Sagittarius ghosting

Posted by RooSagicorn

That’s really hard to tell without more info

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Posted by RhiannonB

Posted by RooSagicorn

That’s really hard to tell without more info

My bad.

I live in rural Alaska and he is travel nurse who came up here on assignment. We bonded on the fact that we’re both from Kansas. We were casually dating but I guess you could say a fell for him a bit and it hurt my feelings when he ghosted.

We would see each other when we could and message in between.

The 4 days leading up to his vacation, he stopped talking to me. Literally, not a peep from him up until he came back last week when he apologized to me.

I suppose I could’ve text him first but I’ve read sags like their space, so didn’t want to seem clingy.

Did he not reach out or not respond to your texts? I’m not clear in that even though you said ghosting. Well done Sags like to chase and some don’t. When I’ve dated Sags, they tended to be hot or cold depending on interest. Yes I’m a Sag too, but Cap Venus and I like to see effort from the other person.

If I were to go on vacation, and I’m really into you, I would text while on vacation. ( like I did with the guy I’m dating). Idk it could be there was someone else around too & he was distracted or he was busy and not interested enough.. you would need to make effort to get his attention then.. but if he’s not responding then that’s different.

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Posted by RhiannonB

We we’re seeing each other for a month, getting to know each other and the like. Then, 4 days before he’s supposed to leave for a month, he ghosts me and he didn’t text me at all in that month. We he came back, he text me to tell me he was sorry but it really hurt my feelings to be ghosted so I did say anything back. I felt like we had some good going. He’s funny, sweet and I enjoyed spending time with him. Did I suffocate him? or was he just not that interested in me and he couldn’t tell me?

Me: Taurus sun, Cancer moon.

Him: Sagittarius sun, Taurus moon.

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Posted by RhiannonB

We we’re seeing each other for a month, getting to know each other and the like. Then, 4 days before he’s supposed to leave for a month, he ghosts me and he didn’t text me at all in that month. We he came back, he text me to tell me he was sorry but it really hurt my feelings to be ghosted so I did say anything back. I felt like we had some good going. He’s funny, sweet and I enjoyed spending time with him. Did I suffocate him? or was he just not that interested in me and he couldn’t tell me?

Me: Taurus sun, Cancer moon.

Him: Sagittarius sun, Taurus moon.

u would have to cater to his moon and venus...his venus is what attracts him...so he was attracted to u..

but his taurus moon should be liking ur cancer/taurus traits too.

like it feels "home" for him

do u have any other freedom loving signs in your chart to help u out?

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Posted by RhiannonB

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Posted by RhiannonB

Posted by RooSagicorn

That’s really hard to tell without more info

My bad.

I live in rural Alaska and he is travel nurse who came up here on assignment. We bonded on the fact that we’re both from Kansas. We were casually dating but I guess you could say a fell for him a bit and it hurt my feelings when he ghosted.

We would see each other when we could and message in between.

The 4 days leading up to his vacation, he stopped talking to me. Literally, not a peep from him up until he came back last week when he apologized to me.

I suppose I could’ve text him first but I’ve read sags like their space, so didn’t want to seem clingy.

Did he not reach out or not respond to your texts? I’m not clear in that even though you said ghosting. Well done Sags like to chase and some don’t. When I’ve dated Sags, they tended to be hot or cold depending on interest. Yes I’m a Sag too, but Cap Venus and I like to see effort from the other person.

If I were to go on vacation, and I’m really into you, I would text while on vacation. ( like I did with the guy I’m dating). Idk it could be there was someone else around too & he was distracted or he was busy and not interested enough.. you would need to make effort to get his attention then.. but if he’s not responding then that’s different.

The whole time he was gone (3.5 weeks) he did not reach out at all to me. I’ve read they can be hot and cold too.

I’ve never dated a sagittaurius before so this all new to me.

If he wasn’t into me, I wish he would’ve told me ya know? Oh well.

He was distracted by other things. What things who knows.. if it’s not enough of a connection it won’t hold our interest. The Sag guys I’ve dated have been way too excited. Lol. The way I look at things is if they aren’t making effort, they aren’t interested enough. They might be interested, but do you really want to deal with someone who isn’t showing you they want you? Goes for all signs btw.

