Your shallow, "non-negotiables" for a potential partner?
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She MUST have a nice booty!!
Nice teeth & eyes
Must have nice legs
There's nothing shallow about my terms and conditions.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by thekiss
thigh gap
don't even talk to me if your thighs touch
Dumbclick to expand
She does not have a thigh gap.
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Posted by Prince_Pisces
Has to be circumcised.
You should never come to Europe in that case.
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Posted by Phantom_DangusThose aren't shallow non-negotiables, those are just....normal!!
There is a certain level of overall attractiveness that a guy has to reach for me to, well, find him attractive. I think my threshhold is lower than a lot of women's of my same relative attractiveness level because I value other things very highly.
He can't be filthy all the time. He can have filthy hobbies, but then he needs to bathe. Thank the heavens, the Pisces bathes all the time.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
There is a certain level of overall attractiveness that a guy has to reach for me to, well, find him attractive. I think my threshhold is lower than a lot of women's of my same relative attractiveness level because I value other things very highly.
He can't be filthy all the time. He can have filthy hobbies, but then he needs to bathe. Thank the heavens, the Pisces bathes all the time.
I am cleaner than the pisces.
Brushed teeth. It’s amazing how many grown men have yellow plaque buildup on their teeth. 🤢🤮
Muscular/masculine body
Like I don't necessarily need gigantic muscle but some definition
Nice v line too
😁😉
Like I don't necessarily need gigantic muscle but some definition
Nice v line too
😁😉
High sex drive and into kink
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by Phantom_Dangus
There is a certain level of overall attractiveness that a guy has to reach for me to, well, find him attractive. I think my threshhold is lower than a lot of women's of my same relative attractiveness level because I value other things very highly.
He can't be filthy all the time. He can have filthy hobbies, but then he needs to bathe. Thank the heavens, the Pisces bathes all the time.
Those aren't shallow non-negotiables, those are just....normal!!
*nods*
I have to like the way he dresses. If he dresses like a dork or if I associate his dress with something I don't like, or he has stupid hair or a dumb mustache or one of those goatees to the breastbone (sorry, guys), he has to have something special over-riding it. He has to be able to own that shit, ya know?click to expand
Yes I know. Come here.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by TurnedOnPosted by Phantom_Dangus
There is a certain level of overall attractiveness that a guy has to reach for me to, well, find him attractive. I think my threshhold is lower than a lot of women's of my same relative attractiveness level because I value other things very highly.
He can't be filthy all the time. He can have filthy hobbies, but then he needs to bathe. Thank the heavens, the Pisces bathes all the time.
I am cleaner than the pisces.
lol
Sorry, bub. Even if I was like that, I wouldn't be after Mr. Hits On Every Woman. You screw yourself!click to expand
The real question here is, do you have it in you to change me?
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
And I don't mean, you, go screw yourself. I mean, you screw yourself over.
Of course, you are actually a troll and have my attention, so congratulations.
Are trolls this smart??
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by TurnedOnPosted by Phantom_DangusPosted by BoomShakalakaBoomPosted by Phantom_Dangus
There is a certain level of overall attractiveness that a guy has to reach for me to, well, find him attractive. I think my threshhold is lower than a lot of women's of my same relative attractiveness level because I value other things very highly.
He can't be filthy all the time. He can have filthy hobbies, but then he needs to bathe. Thank the heavens, the Pisces bathes all the time.
Those aren't shallow non-negotiables, those are just....normal!!
*nods*
I have to like the way he dresses. If he dresses like a dork or if I associate his dress with something I don't like, or he has stupid hair or a dumb mustache or one of those goatees to the breastbone (sorry, guys), he has to have something special over-riding it. He has to be able to own that shit, ya know?
Yes I know. Come here.click to expand
Backstabber
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by TurnedOnPosted by Phantom_Dangus
And I don't mean, you, go screw yourself. I mean, you screw yourself over.
Of course, you are actually a troll and have my attention, so congratulations.
Are trolls this smart??
Um, yes. Effective trolls are very smart. The bastards.click to expand
Lol there is no such thing as effective trolls.
The feet is an absolute must for me. If dem feet ain't right to my expectations, I'm instantly put off.
Posted by Arielle83Lol
I’m easily groomed so maybe just have a job
Posted by thekissIf you’re brushing your teeth, real or fake, then it shouldn’t have a build up of plague.Posted by saggurl88
Brushed teeth. It’s amazing how many grown men have yellow plaque buildup on their teeth. 🤢🤮
i have this coz i have fake teeth
gotta brush mouthwash floss and then go over them again with an electric toothbrush after every mealclick to expand
So I think you’re good.
Posted by Gobby
Prominent nipples when hard. No, NOT areolas, nipples...
Ohhh the Pisces has them..
Can’t be bald or short
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Posted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Except that I love my dad more.
