Asking a Scorpio if he thinks we are a good couple - ridiculous reaction!!!

Ok so I was seeing a scorp guy for a few months when one night I asked him in bed "do you think we're a good couple?" In a very playful I'm dying to know what you think kind of way, of us and how we're working and where we are etc.. It was just a conversa...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Peny2016 on Sunday, March 5, 2017 and has 70 replies.
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Another "oh this scorpio is so mean" thread. Have you ever read ANYTHING about them? Sign of death? Belzebub in person? Evil, sadistic, loves to play mind games and hurt people, bring them down, kill them inside....ring any bells? Tell me when it does..... Is death incarnate, will destroy anything that lives, appetite for destruction. Loves to get close to people only to play more horrific and hurtful mindgames...jealous af, secretive af, petty af....will always go the extra mile to ruin a new second of your life. Will go the extra mile to show you even more pettiness. Will try everything they can to deceive you.
Aren't you the motherfucker who was excusing rape or abuse on another thread blaming the women

Have ten seats loser
That's certainly an insane comment from an insane person. Calm the fuck down times a million you braindead.
OK future murderer


Im sorry what? You're accusing me of accusing people of rape, and being a future murderer? Why? What's your problem? Bitch? You fvkin mental case !!! Explain yourself !!!!!! ??

Bytch I don't stutter
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Are you fricken kidding me? You're leaving me hanging after accusing of fake shit like some kind of psycho ??????

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Stop threatening me on pm bricklemark. Proving my point you're unhinged.

@getmisted
Im threatening you???????? You're threatening me !!!! You're not even answering me as to why you're abusing me like a psycho right now !
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Posted by bricklemark
Another "oh this scorpio is so mean" thread. Have you ever read ANYTHING about them? Sign of death? Belzebub in person? Evil, sadistic, loves to play mind games and hurt people, bring them down, kill them inside....ring any bells? Tell me when it does..... Is death incarnate, will destroy anything that lives, appetite for destruction. Loves to get close to people only to play more horrific and hurtful mindgames...jealous af, secretive af, petty af....will always go the extra mile to ruin a new second of your life. Will go the extra mile to show you even more pettiness. Will try everything they can to deceive you.
Aren't you the motherfucker who was excusing rape or abuse on another thread blaming the women

Have ten seats loser
That's certainly an insane comment from an insane person. Calm the fuck down times a million you braindead.
OK future murderer


Im sorry what? You're accusing me of accusing people of rape, and being a future murderer? Why? What's your problem? Bitch? You fvkin mental case !!! Explain yourself !!!!!! ??

Bytch I don't stutter
But can you talk????? So far you've made NO SENSE. Explain yourself dipshit.
I quoted what you said on the other thread you basically blamed the woman for that guy killing those four kids.

You empathize with criminal murderers

Because you hate women

And your PMS to me need to stop.. Weirdo

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I BLAMED the woman ??????? Where the hell did l blame the woman ??????
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Posted by bricklemark
Another "oh this scorpio is so mean" thread. Have you ever read ANYTHING about them? Sign of death? Belzebub in person? Evil, sadistic, loves to play mind games and hurt people, bring them down, kill them inside....ring any bells? Tell me when it does..... Is death incarnate, will destroy anything that lives, appetite for destruction. Loves to get close to people only to play more horrific and hurtful mindgames...jealous af, secretive af, petty af....will always go the extra mile to ruin a new second of your life. Will go the extra mile to show you even more pettiness. Will try everything they can to deceive you.
Aren't you the motherfucker who was excusing rape or abuse on another thread blaming the women

Have ten seats loser
That's certainly an insane comment from an insane person. Calm the fuck down times a million you braindead.
OK future murderer


Im sorry what? You're accusing me of accusing people of rape, and being a future murderer? Why? What's your problem? Bitch? You fvkin mental case !!! Explain yourself !!!!!! ??

Bytch I don't stutter
But can you talk????? So far you've made NO SENSE. Explain yourself dipshit.
I quoted what you said on the other thread you basically blamed the woman for that guy killing those four kids.

