a little confidence. Express yourself.
I'll take your word for it 🙂 Thanks! It sucks cause I have Libra Rising and a Venus in Gemini and yet, because of Sun & Mercury in Cancer and Pisces Moon (also Virgo in Mars) I'm just a emotional WRECK! lol no planets in fire! lol
Posted by oldskoolflavor
I'm curious .. do you ever encounter guys who consider themselves to be in your league ?
I'm not sure :/
Posted by EccentricUranian
He sounds like he's being a dick, or he's playing some twisted game with you.
I hope he isn't :/
Posted by Seanna93
If a guy told me he thinks he is out of my league along with a lot of other guys does he mean it?
Maybe you're NFL and he is NHL? :/
Sometimes guys with low self confidence really do believe this. They feel like you're better looking than them, smarter than them, have more material privileges than them, better social standing than them, more popular than them, and the list goes on. I've read where many gorgeous models and actresses hardly ever get asked out. So many men think those girls are out of their league and they're intimated and fearful of being rejected, so they don't even try.
Sometimes, on the opposite end, they say that as a way of letting you down easy because they don't like you like that and it's a way to prevent hurting your feelings.
There's no way to tell for sure unless you ask him and I understand that's hard to do.
Honey, you are a beautiful girl and you haven't even come into your looks yet. You are going to be a heart breaker some day!!! You've got plenty of time to worry about guys. Just enjoy your life and get what you can out of it!
Whatever you do, DON'T BEAT YOURSELF UP!!!!
Sometimes, on the opposite end, they say that as a way of letting you down easy because they don't like you like that and it's a way to prevent hurting your feelings.
There's no way to tell for sure unless you ask him and I understand that's hard to do.
Honey, you are a beautiful girl and you haven't even come into your looks yet. You are going to be a heart breaker some day!!! You've got plenty of time to worry about guys. Just enjoy your life and get what you can out of it!
Whatever you do, DON'T BEAT YOURSELF UP!!!!
Posted by WoundedLeo
What does it matter whether he's in your league or out of your league when the bottom line seems to me that he's not ready for a real relationship?
He might be sincere or not, but regardless...it seems obvious that he's not ready for anything that involves real emotions.
Well he said we could be more than friends and he has NEVER said that! lol
Posted by geminicandlePosted by Seanna93Posted by geminicandle
Seana,
I feel "bad" for you in a sense that I can sympathize with you (having a venus in Cancer myself, I sort of know what it feels like to FEEL so much inside).
Luckily, I have a Leo moon and mars, and Gemini sun, so sometimes I fake it 'til I make it, if that makes sense. I may not feel confident inside and I may feel shy and inadequate, but I act like I have it all together anyways and I just take the world as it comes, same with the guys. I mean, how bad can it be? It's just some guy, we are not even talking Brad Pitt or whoever, lol.
And also, it is better to be humble than to be some stuck up girl that everyone hates, and she is egoistic.
It will pay off being sweet in the end. The right guy will recognize it and appreciate it.
But seriously, nothing wrong with a little confidence. Express yourself.
I'll take your word for it 🙂 Thanks! It sucks cause I have Libra Rising and a Venus in Gemini and yet, because of Sun & Mercury in Cancer and Pisces Moon (also Virgo in Mars) I'm just a emotional WRECK! lol no planets in fire! lol
That's fine; you don't want too much fire anyways. Fire gets me in trouble, it makes me overly aggressive for a woman and impulsive at times, hehe.
Venus in Gemini? Lol, that's cool, you are sorta opposite of me. Anyways, you seem just fine to me. You are talkative and nice and respectful. I bet you are a good student too.click to expand
Well I try to be :p lol
Posted by truecap
Sometimes guys with low self confidence really do believe this. They feel like you're better looking than them, smarter than them, have more material privileges than them, better social standing than them, more popular than them, and the list goes on. I've read where many gorgeous models and actresses hardly ever get asked out. So many men think those girls are out of their league and they're intimated and fearful of being rejected, so they don't even try.
