The Sagittarius Woman - A Virgo Perspective

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by Cajunspirit on Wednesday, May 13, 2009 and has 113 replies.
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I will start by saying a few things about myself. I am a very religious Virgo who grew up angry, a mute in high school and thus, quite socially retarded to common situations.
My first girlfriend was a Libra, who asked to hook up with me. I had no idea who she was and took pity on her. This relationship lasted 4 months.
The first girl I took interest in was a Scorpio ( I swear it is a Virgo curse to like these emotional creatures ). This lasted 5 months.
My next interest also ended up being a Scorpio... she lasted 3 months because she did not trust me and would never tell me what was going on with her.
The fourth girlfriend was an Aries. A peace and animal loving Vegan. I ultimately got bored and frustrated by the fact she would not let her parents know about me, racial intolerance. 3 months again.
So that leads me to this topic, my fifth girlfriend... an amazing Sagittarius woman with whom I am closely approaching 8 months together with. Truly an accomplishment for me.
PAST SAGITTARIAN ENCOUNTERS
Sagittarius women have always been elusive to me. I used to view them as these peppy, happy go lucky girls who like to date around with no focus or goals in life.
This image was completely shattered when I actually got to talk to them. Oft time they are quite intelligent with philosophical views and good moral sense.
Some even showed interest in me, but being a Virgo, my caution left me "too slow, to act. By the time I realised and was prepared to try to instigate further action, they had already moved on/lost interest. It amazed me.
The "get bored fast" aspect confused and frustrated me a little too. I honestly enjoy and admire the positive outlook and cheerful ways of the Sagittarian female, it's quite comforting.
But being socially retarded, I had no idea how to deal with them. So like all my past relationships, I figured I would have to strike the metal whilst it was hot, make my intentions known early and try to catch them before the boredom set on.
MY SAGGIE
Unlike all the other Sagittarius women I have come to know, yet still holding some the key traits. She is a third Decan [December 16th].
She has the HYPER MODE where she is bouncing, giggling and smiling from ear to ear. I love this about her, it made falling in love with her smile so easy. Her joy is the sunshine on my cloudy days.
She is very outgoing and sociable, having worked as a bartender, waitress and receptionist, dealing with people was the brunt of her working life.
She has the "let's go here, and then there" or "bar hopping" tendencies.
She is hardly condescending and accepting of all people. This is why she has hundreds of "Friends" which I call "Acquaintances" many of whom live very deprived, taboo, socially deplorable lives. She does not judge them like I do.
She made it clear to me, when we first spoke socially, she had a draw to me, an attraction she could not explain. Something told her to stay by me. To this day it still puzzles her.
EMPATHETIC VIBE
My girl often can feel other people's feelings and may even feed off of it. If someone is gloomy, she can easily become gloomy as well. To me it seems, she is in tune with the collective at times and it affects her emotions and mind set. I'm not sure how common this is for Saggies, but I suspect it is.
HYPER MODE
It is not uncommon for me to notice a Sagittarian woman, jogging on the spot, smiling a lot and cracking jokes with everyone. They aim to please and make others happy. But my Sagie brought it to my attention that this is FAKE. I was stunned! I had oft lamented 3 months into the relationship, how I do not see this hyperness anymore. She made it clear to me it was to make the people around her happy. Otherwise, she is mellow and calm around me. Genuine hyper-activity is few and far between. A playful mood would have to be instigated.
LOVE OF THE BEACH
Hell, I dunno. All the Sagie girls I know love the beach. I don't know how or why, but they just do. Perhaps it has to do with their adventurous nature. I have no problem with it, but boy... if you start any conversation about the beach. Prepare to see them go wild lol
The CANCER Connection
What is it with Sagie girls and Cancer people? They almost ALWAYS have a Cancer friend male or female. I think it is perhaps because they have so much in common. They both love to eat, they are both goofy, they both like random and unplanned
ALCOHOL
The only sign that can keep up with a Sagitarian drinker is a Virgo drinker. It is all too common that you find Sag women boasting about their ability to drink a whole bottle of Scotch by themselves. I don't really see that as something to be proud of but hey, they do... Looking into the astrology on Sag health, alcohol is the WORST thing they can consume. Yet they are so incredibly fond of it.
SMOKING
I really don't get it, I'm a health conscious person, very conscious. Sag girls and there love of freedom... They smoke! They smoke a lot if they want. It's terrible and sad really...
HEALTH
Based on the past two headings, it is clear. Sagittarian women really could care less about their health. As long as they are having a good time and pleasing those around them, they are seemingly happy.
PLEASING OTHERS
The Sag girl goes out of her way to look after her man. Very accommodating, loving and goes the distance. They do this for others but often time, they are sacrificing their own real happiness, what they want to do to please others.
CRYING