You empathize with criminal murderers

Because you hate women

And your PMS to me need to stop.. Weirdo

Proving my point
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My PMS need to stop????? Is this the twilight zone???? I don't know you, you come out of nowhere and accuse me of accuse people of rape ???? I don't even know what you're on about !!!!! And then you leave me hanging !!!! Are you crazy ???????
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Stop threatening me on pm bricklemark. Proving my point you're unhinged.

@getmisted
Unhinged ????? Are you crazy ????? I don't know you, you JUST WROTE ME out of nowhere accusing me of insane shit....and l'M UNHINGED ????? Seriously you are severaly deranged....
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Only a psycho would defend psychos
So, questionning her role in it is being a psycho? That's for one.

Second, we are not allowed to have our own opinion? We HAVE to think how you think???? Uh dictator much ??????? AMERICAN, ARE YA ??????
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Im not trolling OP you just don't want to see sense and the error you made in the downfall of your relationship.

U were insecure and it showed. The scorp did enough to show you how he felt about you and your relationship with him, so therefore your question was not necessary but you do not want to admit that you had any fault in its demise.

Just continue to blame the scorp.

Well he has a new gf now. Let us hope she is not stupid enough to ask the same dumb question you asked, especially after sex.. smh!
If your theory was correct when I asked him another time after sex during 'pillow talk' does he think he has had the best sex with yet - he was able to answer no that he'd hoped not that he hoped there was something more to get from it rustic could keep getting better.. Same principle applies we were having a lot of it, we never had issues we let eachother know how amazing we though lt our sex and sexual connection was during and after.. And yet when asked the question he was able to not see it as neediness or me looking to be told we're and he answered truthfully and we were able to have a conversation about our desires - same rule applies .. So your insight is lacking .. He reacted very quickly and aggressively - you do that when someone's neediness is wearing you down after some time and you realise that's who they are but how have such a reaction at the first time we had the conversation says more about him and what his issues are - which alas the thread is trying to get a feel for ... You I doubt though are able to back down you've made such a fuss of your point and even though you know it's wrong and dosnt add up ( he did not process at the speed of light that I must be needy out of nowhere and one comment) but you are incapable now (pride) of backing down you just repeat the same stupid sentence and your boring us now

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Post the PMs.
One crazy bitch at a time please
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If I was in bed with a newish partner and they asked me if I thought they were a good couple I would be rather taken aback and/or insulted. I've been spending all this time with you and having lots of sex and cuddles hello.

Of course a man asking this would be just ridiculous. I find that a girl asking that sounds like she is trying to create a cutesy movie moment. This isn't the movies, we aren't scripted. It sounds like you had a script set up in your head how you wanted him to respond, and people don't like to be manipulated.


As for the tipping thing, he probably felt embarrassed you were bringing it up in the restaurant where the waiter could hear you.
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It sounds like you ask too many questions we don't like that. Especially for common sense things like a tip. We can sting when irritated and it sounds like u irritate him about petty things that you feel are harmless. Also no weakness. When you show signs of weakness that can be a major turn off. U need thick skin, u can't get hypersensitive about every little thing. He could be testing you to see if you can handle him. This could take years but if you don't want to keep getting stung which you will I'd say it might be time to end things.
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Im not trolling OP you just don't want to see sense and the error you made in the downfall of your relationship.

U were insecure and it showed. The scorp did enough to show you how he felt about you and your relationship with him, so therefore your question was not necessary but you do not want to admit that you had any fault in its demise.

Just continue to blame the scorp.

Well he has a new gf now. Let us hope she is not stupid enough to ask the same dumb question you asked, especially after sex.. smh!
If your theory was correct when I asked him another time after sex during 'pillow talk' does he think he has had the best sex with yet - he was able to answer no that he'd hoped not that he hoped there was something more to get from it rustic could keep getting better.. Same principle applies we were having a lot of it, we never had issues we let eachother know how amazing we though lt our sex and sexual connection was during and after.. And yet when asked the question he was able to not see it as neediness or me looking to be told we're and he answered truthfully and we were able to have a conversation about our desires - same rule applies .. So your insight is lacking .. He reacted very quickly and aggressively - you do that when someone's neediness is wearing you down after some time and you realise that's who they are but how have such a reaction at the first time we had the conversation says more about him and what his issues are - which alas the thread is trying to get a feel for ... You I doubt though are able to back down you've made such a fuss of your point and even though you know it's wrong and dosnt add up ( he did not process at the speed of light that I must be needy out of nowhere and one comment) but you are incapable now (pride) of backing down you just repeat the same stupid sentence and your boring us now

See, positive proof as to how lacking in confidence and insecure you are. You had to ask him to get affirmation / validation as to how he felt the sex was. A confident woman does not ask those questions the man just says it...

