I feel betrayed. Am I being irrational?

Hello. I'm a Scorpio (F) married to an Aquarius (M). I feel disappointed at my husband for some things he did in the past. We've only been married for 2 1/2 years and on our first year of marriage he used to message women on Facebook frequently and tried ...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by SillyScorp89 on Wednesday, June 14, 2017 and has 97 replies.
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Posted by GC01
I had the same problem with my libra when we first got together (5 years ago), being a cancer girl I was furious!!!! Some of the girls were girls he used to chase after (before me), and try to hang out with when we would argue, and talk about our problems with.

I swear when I found those msgs my head could have spun around.

I trust him completly now after us talking openly and honestly about respecting each other's boundaries, in fact I trust him more than ever.

A little trust and respect can go a long way with air signs.
Honestly I feel like if I would've went the route you did in my last relationship instead of breaking up would've made a difference but since I took another route I guess I'll have to learn from this in my next relationship down the line.. happy yours worked out

I appreciate all your responses and support. Just some additional info. My husband's moon sign is Sagittarius. So that's why he's so extroverted I guess. At the beginning I knew astrology said these two signs aren't the best match but I thought astrology was bullshit. Well, i think it could be true to some degree now that I see our differences. I will try to understand his personality more but I think it will be hard since I'm the opposite of him. Wish me luck!!! I will hold off on having children at least a year and see how the marriage goes. Sad
Posted by SillyScorp89
I appreciate all your responses and support. Just some additional info. My husband's moon sign is Sagittarius. So that's why he's so extroverted I guess. At the beginning I knew astrology said these two signs aren't the best match but I thought astrology was bullshit. Well, i think it could be true to some degree now that I see our differences. I will try to understand his personality more but I think it will be hard since I'm the opposite of him. Wish me luck!!! I will hold off on having children at least a year and see how the marriage goes. Sad
Do yourself a favor, and don't rely on astrology solely to explain behaviors.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by SillyScorp89
Before we were married he was also social but I thought he was gling to be more serious once committed. Because once married things are supposed to change and there are boundaries when it comes to the opposite sex. It's common sense! But I guess he's mentality is different than mine. He talks to males too. It's not just females but I still don't understand the need to talk to many women, especially new women he doesn't know. I guess him and I are completely different people with different mindsets. I might have to work on communicating more with him. If that doesn't work I'll try counseling. I'm 28 and my husband is 36
Ah, 28. The most common age to get married because of "the clock."


So you chose to ignore the obvious and married dude anyway and are now crying about it. Mkay.
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Saturn return panic

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Posted by Astrology101
Hmm well it is in aquas nature to talk a lot.


They also seek friends... But they are committed people.


How old are you both?


Why are you feeling disappointed? Is it because he chose to talk with other girls... or is there more to it?


Plus he has already told he won't talk to other girls...


You should try and forgive him.



It's his nature to talk about things and ideas.. and telling him not to do that would be like telling him not to be himself. And for that he might hold some grudge against you... maybe. He might not too.. but there is a possibility he could.


But I can see he is trying... so try and build that trust.


Has he given you some reason to believe that he might cheat on you?

well i dont seek friends, for a female,


but i like intelligent and deep conversations of analyzing and dissecting characters. of books/plays and motives/motivations.


so if this guy isn't getting that from her...but then again WHY only women???


that is the weird part. If he's talking and chatting up with his guy friends.

about fishing or mechanical work or manly stuff.


but he's talking to women!!


what about?? Confused their monthly periods?


edit - i mean if it's not for work, or just a general thing, why only women? wouldnt you be suspicious??
Because guys only talk about fishing and women only talk about how they bleed once a month. Are women not allowed to like fishing of mechanical work in your mind??
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um, to be honest, i like to talk to women about make up, dresses, bargains and astrology stuff too,


and yes i'm very old fashioned. I dont really talk to men unless they are gay and talk about fashion and girly stuff.


