im a flaker....

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by DMV on Friday, November 8, 2013 and has 44 replies.
And I cant, wont stop. I hate making plans, something better comes along and dammit its Flake City.
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Miss Flake Queen of City Central here. HEHEHE!!
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I plan to not plan usually happens when I have plans they go to nil and when I dont have plans things always work out. This is why it is best for me to not have plans at all.
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I abhor plans, even my own.
I guess im Spur of the Moment PHV
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Posted by feby16aqua
Posted by DMV
I abhor plans, even my own.
I guess im Spur of the Moment PHV


HI! I responded, I did I did. I don't have his email address lol. Is he even around anymore? I miss him around...
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naw hes on his own sight. I always felt some chemistry between u 2
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Site
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A short butt crack!? Lmao.
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I stick to the script
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I use to be not as much anymore. But if I'm too tired than ya.
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Posted by DMV
And I cant, wont stop. I hate making plans, something better comes along and dammit its Flake City.


I hope you're not bragging about this trait in you b/c it's not a good thing
Standing people up, being unreliable & being wishy-washy are not flattering, nor are they things that people want to put up with.
It's NOT going to kill you to pick up the phone & cancel, nor is anyone asking for a million bucks by expecting you to not commit to something that you truly didn't wanna commit to.
It's all fun & games until someone starts doing you guys that way. Then it's not funny. Life is too short. Time is all we have. Time is the worst thing you can waste, whether it's yours or someone else's.
Make up your mind & figure out what you want. Until then, don't drag others down b/c you can't seem to get it together. It's not cute, nor is it mature.
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Posted by krysrenee7
Posted by DMV
And I cant, wont stop. I hate making plans, something better comes along and dammit its Flake City.


I hope you're not bragging about this trait in you b/c it's not a good thing
Standing people up, being unreliable & being wishy-washy are not flattering, nor are they things that people want to put up with.
It's NOT going to kill you to pick up the phone & cancel, nor is anyone asking for a million bucks by expecting you to not commit to something that you truly didn't wanna commit to.
It's all fun & games until someone starts doing you guys that way. Then it's not funny. Life is too short. Time is all we have. Time is the worst thing you can waste, whether it's yours or someone else's.
Make up your mind & figure out what you want. Until then, don't drag others down b/c you can't seem to get it together. It's not cute, nor is it mature.
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Agreed and its really a sign of emotional immaturity
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Yeah im bragging, whatcha gonna do about it aqua girl...
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Posted by feby16aqua
What are you up to tonight?


I took what I thought was a 20 minute nap turned out to be a 5 hour nap. Woke up n went to a house party.
What about you?
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by krysrenee7
Posted by DMV
And I cant, wont stop. I hate making plans, something better comes along and dammit its Flake City.


I hope you're not bragging about this trait in you b/c it's not a good thing
Standing people up, being unreliable & being wishy-washy are not flattering, nor are they things that people want to put up with.
It's NOT going to kill you to pick up the phone & cancel, nor is anyone asking for a million bucks by expecting you to not commit to something that you truly didn't wanna commit to.
It's all fun & games until someone starts doing you guys that way. Then it's not funny. Life is too short. Time is all we have. Time is the worst thing you can waste, whether it's yours or someone else's.
Make up your mind & figure out what you want. Until then, don't drag others down b/c you can't seem to get it together. It's not cute, nor is it mature.


Agreed and its really a sign of emotional immaturity
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Drink bleach
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Posted by feby16aqua
Well it's not crazy short, but it's not long either lol.
He mentioned it as a deal breaker LOL.
It's bubbly but not like DAMN that's an ass!!!!


I never knew there were different ass crack lengths. Learn something new everyday.
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Posted by DMV
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Posted by krysrenee7
Posted by DMV
And I cant, wont stop. I hate making plans, something better comes along and dammit its Flake City.