He probably had to say you were the best yet to appease you. But then again, he dumped you so it couldn't have been that good...
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Learn to read - he didn't say I was the best he was able to open up about what he wants - exactly like the other question - it wasn't perceived as neediness it was a conversation starter !! Therefore you are wrong and I've posted numerous times about how we broke up - you just make your own twists - you are seriously mentally ill and I think you hate women! Good luck to life on you - I've read your other comments and you are just as bad to on all threads !! You actually are retarded!! Grossly stubborn and proud! And even whine proved wrong shamelessly continue ... Work out your issues on your own thread ... You pathetic piece of ****

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Ewww girl stop whining over him please

You live only once, go out, meet other people, use dating site, meet as many guys as you wish

Believe me not only scorpio but you ll also find the rest zodiac signs sending flowers at your place

Well maybe not quit like that but pretty close smile

Kisses to you. You don't need him okay?
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It sounds like you ask too many questions we don't like that. Especially for common sense things like a tip. We can sting when irritated and it sounds like u irritate him about petty things that you feel are harmless. Also no weakness. When you show signs of weakness that can be a major turn off. U need thick skin, u can't get hypersensitive about every little thing. He could be testing you to see if you can handle him. This could take years but if you don't want to keep getting stung which you will I'd say it might be time to end things.


These were really just conversations they were light hearted and non threatening from what everyone says here I am to conclude that he was easily irrated and not all a Scorpios are like that... Most women Scorpios have felt this abusive controlling someone else type behaviour and I do agree .. However I think you are on to something with the weakness !!! I think when he saw he could break me and I was still there that he knew ok I can mess with this one and therefor me did.. The difference is after this thread I'm not beating myself up for that I realise most good men don't treat people like that because they have an opportunity .. Those who respect women are different -! I have been fighting my male friends on this for a while but I'm starting to back down and see he wasn't all that and it wasn't all my fault and I made alit of excuses for him and it spiralled ... We ultimately broke up when I couldn't take this (as you say testing behaviour anymore) I think he knew I was at the end and ended it first.. I wasn't polly in his hands I demanded that he get help, that he call his estranged mum, that he speak to his friends instead of just me etc. And I guess it was clear the type of thing I wanted - I wanted a real man.. I think deep down he wanted to fill those boots but like me being me he was who he was and couldn't .. He didn't like that level of a relationship and I have a feeling that I got closer than most - well he told I was the only person he spoke about his family and tragic childhood to. So maybe that level of closeness was too hard and I was pushing for it... I just wish if that's what it was we could of talked about that instead of all his post break up games (sending me cards telling me he missed me then going cold and getting revenge) I had to pull away and we never had that talk but I'm guessing he wouldn't like me to see him vulnerable now anyway and that time has passed.. Too much happened for me to be sure but that seems most right... He used the word smothered and I feel like my wants and his clashed and he can't really be blamed for not being able if he does have issues .. And I do think there's more than a star sign going on!!


I think people need to remember that too when trying to think these things through the star signs can be awful distracting and it takes away you human ability to empathise - it becomes you against them and you loose sight of probably more compelling attributes and circumstances which resulted in everything!


Thanks all I have come to a better understanding!

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Im not trolling OP you just don't want to see sense and the error you made in the downfall of your relationship.

U were insecure and it showed. The scorp did enough to show you how he felt about you and your relationship with him, so therefore your question was not necessary but you do not want to admit that you had any fault in its demise.

Just continue to blame the scorp.

