Does this mean the Scorpio male is done with me? Or is this silent treatment?

Posted by Ram23533

How to get a Scorpio mans forgiveness? Is he just giving the silent treatment?

I am a Aries woman, We are fwb and the sex is great. He always wants to meet up. Everything has been great. Today i snapped over text cause we were supposed to meet today and he never responded until I had to send multiple texts. And he’s been taking a long time to respond to my texts lately. He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet. And I told him he doesn’t have to worry about me pestering him anymore since I see how he acts. He responded asking if I didn’t want him anymore. And I said all I’m saying is that we planned this ahead of time and you could’ve responded to the texts I sent at least in the morning and I’m done saying anything about it. He hadn’t responded since no matter what I say, I even apologized for snapping. Is it over? Any way for him to forgive me?

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Posted by Ram23533

How to get a Scorpio mans forgiveness? Is he just giving the silent treatment?

I am a Aries woman, We are fwb and the sex is great. He always wants to meet up. Everything has been great. Today i snapped over text cause we were supposed to meet today and he never responded until I had to send multiple texts. And he’s been taking a long time to respond to my texts lately. He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet. And I told him he doesn’t have to worry about me pestering him anymore since I see how he acts. He responded asking if I didn’t want him anymore. And I said all I’m saying is that we planned this ahead of time and you could’ve responded to the texts I sent at least in the morning and I’m done saying anything about it. He hadn’t responded since no matter what I say, I even apologized for snapping. Is it over? Any way for him to forgive me?

He knows he's got you from your response to his question which was asking you if you didn't want him. You did not answer a yes or a no. You waffled some shit that told him, indirectly, that you want him and although you found his behaviour towards you unacceptable it will not make any difference because you'd still accept him to stick his dick in you. Therefore, he can do what he likes and you will accept it. He knows these terms and he knows where you are. There's nothing else to consider for this fwb.

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Posted by Ram23533

How to get a Scorpio mans forgiveness? Is he just giving the silent treatment?

I am a Aries woman, We are fwb and the sex is great. He always wants to meet up. Everything has been great. Today i snapped over text cause we were supposed to meet today and he never responded until I had to send multiple texts. And he’s been taking a long time to respond to my texts lately. He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet. And I told him he doesn’t have to worry about me pestering him anymore since I see how he acts. He responded asking if I didn’t want him anymore. And I said all I’m saying is that we planned this ahead of time and you could’ve responded to the texts I sent at least in the morning and I’m done saying anything about it. He hadn’t responded since no matter what I say, I even apologized for snapping. Is it over? Any way for him to forgive me?

He knows he's got you from your response to his question which was asking you if you didn't want him. You did not answer a yes or a no. You waffled some shit that told him, indirectly, that you want him and although you found his behaviour towards you unacceptable it will not make any difference because you'd still accept him to stick his dick in you. Therefore, he can do what he likes and you will accept it. He knows these terms and he knows where you are. There's nothing else to consider for this fwb.

I always give ppl second chances, I don’t see anything wrong with it. The reason I’m giving him a second chance is cause he’s never done it before and just in case his story about getting blackout drunk was true. And if he would’ve never apologized I would’ve definitely dropped him but he’s been calling and apologizing since the incident. He’s never disrespected me in any type of way in the past so I’m giving him a second chance. When he contacted me yesterday apologizing I told him that I’m gonna tell him this only this one time, all I ask is for you to respect me and my time and if you can’t do that we are over, he apologized and said it won’t happen again and said he wanted to make it up to me.

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Posted by Ram23533

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Posted by Ram23533

How to get a Scorpio mans forgiveness? Is he just giving the silent treatment?

I am a Aries woman, We are fwb and the sex is great. He always wants to meet up. Everything has been great. Today i snapped over text cause we were supposed to meet today and he never responded until I had to send multiple texts. And he’s been taking a long time to respond to my texts lately. He had a explanation that he got drunk the night before and forgot. I snapped that of he didn’t want to meet up he could just tell me and all he has to do is send a text message saying he can’t meet. And I told him he doesn’t have to worry about me pestering him anymore since I see how he acts. He responded asking if I didn’t want him anymore. And I said all I’m saying is that we planned this ahead of time and you could’ve responded to the texts I sent at least in the morning and I’m done saying anything about it. He hadn’t responded since no matter what I say, I even apologized for snapping. Is it over? Any way for him to forgive me?

He knows he's got you from your response to his question which was asking you if you didn't want him. You did not answer a yes or a no. You waffled some shit that told him, indirectly, that you want him and although you found his behaviour towards you unacceptable it will not make any difference because you'd still accept him to stick his dick in you. Therefore, he can do what he likes and you will accept it. He knows these terms and he knows where you are. There's nothing else to consider for this fwb.

I always give ppl second chances, I don’t see anything wrong with it. The reason I’m giving him a second chance is cause he’s never done it before and just in case his story about getting blackout drunk was true. And if he would’ve never apologized I would’ve definitely dropped him but he’s been calling and apologizing since the incident. He’s never disrespected me in any type of way in the past so I’m giving him a second chance. When he contacted me yesterday apologizing I told him that I’m gonna tell him this only this one time, all I ask is for you to respect me and my time and if you can’t do that we are over, he apologized and said it won’t happen again and said he wanted to make it up to me.

Keep him in check with that then. Don't let him run over you. That helps with Scorpio (I am a female one though) and definitely get him to make it up to you!! It doesn't sound like a complete disaster and shit happens. Keep your eye on it though.