i dont want to listen to fishing stories and mechannical stuff. that's so boring. i'm just girly.
i know similarly how you feel. it stays with you and comes back from time to time even when time has passed. the feeling of betrayal really takes a toll on someone
Posted by SillyScorp89
Okay, sorry I haven't responded but I was busy yesterday. As I said before he can talk to other females but what concerns me is that he talks to them frequently. And this could lead to an emotional affair if he doesn't control himself. Let me give you some examples of things he has done. We went out with some friends and there was a random girl who we didn't know. She took a picture of us with her professional camera that she brought with her that day. She exchanged Facebook with my husband to send him the picture. After she send it now my husband says hi to her on the messenger and wants to get to know her more. Why?? Can't he just be more serious and only contact her when there's a need to do it. But he wants to establish a connection with her. Another day he also found a random girl online that gave him some work information. He never met her in person and he told me he wanted to add her on Facebook. I became suspicious because I know he's very social and outgoing and I didn't agree. But he insisted and insisted. To me it's not normal. In the end I let him be friends with her so I didn't seem like a freaky wife and I was right!!!!! He started messaging her and creating a friendship with this woman too. So this is why I feel betrayed. I feel like he wants to have a bond with every woman he meets. Then why is he with me? I thought I was enough for him.

If he wants female friends he can have them but I deserve to have male friends too. So far he's been the only man in my life. There hasn't been anyone else! But if I'm not expecting the same thing in return then I don't feel valued and respected.



you're making a connection with all of us talking about your husband too. but honestly, would you not have seen him before getting serious? Confused like watch him like a hawk, observe his interactions with people? I surree would. I mean i dont really actively think...oh i'm gonna see if he does this, but while you're dating, you tend to watch what they do and how they treat people when they meet them, ect.


maybe he is doing this for work? what does he do for a living?

Yes, now you see the differences Just learn to accept him for what he is. Do not be afraid. You should have done this before marriage, but anyway.. do no doubt him. He is your man.
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Posted by shellyBwell
As a female aqua I can tell you now you need to communicate your true feelings to him. My ex scorp and I had problems in this same area because he didn't want me having or even thinking to befriending any firends of the opposite sex while we were together. I can honestly tell you that aquas once commited are very loyal. We are very sociable people and enjoy having a good time. I can tell you from my point of view you scorps definitely have a tendency to create a buzz kill when you come off so serious when you don't have to be at times. We love you with all our hearts but we just want you guys to be more welcoming to some great fun. even if its just the two of us just add some fun and i promise seeking this outside of it won't be the case. I can tell you he was seeking what was lacking.. friendship wise.
Oh, really? Scorpios are fun killers?

Only when someone rips their skin off!

It's no fun because it hurts!!!

Aqua need to find another 'fun loving' Aqua who will be happy to find a real date while he is on FB befriending women.


When he wakes up - I hope they'll have a laugh together!!!
Yes, scorps tend to be too freaking serious! She's upset at him messaging other women which I'm not saying is wrong at all! She has a right to feel that way but she also needs to let it go if it has been addressed and he understood that that was and never will be acceptable.once it has been addressed,talk to him about the real root of the issue which Is not those women but why he feels like he has to reach out to other women the way he has. Every action in a relationship causes a reaction and it's about how you communicate to fix it. Scorps hold grudges which cause even more issues which leave us aquas confused as to why you are acting as if you hate us. We make mistakes just like y'all do.. only difference we know when to let go when y'all don't. He didn't cheat on her and I'm pretty sure he realizes it was wrong esp. if he loves her. Like a said aquas once committed arebvery loyal.When a scorp and Aquarius get together the sparks fly positively and negatively because we hold different pov's in everything.

It's easy to keep Scorpio happy.