Well he has a new gf now. Let us hope she is not stupid enough to ask the same dumb question you asked, especially after sex.. smh!
If your theory was correct when I asked him another time after sex during 'pillow talk' does he think he has had the best sex with yet - he was able to answer no that he'd hoped not that he hoped there was something more to get from it rustic could keep getting better.. Same principle applies we were having a lot of it, we never had issues we let eachother know how amazing we though lt our sex and sexual connection was during and after.. And yet when asked the question he was able to not see it as neediness or me looking to be told we're and he answered truthfully and we were able to have a conversation about our desires - same rule applies .. So your insight is lacking .. He reacted very quickly and aggressively - you do that when someone's neediness is wearing you down after some time and you realise that's who they are but how have such a reaction at the first time we had the conversation says more about him and what his issues are - which alas the thread is trying to get a feel for ... You I doubt though are able to back down you've made such a fuss of your point and even though you know it's wrong and dosnt add up ( he did not process at the speed of light that I must be needy out of nowhere and one comment) but you are incapable now (pride) of backing down you just repeat the same stupid sentence and your boring us now

See, positive proof as to how lacking in confidence and insecure you are. You had to ask him to get affirmation / validation as to how he felt the sex was. A confident woman does not ask those questions the man just says it...

He probably had to say you were the best yet to appease you. But then again, he dumped you so it couldn't have been that good...
Learn to read - he didn't say I was the best he was able to open up about what he wants - exactly like the other question - it wasn't perceived as neediness it was a conversation starter !! Therefore you are wrong and I've posted numerous times about how we broke up - you just make your own twists - you are seriously mentally ill and I think you hate women! Good luck to life on you - I've read your other comments and you are just as bad to on all threads !! You actually are retarded!! Grossly stubborn and proud! And even whine proved wrong shamelessly continue ... Work out your issues on your own thread ... You pathetic piece of ****

What I speak is the truth...

You were dumb enough to ask him a question re sex and for him to tell you you weren't the best and there was room for improvement must have dented your ego big time and given you the insecurity you apparently lack now which was all his fault in the first....

You are insecure. I lack tact but I tell the truth. U are childish and ask the most dumb childish questions that do not need to be asked....

Get yourself a Gemini next time a scorp is not for you....
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How could him telling me I hope we havnt had the best sex yet dent my ego? It opened up the door for a conversation about our desires that we wanted to fulfill with eachother it was the most tantric conversation of my life - the point was because you are simple I will make it simple:

Like te conversation we had where I asked him what he thought of us as a couple I asked him what he thought of our sex - according to you he should of had the same reaction to both - that's simple maths!

But he didn't because I wasn't dealing with a stable construct

He was able to get philosophical with me about our sex but when asked a similar question lost the plot - it wasn't about the question. It was about him! The mystery behind it trust me your simple brain has not solved! I think of you rad back our comments you are the only one being childish but your projection has been a constant throughout so we'll all raise your simple mind and applause when you come back with the same thing again - God help your poor wee mind can't get much further can it! People have actually private messaged me about you - yes we are laughing at you! Not with you!

Your project my my how much do you hate yourself ... I'm going through a hard time and have been on this for about a week no more I wouldn't need it - no body really takes all of this so seriously - I feel sorry for you that this topic dosnt even pertain or relate or interest you and yet you're glued to it- do you have a life!? I doubt it.

I feel sorry for you that you are so into this and Chinese signs as well - come on man - grow a pair - you depend way too much! Goooooooooood luck ta ya ?

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Im not trolling OP you just don't want to see sense and the error you made in the downfall of your relationship.

U were insecure and it showed. The scorp did enough to show you how he felt about you and your relationship with him, so therefore your question was not necessary but you do not want to admit that you had any fault in its demise.

Just continue to blame the scorp.