Because they are so willing to loose themselves in the crowd pleasing, they cry a lot to themselves when no one is around. Wondering why they feel so empty... Even though they work so hard to please others, often time some people could care less and this dissapoints the Sag girl. Their "pretend smiles" and "fake hyperness" is seen as a failure and they wonder what they did wrong.
BLUNT AND TACTLESS
As one Sag girl made it clear to me, there is no filter between her mind and her mouth. She says it like it is. The ability for the Sag girl to see the world through what I call "Plain glasses" or "Raw" allows them to see people and things for what they are. I had befriended a Virgo who really "played" me in terms of the image he portrayed. As a Virgo I am naive and let him know things about me without the favour being returned. My Sag girl saw straight through him and identified him as a player and user of women for sex. I often said he and I are so a like, but she could clearly tell the difference.
The Blunt and Tactless-ness only become an issue around sensitive topics and people. They really don't know how their words strike people and what kind of image they portray when they do so. This oft leads to misinterpretation and gasps from people. From what I gather, Sag girls like to play the game of throwing people off just for fun.
The INNER BEAST
Being half man and half animal, Sag girls have this inner beast which only rarely comes out. Mostly in sexual contexts. They loose the ability to care and listen. All they care about is fulfilling their carnal nature and will do so very aggressively, passionately and painfully if the case be.
Love of Animals
Maybe it's just a Fire girl thing but I don't know... Sag girls seem to love animals. My girlfriend has 4 dogs. She loves them all dearly and says they have been her greatest friends. Perhaps this has to do with the inner beast lol.
Sexually Open
I had long always thought every girl has her boundaries. Not so with Sagittarius. They are willing to do almost anything. It was customary to know "how far I could" by testing the waters with my hands on a woman's body. Not once did I hear no, stop or don't. No don't stop, seems to be the Sag girl mantra. (To put it in a funny way, not literal)
All in all, I am amazed by how fantastic my Sagittarius girlfriend is, I honestly want to marry her off and horde her to myself. But I know this is unrealistic, she is too friendly and adventurous a person to be couped up.
CHEATING
She did cheat on me 1 month into the relationship with a man much older who she was in a sexual relation with before me. I was able to forgive her, I practically saw it coming. This is probably one of the scary aspects. When we got together, I gave her my amalgamation of promises, which closely resemble wedding vows and she said she would adhere to the same thing.
So when she did cheat, she broke her word. Which I see as a very serious offense.
She claims she was afraid of her feelings for me, said she did not want to love me, to feel susceptible.
And that this was the "last time" for him, that this is how she "ended their relationship" which I find atrocious and unacceptable.
I read that Sagittarius and Gemini are the most notorious for being cheaters and when I did her natal chart, apart from being full of contradictions it was full of warnings about cheating. I trust her and I love her, but I am honestly scared to death. She claims I am the only man she has ever cheated on and that it was out of fear, panic.
THE SAGITTARIAN PANIC
Quite an amusing thing really. They become hyper and breathe quickly. Paranoia sets in and they begin to speak faster and faster. Whether it was a guy showing interest who she did not want to hurt or some trouble, they go into a tizzy a
FINAL WORDS
I think Sagittarian women are great and I am terribly interested in finding out just how other Virgo male, Sagittarius female relationships work.
I'm really not sure why we click, maybe it's my Moon and Venus in Leo and her Moon in Aries and Venus in Scorpio. I really don't know.
But I think if a Sagittarian woman can calm herself and give her focus to a Virgo man, she would be delighted in the love, security, guidance and grounding a Virgo man can bring to her life smile
Aww your girl's birthday is the day after mine. Yes, you do have it almost on the mark. The virgo I dated was the best boyfriend I ever had. Tho It didn't last long (only because I had to move) You virgos are alrightsmile
"oooh and sag89 my major sag crush (i know a few)...his birthday is the day before yours "
Haha nice!
Thanks for the compliments, I am hoping to get more corroboration out of the Sag community.
I'm just wondering if they get bored reading all I wrote :/
That was sweet BTBsmile I like you cancers
Hmm...
That's good - very good indeed. My Sag is Dec. 16th as well - but a male, so there are SOME differences, but in general you hit the nail on the head.
Curious though - what is her moon sign? I am finding myself learning how to deal with my Sag's CANCER moon - gets tough at times since I'm all Aries (sun, moon, venus...probably some others as well); which is going to be a new thread soon.
Run262, her Moon is in Aries.
I get along well with Aries, most of the time...
BigTeddyBear, I anticipated she would cheat on me and I figured since I did that to my Scorpio (well not sex, but kiss) that I could forgive her, like my Scorpio forgave me.
I have been very skeptical, she says I'm the only man she ever cheated on, which just does wonders for my self esteem.
We made 9 months Thursday gone, I don't think she will cheat on me again. Though her natal chart is full of that.
I really don't care, one of the perks of my natal chart or being a Virgo, is that I can cutoff anyone, in seconds.
Posted by WinterBorn
Posted by Cajunspirit

