Does this mean the Scorpio male is done with me? Or is this silent treatment?
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How to get a Scorpio mans forgiveness? Is he just giving the silent treatment?
I am a Aries woman, We are fwb and the sex is great. He always wants to meet up. Everything has been great. Today i snapped over text cause we were supposed to meet today and he never responded until I had to send multiple texts. And he’s been taking a long time to respond to my texts lately. He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet. And I told him he doesn’t have to worry about me pestering him anymore since I see how he acts. He responded asking if I didn’t want him anymore. And I said all I’m saying is that we planned this ahead of time and you could’ve responded to the texts I sent at least in the morning and I’m done saying anything about it. He hadn’t responded since no matter what I say, I even apologized for snapping. Is it over? Any way for him to forgive me?
I am a Aries woman, We are fwb and the sex is great. He always wants to meet up. Everything has been great. Today i snapped over text cause we were supposed to meet today and he never responded until I had to send multiple texts. And he’s been taking a long time to respond to my texts lately. He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet. And I told him he doesn’t have to worry about me pestering him anymore since I see how he acts. He responded asking if I didn’t want him anymore. And I said all I’m saying is that we planned this ahead of time and you could’ve responded to the texts I sent at least in the morning and I’m done saying anything about it. He hadn’t responded since no matter what I say, I even apologized for snapping. Is it over? Any way for him to forgive me?
Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
yea, don't blow up his phone lol play it cool
Posted by HearttofTopazzI know I shouldn’t have snapped, I’m honestly working on it
Lawdz
Posted by exoskeleton_I didn’t mean to blow up his phone, I tend to do that when I’m actually sorry. I can be very sweet but when someone displays a pet peeve of mine I get snappy
yea, don't blow up his phone lol play it cool
Posted by thatlibralifeBut how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communicationPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...imeclick to expand
Posted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_
yea, don't blow up his phone lol play it cool
I didn’t mean to blow up his phone, I tend to do that when I’m actually sorry. I can be very sweet but when someone displays a pet peeve of mine I get snappyclick to expand
it's immature and you're only fwb, he has no obligation to you.
all you can do is ask that he respects your time. if not, bounce.
Posted by exoskeleton_Yes that what I snapped about, respecting my time, that’s all I askPosted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_
yea, don't blow up his phone lol play it cool
I didn’t mean to blow up his phone, I tend to do that when I’m actually sorry. I can be very sweet but when someone displays a pet peeve of mine I get snappy
it's immature and you're only fwb, he has no obligation to you.
all you can do is ask that he respects your time. if not, bounce.click to expand
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Posted by Ram23533
He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet.
Which I'm sure he would have if that was the case. But as he already said, he got drunk and forgot.
Posted by thatlibralifeThat’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?Posted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..click to expand
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Ram23533
He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet.
Which I'm sure he would have if that was the case. But as he already said, he got drunk and forgot.click to expand
I understand that, the part I snapped about is how all that morning and evening I asked should I still come cause we planned something and he didn’t respond until the 4th text when I was almost there, and I was saying he could’ve been responded that day. I know the night before he was drunk
Posted by Ram23533Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communicationclick to expand
Posted by _DazedLol how will that help? He already know how good it isPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.click to expand
If he doesn't respond, he's turned vegan.. and all hope is lost.
Posted by Ram23533how sorry are you?Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it isclick to expand
Posted by exoskeleton_I am very sorry, I don’t like snapping on anyone. But at the same time I don’t want to look stupid or desperate especially cause he hasn’t been respondingPosted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it is
how sorry are you?click to expand
Posted by Ram23533You won't look stupid or desperate.. Only your pussy will.Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it is
how sorry are you?
I am very sorry, I don’t like snapping on anyone. But at the same time I don’t want to look stupid or desperate especially cause he hasn’t been respondingclick to expand
on your knees, aries!
Posted by _DazedAnd that’s a part of mePosted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it is
how sorry are you?