Well he has a new gf now. Let us hope she is not stupid enough to ask the same dumb question you asked, especially after sex.. smh!
If your theory was correct when I asked him another time after sex during 'pillow talk' does he think he has had the best sex with yet - he was able to answer no that he'd hoped not that he hoped there was something more to get from it rustic could keep getting better.. Same principle applies we were having a lot of it, we never had issues we let eachother know how amazing we though lt our sex and sexual connection was during and after.. And yet when asked the question he was able to not see it as neediness or me looking to be told we're and he answered truthfully and we were able to have a conversation about our desires - same rule applies .. So your insight is lacking .. He reacted very quickly and aggressively - you do that when someone's neediness is wearing you down after some time and you realise that's who they are but how have such a reaction at the first time we had the conversation says more about him and what his issues are - which alas the thread is trying to get a feel for ... You I doubt though are able to back down you've made such a fuss of your point and even though you know it's wrong and dosnt add up ( he did not process at the speed of light that I must be needy out of nowhere and one comment) but you are incapable now (pride) of backing down you just repeat the same stupid sentence and your boring us now

See, positive proof as to how lacking in confidence and insecure you are. You had to ask him to get affirmation / validation as to how he felt the sex was. A confident woman does not ask those questions the man just says it...

He probably had to say you were the best yet to appease you. But then again, he dumped you so it couldn't have been that good...
Learn to read - he didn't say I was the best he was able to open up about what he wants - exactly like the other question - it wasn't perceived as neediness it was a conversation starter !! Therefore you are wrong and I've posted numerous times about how we broke up - you just make your own twists - you are seriously mentally ill and I think you hate women! Good luck to life on you - I've read your other comments and you are just as bad to on all threads !! You actually are retarded!! Grossly stubborn and proud! And even whine proved wrong shamelessly continue ... Work out your issues on your own thread ... You pathetic piece of ****

What I speak is the truth...

You were dumb enough to ask him a question re sex and for him to tell you you weren't the best and there was room for improvement must have dented your ego big time and given you the insecurity you apparently lack now which was all his fault in the first....

You are insecure. I lack tact but I tell the truth. U are childish and ask the most dumb childish questions that do not need to be asked....

Get yourself a Gemini next time a scorp is not for you....
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Aw hang in now lads this is where I've been going wrong in the whole world only Gemini is for me ???? lololol did ya ever hear such tripe!

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Im not trolling OP you just don't want to see sense and the error you made in the downfall of your relationship.

U were insecure and it showed. The scorp did enough to show you how he felt about you and your relationship with him, so therefore your question was not necessary but you do not want to admit that you had any fault in its demise.

Just continue to blame the scorp.

Well he has a new gf now. Let us hope she is not stupid enough to ask the same dumb question you asked, especially after sex.. smh!
If your theory was correct when I asked him another time after sex during 'pillow talk' does he think he has had the best sex with yet - he was able to answer no that he'd hoped not that he hoped there was something more to get from it rustic could keep getting better.. Same principle applies we were having a lot of it, we never had issues we let eachother know how amazing we though lt our sex and sexual connection was during and after.. And yet when asked the question he was able to not see it as neediness or me looking to be told we're and he answered truthfully and we were able to have a conversation about our desires - same rule applies .. So your insight is lacking .. He reacted very quickly and aggressively - you do that when someone's neediness is wearing you down after some time and you realise that's who they are but how have such a reaction at the first time we had the conversation says more about him and what his issues are - which alas the thread is trying to get a feel for ... You I doubt though are able to back down you've made such a fuss of your point and even though you know it's wrong and dosnt add up ( he did not process at the speed of light that I must be needy out of nowhere and one comment) but you are incapable now (pride) of backing down you just repeat the same stupid sentence and your boring us now

See, positive proof as to how lacking in confidence and insecure you are. You had to ask him to get affirmation / validation as to how he felt the sex was. A confident woman does not ask those questions the man just says it...

He probably had to say you were the best yet to appease you. But then again, he dumped you so it couldn't have been that good...
Learn to read - he didn't say I was the best he was able to open up about what he wants - exactly like the other question - it wasn't perceived as neediness it was a conversation starter !! Therefore you are wrong and I've posted numerous times about how we broke up - you just make your own twists - you are seriously mentally ill and I think you hate women! Good luck to life on you - I've read your other comments and you are just as bad to on all threads !! You actually are retarded!! Grossly stubborn and proud! And even whine proved wrong shamelessly continue ... Work out your issues on your own thread ... You pathetic piece of ****

What I speak is the truth...

