How to know a Sagittarius is attracted to you?

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Can someone share some insight please?
By looking at their Venus sign instead of their Sun Sign.
Posted by Dastard2020

By looking at their Venus sign instead of their Sun Sign.
I have to do some more research then for that.
It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.
Posted by saggurl88

It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.
😆😆😆😆you have to come right out and bash them in the head bwahahahahah

Not with me. Every sags that even lay eyes on me automatically want me. I don't even have to do nothing.
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?
Posted by saggurl88

It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.
Hmm ok so we’ve been out 4 times in 2 minutes weeks. He came back to my job from seeing me about a month ago just to get my number.
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88

It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.


Hmm ok so we’ve been out 4 times in 2 minutes weeks. He came back to my job from seeing me about a month ago just to get my number.
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I think once you pass a second date with a person, he likes you. He may not be able to tell what’s up with you.

What sign are you?
Check their Venus and Mars and where this sag is in life

As a mutable sign, saggis will be friendly with everyone

They also flip between feminine and masculine so they may chase, they may want to be chased

If they have Pluto or Taurus bits, you may need to state very directly what you want and see their response
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88
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I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.
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Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?
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I don’t think so. But it would depend on his mercury. I would want to hang out with you.

I’d watch stories randomly so it doesn’t seem like I’m some stalker.

Women actually keep track of who watched their stories first, which I think is weird. I always wait at least 5 to 6 hours to even look. Lol.

And I wouldn’t call to check in but I’m not a guy.

I’d call to make plans with you, only.

Maybe the guys can chime in about calling.
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Posted by saggurl88

It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.


its really not that hard to know if a sag likes you, they're not that mysterious
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I didn’t think this sounded mysterious. Flirting is pretty laid back and open.

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by saggurl88

It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.


😆😆😆😆you have to come right out and bash them in the head bwahahahahah

Not with me. Every sags that even lay eyes on me automatically want me. I don't even have to do nothing.
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Geminis are flirty and easy to show interest. Looks and charisma can win over anyone.
Mr. Sag has Aqua Venus, Cap Mercury and Scorpio Mars.. he zeroed in pretty quickly and I (Sag Sun, Scorpio Venus, Sag Mercury and Aries Mars) pretty much jump head first and just go with it. We clicked the day we met, no wondering 'what it' or anything really. We're both pretty direct when we have something to ask, or say, etc..
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Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88

It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.


Hmm ok so we’ve been out 4 times in 2 minutes weeks. He came back to my job from seeing me about a month ago just to get my number.


I think once you pass a second date with a person, he likes you. He may not be able to tell what’s up with you.

What sign are you?
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We’ve been on 2 so far. I’m a Pisces.
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


I don’t think so. But it would depend on his mercury. I would want to hang out with you.

I’d watch stories randomly so it doesn’t seem like I’m some stalker.

Women actually keep track of who watched their stories first, which I think is weird. I always wait at least 5 to 6 hours to even look. Lol.

And I wouldn’t call to check in but I’m not a guy.

I’d call to make plans with you, only.

Maybe the guys can chime in about calling.
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Right that makes sense. Guys where YOU at???
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88


I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.
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Hmm interesting so just say it or move on for

You?
You'll know
But if you wanna know how deep it runs that's a different story
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88

It’s hard to know if a Sagittarius is attracted to you because we are so friendly. You have to come right out and practically bash them in the head with a clue.

Just flirt and see if it’s reciprocated. It’s the easiest way.

Flirting will lead to dating if they’re interested. If they are trying to hang out with you. It’s a good sign.


Hmm ok so we’ve been out 4 times in 2 minutes weeks. He came back to my job from seeing me about a month ago just to get my number.


I think once you pass a second date with a person, he likes you. He may not be able to tell what’s up with you.

What sign are you?


We’ve been on 2 so far. I’m a Pisces.
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Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?
I am a Sag guy.

