How loyal are Scorpios as friends?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Rainbow87 on Tuesday, June 6, 2023 and has 26 replies.
Hi,

Earlier this year I finally confessed my feelings to a Scorpio man. We were really good friends before I told him how I felt.

He would be the one who initiated contact most of the time and even the one who started the friendship. He added me on social media, sent me texts, etc…

The problem is that obviously things got awkward between us after I told him how I felt and he told me he had never been in a similar situation of someone confessing so it took him by surprise and he didn’t know how to react.He rejected me gently because he doesn’t feel the same. I’m sad because he hasn’t reached out ever since and it’s pretty sure because he doesn’t want to lead me on or hurt my feelings.

I’ve heard about Scorpios being the most loyal sign but I don’t know if I lost him as a friend. Are they loyal as friends too besides as partners?Will he stick by my side in the good and the bad even though I messed up and put him in an awkward situation? I’m not talking about now but will he eventually come around at some point and be my friend again? He spoke positive things about me. He said he had a good impression about me right when he met me.

He’s one of the only good friends I have. I’m shy and not a very social person. I miss him and scared I lost him.
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Probably not close friends, he'll still treat you well and be a friend but It won't be close. It's annoying having someone like you when you don't like them back, it's kind of insulting because they don't actually like you and get you in the way that's needed, which feels like a disregard for you. Or some Scorpio bs like that lol.
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No

Matter how much I care about you I will not string you along and this would cut off for your sake vs my need for your friendship
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I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣
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We are very loyal friends, well

at least the ones I’ve known and

I am myself …. Family and friends

are the most important thing to

me and always take priority…..
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This isn't a loyalty issue.. The feelings aren't reciprocated and now it's awkward.

The only way to repair this is to date someone else and let him figure out you're not waiting for him.
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I would say because he is a good friend he's stepping away. He knows you will never get over him if you two continue to hang out.
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Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣


I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴
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Why would he do that?

The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…

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Posted by Rainbow87
Hi,
The problem is that obviously things got awkward between us after I told him how I felt
It’s about this and nothing more, nothing less.
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Posted by IceStorm
Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣


I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴
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Same with my Gemini cousin until she had her karma n her husband disclosed having feeling with a relative who never even gave him a reason too like she did to all her friends. I told her I’d never trust her with any of my bfs
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Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣


I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴




Why would he do that?


The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…




Yeah that is disgusting 🤮 The 3 of us worked together and she was friendly to my face so she knew I was fighting with him and I found out they slept together when he and I weren’t talking. I went to junior high and high school with her too though and she was always loose and lacked self esteem and used her body (flaunted her ass) to get attention from men.


We were all in our 20s when it happened so he was still kinda young but I’m assuming he just wanted to get his dick wet and he wasn’t getting it from me 😂🤷‍♀️

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I had a friend like that in high school, she was a sag. She would purposefully go out of her way to seduce boys with girlfriends. The worst one was a boy who had a pregnant gf in high school, and she knew that and it was her greatest conquest 💀 I think there are a lot of women who feel powerful, like as if they are so sexy and irresistible if they can get a man to cheat. But it’s not hard to get a man to cheat, when the opportunity is right there and so easy.
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Well, humans are human and loyalty can be fleeting.

What if he has a girlfriend, do you expect his loyalty for you to outweigh his loyalty for her? We all have placed people in a pecking order.

Even the word loyalty is kinda interesting to me.

DID YOU TELL HIM SOMETHING THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE KEPT TO YOURSELF?
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Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣


I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴


Why would he do that?

The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…


Yeah that is disgusting 🤮 The 3 of us worked together and she was friendly to my face so she knew I was fighting with him and I found out they slept together when he and I weren’t talking. I went to junior high and high school with her too though and she was always loose and lacked self esteem and used her body (flaunted her ass) to get attention from men.

We were all in our 20s when it happened so he was still kinda young but I’m assuming he just wanted to get his dick wet and he wasn’t getting it from me 😂🤷‍♀️
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I had a friend like that in high school, she was a sag. She would purposefully go out of her way to seduce boys with girlfriends. The worst one was a boy who had a pregnant gf in high school, and she knew that and it was her greatest conquest 💀 I think there are a lot of women who feel powerful, like as if they are so sexy and irresistible if they can get a man to cheat. But it’s not hard to get a man to cheat, when the opportunity is right there and so easy.
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As a sag, I do have a conquest nature to myself in all that I do.