I am very sorry, I don’t like snapping on anyone. But at the same time I don’t want to look stupid or desperate especially cause he hasn’t been responding
You won't look stupid or desperate.. Only your pussy will.click to expand
Posted by Ram23533You already looked stupid blowing up on a FWB.. what's the difference really?Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it is
how sorry are you?
I am very sorry, I don’t like snapping on anyone. But at the same time I don’t want to look stupid or desperate especially cause he hasn’t been responding
You won't look stupid or desperate.. Only your pussy will.
And that’s a part of meclick to expand
Posted by _DazedI just want to do the right thing from now on, not keep doing stupid stuff and if that means just forgetting about him and it’s over, then I’ll accept the consequences of my actions. I already apologizedPosted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it is
how sorry are you?
I am very sorry, I don’t like snapping on anyone. But at the same time I don’t want to look stupid or desperate especially cause he hasn’t been responding
You won't look stupid or desperate.. Only your pussy will.
And that’s a part of me
You already looked stupid blowing up on a FWB.. what's the difference really?click to expand
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A scorpio....that forgot. Ok
Posted by Ram23533At least you’re admitting you’re in the wrong and apologized.Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it is
how sorry are you?
I am very sorry, I don’t like snapping on anyone. But at the same time I don’t want to look stupid or desperate especially cause he hasn’t been responding
You won't look stupid or desperate.. Only your pussy will.
And that’s a part of me
You already looked stupid blowing up on a FWB.. what's the difference really?
I just want to do the right thing from now on, not keep doing stupid stuff and if that means just forgetting about him and it’s over, then I’ll accept the consequences of my actions. I already apologizedclick to expand
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
A scorpio....that forgot. Ok
What do u mean? I don’t have any experience with Scorpio’s. If he didn’t want to meet he could’ve just told me, he’s the one that asked to meet
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairiesshhh!
A scorpio....that forgot. Ok
Posted by exoskeleton_I’m curious lol, any input would be appreciatedPosted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
A scorpio....that forgot. Ok
shhh!click to expand
Posted by WarAngelThanks for your response. I know I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper. And I have a a bad habit of when I feel guilty about something I i constantly send apologizes. And if he doesn’t want to deal with me anymore I’ll understandPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..
That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?
To answer your question: strike one was getting on my case for actually telling you the truth.
Strike two: blowing up my phone to annoy me further.
Cool off and let the man reset before you get a third strike and you're OUT!click to expand
Posted by WarAngelOh yeah definitely, I’ve always had low expectations for him. Like I didn’t care if he slept with other women as long as we used protection and I never asked for a reason if he wanted to cancel. It’s a pet peeve of mine if someone planted something that involved me and it was his idea and says nothing about canceling it the day of and I’m on my way there. Especially after I text him multiple times that morning and evening when he was soberPosted by Ram23533Posted by WarAngelPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..
That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?
To answer your question: strike one was getting on my case for actually telling you the truth.
Strike two: blowing up my phone to annoy me further.
Cool off and let the man reset before you get a third strike and you're OUT!
Thanks for your response. I know I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper. And I have a a bad habit of when I feel guilty about something I i constantly send apologizes. And if he doesn’t want to deal with me anymore I’ll understand
I don't think all hope is lost, but you need to relax a little bit. Now if you catch him in a lie about what he was really doing, you really can't bust his balls since you are FWB.click to expand
Posted by thatlibralifeI’ll admit a part of me wants to ignore him if he contacts me or don’t go back to him. I just hate when people can’t just be up front and talk stuff out. That’s what I was doing, telling him how I felt, and I apologized for snapping. Even if he flat out said I don’t want to talk to you anymore or it’s over, I would totally be fine with it cause we talked it out and we know where our friendship or whatever u call it stands. I’m just very blunt
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
He’s just mad. But, Scorpio won’t entertain the tantrums of fire signs. And you honestly don’t want him to. We aren’t angry by nature like fire...but we are mean. I’d watch what I say in the heat of the moment...because there are worse things than the silent treatment from Scorp. Nothing extinguishes fire like water and Scorpio is the strongest water sign of the lot. Don’t play games. Don’t be nasty. Be genuine and honest instead
Posted by Arielle83I don’t ask who he has sex with I don’t care, I don’t even mind when he flurry’s with women In front of me. I was only irritated cause I drove almost all the way to where we were supposed to meet and I would have appreciated it if he told me he canceled, that’s it. Not even having to give a reason, just saying he didn’t want to meet or had to cancel. He’s done it before and I didn’t mind
You sound like a naggy gf.