If I like someone I will try to make them laugh and want to be around you because I fancy you however I will be cautious to get to know you at first before I give out my feelings.

I would connection with you online if I didn't have your number.

And I would always want to make extra time for you.

I will want to share what I believe in and my adventures.

I will want to engage with you in deep conversations etc.

I Hope that helps you a little bit.

Anything else ask away.


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Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?


I am a Sag guy.

If I like someone I will try to make them laugh and want to be around you because I fancy you however I will be cautious to get to know you at first before I give out my feelings.

I would connection with you online if I didn't have your number.

And I would always want to make extra time for you.

I will want to share what I believe in and my adventures.

I will want to engage with you in deep conversations etc.

I Hope that helps you a little bit.

Anything else ask away.
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I'm Sag sun / Aqua Moon

I had a friends with benefits who is a pieces for years we had no difficult feelings or anything.

We was both our selfs, we would laugh joke together and have sex.

There was never real commitment there at all we did date to begin with and decided we was better off this way and it really worked and it could still work to this day however I wanted more in my life.

We still chat now and the jokes are still there that will never end.

Good luck.
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Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88


I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.


Hmm interesting so just say it or move on for

You?
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Say what?
Posted by SagInTheSun898

But if you wanna know how deep it runs that's a different story
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Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?


I am a Sag guy.

If I like someone I will try to make them laugh and want to be around you because I fancy you however I will be cautious to get to know you at first before I give out my feelings.

I would connection with you online if I didn't have your number.

And I would always want to make extra time for you.

I will want to share what I believe in and my adventures.

I will want to engage with you in deep conversations etc.

I Hope that helps you a little bit.

Anything else ask away.
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Do you let the young lady know right away you have fallen for her? Do you come on heavy then back off?
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88


I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.


Hmm interesting so just say it or move on for

You?


Say what?
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Would you say you moving on or just move on?
Posted by SagInTheSun898

But if you wanna know how deep it runs that's a different story


Yessss I want to know.
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88


I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.


Hmm interesting so just say it or move on for

You?


Say what?


Would you say you moving on or just move on?
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I will do my thing and not be worried about another person. I don’t tell them I move on, but I fill my time.

I don’t move on fast though and I entertain bullshit because men don’t commit fast nowadays anyways. So I just keep them as back burner friends when they come back. My attraction comes and goes depending on how they act.
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Posted by SagInTheSun898

But if you wanna know how deep it runs that's a different story


Yessss I want to know.
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I’m starting to see how saggies can be.
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂
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You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?
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The wording on that, I'm not sure what your asking. If you asking about messing around then disappearing, I can't give a opinion. Because the reasons variety.
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?
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What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88


I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.
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holy shit! I'm the same way! Its prob why I have no one now🤣
Posted by jezzyboo21
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88


I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.

holy shit! I'm the same way! Its prob why I have no one now🤣
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Men always come back when a women leaves them, high and dry, and doesn't fall for their bull shit. Sometimes it just takes a long time. But at least they make great friends after they're back.
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?
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I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?

The wording on that, I'm not sure what your asking. If you asking about messing around then disappearing, I can't give a opinion. Because the reasons variety.
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Why do Sagittarius men come on so throng and hard then back away or go missing?
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by jezzyboo21
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Antiphates
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Antiphates

They become annoying.


Like calling and checking in, watching every story posted on ig, etc?


@saggurl88


I’m very all or nothing. But if I know that someone is annoyed by me I will stop engaging.

It’s a sign of dislike.

No one wants to be annoying.

If you don’t like me, I don’t like you.

It’s pretty easy to detach, once that’s known. No matter how much I like you.

Pride is my downfall in most things I do.

It’s how we Sag move on so fast.

holy shit! I'm the same way! Its prob why I have no one now🤣


Men always come back when a women leaves them, high and dry, and doesn't fall for their bull shit. Sometimes it just takes a long time. But at least they make great friends after they're back.
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Makes sense, I don’t chase and that may be the problem why I’m alone too lol.
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.
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Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.
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I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.