I conquer and then move on lol
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Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣


I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴


Why would he do that?

The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…


Yeah that is disgusting 🤮 The 3 of us worked together and she was friendly to my face so she knew I was fighting with him and I found out they slept together when he and I weren’t talking. I went to junior high and high school with her too though and she was always loose and lacked self esteem and used her body (flaunted her ass) to get attention from men.

We were all in our 20s when it happened so he was still kinda young but I’m assuming he just wanted to get his dick wet and he wasn’t getting it from me 😂🤷‍♀️


I had a friend like that in high school, she was a sag. She would purposefully go out of her way to seduce boys with girlfriends. The worst one was a boy who had a pregnant gf in high school, and she knew that and it was her greatest conquest 💀 I think there are a lot of women who feel powerful, like as if they are so sexy and irresistible if they can get a man to cheat. But it’s not hard to get a man to cheat, when the opportunity is right there and so easy.
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Yeah I heard a quote once that says “women sleep with who we want to, and men sleep with who they can”. Lol and that shit is so real 😂

there are some men who will get it however they can (especially younger, immature men who don’t know any better) and like you said, there are some women who try to use sex to win men over.. and that’s the perfect recipe for an affair or for 2 desperate people to meet halfway lol

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Anything with a pulse 🥴😂

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If he's a friend, there should be no time limit on a friend coming and going. His loyalty will remain in tact.

Start dating someone else or seeing someone else and he may come around once he sees that you have moved on.

He seems to just be trying to make it very clear that there will be no romance happening between you two.

Don't take it personally.
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The thing is that we were really good friends before all this happened so it’s hard for me to let go.

I don’t think it’s a crime to develop feelings for someone. It can happen, especially if two people are of the opposite sex. And it’s not like I won’t live if he doesn’t like me back. Life goes on, so I don’t see why he would erase me from his life completely.

But if he doesn’t want to be friends or doesn’t care then it’s his loss. He doesn’t realize how much his friendship meant to me but what else can I do? 🤷🏼‍♀️ maybe I honestly valued him but he didn’t value me.
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no idea.

but i asked my brother to purchase a game for like a $ 1.35 and i'll pay him right back once i get my e-wallet sorted out and he said yes but no i didn't get it. this sale might not last so it might shoot back up to a much bigger amount.

so unreliable.

but i bet if i was just a friend trying to borrow one of his expensive jackets then never return it, he'll let me have it in a heartbeat.
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Posted by IceStorm
Posted by nanochip
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Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣


I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴


Why would he do that?

The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…
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We were all in our 20s when it happened so he was still kinda young but I’m assuming he just wanted to get his dick wet and he wasn’t getting it from me 😂🤷‍♀️

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Why?

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Posted by IceStorm
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Posted by IceStorm
Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣


I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴


Why would he do that?

The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…


Yeah that is disgusting 🤮 The 3 of us worked together and she was friendly to my face so she knew I was fighting with him and I found out they slept together when he and I weren’t talking. I went to junior high and high school with her too though and she was always loose and lacked self esteem and used her body (flaunted her ass) to get attention from men.

We were all in our 20s when it happened so he was still kinda young but I’m assuming he just wanted to get his dick wet and he wasn’t getting it from me 😂🤷‍♀️
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I had a friend like that in high school, she was a sag. She would purposefully go out of her way to seduce boys with girlfriends. The worst one was a boy who had a pregnant gf in high school, and she knew that and it was her greatest conquest 💀 I think there are a lot of women who feel powerful, like as if they are so sexy and irresistible if they can get a man to cheat. But it’s not hard to get a man to cheat, when the opportunity is right there and so easy.
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I notice too that they are not lookers too

Why somehow they need to prove it
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Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣



I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴


Why would he do that?
The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…
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We were all in our 20s when it happened so he was still kinda young but I’m assuming he just wanted to get his dick wet and he wasn’t getting it from me 😂🤷‍♀️