Just love them. And you will get more than you give. 24/7

You talk as if it's a sure walk in the part when it surely is not. I pretty much went above and beyond for my ex scorp to keep him happy 24/7 but the moment he started holding grudges and allowing his bad vibes and extremely high expectations for no reason to control how he interacted with me pushed me away. If She continues to do that towards him he will become even more defensive towards her. I honestly can't speak if he'd cheat but it will push the room and space for him to fantasize outside their relationship because this will make him miserable to be around her

I'd Scorpio doesn't love you - you can't keep him happy. A lot of men of all signs just park anywhere until closer parking spot will become available. If he is with you at the moment it doesn't mean he is with you forever.
Yea, sure.. lol I know for a fact that it was a forever thing with me.. he got pissed I broke up with and after talking to you I have gained a full scope and understanding of it all now. My scorp doesn't plan on returning to be out of fear that I'll hurt him again. The main reason he reached out was because his heart didn't want to completely be separate from me not knowing whether I hated him or even looked at him funny after I left because of him flirting outside our relationship! Now that he knows I still love him and even think about reuniting this has boosted his ego and made him feel better about his self and the breakup so now in a sick way he wants me to feel some type of way but guest what I no longer care and in due time when it's hits him when he reaches out agin it will be a done deal... my ex scorp was there for years and even yelled at me how hurt he was that I left because this was forever for so I'm not worried about what your saying you don't know shyt about my life lol...✌️
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...and I still don't know sheet about your life after this rambling. You are obviously disturbed and need break from everybody.

I wish you peace and tranquility.

Posted by GC01
Posted by shellyBwell
Posted by GC01
I had the same problem with my libra when we first got together (5 years ago), being a cancer girl I was furious!!!! Some of the girls were girls he used to chase after (before me), and try to hang out with when we would argue, and talk about our problems with.

I swear when I found those msgs my head could have spun around.

I trust him completly now after us talking openly and honestly about respecting each other's boundaries, in fact I trust him more than ever.

A little trust and respect can go a long way with air signs.
Honestly I feel like if I would've went the route you did in my last relationship instead of breaking up would've made a difference but since I took another route I guess I'll have to learn from this in my next relationship down the line.. happy yours worked out

Everything happens for a reason. Maybe you knew in your heart he wouldn't change?
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Yea I know he won't change and that's why I ended mines but deep down I wanted him even though I knew he wouldn't change and I think that why with my situation he was able to talk to me only twice and have me chasing him as I did before smh but I've backed off since then we'll since 2 days ago lol..

Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.
Posted by -elle-
We feel what we feel so I'm not going to tell you that you are one thing or another.


I am going to tell you this is all *you* and has nothing to do with him whatsoever.


These are your internal trust issues and possible insecurities showing their ugly head.


You feel that the trust is gone or broken and you are unable to connect with him intimately because of this.


Not to worry though, you are the one in the driver's seat with this...not him. It's not his fault nor his responsibility to make you feel a certain way about anything....you have to accept full responsibilty for your feels and stop projecting them on him.


feel betrayed? okay then.....feel betrayed....but then give yourself permission to stop feeling that way as well.


what does it really solve to sit in that cesspool for longer than you need to? serves nothing. it's been two years.....and I won't get into to the fact that none of this should have even mattered in the first place.


start doing things to boost your own self esteem....do things that make you feel good that are independent of him. even if it's small....go to a movie or out to eat...go for a walk.


it appears you are becoming too dependent on him which, in turns, projects that he must feel the same way or it all becomes "tainted" and you start feeling disgust.


a partner is not a merged soul with ourselves...they are still separate people. they have their own arms, legs, toes and mind. when you start depending and trusting your own feelings....you won't be so dependent on him 'making' you feel a certain way.


don't know if that make sense.


you'll get the trust back....you just have to allow yourself to.
Your post makes me think you haven't been in relationships nor married.

That's just a wild guess and I am sure you will said otherwise.

If so - than you never been in love. Period.
Husbands and their wives

must have separate time.

They also must have trust.


If he never gave you reason

to feel as if he would cheat,

then believe in his innocence.

Some people are very sociable

due to their various interests.


Do not be the venom

of your relationship.
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by -elle-
We feel what we feel so I'm not going to tell you that you are one thing or another.


I am going to tell you this is all *you* and has nothing to do with him whatsoever.