You were dumb enough to ask him a question re sex and for him to tell you you weren't the best and there was room for improvement must have dented your ego big time and given you the insecurity you apparently lack now which was all his fault in the first....

You are insecure. I lack tact but I tell the truth. U are childish and ask the most dumb childish questions that do not need to be asked....

Get yourself a Gemini next time a scorp is not for you....


Aw hang in now lads this is where I've been going wrong in the whole world only Gemini is for me ???? lololol did ya ever hear such tripe!

Did I use the word "only" dumb ass? No u did... Besides, you would be too dumb for a gem..
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Aw yeah you got me there right in the feels I'm so gutted wah wah!


Bigots can't hurt feelings - they are bigots!

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Ok so I was seeing a scorp guy for a few months when one night I asked him in bed "do you think we're a good couple?" In a very playful I'm dying to know what you think kind of way, of us and how we're working and where we are etc.. It was just a conversation starter because he wasn't filling me in on these types of thoughts freely. Anyway I did not expect his reaction .. Immediately he said angrily 'what kind of question is that?' In my head for the first second I was thinking 'a fairly innocent one' its not like he opening tells me how he feels the relationship is going.. It was an atypical post sex, let's talk about us moment that I think most couples engage in to check in and feel close.. Then I realised rather quick that he was really angry and was not about to engage with me.. I couldn't understand this and tears welled up in my eyes as I lay there in the dark and my sweet boyfriend turned to snapping at me like a bold child.. I turned the light on and went to get up and said 'Jesus I should be able to ask my boyfriend how he's feeling about our relationship, that's normal and I'm not being made feel bad about it!!' Anyway an argument ensued whilst I was half dressed and I said I was going to go home because I felt unwanted in his bed.. I dunno how but he got cold and said something about not wanting a toxic relationship and made me feel like my 'drama' was now risking me getting dumped.. Till I sat down and sobbed and begged him not to end us... He belittled me and manipulated me ..It was so extreme I didn't feel I was doing anything wrong at all just trying to be closer and he made me feel like I was the worst girlfriend ever and I never felt I needed someone's approval back more in my life... (Yes I know my problem but until you've been woven like this you can't judge I'm a smart girl but he didn't climb in with that personality it comes out of nowhere)..I see how things like this were not my character and the threat of the relationship ending made me submit and I see his control ... But that doesn't mean I understand it.. We had just had a lovely evening curled on the couch.. And why couldn't he turn around and say I think we're good or I think we great but we are spending alot of time together what do you think? Or I think we're ok but I'd like to get to know your family and friends more now .. Anything but 'what kind of a question is that' .. I don't get how that's insulting.. I don't get how talking about us dosnt benefit us.. Clearly am missing something - though I am a simple minded Taurus.

Another time he took me out for a romantic meal when we decided to become official we had a great time and I was so happy and couldn't keep my hands my side of the table .. He was happy too.. Out comes the bill and we are discussing tips.. I was just generally having a conversation about how I get confused like do we tip or not or how much because the staff made a mint in comparison to the US were the tip is wages so you have to tip at least 30% .. It was more philosophical like what do you typically do in this city type convo.:: all of sudden He snaps and looks at me in disgust and says I cant believe we are arguing about at tip.. I was shocked and said 'we arnt arguing' it's just a conversation.. We had drinks to finish and when the waiter left my heart was in my stomach and he was cold.. I felt like I ruined everything over a stupid comment but it was how it made me feel that was horrific.. It was the way he gave out to me when I didn't think I was doing anything wrong.. I left the restaurant so caught up in my chest and when we got outside tears welled in my eyes.. I said I don't like how that made me feel .. I just need to go home.. And he looked at me like a deer in headlights and asked if when I said that was I just going home or ending us? He looked so scared not blinking not like himself he went white. Of course I wasn't I just felt rejected. In hindsight looking back that's all very immature why would he even think I be ending a relationship over something so small but also it wasn't because the way he spoke to me did hurt me.. And I didn't think I was doing anything wrong. I know when I'm arguing and I know when I'm teasing out conversation ... It was crazy .. But he was terrified I was going to break up with him starring at me instead of saying sorry baby I thought you were arguing with me over the tip or never mind me I've had too many gins let's go have enjoy the rest of our night... He just stood there guarded until I asked him if he wanted me to stay and he said yes..