Posted by Arielle83I get irritated with anyone making plans or inviting me somewhere and don’t show up.
Don’t be his fwb if you need him to be accountable
Posted by Wildd_FloLmao, how did that go?
I would of MIA him the moment I sent a second text and.. nothing.
I literally did this to a cancer when he tried to stand me up than I popped up months later lol
Posted by Arielle83There’s been a few times where we supposed to meet and he would blow up my phone asking when am I coming or where am I, and I would respond
Don’t be his fwb if you need him to be accountable
Posted by PhoenixStormYOU HAVE TO SEND BACK PUSSY MIRROR PIC IT IS THE RULESPosted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Ram23533Posted by _DazedPosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Send him a picture of you pussy from the back, in a mirror. Tell him dinner's ready.
Lol how will that help? He already know how good it is
how sorry are you?
I am very sorry, I don’t like snapping on anyone. But at the same time I don’t want to look stupid or desperate especially cause he hasn’t been responding
You won't look stupid or desperate.. Only your pussy will.
And that’s a part of me
You already looked stupid blowing up on a FWB.. what's the difference really?
How so?
So because it’s FWB her time isn’t still valuable? I would’ve snapped on his ass too 🤣 he needs to know she’s not about to sit up waiting on him. Maybe my sag mars is showing but, hey.. gotta set boundaries.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixStorm👍💪Posted by Wildd_Flo
I would of MIA him the moment I sent a second text and.. nothing.
I literally did this to a cancer when he tried to stand me up than I popped up months later lol
My sons dad started as a FWB back in 2008. He tried this shit with me one time, said he was coming over and hours passed by, he tried saying he fell asleep i wasn’t buying that bullshit don’t play with my time. I spazzed on him and it never happened again in the 10+ years we were together.
Some men like their women to actually have a backbone. And if they don’t? Who the fuck cares🤣 call me a nag if you want to but don’t waste my fucking time.
She don’t owe nobody here an explanation I’m glad she put her foot down.click to expand
Posted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_Posted by Ram23533Posted by exoskeleton_
yea, don't blow up his phone lol play it cool
I didn’t mean to blow up his phone, I tend to do that when I’m actually sorry. I can be very sweet but when someone displays a pet peeve of mine I get snappy
it's immature and you're only fwb, he has no obligation to you.
all you can do is ask that he respects your time. if not, bounce.
I think you were within your rights to snap off. You set aside your precious time for him and he could have let you know ahead of time that he couldn't make it. You did right to stand up to him because Scorpio men don't like pushovers. My Scorpio dad says "there isn't much to a woman who doesn't have a little bit of a temper" so take that for what it's worth. What should you do now? Nothing. Wait for him to contact you and stop begging. He needs to know you mean business. He'll respect you for it.click to expand
Posted by slugThis ^^^
Meh. Doesn't matter if you're involved or not, if anybody makes plans with you and doesn't bother to cancel them, it's disrespectful.
Posted by thatlibralifeYou were right. He texted me apologizing and saying he missed me and how much he wanted me. I will also remember to work on my temper.
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram23533Posted by Arielle83
You sound like a naggy gf.
I don’t ask who he has sex with I don’t care, I don’t even mind when he flurry’s with women In front of me. I was only irritated cause I drove almost all the way to where we were supposed to meet and I would have appreciated it if he told me he canceled, that’s it. Not even having to give a reason, just saying he didn’t want to meet or had to cancel. He’s done it before and I didn’t mind
Ya but to him, you’re getting upset. He’ll see that as a naggy gf.