These are your internal trust issues and possible insecurities showing their ugly head.


You feel that the trust is gone or broken and you are unable to connect with him intimately because of this.


Not to worry though, you are the one in the driver's seat with this...not him. It's not his fault nor his responsibility to make you feel a certain way about anything....you have to accept full responsibilty for your feels and stop projecting them on him.


feel betrayed? okay then.....feel betrayed....but then give yourself permission to stop feeling that way as well.


what does it really solve to sit in that cesspool for longer than you need to? serves nothing. it's been two years.....and I won't get into to the fact that none of this should have even mattered in the first place.


start doing things to boost your own self esteem....do things that make you feel good that are independent of him. even if it's small....go to a movie or out to eat...go for a walk.


it appears you are becoming too dependent on him which, in turns, projects that he must feel the same way or it all becomes "tainted" and you start feeling disgust.


a partner is not a merged soul with ourselves...they are still separate people. they have their own arms, legs, toes and mind. when you start depending and trusting your own feelings....you won't be so dependent on him 'making' you feel a certain way.


don't know if that make sense.


you'll get the trust back....you just have to allow yourself to.
Your post makes me think you haven't been in relationships nor married.

That's just a wild guess and I am sure you will said otherwise.

If so - than you never been in love. Period.
Never been married. Never been in relationsips. Never been in love.


Could I be so lucky?

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I would refrain from performing a surgery without attending medical school.

But that's me. You probably would cut deep! LOL
This is a difficult situation to be in. Unfortunately you two sound incompatible. No, I most definitely don't agree with the idea that Aqua/ Scorp relationships are doomed because I've seen them work for many years. I applaud the many Scorpio women who opinions differ from the OP's because it shows not all Scorps are the same. I truly deem this is a matter of lack of communication and insecurity versus a matter of incompatibility based on sun signs. Here's my observation:

1. He's very social, and was before marriage. There wasn't a discussion had about boundaries before marriage that should change after marriage so you figured it was "common sense" to change after marriage. Common sense isn't always so common and differing point of views would think differently because if you don't communicate with me that I can't have opposite sex friends.... I wouldn't know. So is it really his fault the discussion wasn't had? (Lack of communication)

2. He's wrong in my opinion for seeking new conversations out of the blue with random women, but once you discussed you didn't like it... it's to assume he stopped. Once he wanted to add another friend, he asked your permission. This doesn't exactly exhibit the behavior of someone who's trying to be shady. It appears as if he's trying to build trust with you. However, you're rejecting his attempt at building trust and getting more upset. It seems you just don't want to have any female friends even when he's honest with you about it. This probably confuses him. (Insecurity)

3. You expect him to know how you feel. You're going to continue to feel disgusted and he's going to continue to feel and emotional connection void because you're disgusted and not connecting with him .... if you don't open up to him it could lead you both to cheat.


Bottom line: was he wrong at first... yes. But did he know he was wrong, probably not and when you told him he attempted to fix it, but you're still upset with him. So until you open up more and explain to him how you feel and attempt to honestly work on it... then this will be an issue. I feel for both of you honestly.


Oh and I'll continue to say this.... not all Aquas are cheating liars who need freedom. Please stop generalizing based on your screwed experience either with a screwed up Aqua or you may just be the screwed one.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by SillyScorp89
Before we were married he was also social but I thought he was gling to be more serious once committed. Because once married things are supposed to change and there are boundaries when it comes to the opposite sex. It's common sense! But I guess he's mentality is different than mine. He talks to males too. It's not just females but I still don't understand the need to talk to many women, especially new women he doesn't know. I guess him and I are completely different people with different mindsets. I might have to work on communicating more with him. If that doesn't work I'll try counseling. I'm 28 and my husband is 36
Ah, 28. The most common age to get married because of "the clock."


So you chose to ignore the obvious and married dude anyway and are now crying about it. Mkay.


Saturn return panic

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The other day, I'd heard about some study done where the average age women get married is like 28-29 and 36 is the most common age that they cheat, if they cheat.


