Posted by Gob_ShiteShe's just a pathetic doormat who's displaying gross behaviors of beaten wife syndrome. She just needs to up and leave because this isn't an ideal pairing. She's not going to have the backbone to tell him to fuck off and his personality is fucking disgusting. Men like him need a couple smacks to the face with a golf club.Posted by TaurusinTexas
I think he's trying to emotionally manipulate you and if he hasn't left yet, he's not going to. And this is not the way to handle conflict and this is what you're looking at for the rest of your life, so you might want to address that before going forward.Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Either you're not telling us an emotionally pertinent detail like the person he got angry at is your ex or some dude he hates.
Or he's controlling and abusive and this is just the start and you should run as fast as you can. No one should spend their day trying to placate an emotional child who broods and uses clearly transparent manipulations in order to maintain a sense of power in the relationship.Posted by PeanutButterandEllyPosted by PeanutButterandEllyAlso to clarify if this were true it doesn't really excuse his behavior just explains it in a way that makes him more human and less of a emotional unhinged potential danger.
Either you're not telling us an emotionally pertinent detail like the person he got angry at is your ex or some dude he hates.
Either way, behavior like this early on only intensifies. Do you really want to deal with this every time he has an arbitrary fit?
Amen to all the above.
Your Scorpio boyfriend is manipulating you in a VERY unhealthy manner. You, on the other hand, are so desperate to be with him that he's having a field day milking it for all it's worth.
Scorpios are all about possession and control. If you act like a doormat, they will walk all over you (and then later blame you for being that doormat, overlooking the fact that they COULD have remained civil and considerate themselves).
My advice: stop apologising for NOTHING, grow a backbone and tell him to fucking grow up.
If you don't take heed, this relationship could become very toxic over time, leaving you an emotional wreck.click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000That's not what she said. Reread. Half of your stupidity comes from lack of comprehension. Read better, dear.
U have a bf. Why on earth would you dance with another guy?!
U are crazy nonetheless. Who on earth in their right mind, moves in with someone after only having met them 30 days ago?!
Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLoverEither way, it's still stupid as fuck, but you can't even read posts correctly. No wonder more people around here stop taking anything you say seriously.
I'm a Virgo female living with her Scorpio boyfriend. Things moved quite quickly and we were living together within a couple of months of our first date. Only 30 days since the move in.click to expand
Posted by ExplicitAnd to do so IN FRONT of him is like a slap in the face.
If you were dancing with another guy, holy fuck you were soooo wrong. I don't care what sign it is. If you're in a relationship and dance with the sex you're attracted to, that is so wrong. Not surprised he's pissed. Now he thinks you're one of those girls who get in relationships but secretly like to flirt with other guys.
Posted by julietteAnd if all else fails then show him your really committed and poke a hole in the condom. Nothing solves relationship problems like a 'surprise' pregnancy.
actually you are right for each other. the fact that you think you did something wrong, and with all that later when you washed his clothes, cooked to make up, i mean you are a perfect couple. idk, try washing his feet, chop your hair, have a nervous break down in front of him cause you love him so much and tell him you will hurt yourself if he indeed leaves you. that will work.
Posted by Redoctober2000Posted by rockyroadicecreamShut your face you rude b**** Get some bleach and wash your dirty mouth out you cheap piece of trash!!! You have a mouth like a sewer.. It's pure filth. Nasty cretin . Who the hell raised you and that filthy cheap disgusting tongue you... One of these days someone is going to rip it out and soak it in bleach at least for a year. Mark my wordsPosted by Redoctober2000That's not what she said. Reread. Half of your stupidity comes from lack of comprehension. Read better, dear.
U have a bf. Why on earth would you dance with another guy?!
U are crazy nonetheless. Who on earth in their right mind, moves in with someone after only having met them 30 days ago?!Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLoverEither way, it's still stupid as fuck, but you can't even read posts correctly. No wonder more people around here stop taking anything you say seriously.
