How a Scorpios Mind works. Questions Comments ect.

Hey, Im a Scorpio Woman and I'm hear to answer all your questions about scorpio females and even males. Ill try to help...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by vvoninomatsueivv on Wednesday, September 5, 2007 and has 83 replies.
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i am starting to fall for a scorpio, i actually can't stop thinking about him
he says that he has been unhappily married for a few years now. i have heard a
lot of lines from him, and i don't won't to be a homewrecker, but the thing is
i am not sure what to believe if he actually wants out of the situation he is or
if he just wants to spice up his life a little bit,
i enjoy the time we have spent together, nothing more than great conversations and
an occassional hug,
i am at a loss, i know what is going on is wrong because he is married but i guess
i need some advice because i was just going to enjoy the moment while it lasted, but it
has turned out that i really like him, and it doesn't help when he says some of the
things that sound so good, whether they are just a munipulation, i guess i really don't
but it still helps to vent out a little bit, or in this case a lot, if anyone feels like
replying and with some advice on how to handle this situation without getting hurt any
more please send the advice my way, because i sure could use it
i am starting to fall for a scorpio, i actually can't stop thinking about him
he says that he has been unhappily married for a few years now. i have heard a
lot of lines from him, and i don't won't to be a homewrecker, but the thing is
i am not sure what to believe if he actually wants out of the situation he is or
if he just wants to spice up his life a little bit,
i enjoy the time we have spent together, nothing more than great conversations and
an occassional hug,
i am at a loss, i know what is going on is wrong because he is married but i guess
i need some advice because i was just going to enjoy the moment while it lasted, but it
has turned out that i really like him, and it doesn't help when he says some of the
things that sound so good, whether they are just a munipulation, i hope that he does mean
what he says, but there are so many things for us both to loss ahh, i don't know
but it still helps to vent out a little bit, or in this case a lot, if anyone feels like
replying and with some advice on how to handle this situation without getting hurt any
more please send the advice my way, because i sure could use it
you can count on it that relationship with recently divorced and/or still married people is a headache.
Hello agian!
After a brief vacation im back!!!... once agin to answer scorpio questions.
Ciao,
K
i am a scorpio and i would like to know if pises male and scorpio chances of hooking up and breaking up
yes they do make things up just to test your reaction,for example tell you they are seeing someone else,when they are not then chase after you
ah finally a post that has lured in the stalkers of the scorpio board and biitches that flag post.
Hey you plutonian mysteries, here's a few general ques. for you .. *hope they're not too dumb or over-asked!..LOL
1) Are Scorpio's as good detectives as they say? If some secret or untold truth got to you bad enough, does it come down to plain curiosity or a deeper craving to know all truths?
2) Are Scorp's as private as Pisceans? i've heard privacy is very important to scorpio's, as well.
3) Why do Scorps use that intense/some say 'evil stare', or is basically a myth? i've seen that stare, myself. And if you do, is it more subtle intimidation or just an 'emotional' kind of knee-jerk reaction?
4) Also, what is the most over-used, over-exaggerated sterotype or characteristic that you would love to disclaim, or one that annoys you?
5) As a 'water' element', what do you think you share in similarities with the other water signs 'cancer' & 'pisces'?
6) Planet Mars is the co-ruler of your sign. Do you feel this fiery energy within you? If so, how does it differ from pure Aries fire?
thx! sorry for so many, but..LOL
..nice topic, btw
1) I don't know if I'm a good detective but I can think of solutions for emergency situations very quickly - that's what my friends told me.Curiosity ... I'm curious about human nature ...everything about the human being... YOU are so fascinating...I love all of you ... your beauty...your bright side ... even your wicked side... so fragile..so lovely...that's what make me feel more sympathised ...it touches me deeply....Love that I feel for all of you is so deeply that sometimes I think it can overwhelme me and make me forget about the special person I'm supposed to focus my attention lol! That's why I can appear so aloof and evasive ... My mind need some recharge ...My heart needs to rest for awhile ... It isn't game playing...I just love too much ...
There are many questions and many answers but I've learnt long time ago that there aren't definite right or wrong answers . Everyone has their own version of truths and I respect that.I hope you can respect me for that too . However , if you insist to stick with your view and yell at me that I'm wrong,I still respect you for your passion and your persistence!Basically,it's really hard to get to me because it seems that I can always see the lovely side of YOU.
2)I'm curious but definitely not nosy so I respect your privacy . I want to know you because I hope we can connect but there are different level of connections so I can find other ways to suit both of us !
3)I never notice that I stare at people till one of my Pisces friend told me "Stop that stare or one day you can get someone misunderstand that you fancy them/scare them !" Honestly , I've no intention of that....I didn't know my eyes are too intense...Often I look at you but my mind is somewhere else ...
4)I appear like a Gemini .. too talkative and flirty...Unless you've known me for along time,otherwise most people think I'm a Gemini...I don't like that image but oh well , it's useful in some other time Tongue
5)Pisces seem nicer than Cancer ... I feel Cancer can be too dark and moody for me ...I love joking and laughters... I'm not so sure ...
6)Yes,definitely!I can be too determined and persistent , especially when the situation becomes difficult and impossible to turn around(people said that)
Aries are often confrontational and loud.I prefer compromises, what work best for both parties but if I sense something unfair,subtlety is more my style .Hopefully,I don't have to use the last tactic in my book : manipulation . I detest that
~mystic_fish now you know all my secrets , you should lock your doors tight at night Tongue
Just kidding smile
sagigoat , you're still with your Scorp ? Bravo! I like Capricorn about that . Very Loyal smile
my mind uses mice and a running wheel
THANKS so much for your well thought-out response, exam! I really enjoyed reading your answers. Very informative..
btw, ALL my doors are double-bolted now..*just kiddin'! smile ..thanks again.
Pfffft