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He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..

But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..

I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.

Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime

But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication

Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..

That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?

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Posted by thatlibralife

He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..

But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..

I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.

Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime

But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication

Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..

That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?

Yes some of us would. Some Scorpio's are really quite sensitive and, if you get aggressive over and over with is, trust me on this, we will walk, and never look back. We don't tolerate aggression or belligerence. With some fire signs, that's just part of your make up. I personally prefer peace and love . Good luck. 🤗

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Posted by Ram23533

Posted by thatlibralife

He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..

But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..

I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.

Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime

But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication

Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..

That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?

Yes some of us would. Some Scorpio's are really quite sensitive and, if you get aggressive over and over with is, trust me on this, we will walk, and never look back. We don't tolerate aggression or belligerence. With some fire signs, that's just part of your make up. I personally prefer peace and love . Good luck. 🤗

This is my first time getting aggressive since knowing him, so I am getting better at controlling myself. Other than that I’m very peaceful and nice. I’ll keto the aggression in the bedroom lol we both can get quite aggressive in that area, especially him

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Posted by Ram23533

Posted by thatlibralife

He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..

But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..

I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.

Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime

But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication

Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..

That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?

Yes some of us would. Some Scorpio's are really quite sensitive and, if you get aggressive over and over with is, trust me on this, we will walk, and never look back. We don't tolerate aggression or belligerence. With some fire signs, that's just part of your make up. I personally prefer peace and love . Good luck. 🤗

This is my first time getting aggressive since knowing him, so I am getting better at controlling myself. Other than that I’m very peaceful and nice. I’ll keto the aggression in the bedroom lol we both can get quite aggressive in that area, especially him

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Posted by Ram23533

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Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Ram23533

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Ram23533

Posted by thatlibralife

He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..

But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..

I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.

Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime

But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication

Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..

That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?

Yes some of us would. Some Scorpio's are really quite sensitive and, if you get aggressive over and over with is, trust me on this, we will walk, and never look back. We don't tolerate aggression or belligerence. With some fire signs, that's just part of your make up. I personally prefer peace and love . Good luck. 🤗

This is my first time getting aggressive since knowing him, so I am getting better at controlling myself. Other than that I’m very peaceful and nice. I’ll keto the aggression in the bedroom lol we both can get quite aggressive in that area, especially him

A time and a place for everything indeed. 😁 I do understand your frustration though, I give respect always so, expect it returned equally. A valid theme through out this thread is, people suggesting that, you are not entitled to take ownership of your situationship or rather FWB's arrangement.

It's difficult not to get emotionally invested so, think long and hard about your feelings and if you can disconect because, by the sounds of it, the Scorp knows exactly how to play his cards and will do what ever he desires. Watch that little ol 💟. 😏

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Posted by Kityyyyyyy

Posted by Ram23533

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Ram23533

Posted by thatlibralife

Posted by Ram23533

Posted by thatlibralife

He’s mad lol...letting you stew for a bit..he will be back..

But, cut down on tantrums or it will get old and he will eventually leave you to it..

I’m seriously working on it. I know as an Aries I have a temper and I mentioned in my apology that I shouldn’t have snapped and I’m working on my temper and I was sincerely sorry.

Yeah it’s understandable you would get upset just try to temper down on how you respond to the annoyances...it will work better in your favor...ime

But how can I play it from here, like I still want him to learn a lesson but I also don’t want things just to end here. I don’t want to just run back like what he did was ok, all I ask is for simple communication

Just tell him like that but calmly...not tornado style ..

That’s one thing I hate about being a Aries but I’m working on it. That’s why i apologized and said that I’m working on my temper and it was wrong of me. Would a Scorpio actually cut off contact for something like this?

Yes some of us would. Some Scorpio's are really quite sensitive and, if you get aggressive over and over with is, trust me on this, we will walk, and never look back. We don't tolerate aggression or belligerence. With some fire signs, that's just part of your make up. I personally prefer peace and love . Good luck. 🤗

This is my first time getting aggressive since knowing him, so I am getting better at controlling myself. Other than that I’m very peaceful and nice. I’ll keto the aggression in the bedroom lol we both can get quite aggressive in that area, especially him

A time and a place for everything indeed. 😁 I do understand your frustration though, I give respect always so, expect it returned equally. A valid theme through out this thread is, people suggesting that, you are not entitled to take ownership of your situationship or rather FWB's arrangement.

It's difficult not to get emotionally invested so, think long and hard about your feelings and if you can disconect because, by the sounds of it, the Scorp knows exactly how to play his cards and will do what ever he desires. Watch that little ol 💟. 😏

I didn’t think I was taking ownership of our situation. I don’t ask him what he’s doing, I don’t care if or when he has sex with other women, and in the past he has canceled and I’ll just say ok. I never asked for a reason or got upset. The only reason I snapped was cause we live in a big city with tons of traffic, we don’t live close to one another. So I was mad about the time and gas I wasted driving to meet up and he didn’t tell me he couldn’t make it. That’s it. Whenever we make plans to meet, he would text and make sure I’m coming, cause we both have busy schedules. I’m not in love or anything, just having great sex and would like to know if you have to cancel

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yea, don't blow up his phone lol play it cool

Telling Aries placements tp to be cool is like telling a cat not to knock shit of the table.

Maybe it'll work maybe not. Although it probably won't cause cats are assholes.

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