He doesn’t want accountability and his freedom before your meetups. He’s got you in the back pocket.click to expand
Exactly......He owns her. But this is a good site for her to vent. I think they will have a great future together. ♥️
Posted by LibraSupremeThis was the first time he’s ever done this. I didn’t expect it so I snapped plus it’s a pet peeve of mine. Eleven though he texted me hours ago apologizing and saying how much he wants me. I told him it can’t happen again and I value my time and won’t put up with it being wasted.Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram23533Posted by Arielle83
You sound like a naggy gf.
I don’t ask who he has sex with I don’t care, I don’t even mind when he flurry’s with women In front of me. I was only irritated cause I drove almost all the way to where we were supposed to meet and I would have appreciated it if he told me he canceled, that’s it. Not even having to give a reason, just saying he didn’t want to meet or had to cancel. He’s done it before and I didn’t mind
Ya but to him, you’re getting upset. He’ll see that as a naggy gf.
He doesn’t want accountability and his freedom before your meetups. He’s got you in the back pocket.
Exactly......He owns her. But this is a good site for her to vent. I think they will have a great future together. ♥️click to expand
Too much drama for a fwb. If he wanted to get into petty arguments and have you blow up his phone he would've made you his gf.
All jokes aside just chill and if he pulls this thing again where he 'forgets' or ghosts you when you've scheduled something. Act unbothered. And keep yourself busy the next time he trys to link up. Cause how your acting now makes it seem like your waiting around for him and gives him all the power.
All jokes aside just chill and if he pulls this thing again where he 'forgets' or ghosts you when you've scheduled something. Act unbothered. And keep yourself busy the next time he trys to link up. Cause how your acting now makes it seem like your waiting around for him and gives him all the power.
Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is the first time over ever went off on him. I don’t care if he has sex with other women, I never contact him unless it’s for sex. And when i said I blew up his phone it was when he asked me if I didn’t want him anymore and I explained why I was mad. I also sent 3 texts asking if he was still free cause we live far from one another and I was halfway there stuck in traffic and irritated. I just don’t like my tile being wasted that’s all. He’s canceled before and I didn’t have a problem, i just went about my business. I just like being told beforehand. I was more mad about wasting gas and time which I told him
Too much drama for a fwb. If he wanted to get into petty arguments and have you blow up his phone he would've made you his gf.
All jokes aside just chill and if he pulls this thing again where he 'forgets' or ghosts you when you've scheduled something. Act unbothered. And keep yourself busy the next time he trys to link up. Cause how your acting now makes it seem like your waiting around for him and gives him all the power.
Posted by Ram23533Posted by LibraSupremePosted by Arielle83Posted by Ram23533Posted by Arielle83
You sound like a naggy gf.
I don’t ask who he has sex with I don’t care, I don’t even mind when he flurry’s with women In front of me. I was only irritated cause I drove almost all the way to where we were supposed to meet and I would have appreciated it if he told me he canceled, that’s it. Not even having to give a reason, just saying he didn’t want to meet or had to cancel. He’s done it before and I didn’t mind
Ya but to him, you’re getting upset. He’ll see that as a naggy gf.
He doesn’t want accountability and his freedom before your meetups. He’s got you in the back pocket.
Exactly......He owns her. But this is a good site for her to vent. I think they will have a great future together. ♥️
This was the first time he’s ever done this. I didn’t expect it so I snapped plus it’s a pet peeve of mine. Eleven though he texted me hours ago apologizing and saying how much he wants me. I told him it can’t happen again and I value my time and won’t put up with it being wasted.click to expand
I get that you got upset and to his credit he apologized. Just think of the big picture. I think you need to understand he makes mistakes but undoubtedly cares for you. I truly hope yall can get to a happy place.
Posted by Ram23533I get you on that 100%Posted by LadyNeptune
Too much drama for a fwb. If he wanted to get into petty arguments and have you blow up his phone he would've made you his gf.