Sometimes, on the opposite end, they say that as a way of letting you down easy because they don't like you like that and it's a way to prevent hurting your feelings.
There's no way to tell for sure unless you ask him and I understand that's hard to do.
Honey, you are a beautiful girl and you haven't even come into your looks yet. You are going to be a heart breaker some day!!! You've got plenty of time to worry about guys. Just enjoy your life and get what you can out of it!
Whatever you do, DON'T BEAT YOURSELF UP!!!!
Awe thank you
Posted by WoundedLeo
What does it matter whether he's in your league or out of your league when the bottom line seems to me that he's not ready for a real relationship?
He might be sincere or not, but regardless...it seems obvious that he's not ready for anything that involves real emotions.
It'd be nice to know that he think's I'm too good for him...
Posted by Seanna93
People (both guys and girls) have told me how pretty I am and they tell me guys notice me all the time but I doubt they do. (Not to be conceited at all) I've been told how great of a personality I have as well and how I'm too pretty to be single.
When you posted this ^^^^^ on your other thread, red flags went up about your vanity, but, I ignored them eventhough you stated a couple times that you aren't conceited.
Because the thing is .... how good you are on the superficial level has nothing to do with actually being good.
As soon as I read that people tell you (all the time) how pretty you are is very suspicious .... but, still I blew it off ....
Posted by Seanna93
If a guy told me he thinks he is out of my league along with a lot of other guys does he mean it?
click to expand
Now, you make a thread ^^^^ to tell us how you are in a higher league than other people. Not just this guy, you said a lot of other guys .. which means you label people, you put people on levels of importance according to looks.
Which means you're probably a certified cunt
Posted by WoundedLeoPosted by P-Angel
Which means you're probably a certified cunt
P-Angel, can't you make your point without using the C-word?click to expand
She's talking to herself again, apparently...
Posted by WoundedLeoPosted by P-Angel
Which means you're probably a certified cunt
P-Angel, can't you make your point without using the C-word?click to expand
Ummm no I'm not... I JUST found this out about a guy before I made that other trend... if you don't like my trends you don't have to answer them.
Thanks everyone for defending me... I don't mean to sound whiney or fish for compliemnets but I'm certainly not a B WORD...
Posted by oldskoolflavorPosted by WoundedLeoPosted by P-Angel
Which means you're probably a certified cunt
P-Angel, can't you make your point without using the C-word?
the delivery may be harsh, but P.A.G.C. (p-angel gangsta chick) definitely has a pointclick to expand
And you don't have comment either... I'm NOT a conceited bitch! Never in my life have I been one... Even conceited bitched get boyfriends and I'M NOT ONE!!! It amy seem like it, for that I apologize, but I don't think that any guy is out of my league EVER...
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Seanna93
People (both guys and girls) have told me how pretty I am and they tell me guys notice me all the time but I doubt they do. (Not to be conceited at all) I've been told how great of a personality I have as well and how I'm too pretty to be single.
When you posted this ^^^^^ on your other thread, red flags went up about your vanity, but, I ignored them eventhough you stated a couple times that you aren't conceited.
Because the thing is .... how good you are on the superficial level has nothing to do with actually being good.
As soon as I read that people tell you (all the time) how pretty you are is very suspicious .... but, still I blew it off ....
Posted by Seanna93
If a guy told me he thinks he is out of my league along with a lot of other guys does he mean it?
Now, you make a thread ^^^^ to tell us how you are in a higher league than other people. Not just this guy, you said a lot of other guys .. which means you label people, you put people on levels of importance according to looks.
Which means you're probably a certified cuntclick to expand
AND A C WORD?!! Wow... by the way... HE told me this! I didn;t say this at all! Do you just like, spend all day trolling people's pages and telling them how they are c words? Sorry but I didn't do anything to you... you don't know me on a personal level and I don;t know you... doesn't mean you can call me a C word! You don't like what I'm talking about? THEN DON'T COMMENT!!!
I went back to read your history, which didn't take much considering it all amounted to nearly the same thing = you looking for praise on your looks.
