Posted by i-xynope he told me that at that time he didn't want marriage or relationships...he wanted to just f**** he doesn't seem like a type who would be cheating but im just grossed out as a woman at his past. he texted me today and I asked him again to never contact me again.
Was he in a relationship while he was having his sexcapades?
Posted by WeedsYes, it's gross
Ey not everyone wants peoples left overs.
Posted by LaMadrinaThe thought of letting a bloke inside me that's been inside that many women makes me nauseous
And you slept with all 400 of his partners. You know the saying. Yes. If it's too much, walk away. No one can tell you it's wrong.
Posted by GobbyDone!Posted by Weeds
Ey not everyone wants peoples left overs.
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Posted by CancerAquaSaggthanks guys....his bday is May 15, 1977 he's a taurus with venus conj mars exactly like me both in AriesPosted by -sierra-
eww
what's his sun sign?
for science
Yeah please tell us when is his birthday?click to expand
Posted by Primrosemars and venus conj in aries both just like in my case...Posted by fem_fem_femWhat's his Mars?Posted by CancerAquaSaggthanks guys....his bday is May 15, 1977 he's a taurus with venus conj mars exactly like me both in AriesPosted by -sierra-
eww
what's his sun sign?
for science
Yeah please tell us when is his birthday?) just like me...so we've got that in common. His moon is also in Aries and sun taurus...he's very aggressive when mad and can even cuss me out then he cools down and gets normal.
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Posted by MyStarsShineIs this like the return of Saturn?
OP, if he's 41 he's due to go through his mid life crisis soon (Uranus opposition)
I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't buy another book, and a sports car
Lol
Posted by fem_fem_femNot to make light of your current perdicament, but this is a fascinating topic. To be blunt a person's number shouldn't matter when you love them for who they are, right? Generally that's true. However everyone has their "preference" and unfortunately that particular standard isn't always rational or fair. For example some women only date men who are tall, while some men only date blondes. While these preferences may seem besuperficial, it's still within a person's right to date whomever they want based on their own standards. Therefore how you feel about your personal preferences in a relationship is very important. If this situation makes you uncomfortable you should listen to that. There's no right or wrong action here.
My boyfriend whom I was going to marry in 2 weeks told me that up until 2010 he had around 400 sexual partners or even more than that. He said that he had a list that he kept writing their names down & their birthdays. He is 41 now & told me that he was like that until 2010 and that back in the days he even had up to 3 different women a day & he even told me that him & his friend would grab 2 women into their room into one bedroom & they would f** them at the same time (those chicks not themselves lol). Im not a virgin & far from it having 15 sexual partners myself at the age of 35, BUT I felt disturbed at his own # & felt grossed out & I cant get myself go to bed with him now. It's like something in me got turned off & we were planning to vacay in Europe & marry there by ourselves & I just called things off today and he is very upset. Was I right to feel disturbed with his fun days with that amount? I would think that women & men should have some self-respect when getting laid...some people just do it as a sport or to prove themselves something. Like he told me that once he woke up near such an ugly chick after a club that he ran into the kitchen & asked his bro to get rid of her saying that he left the house. He told me that he lost his virginity when he was 24 & his friends who had lost it at 16, would brag about their own sexual escapades and would laugh at him over his virginity, so he developed insecurity over the years & then when he was active at the age of 24, he decided he would get laid as many times as he can and he did until 2010. Am I right to feel this way? Looks like I will be vacay-ing in Europe alone now. I prefer men who do not run after each skirt and have some self-respect when dealing with women as it's the same as a woman sleeping around with every man she sees...no difference to me...both are gross. It looked like his sexual past was just a sport to him. I don't doubt him now, but something in me broke and I don't see myself going into bed with him now and I'm the type of woman who finds it hard to forget when shit happensIt's hard for me to get over things sometimes. The idea of me being a #450 (for example) makes me seem like another chick for him despite his words of love etc. I'm starting to doubt men nowadays.