I have been very skeptical, she says I'm the only man she ever cheated on, which just does wonders for my self esteem.


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ditto.
I don't actually know any real-life virgo men. I must repel them. Haha...
I did date this libra that was on the virgo cusp though. But he basically just acted like a libra...maybe a little more on the quieter/more laid back side than most the average. But I don't think he acted very virgo, atleast according to the virgos here.
So, in other words, I don't really know anything about boring sex with virgos.
Thank God? Tongue
Posted by Archer
hahahaha winter_born,
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virgos and passion
lol... ROFL..


*bite...*
WinterBorn, why do you think she has cheated on me more than once?
What makes me so special?
I think I provide lots of passion...
Hahahah aw. Sags are easy because most of them have intimacy issues. Not all, but alot. It's like how a few libras I have known are avoidant/co-dependent. lol
^Lol
Right?????????smile
Posted by Mr. Defense
There are some men crazy enough to want to deal with them, but the key is that you need to be crazy to deal with them.


Like me.
LMAO!!!
Doing situps, watching Fresh Prince and browsing DXP and you Sir?
"After that i want to shoot one well aimed arrow at winterborn's face , then end the night with hot treetrunking all night along in the bahamas ." Sounds like a lovely evening...
Posted by Archer

pay_no_heed
loosen_up, and if possible... dont read a lot in your sag's actions



That is something, that has been hard in learning. Her actions have a tendency to confuse or piss me off.
Like I motioned to hug her when I knew she was mad, and she ripped my hands off.
To you that is nothing, but to a Virgo it's pure rejection, fatal.
Posted by WinterBorn

it's possible yours did not consider the cheat to be a huge offense. (at the time)



She confessed.
I fail to see how cheating can ever NOT be a huge offense.

But now here is this ugly wedge of doubt between you. Do you hold it over her head? Refer to it on occasion? Perhaps a joking reference or biting remark or even shooting that speculative, knowing look at her. You know...that look with the raised eyebrow you Virgo's practice in the mirror for hours... that says words aplenty without even moving your lips.
(I'm kidding a bit here...I'm sure you're cool)



Yes, even though I forgave her. I brought it up occasionally after, to stab guilt into her heart. Seeing as she stabbed mine. I had to prod and forcibly see if she loved me and could be committed.
I would never tolerate such an action under normal circumstance.

