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Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by DMV
I dont even think tamia is tamia.

seriously the 30 year needs his ass beat. if your dad had any sense hed beat him within an inch of his life.

where does he get off messing with some 18 year old.



Oh, I don't think he's stupid. How many 85 year olds do you know can whoop a 30 year old's ass?
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hahah i forgot he was a geriatric. OP, you dont have any brothers or male friends?
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Love the dimples young Sag.

You need to take some space to really think about why you're willing to wait on a man that "can't afford a divorce" and is only sharing half of himself with you. Separated? Meh. Why was he wearing the ring in the first place? Better yet, why didn't he just say he was —separated" when you met and way before you hit the sheets? Taking his age out of the equation for a second, any man (or woman) that starts a relationship by hiding things is not worth your time/energy. He will treat you as well as you think you deserve to be treated. Accept BS, he will provide it. Maybe on a silver platter if you are nice and don't cause a stink.

Anyway, where does that leave you since you want to build a future with a man that is telling you a future is impossible?
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Posted by LaSag

i told him about this post and he got upset and then came back sat with me and he was confused as to why i was confused to as why he wouldnt be there for me and why i didnt have faith in him his answer as to why they were still married is because he cant afford it..



Any person that gets upset when you have legitimate questions about the state of confusion that he caused is being manipulative. Oldest trick. "Hmmm, if I make her feel bad for doubting me and make her feel a bit anxious by threatening to leave, she won't question me anymore...."

Posted by LaSag

....but i mean i dont if hes lien or telling the truth if you understood the way he makes me feel you would understand what im going through.i know its technically wrong trust me i cry about it all the time.. i just cant force myself to walk away because something is just telling me inside to trust him....
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Or is something inside telling you that you can't do any better? You can. You created this thread, you cry, you know it's "technically(?) wrong" and yet.....You are ignoring your feelings for the sake of what exactly?

"buddy" is quite abundant in America I hear, so it can't be sex. You're crying "all the time" so it can't be emotional support and respect. You're more than a decade apart, so it can't be common interest. Love?
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by Nala13
Now, you know good and well you saw the ring. 😉

Since you are 18 and in your own words naive, I am going to talk to you like I would my daughter if I had one.

Babygirl, at 18 you have your whole life ahead of you. You will meet many men. Some will love you and some will hurt you. That's life and you really have no control over any of it. What you do have control over is how a man treats you.

I have been where you are at...a few times. It never ends well. If he will cheat with you, he will cheat on you and that's real.

Nothing anyone says here is going to make you walk away from him. You will do that in your own time.

What I can tell you is that you are beautiful and smart and you deserve your own man.


P.S. They are not going to take it easy on you in here just so you know. Armor up.

Oh yea one last thing, since you know now when the wife finds out and she will find out since the two of you are meeting each other families and whatnot...she is going to want to fight you and rightly so. I would punch you square in the face. IJS



lololololol.
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To the bolded bit- Never fight over a man because he knows who he wants.