I just would like to get scorps opinions on things like this what is going on? These were early days 3/4 months in and newly committee rel conversations ..

I ended up turning insecure in the end after 4/5 months and that became my personality .. Because of stuff like this kept happening .. It ruined what we 'thought' we had ..he always hurt my feelings but acted like I hurt him / it was so head wrecking and confusing.. I actually developed anxiety..and my friends hated him. The Scorpio always blamed me changing as the cause for the relationship breakdown .. He said 'it was good fun at the start and then no fun' as if that's all there is to relationships 'fun'.. But surely he knows deep down that he is hard work.. That he didn't give stability and emotions freely.. That good/lasting relationships need that... That he was making me insecure in the relationship..and therefore it was not fun anymore it was difficult.. People generally work to show they are trustworthy at the start of a relationship but he worked to watch out for any mistake I made and then put me in the spotlight over it...

Why o why would he do that? And still to this day claims that if I didn't change maybe things could have been different?!!!! I don't even enlighten him on his effects on me .. He is so sure it's everyone else's fault.. Maybe this is just emotional abuse, narcissism, avoidant attachment issues or maybe he's an unevolved Scorpio... What do you scorps feel:. I've been through every option but can never be sure because he will never have that convo with me or when he does he lies I can tell so I can't believe a word.
We scorpios are complicated, we just are

Just be honest and explain to him what u mean in these situations, we just dont talk much about love and relationships

Why the no talking? To me that's a sign somethings not right.. This is the one person you should be talking to.. Do Scorpios not want that or have the same craving? And when you say complicated do you have an insight into why these incidents seemed so threatening to him and why reacting with hostility was the go to? Is that how Scorpios express themselves? Should I just be able to take that on the cheek

You are with a scorp not a Gemini... Scorps "feel"... you can feel his emotions for you cant you ?? So why ask a daft question.

IF you want to "talk" about emotions, get yourself a Gemini. He will talk you to sleep...

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Head case.

Mean one, at that.
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Posted by MagicMona
i'm a scorpio too, but i dont believe in making excuses for shitty behavior. part of a relationship is communication. if you cant communicate with your partner without acting like a bitch ass, then you don't need to be in one. i dont want to hear any of that 'it's just how we are' garbage, because it's not. respect is a two way street. someone snapping on you all the time, taking what you say wrong all the time wouldn't feel good to you, so dont make excuses for scorpios just because some of yall are.

right is right, wrong is wrong. no one has to put up with your garbage in order to prove they love you. this is why so many scorps can draw people in but can't seem to keep them. tell that loser goodbye and find someone who can answer a simple question without falling to pieces.


I know ... I think I was having a moment of just frustration and you read so much shite it plays tricks on your mind and I doubted myself .. But that's how people like that make you feel! Even now when I think how uptight he was and (ironically needy) he just projected that on me - he used to give out how I answered the phone if o didn't make it sound like hearing from him was the best thing in the world and because I didn't hold his hand hard enough!!! It's mental I know

What insecure people like that don't get Scorpio or not is that in real life just because someone isn't holding your hand the right way or sounding happy enough to hear from you dosnt mean they weren't and dosnt mean they were ever gonna let go of that hand... He didn't make is it easy I thought love was easy- ier and he projected fears on me and I turned into someone I wasn't ... And then he left because it wasn't perfect! Bucks like johnthebaptist there claim Scorpio need strong people - is that because they arnt? Because that's not strong - not being able to face your fears is weak ... And then they do exactly what he does and twist and ignore so that they can continue to bury their heads in the sand .. I am strong and he tore that down instead of building on .. And i just realised vulnerable narcissism rooted in science is actually a better depiction of what happened...

DO NOT Take signs too seriously everyone!

I was reading about Taurus and Scorpio and because the dynamic sounded something like what was happening o hot distracted from the bigger picture and its important to just take this lightly but then find answers elsewhere too.

You are right a man with respect no matter what his sign - no matter what his background is completely different .. Now I can stop blaming myself that I wasn't 'good enough' to be treated with that respect!

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