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Gemitati
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Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by bkbella86

How did he find the time?


It’s really not that many women!

One per 10 days! What time?

And if they had 2 at the time it takes it down to...almost laughable number!

I bet @theRabbit even could pull that off...in HS!!!

And where is OP—

After question how long they been together...have she ever been back? 😱


I've been with 40,000

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Which bideo game are you playing?
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Posted by Arkansassy

400 seems like such a large number.

You need to look at it differently.

It's only 44 women a year.. or a different woman every 8 days. That doesn't sound as bad.




That's kinda bad too actually.

Maybe he was trying to impress her with his sexual prowess and it backfired and now he can't come clean cuz that's even more awkward lol
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Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by bkbella86

How did he find the time?


It’s really not that many women!

One per 10 days! What time?

And if they had 2 at the time it takes it down to...almost laughable number!

I bet @theRabbit even could pull that off...in HS!!!

And where is OP—

After question how long they been together...have she ever been back? 😱


I've been with 40,000




Which bideo game are you playing?


Call of Booty
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See, technically you don’t fuck/fuck them...I am sorry to burst your bubble...your mind is fucked (which now explains a lot of your crazy shit) - but your dick is might icasionally pop and deflated right?
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Posted by Sagicorn

I would run away as fast as I can. No judgement for even a slightest bit. But hearing aboyt such behavior would be such a turn off that I'd lose all the respect and love I had for that person instantly. I don't judge people on their choices in life but I don't have to deal with them either. If it's something I find highly unappealing I'd move away. It's their life abd they can do whatever they want with it but so can I.


Ohh but see that is judging bc the reason you're 'moving away' IS bc of their choices, duh.
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I don't see the problem. If this is about his priorities.. I for one was a whole different person 8 years ago, I'm sure you were too.

If it's about him calling his hookups hoes... He's been with women from all walks of life, and yes some of them or probably many of them were by definition hoes. What's wrong with calling it as it is? Unless he's raped them there is no reason to call his view on women into question. I mean you are judging him for HIS horedom,aren't you?

And then there's that thing about STD's? Bs argument. If he checks out clean then you should be cool with him, no? But you're not. Let's face it ladies, this is about your insecurities and competing with 450 other women and nothing else. Same way dudes feel about women who've been with busloads of guys. Realistically, a person who's slept around is probably more likely to settle down on realistic grounds as oppose to someone who hasn't and is always looking at other lawns.

"He's had his dick in 450 different vessels, ewww!" So if he had his finger in 450 different mouths, would you feel as disgusted by him? Bc technically it's the same thing.

We respect the ppl we love. We dont neceserily respect the ppl we fuck,  chances are we dont really know them nor do we wish to. Big deal.

So what's it say about his character, or personality? Not that much really. He's been out of that life style for a long time but it matters not, you are not a better person if you've slept with fewer ppl! I really don't get the arguments in here, it's all coming from an emotional place.

And why's he have to repent his past actions?! "He had 8 years to reasses his past" lmao. HE'S DONE NOTHING WRONG 😆



It's funny how no woman wants a born-again manhoe but as soon as y'all marry the male equivalent of the Madonna type you can't seem to keep your shit together as soon as that manhoe walks into the room.



You all pretty much suck.
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Here is my assessment of this story.

You asserted that you, yourself had around 15 sex partners.

I doubt that you were in love with ALL 15 people.

I'm sure some encounters were simply casual.

As for his 450-p*ssy count,

I think he's lying through his teeth.

Unless he's an athlete, porn star, rap entertainer, has Lexington Steele's 11 inch c**ck, and Boris Kodjoe's face,

There is no way he managed to gather up that many sex sessions.

However,

I do believe he was a late bloomer, had some issues with insecurity and sexual inadequacy (and still does now, in my opinion).

He may have tested the waters, just to find out there were women out there who were not conducting themselves like ladies, so why treat them like one.

Despite the sexual revolution, with more progressive women making more liberal choices and approaches to their sexuality, not all men are on board with this. Especially the conventional ones.

I think his 'alleged' lack of respect for women stems from his very conventional views.

Views that may have existed during late-blooming phase.

He may have had idealistic expectations of love, tradition and monogamy.

Look how long he waited to have sex.

Clearly he was capable of some type of self control.

Waiting it out until he found the right one.

You stated yourself that you didn't experience any infidelity the entire time the two of you were together.

You're really creating a problem when there isn't.

When you embark on journey to spend the rest of you life with someone, that love has to be unconditional and non-judgmental. You are going to come across a million things about that partner that you don't like.

You're not ready for marriage....just the 'illusion' of marriage.