I hope you're not bragging about this trait in you b/c it's not a good thing
Standing people up, being unreliable & being wishy-washy are not flattering, nor are they things that people want to put up with.
It's NOT going to kill you to pick up the phone & cancel, nor is anyone asking for a million bucks by expecting you to not commit to something that you truly didn't wanna commit to.
It's all fun & games until someone starts doing you guys that way. Then it's not funny. Life is too short. Time is all we have. Time is the worst thing you can waste, whether it's yours or someone else's.
Make up your mind & figure out what you want. Until then, don't drag others down b/c you can't seem to get it together. It's not cute, nor is it mature.


Agreed and its really a sign of emotional immaturity


Drink bleach
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Eat your own feces_??_
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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by DMV
I abhor plans, even my own.
I guess im Spur of the Moment PHV


What's spur of the moment?
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spur of the moment is like impulsive, no planning
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For reals. Fuckin popo
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Girls are super flaky nowadays. You basically have to play the game and be the "super interesting alternative" that they ditch their plans for.
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Posted by SagMagick
Girls are super flaky nowadays. You basically have to play the game and be the "super interesting alternative" that they ditch their plans for.


fuck yeah, omg we have like an identical chart..almost
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Yes, u do have to be the super duper alternative...
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I always warn ahead of time that I'm probably gonna flake.
Sometimes it's a weird social phobia, sometimes I'm just lazy.
Can't help it. :/
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Sometimes I do flake in favor of something else coming along
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Ive flake sometime because I dont feel like dealing with the minions, the idiocracy, overall pretentiouness.
id rather paint my toenails than listen to people over inflate their lives.
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Otoh...If someone says they depend on me to be there, I will. I force myself not to be flaky.
gah
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Eww @depend
just kill me now lol
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I don't mind plans, I just don't like the people who flake out. Tongue
I like spur of the moment more; but I will keep plans if I want to go and sometimes when I don't want to go because it's what I promised and people are expecting me.
Which is why I try not to make plans with people I don't want to be around and to places I don't want to go. If it's something I HAVE to do; I suck it up and go!
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Posted by DMV
Posted by SagMagick
Girls are super flaky nowadays. You basically have to play the game and be the "super interesting alternative" that they ditch their plans for.


fuck yeah, omg we have like an identical chart..almost
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Whoa! Are you the female version of me? I have Scorpio Mercury too. You know who else has our same chart? Jeff Bridges. I dated his daughter once and she kept telling me how much like her dad I was so I ran his chart, identical.
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I didn't know Jeff Bridges is a Sag. That's pretty cool.
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Posted by SagMagick
Posted by DMV
Posted by SagMagick
Girls are super flaky nowadays. You basically have to play the game and be the "super interesting alternative" that they ditch their plans for.


fuck yeah, omg we have like an identical chart..almost


Whoa! Are you the female version of me? I have Scorpio Mercury too. You know who else has our same chart? Jeff Bridges. I dated his daughter once and she kept telling me how much like her dad I was so I ran his chart, identical.
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I date a guy with the exact same chart as me, discovered alot of things I didnt like about myself.
you gots a bomb ass chart. Your libra rising has me pretty jealous.
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Posted by Wynter
I didn't know Jeff Bridges is a Sag. That's pretty cool.


The Dude!
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Flakiness. This is the one area I really need to work on. I don't know what it is; I can make plans but will flake at the last minute. *cringe*
I had a family do to attend and at the last minute I flaked, but my auntie (Cancer) wouldn't have it. She told me to get my ass down to hers, no excuses. In the end I went and had a great time. Maybe that's what I need; a kick up the ass via a verbal warning.
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@cheeky! where ya been?!
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Posted by LunarMaiden
I don't mind plans, I just don't like the people who flake out. Tongue
I like spur of the moment more; but I will keep plans if I want to go and sometimes when I don't want to go because it's what I promised and people are expecting me.
Which is why I try not to make plans with people I don't want to be around and to places I don't want to go. If it's something I HAVE to do; I suck it up and go!


That's me. I learned the power of "no" a long time ago. I don't agree to do anything i don't wanna do or hang with someone i don't wanna hang with. Much easier to keep plans you actually like. Sure, sometimes life happens and ya hafta cancel, but it helps ward off the pretty, shinies anyway.
Friend invited a diff friend and i to a house party in the burbs. We got there and he wouldn't answer his texts or anything and we needed him to buzz us up. Finally get a text, "at the cinema". Really? Turns out he was balls deep in some rando.
Douche.