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Posted by RhiannonB

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by RhiannonB

We we’re seeing each other for a month, getting to know each other and the like. Then, 4 days before he’s supposed to leave for a month, he ghosts me and he didn’t text me at all in that month. We he came back, he text me to tell me he was sorry but it really hurt my feelings to be ghosted so I did say anything back. I felt like we had some good going. He’s funny, sweet and I enjoyed spending time with him. Did I suffocate him? or was he just not that interested in me and he couldn’t tell me?

Me: Taurus sun, Cancer moon.

Him: Sagittarius sun, Taurus moon.

u would have to cater to his moon and venus...his venus is what attracts him...so he was attracted to u..

but his taurus moon should be liking ur cancer/taurus traits too.

like it feels "home" for him

do u have any other freedom loving signs in your chart to help u out?

He has a cap Venus, I’m a Gemini Venus and libra ascending. So, not sure I could all that freedom loving. You tell me? Lol

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Posted by DMV

Cap venus takes our time but I would.never not speak to the object of my affection for 3.5 weeks.

Cap venus is cardinal and we will push the friendship forward to a relationship if we have everything else in order ( money, job) and see potential in you.

My advice is still the same.

He is in his own world right now.

Posted by Sag898

I don't like Taurus's either. They are suffocating.

I mean he didn't really ghost you if he texted you when he got back. If you are not his girlfriend you should not expect such things.

Posted by Smidge

He probably thought he might get some on his vacation...🙄

Posted by saggurl88

When I'm on vacation I don't keep in contact either. I immerse myself in whatever culture I'm visiting and see the sights and enjoy the company that I'm with, whether they are strangers or not. I will not make contact with the "outside" world. It was 3 weeks, not 3 months. That's not a long time at all.

This is the time that I wish no one could contact me and I had no reception.

Seems like friends always want to call all day and bug and ask what you're doing now. I'M FUCKING ON VACATION, THAT'S WHAT I'M DOING!!!

Posted by RhiannonB

Posted by saggurl88

When I'm on vacation I don't keep in contact either. I immerse myself in whatever culture I'm visiting and see the sights and enjoy the company that I'm with, whether they are strangers or not. I will not make contact with the "outside" world. It was 3 weeks, not 3 months. That's not a long time at all.

This is the time that I wish no one could contact me and I had no reception.

Seems like friends always want to call all day and bug and ask what you're doing now. I'M FUCKING ON VACATION, THAT'S WHAT I'M DOING!!!

Lol! Thank you! I mean obviously I didn’t want him to text me every single day. I would’ve felt better had he just texted me that he made it home alright but it’s whatever now.

I just wanted to understand it from his point of view, which is why I came on here.

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Posted by Smidge

He probably thought he might get some on his vacation...🙄

He’s definitely a f**kboi. I just never have had this happen to me before.

So what ya gonna do?

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Posted by RhiannonB

Posted by saggurl88

When I'm on vacation I don't keep in contact either. I immerse myself in whatever culture I'm visiting and see the sights and enjoy the company that I'm with, whether they are strangers or not. I will not make contact with the "outside" world. It was 3 weeks, not 3 months. That's not a long time at all.

This is the time that I wish no one could contact me and I had no reception.

Seems like friends always want to call all day and bug and ask what you're doing now. I'M FUCKING ON VACATION, THAT'S WHAT I'M DOING!!!

Lol! Thank you! I mean obviously I didn’t want him to text me every single day. I would’ve felt better had he just texted me that he made it home alright but it’s whatever now.

I just wanted to understand it from his point of view, which is why I came on here.

The fact that he reached out when he came back means something. You were on his mind when he came back to reality. So act normal and ask how his trip was and talk.

I can go a long time without talking to someone and come back and pick up right where I left off. I don't really like being tied to checking in with someone. I don't care who you are. lol I'll see you when I get back

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Posted by Sag898

I don't like Taurus's either. They are suffocating.

I mean he didn't really ghost you if he texted you when he got back. If you are not his girlfriend you should not expect such things.

I don’t like sagi women, so that makes 2 of us. 😉😉

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