WernerOne,
Virgo certainly confuses Scorpio - I've seen my ScorpWife do a double-take often enough to know I've thrown her off. Like, when I'm say something that's so personal and revealing, one of those things she'd consider a Scorp's Little Secret. It's taken her many months to understand that with her, I have no secrets...
They're not used to having someone they can trust so completely.
Which is another reason I'm purging my old dyrstr8z threads -- not because she asked me to, but because I wrote many of those while it was me & her, not us, and I know now that she'd prefer not having all those private details out in a public space.
As for the Scorpio Mind: It works faster than Virg's, but only because the Scorp is more confident about the decision-making process...
"As for the Scorpio Mind: It works faster than Virg's, but only because the Scorp is more confident about the decision-making process..."
Does your ass-kissing never stop?
You should get branded with a tattoo. What would it be? I think have it:
SCORPIO OWNS ME

scorpio_rising: "You should get branded with a tattoo."
So should you...
Young Dumb / Full Of Cum / Not Getting Laid
Take your pick.

Actually, you could arrange the three phrases in a triangle - your personal trinity...

Yeah, my ScorpWife owns me -- that's what marriage is all about...
A marriage is often declared by a wedding ceremony,[7] which may be performed either by a religious officiator, by a secular government-sanctioned officiator, or (in weddings that have no church or state affiliation) by a trusted friend of the wedding participants. The act of marriage usually creates obligations between the individuals involved, and in many societies, their extended families.
Marriage sometimes:
* establishes the legal father of a woman's child;
* establishes the legal mother of a man's child;
* gives the husband or his family control over the wife's sexual services, labor, and/or property;
* gives the wife or her family control over the husband's sexual services, labor, and/or property;
* establishes a joint fund of property for the benefit of children;
* or establishes a relationship between the families of the husband and wife.
[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage]

Want your freedom from "ass-kissing"? Stay single. Want what I have? Suck up your foolish pride, admit you need someone else, and if you find her, have the good sense to marry her...
you're married to a Scorp DyarStra?e ?

Yes, exam, I married a Scorpio Woman 9 years younger than me on OCT 22, 2006 & we had Scorp Twins on NOV 7/8, 2007. It's the second marriage for both of us.
I smacked scorpion_rising because he sounds a lot like my younger Scorpio brother, who's been married 5 times, but will deride me as being a Boring Boris for being married 20+ years to my Libra, and then remarrying so quickly, when the stability I have is the very damn thing he would love to have -- one of his Little Secrets that's all too obvious to me - and the rest of the family.
"she'd prefer not having all those private details out in a public space." I don't say I blame her ... we don't like being on the spot light ....working behind the scene is more Scorp style ...Also there is no need to tell / explain to strangers what we are doing...
Congratulations on your twins !! They were born 4/5 days difference from me smile
20+ years married to Libra !? I can't imagine how it was like ! I dated one for 7 months and found it unbearable but maybe I was too young ! If you don't mind , can I ask you about the difference between Libra and Scorp ?
You definitely don't sound boring but wise smile
""So should you...
Young Dumb / Full Of Cum / Not Getting Laid
Take your pick.""