I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.
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So did you ever pay for at least your half?

He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.

Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.

In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.

So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.

Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.

It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.
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Posted by Brickhouse27
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Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.


I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.


So did you ever pay for at less your half?

He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.

Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.

In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.

So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.

Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.

It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.
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I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?
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Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.


I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.


So did you ever pay for at less your half?

He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.

Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.

In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.

So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.

Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.

It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.


I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?
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Really? Well he’s a guy, so that could be the case. Space makes a guy fall harder, when they start catching feelings. Women fall harder in the company of a man and spending time with him.

So if he really did fall, he will come back to chase you down. Sagittarius don’t give up what they want so easily.

We can move on if we think we are wasting time or the other person isn’t interested.
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Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.


I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.


So did you ever pay for at less your half?

He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.

Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.

In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.

So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.

Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.

It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.


I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?


Really? Well he’s a guy, so that could be the case. Space makes a guy fall harder, when they start catching feelings. Women fall harder in the company of a man and spending time with him.

So if he really did fall, he will come back to chase you down. Sagittarius don’t give up what they want so easily.

We can move on if we think we are wasting time or the other person isn’t interested.
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Yep I’ve heard that with guys. I see cause he came back to my job from 2 weeks prior just to talk to me and made up a funny story about he wanted a job there lol. We really have a lot in common. He even jumped the gun and asked me about moving with him down the line. Y’all would move on immediately though right now weeks after weeks after weeks of hanging out?
We text you or even initiate to hang out
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Posted by Lostthoughts
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Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.


I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.


So did you ever pay for at less your half?

He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.

Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.

In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.

So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.

Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.

It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.


I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?


Really? Well he’s a guy, so that could be the case. Space makes a guy fall harder, when they start catching feelings. Women fall harder in the company of a man and spending time with him.

So if he really did fall, he will come back to chase you down. Sagittarius don’t give up what they want so easily.

We can move on if we think we are wasting time or the other person isn’t interested.


Yep I’ve heard that with guys. I see cause he came back to my job from 2 weeks prior just to talk to me and made up a funny story about he wanted a job there lol. We really have a lot in common. He even jumped the gun and asked me about moving with him down the line. Y’all would move on immediately though right now weeks after weeks after weeks of hanging out?
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Moving on really doesn’t mean anything. There’s 7 days in a week right? We make time for important people, the rest are just place holders, so we aren’t bored.

I can not see someone for a month and get right back in line with seeing them twice a week. But pride will keep me from them if I can’t see lots of interest.
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Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.


I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.


So did you ever pay for at less your half?

He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.

Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.

In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.

So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.

Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.

It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.


I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?


Really? Well he’s a guy, so that could be the case. Space makes a guy fall harder, when they start catching feelings. Women fall harder in the company of a man and spending time with him.

So if he really did fall, he will come back to chase you down. Sagittarius don’t give up what they want so easily.

We can move on if we think we are wasting time or the other person isn’t interested.


Yep I’ve heard that with guys. I see cause he came back to my job from 2 weeks prior just to talk to me and made up a funny story about he wanted a job there lol. We really have a lot in common. He even jumped the gun and asked me about moving with him down the line. Y’all would move on immediately though right now weeks after weeks after weeks of hanging out?


Moving on really doesn’t mean anything. There’s 7 days in a week right? We make time for important people, the rest are just place holders, so we aren’t bored.

I can not see someone for a month and get right back in line with seeing them twice a week. But pride will keep me from them if I can’t see lots of interest.
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Ok I got you, very valuable information. Do you think there is a slight difference between male and females of the same zodiac or it doesn’t matter?
it's too obvious, they'll be all in your face lol
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Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Lostthoughts
Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?


What is the pattern?

Did you pull back on the Sag or were you pursuing the Sag too much?