Maybe it's just me, but I'm surprised the Sadgie stayed with you after you found out. The guilt thing, you see. (unless there is a power thing going on between you 2 which I really don't want to speculate about right now)Devil

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She always tells me she never understood the draw she has for me. That "something" told her to stay close to me. She feels compelled to stick around me and that frightened her, early on.
Your love for one another is absolutely nauseating.
Quit it. smile
Posted by jade_dragon

Now- would I hook up with an ex if I was going through a dry spell?? I don't know (as I haven't been in the dry spell situation), but I would probably have to say YES. I mean, why not??? We already know each others bodies, so it will probably be a mutually satisfying experience.


I would. Lol. Not gonna lie...
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I made an account here just to comment on this post :p haha silly me
Though I am a freedom lover, I don't smoke because I feel like my lungs are gonna burn. Also
I used to drink but when I felt tipsy for the first time, I stopped..
I love piercings & tattoos too Big Grin But I don't have any yet (I used to have an eyebrow piercing before)
But my parents won't let me so yeah :/
It's also true that saggies have cancer buddies Big Grin I have 3 Cancer friends
I seriously find this post flattering & sweet :"> (since I am having a crush on a Virgo 1st decan ;p)
& I am a proud saggie 1st decan :p
But let me ask you, what made you love this girl besides the things you have said.. Besides the giggling & all.
Because I've read many articles about Virgo & they seem really hard to comprehend (It gave me less hope of getting a Virgo bf). So yeah, my question is, how
did you fell in love with her? What did she say or do to make you fall for her? I am asking for that specific move Winking
PS: Sagitarrians are known for cheating but I don't cheat.. I will never cheat.. Actually I'm the one getting cheated on Sad
Posted by SagittarianBaby
PS: Sagitarrians are known for cheating but I don't cheat.. I will never cheat.. Actually I'm the one getting cheated on Sad


I agree SagBaby smile
I don't cheat either and I was the one who was cheated on too...I was ironically married to a Virgo (the cheater) for almost 16 years...with him nearly 19. Although him and I were the best of buddies in high school, afterwards when we tried the relationship thingy it didn't work. Yeah, I was with him for a loooong time, but our friendship was strong and still is to this day. It was his cheating, not allowing my freedom and insecure ways during our marriage that broke it. I suppose the friendship is what held it together so long but it wasn't enough to keep it together which was my fatal mistake in thinking that. I was young, only 18...what can I say and we had 3 kids...that had something to do with it too.
i love your description and many of the things about it ring true.
Posted by Mr. Defense
Seriously, my father told me that it's the crazy women who serve you right in bed. Sag women, I have to tip my hat to them. They are probably some of the best lays I've ever had. But beyond that, you shouldn't be getting acquainted with their personalities too much. They're some of the most random people walking around these days. They just get as horny as most men do. So if you do them up right, they'll always use you as a means to get off. There are some men crazy enough to want to deal with them, but the key is that you need to be crazy to deal with them.


its like you know me... smile
Posted by SagittarianBaby
So yeah, my question is, how
did you fell in love with her? What did she say or do to make you fall for her? I am asking for that specific move Winking