All jokes aside just chill and if he pulls this thing again where he 'forgets' or ghosts you when you've scheduled something. Act unbothered. And keep yourself busy the next time he trys to link up. Cause how your acting now makes it seem like your waiting around for him and gives him all the power.
This is the first time over ever went off on him. I don’t care if he has sex with other women, I never contact him unless it’s for sex. And when i said I blew up his phone it was when he asked me if I didn’t want him anymore and I explained why I was mad. I also sent 3 texts asking if he was still free cause we live far from one another and I was halfway there stuck in traffic and irritated. I just don’t like my tile being wasted that’s all. He’s canceled before and I didn’t have a problem, i just went about my business. I just like being told beforehand. I was more mad about wasting gas and time which I told himclick to expand
Its a base level of respect that is lacking there.
But I suppose you don't need him for his respect, you need him for his dick.
Posted by LadyNeptuneLol you’re right, but I do also expect basic respect that’s it. Like letting me know if you want to cancel a plan that YOU made lol. Especially since we don’t live close to one another. But he texted me hours later saying that he’s sorry and he misses me and wants to see me badly, etc. I just don’t him I accept his apology but also keep in mind that I respect his time so he should respect mine. And once again that I’m sorry for snapping and I should’ve responded more maturely.Posted by Ram23533Posted by LadyNeptune
Too much drama for a fwb. If he wanted to get into petty arguments and have you blow up his phone he would've made you his gf.
All jokes aside just chill and if he pulls this thing again where he 'forgets' or ghosts you when you've scheduled something. Act unbothered. And keep yourself busy the next time he trys to link up. Cause how your acting now makes it seem like your waiting around for him and gives him all the power.
This is the first time over ever went off on him. I don’t care if he has sex with other women, I never contact him unless it’s for sex. And when i said I blew up his phone it was when he asked me if I didn’t want him anymore and I explained why I was mad. I also sent 3 texts asking if he was still free cause we live far from one another and I was halfway there stuck in traffic and irritated. I just don’t like my tile being wasted that’s all. He’s canceled before and I didn’t have a problem, i just went about my business. I just like being told beforehand. I was more mad about wasting gas and time which I told him
I get you on that 100%
Its a base level of respect that is lacking there.
But I suppose you don't need him for his respect, you need him for his dick.click to expand
Posted by Sith_RogenHe messaged me hours ago apologizing and saying he was wrong cause if I wouldn’t done the same thing he would’ve been mad too. And how much he wants and misses me. I told him I accept his apology but at the same time I don’t like my time being wasted and he doesn’t either so let’s respect each other’s time and that I apologized for snapping
Posted by MyStarsShineThat was my basic point thanks. Like when we have plans he always texts me multiple times making sure I’m still coming or asking where I’m at. We both have busy schedules and have to plan things. He texted me hours ago apologizing and said he wouldn’t have liked it if I would’ve done the same. And I told him I accept his apology and lol I ask Is that he respects my time. And I also apologized for snappingPosted by slug
Meh. Doesn't matter if you're involved or not, if anybody makes plans with you and doesn't bother to cancel them, it's disrespectful.
This ^^^click to expand
Posted by Arielle83What I was saying with him acting the same as me as we both have never canceled on each other. If we have plans he’ll text me and ask if I’m still come or where I’m at when I’m on my way. Or asking if I need to cancel, and I was saying that’s why I kept texting him cause he does the same when we make plans to see if everything is still happening. This was his first time doing this but it still irritated me
Personally, I think these types use the fwb label as an excuse to feel power over your lust and need for them.
He might have cast the plans aside to see your reaction.
Since you said he acted the same with you.
Maybe he felt he lost control and wanted to feel like he got the control back by mirroring you.
Posted by Ram23533As a scorpio i can say if this is repeated behavior then yes. I'd leave and stay away.Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralifePosted by Ram23533Posted by thatlibralife
He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..
But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..
I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.
Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime
But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication
Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..
That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?click to expand
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