You forgot one:
FAT ASS
no matter ho much you bend it in neon for anybody, they are never quite going to understand the true depth of a scorpio mind. I'm not claiming we are the only astros with a deep mind, but it's like wrapping you perseption around eternity as a concept
I see personal insults are still rife here...dear oh dear....sigh..some things never change..
I am quite disappointed Dyr..I thought your venus was in Taurus...Now you've gone and ruined my question to you..
Hmph!
We don't fully comprehend our mind and its capabilities, how is a mere mortal out there to understand it..uh uh...forgetbout it!!
true, does it have a mind???

sorry.....coudnt resist
happy newyear 2008....emmmph-smooch-chaaa
LOL @ Smoooch chaaaa...lol..i like that
Yeah I have seen two taurus/scorpio combos that are going strong..they fight sooo much..lol..but they can't live without each other either..bless...
I like taurus..they take everything in their stride...
Can't wait for you to come back babe...I've been soo alone..so alone
::wipes tear::
And bring back some of that gawgeous sunshine.....you shall get all the update when you are back m'dear...
Enjoy the last bits of your holibobs..you're gonna need to..its bloody miserable here...

** I wrote the following at work on Monday. **
Sorry Missy, but my Moon is in Taurus, my Venus is in Leo. As for trading insults: I give what I get, though I do try to put a humorous spin on them when I can. I browsed through some of scorpion_rising's early posts about his Pisces ex-girlfriend, and I can understand where some of his animus comes from, but that's not gonna stop me from trading licks - too much of a man to just grin and bear it...
On this Scorpio Mind thread: It's so cool to see the differences between my Scorp Twins. Gender aside, they way they look at me, and try to relate to me is so different. I didn't have this side by side comparison with my original Scorp Daughter. It almost makes their being fussy little snipes worth it... (I said almost!)
exam: "You definitely don't sound boring but wise"
Thank you, my dear, but be careful, lest you get labeled an ass-kisser!
"can I ask you about the difference between Libra and Scorp ?"
Sure! The way these women dealt with me was very different. My Libra was much more accomodating, but it caused her to resent having to do so many things the Right Way (re: My Way), and lead to flare-ups & outbursts that I regarded as groundless drama. My Scorp has a this far, but no further! way of dealing with my Virgo nit-noid sh1t; she doesn't hesitate to put her foot down when I get ridiculous with it - she nips it in the bud - and thus she doesn't have any feelings of resentment. And because I know what her limits are, there's much less confusion between us. Yeah, I still push the envelope from time to time (and, get stung!), but that's what us Virgs do!
I've given this example before, but it's a good one. I like my socks rotated in the drawer - newly clean at the back, and sorted by color from left to right. When my Scorp did the laundry, she'd just put the clean socks in wherever they'd fit. I fussed about it, so she started leaving my clean socks on the bed, and let me put them up My Way...
The Big Picture: It only took me and my Scorp a few months to sort out who does what, when, & why - so it was much less stressful; compare that to the YEARS it took me and my Libra, and all the unnecessary fussing, fighting, and hurt feelings that ate at both of us...

Another difference: Scorpio is more disciplined than Libra, which matches better with Virgo's need for order. My Libra had a much harder time making up her mind about stuff, and since Virgo can see all the pros & cons of just about anything, I wasn't as much help to her as she needed. It was frustrating for both of us. My Scorp has no problem making a decision. Where I'm able to help her is in the long-range, highly-detailed planning that requires more than just her quick-reaction, gut-instinct style . On the flip side, my Scorp has made me not plan every damn thing under the sun - just take a deep breath, and plunge in - NOT an easy thing for a Virgo! But I've learned from her that "being in the moment" can be very rewarding - makes for some vivid memories, that's for damn sure!
I'm no expert, but I think Libra Man & Virgo Woman would be a smoother couple - as long as he's faithful! - than Virgo Man & Libra Woman. I also think Virgo Man & Scorpio Woman works better over the long haul than Scorpio Man & Virgo Woman. There's more to compatibility than just Signs...
~DyarStra?e

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