May 3rd ... you made a thread on the Ascendants board to get people to talk about how you look.
May 10th ... you made a thread on the Cancer board to get people to talk about how you look.
May 17th ... you made a thread on the Relationships board to get people to comment on how you are constantly told by both genders how beautiful you are
May 19th ... you made thread on Libra board to get people tell people that the boy you like thinks you are out of his league and better than him
May 21st ... you spoke on Scorpio board to tell everyone that you have beautiful eyes
.... and this thread, which is also in place to discuss how you're in a higher league than others.
in all of those threads ^^^^^^^^ .. except this one .. the only time you responded to the people commenting was to thank them for agreeing that you are good looking. People talked, people stated opinions and views, and you ignored all of them ... you never participated in any conversation other than thanking people for agreeing that you are pretty.
May 3rd ... you made a thread on the Ascendants board to get people to talk about how you look.
May 10th ... you made a thread on the Cancer board to get people to talk about how you look.
May 17th ... you made a thread on the Relationships board to get people to comment on how you are constantly told by both genders how beautiful you are
May 19th ... you made thread on Libra board to get people tell people that the boy you like thinks you are out of his league and better than him
May 21st ... you spoke on Scorpio board to tell everyone that you have beautiful eyes
.... and this thread, which is also in place to discuss how you're in a higher league than others.
in all of those threads ^^^^^^^^ .. except this one .. the only time you responded to the people commenting was to thank them for agreeing that you are good looking. People talked, people stated opinions and views, and you ignored all of them ... you never participated in any conversation other than thanking people for agreeing that you are pretty.
Posted by P-Angel
...the only time you responded to the people commenting was to thank them for agreeing that you are good looking. People talked, people stated opinions and views, and you ignored all of them ... you never participated in any conversation other than thanking people for agreeing that you are pretty.
It does seem as though she only listens to what she wants to hear.
Maybe thats why guys don't want to get with her?
That is a pretty serious character flaw after all.
Do people really say these things to eachother? Laugh your ass off and walk away
Posted by geminicandlePosted by Seanna93Posted by geminicandlePosted by Seanna93Posted by geminicandle
Yeah, the thing is you don't know for sure, and it's quite possible that he did mean it.
True, but it ALWAYS happens to me 😢
Ah, THAT right there is self-defeating attitude and self-fulfilling prophecy. We gotta get rid of that "attitude", young lady🙂
Start with the premise that yes, things like that have happened to you in the past, but they will not necessarily happen with every guy in the future. And watch the world transform around you.click to expand
if only it were that easy.
Sienna I would be worried if a guy says that to me. Either its game or he really feels that which isnt sexy imo....Like everyone else said work on your inner confidence because YOu already have the outer beauty going for you. I have a Pisces moon too and I understand the self doubt at times but you gotta build yourself up, starting now. the last thing yuo need to do is start dating right now, your mind isnt right and thats how you will get hurt. Dont worry about acceptance from others.
Posted by NicroblizPosted by P-Angel
I went back to read your history, which didn't take much considering it all amounted to nearly the same thing = you looking for praise on your looks.
May 3rd ... you made a thread on the Ascendants board to get people to talk about how you look.
May 10th ... you made a thread on the Cancer board to get people to talk about how you look.
May 17th ... you made a thread on the Relationships board to get people to comment on how you are constantly told by both genders how beautiful you are
May 19th ... you made thread on Libra board to get people tell people that the boy you like thinks you are out of his league and better than him
May 21st ... you spoke on Scorpio board to tell everyone that you have beautiful eyes
.... and this thread, which is also in place to discuss how you're in a higher league than others.
in all of those threads ^^^^^^^^ .. except this one .. the only time you responded to the people commenting was to thank them for agreeing that you are good looking. People talked, people stated opinions and views, and you ignored all of them ... you never participated in any conversation other than thanking people for agreeing that you are pretty.
Some very good points made.click to expand
Very good points made indeed!! P-angel is truly analytical. Sees things that others don't. She just needs to be less harsh. That's all! Calling names is uncalled for.
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