I pulled back a little but then he also was saying how his aunt was on him about saving money, getting in school and getting himself together before talking to someone. So then he was like I may be distant but this is why. He also left to go see his kids but still. He was on my ass heavy then he backed up.


Why would he talk about spending money? Was he paying for everything? Guys are so funny blaming stuff on someone else. Such a cop out.

Depending on how much he spent and if he was footing the bill for a lot, he could've thought you were a gold digger (this is based on the very little that I read)

A sag is generous with money, but you have to at least act like you are going to pay. Or pay for small things, so he doesn't know how much he's spending.

Sag men are generous but not the chivalrous types that think they are the men, so they should pay.

If he said he may be distant, just leave him alone.

If you like him, contact him in a few weeks and invite him do something free, like hiking or going to the beach. That way it doesn't look like your hand is in his pocket.


I really feel like his aunt has a lot to do with it. When we first went out he always paid. He did ask do I believe in paying for dates and I told him I didn’t have a issue especially if I know it was going to be serious. So this last time we were suppose to go out before he left to go see his kids I didn’t hear anything but he was on my ig story. So yes I’ve backed all the way up and just living life. He wanted to talk to me so I’m not sweating it like that just thought it was weird. He got his space though definitely not a crowder.


So did you ever pay for at less your half?

He’s a grown man with kids. He spends money on them. I think the Aunt was an excuse, but possibly not.

Sagittarius men don’t like high maintenance females. He asked you that question about money for a reason. So he would need to be in a relationship with you and then you will pay? Eek. That’s boxing him in a little.

In any case. Sag don’t need that much space. We need consistency. Someone can always pull us back in by sticking around and never going anywhere. Especially if he has went in a few dates with you already. He most likely was interested.

So not saying to bug him, but checking in with him in a couple of weeks, planning something free or packing a picnic lunch where he won’t be paying will reel him back in.

Or meeting up with him quickly and bringing him a nice gift of appreciation can work.

It shows you aren’t just a taker. We like the push/pull and give/take.


I actually did pay for a date and it wasn’t cheap, this last one I was paying for as well. One thing I can say is he is impulsive so he is kind of careless with money. I checked in after the failed date and I will when he gets back just to see but I’m not a taker at all. It’s just never been in me. He kept saying I fell for you, I got to step back?


Really? Well he’s a guy, so that could be the case. Space makes a guy fall harder, when they start catching feelings. Women fall harder in the company of a man and spending time with him.

So if he really did fall, he will come back to chase you down. Sagittarius don’t give up what they want so easily.

We can move on if we think we are wasting time or the other person isn’t interested.


Yep I’ve heard that with guys. I see cause he came back to my job from 2 weeks prior just to talk to me and made up a funny story about he wanted a job there lol. We really have a lot in common. He even jumped the gun and asked me about moving with him down the line. Y’all would move on immediately though right now weeks after weeks after weeks of hanging out?


Moving on really doesn’t mean anything. There’s 7 days in a week right? We make time for important people, the rest are just place holders, so we aren’t bored.

I can not see someone for a month and get right back in line with seeing them twice a week. But pride will keep me from them if I can’t see lots of interest.


Ok I got you, very valuable information. Do you think there is a slight difference between male and females of the same zodiac or it doesn’t matter?
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I don’t think so. Sag need consistency and SOME attention but we also like being ignored a little. It gives us a challenge to pursue.

How long has it been since you’ve been in contact?

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Can someone share some insight please?

depends on the kind of attraction.

That being said threaten a sag with a good time🙂

You know what, your on to something. What is it when their up under you so much then go ghost?

The wording on that, I'm not sure what your asking. If you asking about messing around then disappearing, I can't give a opinion. Because the reasons variety.


Why do Sagittarius men come on so throng and hard then back away or go missing?
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Sags just keeping on moving. Either their interested was in the moment, something came up, or changed there mind/lost interests. It's not cut and dry. If you want a better answer going to have to give me more information.
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