Posted by MyStarsShineHe's had 8 years to reassess his past actions. 8 years of shagging 400 women and then another 8 years to figure his shit out.
I'd be very wary of a guy going from shagging that many women to being faithful to one for the rest of his life
And I bet he'd keep the book 🙄
Posted by Ram416...but is he marriage material?Posted by MyStarsShineHe's had 8 years to reassess his past actions. 8 years of shagging 400 women and then another 8 years to figure his shit out.
I'd be very wary of a guy going from shagging that many women to being faithful to one for the rest of his life
And I bet he'd keep the book 🙄
Have to give it to him though, at least he stayed away from relationships and kept everything casual and non-committal.click to expand
Posted by exsqueezemeI totally agree
Why do people have to go over and above to prove that they’re some exemplar archetype of the open minded millennial? Yes it’s fucking disgusting and we all know it. Three four women a day and having thrusted your peen in to 450 different bodies as if you have zero self respect for yourself and your body as though it’s some empty vessel to just be deployed to satisfy carnal urges is really primitive and sickening to me.
I don’t think he will ever change if that was the intensity of his addiction and I doubt he will stay faithful for long. You could do so much better op.
Posted by exsqueezemeYou too ❤️Posted by MyStarsShineLub you ❤️Posted by exsqueezemeI totally agree
Why do people have to go over and above to prove that they’re some exemplar archetype of the open minded millennial? Yes it’s fucking disgusting and we all know it. Three four women a day and having thrusted your peen in to 450 different bodies as if you have zero self respect for yourself and your body as though it’s some empty vessel to just be deployed to satisfy carnal urges is really primitive and sickening to me.
I don’t think he will ever change if that was the intensity of his addiction and I doubt he will stay faithful for long. You could do so much better op.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineYou can’t be serious! 🤣🤣🤣Posted by exsqueezemeYou too ❤️Posted by MyStarsShineLub you ❤️Posted by exsqueezemeI totally agree
Why do people have to go over and above to prove that they’re some exemplar archetype of the open minded millennial? Yes it’s fucking disgusting and we all know it. Three four women a day and having thrusted your peen in to 450 different bodies as if you have zero self respect for yourself and your body as though it’s some empty vessel to just be deployed to satisfy carnal urges is really primitive and sickening to me.
I don’t think he will ever change if that was the intensity of his addiction and I doubt he will stay faithful for long. You could do so much better op.click to expand
Posted by Jade_AlexanderYes but worse....men trying to relive their youth lolPosted by MyStarsShineIs this like the return of Saturn?
OP, if he's 41 he's due to go through his mid life crisis soon (Uranus opposition)
I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't buy another book, and a sports car
Lolclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineThat's not up to us to decide. Only OP is in a position to ask that question and answer it.Posted by Ram416...but is he marriage material?Posted by MyStarsShineHe's had 8 years to reassess his past actions. 8 years of shagging 400 women and then another 8 years to figure his shit out.
I'd be very wary of a guy going from shagging that many women to being faithful to one for the rest of his life
And I bet he'd keep the book 🙄
Have to give it to him though, at least he stayed away from relationships and kept everything casual and non-committal.
Lolclick to expand
Posted by Ram416True....I hope she makes the right decision for herselfPosted by MyStarsShineThat's not up to us to decide. Only OP is in a position to ask that question and answer it.Posted by Ram416...but is he marriage material?Posted by MyStarsShineHe's had 8 years to reassess his past actions. 8 years of shagging 400 women and then another 8 years to figure his shit out.
I'd be very wary of a guy going from shagging that many women to being faithful to one for the rest of his life
And I bet he'd keep the book 🙄
Have to give it to him though, at least he stayed away from relationships and kept everything casual and non-committal.
Lolclick to expand
Posted by -sierra-Fixed hellPosted by nanoboteww that axis
I know a scorpio woman who's slept with over 300 men and told me she's been infected with multiple std's and still can't stop having sex. Give him her number. Scorpio/taurus connectionclick to expand
Posted by fem_fem_femyou should love someone how they are now not hate on how he was before it's his past not your business if he admits it's because he wants to be honest with you get over it !
