sagittarius guy left me confused :(

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by tauruslove88 on Friday, June 28, 2013 and has 7 replies.
ok it's been 3 months since I have know this sag guy..Within the three month of knowing him we have had the so much fun together , going clubbing ,dinner , beach ,etc..we are sort of long distance, he stays 1 hour away from me in miami, he has told me that he loved me many times, and how much he misses me, he texted me every morning and night expressing his feelings towards me..about two weeks ago he went to Dominican republic on a business trip and while he was there I said I bet the girls there are so beautiful..and then he replied and said that he doesn't like Dominican girls an how he only "LIKE ME NOW"...when he said that I was shocked in happiness beacause we never really discussed us being together , we were just going with the flow for three months without any titles , he then said that he trusted me 100% and wanted the same from me..a couple of days before he left Dominican republic he told me that his boss wanted him in Orlando for another buiseness trip and he asked me can I handle him traveling alot around on business trips, and I replied yes, then he said beacause the last thing he would want to do is hurt me..ok so he went to Orlando and everyday for a week we talked and texted as usual, then he started telling how much he hated Orlando ,and that he wanted to see me, and how he was lonely in Orlando I kind of felt that he was hinting me to go visit him in Orlando..but I couldn't at the time..well last Saturday he texted me and said that he was going to be living in Orlando, and after that I tried texting and calling him but no response, so I said ok ,I think he needs his space..so I waited..sunday and Monday went by and he never called or texted me, on Tuesday I decided to to text him and I asked him was he mad at me for anything, he told me no and that the problem is that he does not like being away, then I told him that I understand and that I love him and thought of him everyday...the he said that the problem is that he doesn't think of me everyday, and that he didn't understand my "love"., and that he loved me as a friend.... at that point I was blown away!!!then he kept telling me how sorry he was, and that when he was saying I LOVE YOU to me he meant it in I friendly manner and he said that he really didn't want to do this and that he was really sorry but I was left extremely confused...since then I haven't heard from him, and I haven't talked to him since also...its been two days..please can any sag man tell me what went wrong
Posted by Sagtastic1
We Sags have these "friend" zones that once you get in it, you don't come out. He probably meant every word he said to you. I believe he cared for you as a "non-commital" relationship and as a person. The problem is, you probably got attached to quickly. If a Sag man wants you, he will chase you.
I will say this, don't be surprised if he miraculously re-apears as if nothing ever happened. If so, he was bored and knew you would bite.



I finally texted him after two days and he texted me instantly..and I told that I was doing fine now..lol and he seemed happy to hear that, then he asked me why was I happy now , I told him I just was lol..then he tells me he will be back in Miami july 4th , then I said that's good for him lol
Posted by Sagtastic1
leave it at THAT!! don't cave!
He'll be back


lol I will try
Posted by Sagtastic1
leave it at THAT!! don't cave!
He'll be back



I was wondering, should I text him everyday now, he responds, but is that a good idea??? And also I want to tell him how much I miss him but I don't want to scare him away , is that a good idea?? And should I tell him I want to see him when he comes back?? Lol please help me
Let him chase you....if he wants 2
thanks....he chased me for 3 months he always called and texted me first....and he just stopped.Sad( its very hard not hearing from him..its been 7 days now Sad
my advice, if it's been 7 days, text him. I would go crazy as a sag if a person I was interested in wouldn't contact me. But of course I'm a woman, not a man. I love it when they show me their attention and need to know that they are interested. don't do the hard to get game very good.