I'm a Virgo female living with her Scorpio boyfriend. Things moved quite quickly and we were living together within a couple of months of our first date. Only 30 days since the move in.click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000You call her bitch, trash, filth, etc. etc.Posted by LadyNeptuneReally? Where's my "swear words"?Posted by Redoctober2000Posted by rockyroadicecreamShut your face you rude b**** Get some bleach and wash your dirty mouth out you cheap piece of trash!!! You have a mouth like a sewer.. It's pure filth. Nasty cretin . Who the hell raised you and that filthy cheap disgusting tongue you... One of these days someone is going to rip it out and soak it in bleach at least for a year. Mark my wordsPosted by Redoctober2000That's not what she said. Reread. Half of your stupidity comes from lack of comprehension. Read better, dear.
U have a bf. Why on earth would you dance with another guy?!
U are crazy nonetheless. Who on earth in their right mind, moves in with someone after only having met them 30 days ago?!Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLoverEither way, it's still stupid as fuck, but you can't even read posts correctly. No wonder more people around here stop taking anything you say seriously.
I'm a Virgo female living with her Scorpio boyfriend. Things moved quite quickly and we were living together within a couple of months of our first date. Only 30 days since the move in.
Will your tongue be joining hers in the bleach?
And how will you know, you will be drowning in a fish bowl.click to expand
Posted by Ssuperman
He's upset because you danced with the same dude for multiple songs. He sees that as interest. Plus, you were drunk and he probably saw something you were doing that wasn't appropriate.
He's wrong in how he's overreacting but Scorp men are like that. Scorpios are also the King/Queen of double standards
Posted by tizianiyep.
Assuming you told the whole story, the key is he shows absolutely no care for you getting home safely or in general. Sometimes you can meet crazy halfway but this isn't one of those times.
Posted by M143....wtf is wrong with you people...
... break some expensive thing you own in front of him so he will realize he is more valuable than any other objects. Do it.
Posted by TheLadyScorpioQuite the opposite actually. I'm just giving insight as I see it.Posted by Ssuperman
He's upset because you danced with the same dude for multiple songs. He sees that as interest. Plus, you were drunk and he probably saw something you were doing that wasn't appropriate.
He's wrong in how he's overreacting but Scorp men are like that. Scorpios are also the King/Queen of double standards
You do not like our kind very much, do you Ssupes?
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Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLover
my ever confident, somewhat arrogant Scorpio. Oh I was wrong!
Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLover
and i want him and everyone else to know it.
Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLoverThis sounds so..over exaggerated. Almost scripted.
Please help me with any advice on what i can do to repair the damage I;ve caused.click to expand
Posted by EnochtheWiseIndeed.Posted by DamnataLOL. You just don't understand our emotional depth bruh.Posted by M143....wtf is wrong with you people...
... break some expensive thing you own in front of him so he will realize he is more valuable than any other objects. Do it.click to expand
Posted by ParisianCappyTruly the most important question in this topic.
@VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLover
why you didnt choose instead
VirgoFemaleScorpioMaleLover
Posted by ParisianCappyThis is why you're my favorite Cap! ❤
@VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLover
why you didnt choose instead
VirgoFemaleScorpioMaleLover
Posted by MIIeFisk
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.click to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
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Posted by Gob_ShiteOr twerking for dude better than she does for him. Those Ass cheeks can drive a man straight to crazy town broPosted by Ssuperman
Plus, you were drunk and he probably saw something you were doing that wasn't appropriate.
Like smiling...
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Posted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
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Posted by TheLadyScorpioNah, looking for someone to say it's not her faultPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Well, going by this particular Virgal and what she has written so far, granted if she is not a troll.
She seems to give two fucks about it judging by her somewhat guilty conscience and actions.click to expand
Posted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioNah, looking for someone to say it's not her faultPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Well, going by this particular Virgal and what she has written so far, granted if she is not a troll.
She seems to give two fucks about it judging by her somewhat guilty conscience and actions.click to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpioSo I was right, she DGAF about himPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioNah, looking for someone to say it's not her faultPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Well, going by this particular Virgal and what she has written so far, granted if she is not a troll.
She seems to give two fucks about it judging by her somewhat guilty conscience and actions.
Precisely, this particular Virgal seems to give a damn about being the one that appears to be the victim and innocent.