My boyfriend whom I was going to marry in 2 weeks told me that up until 2010 he had around 400 sexual partners or even more than that. He said that he had a list that he kept writing their names down & their birthdays. He is 41 now & told me that he was like that until 2010 and that back in the days he even had up to 3 different women a day & he even told me that him & his friend would grab 2 women into their room into one bedroom & they would f** them at the same time (those chicks not themselves lol). Im not a virgin & far from it having 15 sexual partners myself at the age of 35, BUT I felt disturbed at his own # & felt grossed out & I cant get myself go to bed with him now. It's like something in me got turned off & we were planning to vacay in Europe & marry there by ourselves & I just called things off today and he is very upset. Was I right to feel disturbed with his fun days with that amount? I would think that women & men should have some self-respect when getting laid...some people just do it as a sport or to prove themselves something. Like he told me that once he woke up near such an ugly chick after a club that he ran into the kitchen & asked his bro to get rid of her saying that he left the house. He told me that he lost his virginity when he was 24 & his friends who had lost it at 16, would brag about their own sexual escapades and would laugh at him over his virginity, so he developed insecurity over the years & then when he was active at the age of 24, he decided he would get laid as many times as he can and he did until 2010. Am I right to feel this way? Looks like I will be vacay-ing in Europe alone now. I prefer men who do not run after each skirt and have some self-respect when dealing with women as it's the same as a woman sleeping around with every man she sees...no difference to me...both are gross. It looked like his sexual past was just a sport to him. I don't doubt him now, but something in me broke and I don't see myself going into bed with him now and I'm the type of woman who finds it hard to forget when shit happensIt's hard for me to get over things sometimes. The idea of me being a #450 (for example) makes me seem like another chick for him despite his words of love etc. I'm starting to doubt men nowadays.
Posted by nikkistarHUGE BIG NO
I have two statements about this.
1) How the hell did you guys not discuss past sexual partners up until 2 weeks prior to getting married?
and
2) HELL THE FUCK NO. I don't even give a shit about being called judgmental. That is fucking nasty, and there is no way in hell I would even contemplate dating someone with even 100. 400+ NOPE. HARD PASS. NOPE.
Posted by dewiklaessen26Love a bloke who treats women like shite and calls them hos?Posted by fem_fem_femyou should love someone how they are now not hate on how he was before it's his past not your business if he admits it's because he wants to be honest with you get over it !
My boyfriend whom I was going to marry in 2 weeks told me that up until 2010 he had around 400 sexual partners or even more than that. He said that he had a list that he kept writing their names down & their birthdays. He is 41 now & told me that he was like that until 2010 and that back in the days he even had up to 3 different women a day & he even told me that him & his friend would grab 2 women into their room into one bedroom & they would f** them at the same time (those chicks not themselves lol). Im not a virgin & far from it having 15 sexual partners myself at the age of 35, BUT I felt disturbed at his own # & felt grossed out & I cant get myself go to bed with him now. It's like something in me got turned off & we were planning to vacay in Europe & marry there by ourselves & I just called things off today and he is very upset. Was I right to feel disturbed with his fun days with that amount? I would think that women & men should have some self-respect when getting laid...some people just do it as a sport or to prove themselves something. Like he told me that once he woke up near such an ugly chick after a club that he ran into the kitchen & asked his bro to get rid of her saying that he left the house. He told me that he lost his virginity when he was 24 & his friends who had lost it at 16, would brag about their own sexual escapades and would laugh at him over his virginity, so he developed insecurity over the years & then when he was active at the age of 24, he decided he would get laid as many times as he can and he did until 2010. Am I right to feel this way? Looks like I will be vacay-ing in Europe alone now. I prefer men who do not run after each skirt and have some self-respect when dealing with women as it's the same as a woman sleeping around with every man she sees...no difference to me...both are gross. It looked like his sexual past was just a sport to him. I don't doubt him now, but something in me broke and I don't see myself going into bed with him now and I'm the type of woman who finds it hard to forget when shit happensIt's hard for me to get over things sometimes. The idea of me being a #450 (for example) makes me seem like another chick for him despite his words of love etc. I'm starting to doubt men nowadays.