Posted by Black-MambaIssa hard road but if someone like me is out there than someone who ticks off this list is out there.Posted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Good luckclick to expand
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Posted by HeartofIcePosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
She MUST have a nice booty!!
Bruh what about her punani thoughclick to expand
With so many ladyboys around these days...us straight dudes are just happy as long as it's a legit vag.
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Posted by HeartofIceShe has Venus in Cap.Posted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Lmao damnclick to expand
Nuff said.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomWow. I cant imagine.Posted by HeartofIcePosted by BoomShakalakaBoom
She MUST have a nice booty!!
Bruh what about her punani though
With so many ladyboys around these days...us straight dudes are just happy as long as it's a legit vag.click to expand
Posted by DMVIssa not happeningPosted by Black-MambaPosted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Good luck
Issa hard road but if someone like me is out there than someone who ticks off this list is out there.click to expand
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Neno told me to post this on his behalf:
"She MUST like me, but like really really like me, not like all other girls, they all just like me, that's not enough, oh and she must be a Cap, and fat too, and she must be able to read my smoke signals as a sign of interest, and my stare, my stare!!"
"She MUST like me, but like really really like me, not like all other girls, they all just like me, that's not enough, oh and she must be a Cap, and fat too, and she must be able to read my smoke signals as a sign of interest, and my stare, my stare!!"
Posted by 777LolPosted by DMVPosted by Black-MambaPosted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Good luck
Issa hard road but if someone like me is out there than someone who ticks off this list is out there.
Issa not happeningclick to expand
Posted by VictoriousPosted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Good luck, probably the 90k thing is what makes this list very difficult. The rest don't seem that uncommon.click to expand
Top Tier baby.........
His penis has to be smaller than mine. So I can always win sword fights.
Posted by VictoriousWhat does that say about the Male race? 🤔Posted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Good luck, probably the 90k thing is what makes this list very difficult. The rest don't seem that uncommon.click to expand
Posted by AntiphatesPosted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by Antiphates
Slim to athletic body type. I don't like big butts and boobs.
Should have a decent amount of stamina to keep up with me.
Can't be the princess type.
Whoa! You’re like a unicorn! Thank goodness for men like you
For being shallow?
I'm confused.click to expand
Lol
Posted by VictoriousExactly, I'm not asking for much.Posted by LibraSupremePosted by VictoriousPosted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Good luck, probably the 90k thing is what makes this list very difficult. The rest don't seem that uncommon.
Top Tier baby.........
But the rest aren't that difficult. Its really not.
Aside from the 90k, 2 of my good friends hit everything else on this list.click to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by VictoriousPosted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Good luck, probably the 90k thing is what makes this list very difficult. The rest don't seem that uncommon.
What does that say about the Male race? 🤔click to expand
That the male race has realized that there is no such thing as pussy power and the female race needs to stop looking in the mirror all day long and get up their ass and get their shit together and contribute their share in the 90k.
Posted by TurnedOnOh yea lolPosted by DMV
Long and wide penis. I give extra points for a slight Turkey neck.
Clean clothes
Nice teeth
Dont smell
At least 5'10 or better
I like my penis Brown or black. No light skinned or white penis. Get a tan.
Decent size areola and nipple. Not too big or small.
Other girls must find you attractive. I need to know and I need them to know I won. I like people to be jealous of me and me mate.
Well groomed face.
Clean fingernails.
If your the recurring butt of your friends jokes, I dont want you.
Salary $ 90k or better
No kids
Must love your mama but not too much.
Must call me everyday and text regularly throughout the day and night.
Except that I love my dad more.click to expand
👀
Has to have lots of money
And share it with me
I'm attracted to natural nails if I'm considering anything more than a month.
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96Not rare. At least I don't think. I'm also one of the few that doesn't care much about big boobs and buttocks.Posted by AntiphatesPosted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by Antiphates
Slim to athletic body type. I don't like big butts and boobs.
Should have a decent amount of stamina to keep up with me.
Can't be the princess type.
Whoa! You’re like a unicorn! Thank goodness for men like you
For being shallow?
I'm confused.
hahaha! No no no! It's rare to find a man that doesn't want a thick woman with big boobies and a nice tush! It's refreshing to hear there's men out there for women that don't want those things! hallelujah!click to expand
Skinny.
Ugly fucked up bitten down nails and swollen hands and lazy or feminine skinne hands. Ehm no thanks!!!! My hands look Lore rugged than yours, you are not supposed to touch this.
A very obvious Adams Apple, because that shit will have me looking at it the whole time and in the end want to cut it out.
Weird obsessions through out my life has been: those little weird things in the back of where the knee bends, like if there were two lines, haaaaaaaawt!
A big angle at where the thumb "breaks" from the hand - put that hand on me!
Slightly crooked eyes that seem like they are smiling.
And if guy snells good. I will marry him.
So.... Yeah...
Ugly fucked up bitten down nails and swollen hands and lazy or feminine skinne hands. Ehm no thanks!!!! My hands look Lore rugged than yours, you are not supposed to touch this.