I emphasise a lot on the positive nature. I like positive people, I love how Saggies can always make you laugh and are generally in a good mood.
Most of my longstanding friends have ironically been Saggies. My present girlfriend is born December 1st. She is just lots of fun and cheerful.
That is priceless to a cynical Virgo.
I don't think I am hard to comprehend, I am pretty much straightforward and that is also something I really like about Saggies.
Funny thing is, ya'll like the guy to approach, so he will be slow and fishing for signals til he is comfortable enough (assured you are interested) before he were to try anything.
I was motivated when I was giving my girlfriend advice on what guys to date compatibility wise (Aquarius and Aries), and she responded by agreeing. So this was a "wake up" moment for me to make a strong move and put myself out there.
Something that I normally could not do.
this blog is fuckin awesome....
1.) i break out in show tunes or a song and dance...completely random
2.) i love love love the beach
3.) i did meet this cancer girl and she is just as nuts as i am...plus shes so into love, its inspiring
4.) i do love drinking alcohol straight from the bottle...who needs another dish (cup) to wash anyway?
5.) i dont smoke cigarettes, but the marley is fantastic
6.) i have been known to go broke to have a good time and to help any person, even strangers, in need.
lordy, the saggy panic is unreal...
i'm silly and random too...especially if i am comfortable and in my element
i can get really hyper, not as much now, but when i was younger it was intense...that's why i don't drink caffeine
one of my best friend's is a cancer, as well as the guy i was most recently seeing
i don't really like to drink and i don't smoke
i do love animals and i am vegan
i definitely will always give out money to help anyone in need
Another beach lover and animal lover here, I've always said I'd even live in a cardboard box if it was on the beach. I've smoked since a teen but have cut back a lot and trying to quit altogether. Drinking, I don't care much for it and can't handle it all that well. Alcohol knocks me on my ass right quick...I guess I'm what you'd call a cheap date Winking
But many, many things he said rings true for me...even though I am a cusper with Sag rising on the 21st of Dec, I am a Sag through and through.
My soon to be 18 year old daughter is a Dec 17th Sag, she's in her last year of high school and will be heading to college next fall to be of all things, a Veterinarian smile That's my Sag baby!!
omg, i cant drink caffeine either!!!
dmv: it makes me literally bounce off the walls...i'm like a kid that had too much sugar
i end up running around in circles basically until i fizzle out and drop
Posted by littlearcher
dmv: it makes me literally bounce off the walls...i'm like a kid that had too much sugar
i end up running around in circles basically until i fizzle out and drop


That's how I react to Benadryl...Lol
that's how i react to dayquil
i also have really low alcohol tolerance
With my 2nd Sagittarian relationship I am becoming more and more familiar with your minds.
How you freeze up when questioned, hold your tongue when under pressure, say you will change when in the right mood yet go back to the old ways when in the situation.
One burgeoning question, that isn't really that important burns in my mind though and as inappropriate as I think it is, ya'll probably would'nt mind...
So um.... is your cervix small and vagina tight?
Having explored 2 Sagis now, I got the same thing... hitting the top of the cervix and having to chip away at it till I could fit myself in. I love it.
lemme ask my obgyn
Lol. The cervix? I dunno...I do Kiegels (sp?) alot so that keeps the nana in tip top shape!
And for the other stuff, you were really spot on! Only...I don't smoke, and drink very rarely. I love to workout (helps with my nervous energy) and I am very energetic and silly! I've never cheated though. And oh my goodness, I always shut my yap when the pressure comes! And I don't like to talk too deeply about my soft side. But I love to hear people talk, make them happy, and be a very loyal girland/or friend.
Good luck with your new Sag!
^^^^^WTF! That was supposed to say girlfriend lol
Posted by Cajunspirit
With my 2nd Sagittarian relationship I am becoming more and more familiar with your minds.
How you freeze up when questioned, hold your tongue when under pressure, say you will change when in the right mood yet go back to the old ways when in the situation.
One burgeoning question, that isn't really that important burns in my mind though and as inappropriate as I think it is, ya'll probably would'nt mind...
So um.... is your cervix small and vagina tight?
Having explored 2 Sagis now, I got the same thing... hitting the top of the cervix and having to chip away at it till I could fit myself in. I love it.


Ok what changes do you want this one to make though?
Sick
Posted by Cajunspirit
With my 2nd Sagittarian relationship I am becoming more and more familiar with your minds.
How you freeze up when questioned, hold your tongue when under pressure, say you will change when in the right mood yet go back to the old ways when in the situation.
One burgeoning question, that isn't really that important burns in my mind though and as inappropriate as I think it is, ya'll probably would'nt mind...
So um.... is your cervix small and vagina tight?
Having explored 2 Sagis now, I got the same thing... hitting the top of the cervix and having to chip away at it till I could fit myself in. I love it.


Interesting...even after giving birth to 3 of Virgo's kids he did mention how tight I still was...Lol
...and apparently, due to comments from post-divorce romps in the hay, it still is Winking
Oh shit I'm learning shit about myself by read this thread I need to turn my computer screen off. Cajun what happened to the first Sag???
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