And all the water signs that reply please sht up stop living in the past it's about now and how he is now !!!
their are worse things in the worldclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinebut that's his past i don't understand some men take more time to settle why does it have to immediately be bad for her. Like my sagg still loves me yes i had my hoe phase because of my past i had a troubled childhood maybe she needs to ask him why he was like that instead of judging him.Posted by dewiklaessen26Love a bloke who treats women like shite and calls them hos?Posted by fem_fem_femyou should love someone how they are now not hate on how he was before it's his past not your business if he admits it's because he wants to be honest with you get over it !
My boyfriend whom I was going to marry in 2 weeks told me that up until 2010 he had around 400 sexual partners or even more than that. He said that he had a list that he kept writing their names down & their birthdays. He is 41 now & told me that he was like that until 2010 and that back in the days he even had up to 3 different women a day & he even told me that him & his friend would grab 2 women into their room into one bedroom & they would f** them at the same time (those chicks not themselves lol). Im not a virgin & far from it having 15 sexual partners myself at the age of 35, BUT I felt disturbed at his own # & felt grossed out & I cant get myself go to bed with him now. It's like something in me got turned off & we were planning to vacay in Europe & marry there by ourselves & I just called things off today and he is very upset. Was I right to feel disturbed with his fun days with that amount? I would think that women & men should have some self-respect when getting laid...some people just do it as a sport or to prove themselves something. Like he told me that once he woke up near such an ugly chick after a club that he ran into the kitchen & asked his bro to get rid of her saying that he left the house. He told me that he lost his virginity when he was 24 & his friends who had lost it at 16, would brag about their own sexual escapades and would laugh at him over his virginity, so he developed insecurity over the years & then when he was active at the age of 24, he decided he would get laid as many times as he can and he did until 2010. Am I right to feel this way? Looks like I will be vacay-ing in Europe alone now. I prefer men who do not run after each skirt and have some self-respect when dealing with women as it's the same as a woman sleeping around with every man she sees...no difference to me...both are gross. It looked like his sexual past was just a sport to him. I don't doubt him now, but something in me broke and I don't see myself going into bed with him now and I'm the type of woman who finds it hard to forget when shit happensIt's hard for me to get over things sometimes. The idea of me being a #450 (for example) makes me seem like another chick for him despite his words of love etc. I'm starting to doubt men nowadays.
And all the water signs that reply please sht up stop living in the past it's about now and how he is now !!!
their are worse things in the world
God, no.....click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineMaybe he needs the right woman to be the right manPosted by dewiklaessen26Love a bloke who treats women like shite and calls them hos?Posted by fem_fem_femyou should love someone how they are now not hate on how he was before it's his past not your business if he admits it's because he wants to be honest with you get over it !