Which is funny because my brother and I were talking about the crazy shit some women do in regard to desperation to be in a relationship and he said he'd noticed this trend with women- panicking in their late 20s because omg need to get married/settle down!!!

Posted by -elle-
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by -elle-
We feel what we feel so I'm not going to tell you that you are one thing or another.


I am going to tell you this is all *you* and has nothing to do with him whatsoever.


These are your internal trust issues and possible insecurities showing their ugly head.


You feel that the trust is gone or broken and you are unable to connect with him intimately because of this.


Not to worry though, you are the one in the driver's seat with this...not him. It's not his fault nor his responsibility to make you feel a certain way about anything....you have to accept full responsibilty for your feels and stop projecting them on him.


feel betrayed? okay then.....feel betrayed....but then give yourself permission to stop feeling that way as well.


what does it really solve to sit in that cesspool for longer than you need to? serves nothing. it's been two years.....and I won't get into to the fact that none of this should have even mattered in the first place.


start doing things to boost your own self esteem....do things that make you feel good that are independent of him. even if it's small....go to a movie or out to eat...go for a walk.


it appears you are becoming too dependent on him which, in turns, projects that he must feel the same way or it all becomes "tainted" and you start feeling disgust.


a partner is not a merged soul with ourselves...they are still separate people. they have their own arms, legs, toes and mind. when you start depending and trusting your own feelings....you won't be so dependent on him 'making' you feel a certain way.


don't know if that make sense.


you'll get the trust back....you just have to allow yourself to.
Your post makes me think you haven't been in relationships nor married.

That's just a wild guess and I am sure you will said otherwise.

If so - than you never been in love. Period.
Never been married. Never been in relationsips. Never been in love.


Could I be so lucky?

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wait...you're joking right? hard online. lol
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

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Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

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I'm not the Scorp who

fucked you over in life.

You have unsolved issues.

Scorpio bashing sad troll.

Take your nonsense out

on the one who made you

bitter and miserable.


Stop being a coward who

lashes out at strangers.

We have nothing to do

with your personal life.
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Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
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Surely his attempt is obvious.

You cannot make fun of those

who are not bothered by idiots.

Not my fault he lacks intelligence

and will to get over his issues.

Lacking self awareness he is.


Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

I'm not the Scorp who

fucked you over in life.

You have unsolved issues.

Scorpio bashing sad troll.

Take your nonsense out

on the one who made you

bitter and miserable.


Stop being a coward who

lashes out at strangers.

We have nothing to do

with your personal life.


Butthurt and projection:

How they make you unbecoming.

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Let's just turn that mirror

and reflect it on yourself.

All your nastiness is old

and borderline comical.
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Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
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Instigate not.


Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

I'm not the Scorp who

fucked you over in life.

You have unsolved issues.

Scorpio bashing sad troll.

Take your nonsense out

on the one who made you

bitter and miserable.


Stop being a coward who

lashes out at strangers.

We have nothing to do

with your personal life.


Butthurt and projection:

How they make you unbecoming.

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You worried about me too much

instead of fixing your broken heart.

Were you abandoned at the alter or

damaged to the point of insanity?

Every post of yours reflects pain.

But continue to blame others.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Surely his attempt is obvious.

You cannot make fun of those

who are not bothered by idiots.

Not my fault he lacks intelligence

and will to get over his issues.

Lacking self awareness he is.




I'm opening my mouth again

You're making me yawn...


... again.

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Good.

Then take a nap.

Find some worth.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

I'm not the Scorp who

fucked you over in life.

You have unsolved issues.

Scorpio bashing sad troll.

Take your nonsense out

on the one who made you

bitter and miserable.


Stop being a coward who

lashes out at strangers.

We have nothing to do

with your personal life.


Butthurt and projection:

How they make you unbecoming.

Let's just turn that mirror

and reflect it on yourself.

All your nastiness is old

and borderline comical.


The basic fundamentals

Of astrology

Continue to elude you.

So, why are you here?

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You assume I came for

some basic astrology.