A very obvious Adams Apple, because that shit will have me looking at it the whole time and in the end want to cut it out.
Weird obsessions through out my life has been: those little weird things in the back of where the knee bends, like if there were two lines, haaaaaaaawt!
A big angle at where the thumb "breaks" from the hand - put that hand on me!
Slightly crooked eyes that seem like they are smiling.
And if guy snells good. I will marry him.
So.... Yeah...
Oddly enough, if he shaves his body hair too much.... like the last guy I was with shaved it all down there which I just found really offputting on a 37 yr old man. Idk what it was but it wasnt attractive to me. Ive seen some good looking cocks before and I dont think it did him any favors. I like men to look like it--chest hair is fun to play with.
Bad smelling guys, no thank you. And I have frequently dated men with stomach issues, no big deal there bc they cant help it. But bad breath or body odor--nnnnnooooooo. A man who cannot take care of the basics for himself is of no good to me.
Sense of style . I am a very visual person so yes, first impressions are important. But even so, over time my perceptions of someone can change and with that, how I see them. One thing I find it hard to overlook is horrible taste. I am not up on all the current designers or anything but I try to put my best foot forward and I generally know what looks good. He doesnt have to be fancy but yeah... I will leave it at that.
Generally weak men also turn me off badly.
Mostly Im pretty accepting of just about anything bc I too am very flawed and most things I can work past.
Bad smelling guys, no thank you. And I have frequently dated men with stomach issues, no big deal there bc they cant help it. But bad breath or body odor--nnnnnooooooo. A man who cannot take care of the basics for himself is of no good to me.
Sense of style . I am a very visual person so yes, first impressions are important. But even so, over time my perceptions of someone can change and with that, how I see them. One thing I find it hard to overlook is horrible taste. I am not up on all the current designers or anything but I try to put my best foot forward and I generally know what looks good. He doesnt have to be fancy but yeah... I will leave it at that.
Generally weak men also turn me off badly.
Mostly Im pretty accepting of just about anything bc I too am very flawed and most things I can work past.
Posted by HeartofIceWhatever is that you are building...if they will make it you wouldn’t be able to afford it so lower expectations Princess...
You have to have nice hands.
muscles (fit), nice smell, cuddly,baby face (lol)
Posted by thekiss
thigh gap
don't even talk to me if your thighs touch
Hi 👋
For me: tall, thin, smells good, smart, and easy to be with, I hate complicated men
to smash - just be cute
to smash more than twice - sex game has to be on point
for me to actually see you out the house - hold conversation
to date - all of the above
for me to date exclusively - sex game has to be often and all of the above
to be more than that - ?????
@saggul88 this is me
to smash more than twice - sex game has to be on point
for me to actually see you out the house - hold conversation
to date - all of the above
for me to date exclusively - sex game has to be often and all of the above
to be more than that - ?????
@saggul88
this is mePosted by AbbyNormalI am suspecting you are...single aren’t you?
Oddly enough, if he shaves his body hair too much.... like the last guy I was with shaved it all down there which I just found really offputting on a 37 yr old man. Idk what it was but it wasnt attractive to me. Ive seen some good looking cocks before and I dont think it did him any favors. I like men to look like it--chest hair is fun to play with.
Bad smelling guys, no thank you. And I have frequently dated men with stomach issues, no big deal there bc they cant help it. But bad breath or body odor--nnnnnooooooo. A man who cannot take care of the basics for himself is of no good to me.
Sense of style . I am a very visual person so yes, first impressions are important. But even so, over time my perceptions of someone can change and with that, how I see them. One thing I find it hard to overlook is horrible taste. I am not up on all the current designers or anything but I try to put my best foot forward and I generally know what looks good. He doesnt have to be fancy but yeah... I will leave it at that.
Generally weak men also turn me off badly.
Mostly Im pretty accepting of just about anything bc I too am very flawed and most things I can work past.
Metrosexuals
Blonde Men
Spiked hair
Manbags - creepy
Colored contacts
Overrated cologne:
(the *light blue, polo, aqua di Gio..* Club)
Crappy shoes
White socks
Briefs... you're a grown ass man. Just no.
Crappy watch
Nylon or colorful wallets
Feminine hands / feet
Tone of voice
Weird laugh
Bad teeth
Bad posture
Mama's boy
Social media platform hoe
Calorie counting freak
Gym freaks
Vegan/juicer freaks
Blonde Men
Spiked hair
Manbags - creepy
Colored contacts
Overrated cologne:
(the *light blue, polo, aqua di Gio..* Club)
Crappy shoes
White socks
Briefs... you're a grown ass man. Just no.
Crappy watch
Nylon or colorful wallets
Feminine hands / feet
Tone of voice
Weird laugh
Bad teeth
Bad posture
Mama's boy
Social media platform hoe
Calorie counting freak
Gym freaks
Vegan/juicer freaks
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