Why?
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We were fighting about only God knows what? Lol it was 20 years ago.. but I do remember he was a libra so he was probably more compatible with her anyway since they were both air signs 😂😂🤷‍♀️


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True. I like how this turned into a ho thread
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Posted by IceStorm
Posted by nanochip
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Posted by nanochip
I was friends with a scorpio woman for years and she tried to sleep with my boyfriend at the time 💀 so in my own experience…. Not so much 🤣



I had the exact same situation with a Gemini woman in my 20s except the roles were reversed.. Lol she slept with my boyfriend I cringe just thinking about it.. she was ugly as hell and carried herself like trash so I shouldn’t have been surprised. 🥴


Why would he do that?
The scorpio woman told me she lost track of her body count in the mid 300s and had been treated for multiple venereal diseases. A self reported “sex addict”, that is to say an understatement…
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We were all in our 20s when it happened so he was still kinda young but I’m assuming he just wanted to get his dick wet and he wasn’t getting it from me 😂🤷‍♀️


Why?
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We were fighting about only God knows what? Lol it was 20 years ago.. but I do remember he was a libra so he was probably more compatible with her anyway since they were both air signs 😂😂🤷‍♀️





True. I like how this turned into a ho thread, I attract a lot of women who are in relationships already and idk what they want because I never pursued it but it's probably the same girls lmao
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Posted by TXCowboy
You expressed feelings he could not reciprocate. He's left and I'm going to bet not coming back.

There's more to this I feel. Heal and move on ASAP.
Agreed.

Usually people write “will we be friends again”

They don’t write “will he still be loyal to me”

That’s very different verbiage.

This ain’t a lost in translation thing either
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Posted by alexscaries
Not a question of loyalty. The dynamic has changed.
Yeap, this! It's hard to be friends with someone if you know they have feelings for you that aren't felt in return. I'm Scorp Moon, Rising & 8th House Sun, Sorp dominant.. I couldn't stay friends with someone that I knew had feelings for me if I didn't have any in return. I'd feel like I was misleading them or that they were always going to hold on to some hope that the feelings would be requited.
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Will I be missed at least??? Ok, granted we won’t be friends or talk anymore. Will he at least miss me as a friend just like I will miss his friendship?
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Posted by Rainbow87
Will I be missed at least??? Ok, granted we won’t be friends or talk anymore. Will he at least miss me as a friend just like I will miss his friendship?
You don’t miss him.

You WANT him.

The “friendship “ is just some excuse to be in his atmosphere. Where you can long for him.

I’d get a hobby or a dog

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Posted by Rainbow87
Hi,
Earlier this year I finally confessed my feelings to a Scorpio man. We were really good friends before I told him how I felt.
He would be the one who initiated contact most of the time and even the one who started the friendship. He added me on social media, sent me texts, etc…

The problem is that obviously things got awkward between us after I told him how I felt and he told me he had never been in a similar situation of someone confessing so it took him by surprise and he didn’t know how to react.He rejected me gently because he doesn’t feel the same. I’m sad because he hasn’t reached out ever since and it’s pretty sure because he doesn’t want to lead me on or hurt my feelings.

I’ve heard about Scorpios being the most loyal sign but I don’t know if I lost him as a friend. Are they loyal as friends too besides as partners?Will he stick by my side in the good and the bad even though I messed up and put him in an awkward situation? I’m not talking about now but will he eventually come around at some point and be my friend again? He spoke positive things about me. He said he had a good impression about me right when he met me.
He’s one of the only good friends I have. I’m shy and not a very social person. I miss him and scared I lost him.

This is my experience with them. They're a fixed water sign, they can be extreme. I have met many wonderful scorpios, and some that are not so great. The one thing I notice though, their loyalty depends on how they feel about you from the start. If your initial interaction with them is meh, or so/so, even if you eventually get close with them, they are more inclined to not be loyal, or not feel obliged to be that way with you. If they like you, they like you, and even they disagree with something, they'll always like you. I do find their loyalty sometimes depends on what you can do for them or how they can get you to "help" them in some shape or form. They are complex people, and truly are the phoenix rising from the ashes. Their karma is a difficult one. Sometimes I admit, they frustrate me, but I know being that sign must be hard as well, so I empathize.

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