My boyfriend whom I was going to marry in 2 weeks told me that up until 2010 he had around 400 sexual partners or even more than that. He said that he had a list that he kept writing their names down & their birthdays. He is 41 now & told me that he was like that until 2010 and that back in the days he even had up to 3 different women a day & he even told me that him & his friend would grab 2 women into their room into one bedroom & they would f** them at the same time (those chicks not themselves lol). Im not a virgin & far from it having 15 sexual partners myself at the age of 35, BUT I felt disturbed at his own # & felt grossed out & I cant get myself go to bed with him now. It's like something in me got turned off & we were planning to vacay in Europe & marry there by ourselves & I just called things off today and he is very upset. Was I right to feel disturbed with his fun days with that amount? I would think that women & men should have some self-respect when getting laid...some people just do it as a sport or to prove themselves something. Like he told me that once he woke up near such an ugly chick after a club that he ran into the kitchen & asked his bro to get rid of her saying that he left the house. He told me that he lost his virginity when he was 24 & his friends who had lost it at 16, would brag about their own sexual escapades and would laugh at him over his virginity, so he developed insecurity over the years & then when he was active at the age of 24, he decided he would get laid as many times as he can and he did until 2010. Am I right to feel this way? Looks like I will be vacay-ing in Europe alone now. I prefer men who do not run after each skirt and have some self-respect when dealing with women as it's the same as a woman sleeping around with every man she sees...no difference to me...both are gross. It looked like his sexual past was just a sport to him. I don't doubt him now, but something in me broke and I don't see myself going into bed with him now and I'm the type of woman who finds it hard to forget when shit happensIt's hard for me to get over things sometimes. The idea of me being a #450 (for example) makes me seem like another chick for him despite his words of love etc. I'm starting to doubt men nowadays.
And all the water signs that reply please sht up stop living in the past it's about now and how he is now !!!
their are worse things in the world
God, no.....click to expand
Posted by dewiklaessen26MaybePosted by MyStarsShineMaybe he needs the right woman to be the right manPosted by dewiklaessen26Love a bloke who treats women like shite and calls them hos?Posted by fem_fem_femyou should love someone how they are now not hate on how he was before it's his past not your business if he admits it's because he wants to be honest with you get over it !
My boyfriend whom I was going to marry in 2 weeks told me that up until 2010 he had around 400 sexual partners or even more than that. He said that he had a list that he kept writing their names down & their birthdays. He is 41 now & told me that he was like that until 2010 and that back in the days he even had up to 3 different women a day & he even told me that him & his friend would grab 2 women into their room into one bedroom & they would f** them at the same time (those chicks not themselves lol). Im not a virgin & far from it having 15 sexual partners myself at the age of 35, BUT I felt disturbed at his own # & felt grossed out & I cant get myself go to bed with him now. It's like something in me got turned off & we were planning to vacay in Europe & marry there by ourselves & I just called things off today and he is very upset. Was I right to feel disturbed with his fun days with that amount? I would think that women & men should have some self-respect when getting laid...some people just do it as a sport or to prove themselves something. Like he told me that once he woke up near such an ugly chick after a club that he ran into the kitchen & asked his bro to get rid of her saying that he left the house. He told me that he lost his virginity when he was 24 & his friends who had lost it at 16, would brag about their own sexual escapades and would laugh at him over his virginity, so he developed insecurity over the years & then when he was active at the age of 24, he decided he would get laid as many times as he can and he did until 2010. Am I right to feel this way? Looks like I will be vacay-ing in Europe alone now. I prefer men who do not run after each skirt and have some self-respect when dealing with women as it's the same as a woman sleeping around with every man she sees...no difference to me...both are gross. It looked like his sexual past was just a sport to him. I don't doubt him now, but something in me broke and I don't see myself going into bed with him now and I'm the type of woman who finds it hard to forget when shit happensIt's hard for me to get over things sometimes. The idea of me being a #450 (for example) makes me seem like another chick for him despite his words of love etc. I'm starting to doubt men nowadays.
And all the water signs that reply please sht up stop living in the past it's about now and how he is now !!!
their are worse things in the world
God, no.....click to expand
Posted by HarukkaI feel the same way.
I may be wrong, but I think that you don’t love this man enough, and he knew (maybe because he been with many)
You know? Like he talk about this to make sure that you can accept him... Idk
I don’t know about other women, but if I love someone, I really don’t care about the past, as long as it’s not pattern.
Posted by MissKrabsPosted by justagirl
Soooo is this the cap man from 5 months ago or the green card husband prospect from 3 months ago?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-man-disappeared-any-advice--10494225/?checkpg=1
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/how-to-know-if-a-man-only-wants-you-for-a-green-card--10959908/?checkpg=1
Just lol
maybe it's for school.
why would anyone troll like this? it's not even funny
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