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i love your lingo...im going to steal it.
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Posted by Ninjagirl
Flakiness. This is the one area I really need to work on. I don't know what it is; I can make plans but will flake at the last minute. *cringe*
I had a family do to attend and at the last minute I flaked, but my auntie (Cancer) wouldn't have it. She told me to get my ass down to hers, no excuses. In the end I went and had a great time. Maybe that's what I need; a kick up the ass via a verbal warning.


i dont think its something i can ever change. i only like to do what i like to do.
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Posted by DMV
Posted by Ninjagirl
Flakiness. This is the one area I really need to work on. I don't know what it is; I can make plans but will flake at the last minute. *cringe*
I had a family do to attend and at the last minute I flaked, but my auntie (Cancer) wouldn't have it. She told me to get my ass down to hers, no excuses. In the end I went and had a great time. Maybe that's what I need; a kick up the ass via a verbal warning.


i dont think its something i can ever change. i only like to do what i like to do.
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Me neither.
Confession: I flaked on my friends baby shower few months ago; she was so NOT pleased. I dunno, the day came and I just knew it weren't gonna happen. Plus I had no gift sorted for the baby. Still I persevered; got half way but ended up going back home.
It's like everything needs to come together at the precise moment and I also need to be up for it and in the right frame of mind. I'm really really bad with this. Flakiness from others doesn't bother me.
I prefer an impromptu meeting tbh...more fun.
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Posted by feby16aqua
Posted by DMV
Posted by Ninjagirl
Flakiness. This is the one area I really need to work on. I don't know what it is; I can make plans but will flake at the last minute. *cringe*
I had a family do to attend and at the last minute I flaked, but my auntie (Cancer) wouldn't have it. She told me to get my ass down to hers, no excuses. In the end I went and had a great time. Maybe that's what I need; a kick up the ass via a verbal warning.


i dont think its something i can ever change. i only like to do what i like to do.


Where does this come from? I like the same. The good thing (and I'm thankful for it) is that I like to do almost anything and I'll usually give anything a try.
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i wish i knew where it came from. there is such a reluctance to do what someone wants me to do. it goes in one ear and out the other.
like ninja said, if someone calls me i will get off my lazy no good arse and go.
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one definitely has to call me out on my behavior or i have to see someone exhibiting the same type of behavior for me to change.
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got half way but ended up going back home.
It's like everything needs to come together at the precise moment and I also need to be up for it and in the right frame of mind. I'm really really bad with this. Flakiness from others doesn't bother me.
good Lord Venus in caps are sooo similar lol. ive literally driven half way to some place and have turned right back around. who cares if i was dressed, make up on, something triggered inside me and i turn around and go home.
flakiness from others never used to bother me till i dated myself...same chart...then i was bothered.
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What's it like with two Mars in Virgos dating? Is it like porcupines mating haha? Mine seems to make me a little overcautious in love matters. A lot of times I've ended up with aggressive Venus in Aries women as a result.
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Posted by SagMagick
What's it like with two Mars in Virgos dating? Is it like porcupines mating haha? Mine seems to make me a little overcautious in love matters. A lot of times I've ended up with aggressive Venus in Aries women as a result.


sex is the bees knees. Dating is a bit of a drag imo, I had to do alot of the reassurance for him, it never seemed enough.
I think an agressive venus n aries is right up ur alley. That placement will give u tons of assurance and sensuality
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Posted by Sugarfoot
Lol...just do what I do and be non-committal every time someone invites you somewhere. The phrase, "I'll try to be there if I can." Is my best friend.


ooooo like click "maybe" instead of "going" on facebook!
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Yeah Virgo Mars do seem to be good in bed. My exes still try and bootie call me alot haha. Right now I'm tantalized by a Scorpio venus woman. We're sort of playing a dangerous game of chicken.
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Id holla
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