Her actions as written by her, hints at a guilty conscience but her words here shows, she does not want responsibility but a reason to scapegoat her deeds.click to expand
Posted by EnochtheWiseYou and backhanded compliments. First the emotional depth topic now this smdh. I see you.Posted by DamnataPosted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLover
my ever confident, somewhat arrogant Scorpio. Oh I was wrong!Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLover
and i want him and everyone else to know it.Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLoverThis sounds so..over exaggerated. Almost scripted.
Please help me with any advice on what i can do to repair the damage I;ve caused.
You mentioned this was the first time he kissed you in public despite you guys already living together. Then he meets his friend, doesn't introduce you to him and you say he stayed away from you. I'm pretty sure that sparked something in you about not being important to him..and then the dance happens. I don't think you created the situation to get him jealous but acted on it when the opportunity presented itself.
You ended this with saying you don't intentionally play games...that means what...this time you played games but never intended for it to come across like that?
Yeah, something is off about your behavior. Then again he isn't helping matters with this overblown reaction he's set on.
For all we know you were provoking him and when he said he's moving out you got scared and did an instant 180..hence the over the top apologizing you're doing now. I don't think you're innocent.
Good analysis. Definitely some aspects to her story that sound suspicious:Posted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLover
I am an extremely loyal Virgo.click to expand
Posted by MIIeFiskSweeping the porcelain shards as we speak.
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Posted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioSo I was right, she DGAF about himPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioNah, looking for someone to say it's not her faultPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Well, going by this particular Virgal and what she has written so far, granted if she is not a troll.
She seems to give two fucks about it judging by her somewhat guilty conscience and actions.
Precisely, this particular Virgal seems to give a damn about being the one that appears to be the victim and innocent.
Her actions as written by her, hints at a guilty conscience but her words here shows, she does not want responsibility but a reason to scapegoat her deeds.click to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpioThese absolute statements man.Posted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioSo I was right, she DGAF about himPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioNah, looking for someone to say it's not her faultPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Well, going by this particular Virgal and what she has written so far, granted if she is not a troll.
She seems to give two fucks about it judging by her somewhat guilty conscience and actions.
Precisely, this particular Virgal seems to give a damn about being the one that appears to be the victim and innocent.
Her actions as written by her, hints at a guilty conscience but her words here shows, she does not want responsibility but a reason to scapegoat her deeds.
She does not give a damn about him but she does give a damn about the situation and her reputation.click to expand
Posted by DamnataPosted by MIIeFiskSweeping the porcelain shards as we speak.
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.click to expand
Posted by DamnataPosted by TheLadyScorpioThese absolute statements man.Posted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioSo I was right, she DGAF about himPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioNah, looking for someone to say it's not her faultPosted by SsupermanPosted by TheLadyScorpioShe's a Virgo. You know they DGAF.Posted by SsupermanThe OP may believe she is -Posted by MIIeFiskIf the Scorpio ladies come she better start drinking Benadryl and get the flack vest out
Nah. We need more Scorpios. I wanna see some expensive antique china thrown at the wall.
Well, going by this particular Virgal and what she has written so far, granted if she is not a troll.
She seems to give two fucks about it judging by her somewhat guilty conscience and actions.
Precisely, this particular Virgal seems to give a damn about being the one that appears to be the victim and innocent.
Her actions as written by her, hints at a guilty conscience but her words here shows, she does not want responsibility but a reason to scapegoat her deeds.
She does not give a damn about him but she does give a damn about the situation and her reputation.
Maybe she does give a fuck about him.click to expand
Posted by GetMistedPosted by VirgoFemaleMaleScorpioLoverI highly doubt this..
I truly just didn't think it would bother my ever confident, somewhat arrogant Scorpio. Oh I was wrong!
I dont intentionally play games
But I do have a question.
How did it make you feel when he didn't introduce his friend to you?click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000Nothing wrong with dancing with someone else. Unless she was grinding and twerking on him then what the hell is the big deal... the least he could do is talk to her about it not act like a straight up little bitch "I'm moving out! I can't take this anymore!" Ffs
U have a bf. Why on earth would you dance with another guy?!
U are crazy nonetheless. Who on earth in their right mind, moves in with someone after only having met them 30 days ago?!
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