Don't worry about my

reason for being here.


What great astrologic

wisdom do you depart?

Mainly insults you post.

Why are you here, child?
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Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
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Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

I'm not the Scorp who

fucked you over in life.

You have unsolved issues.

Scorpio bashing sad troll.

Take your nonsense out

on the one who made you

bitter and miserable.


Stop being a coward who

lashes out at strangers.

We have nothing to do

with your personal life.


Butthurt and projection:

How they make you unbecoming.

Let's just turn that mirror

and reflect it on yourself.

All your nastiness is old

and borderline comical.


The basic fundamentals

Of astrology

Continue to elude you.

So, why are you here?

You assume I came for

some basic astrology.

Don't worry about my

reason for being here.


What great astrologic

wisdom do you depart?

Mainly insults you post.

Why are you here, child?


How you amuse me.

Your reaction

Is so predictable.

Only you are offended.

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It take more than a coward

behind a screen to offend me.

Your trolling is not very good.

It's just the same old things.

Scorpio hurt me so here I go

to cry about Scorp strangers.


I have some left over hankies.

My kids won't mind if you have.

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Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

click to expand
I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

click to expand
I made a promise.

Not any threats.


Some of you think it's ok

to treat others any way.

I stand my ground always.

Paint me however you wish.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

click to expand
Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

click to expand
He also says he does not need

another man worrying about him.

He always asks where is your wife?

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

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My husband says that

he will go out and buy

you an extra case of

the hankies, special.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

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He did not have to buy you anything.

Don't be an insolent child, thank him.

Arigatou, Mr. Tachibana for hankies.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

click to expand
My husband says what remedy

did you use to heal all the hurt

in your ass? It was not enough.


The entire house is laughing now.

Thank you for free entertainment.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

My husband says that

he will go out and buy

you an extra case of

the hankies, special.


Of course he will.

After all,

He'll need some himself,

After watching some porn.

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My husband says your comments

are becoming more concerned with

what's inside of his pants.


He says reason why you have no woman

and why you seem to hate them, confirmed.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

My husband says what remedy

did you use to heal all the hurt

in your ass? It was not enough.


The entire house is laughing now.

Thank you for free entertainment.


dxp is for entertainment.

Did you not realise that?

Or maybe you are

Too butthurt to realise.

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He asks why you keep mentioning butts?

He says the perversion is ever revealing.

Really I do not make up his words at all.

Mr. Tachibana says to go out and find

your boyfriend to heal your backside.

Maybe all your frustrations will heal.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

My husband says that

he will go out and buy

you an extra case of

the hankies, special.


Of course he will.

After all,

He'll need some himself,

After watching some porn.

My husband says your comments

are becoming more concerned with

what's inside of his pants.


He says reason why you have no woman

and why you seem to hate them, confirmed.



Maybe you should spend more time

With your devoted husband,

Instead of arguing over someone

Who has made you butthurt.

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Mr. Tachibana says you will get

your damn hankies soon enough.

He wishes your crying to finally end.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

My husband says that

he will go out and buy

you an extra case of

the hankies, special.


Of course he will.

After all,

He'll need some himself,

After watching some porn.

My husband says your comments

are becoming more concerned with

what's inside of his pants.


He says reason why you have no woman

and why you seem to hate them, confirmed.



Maybe you should spend more time

With your devoted husband,

Instead of arguing over someone

Who has made you butthurt.

click to expand




But we are spending time together

laughing at your foreign nonsense.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

My husband says what remedy

did you use to heal all the hurt

in your ass? It was not enough.


The entire house is laughing now.

Thank you for free entertainment.


dxp is for entertainment.

Did you not realise that?

Or maybe you are

Too butthurt to realise.

He asks why you keep mentioning butts?

He says the perversion is ever revealing.

Really I do not make up his words at all.

Mr. Tachibana says to go out and find

your boyfriend to heal your backside.

Maybe all your frustrations will heal.


You do realise that you have exhibited

All the vindictive traits of a typical Scorpio.

You have only contradicted yourself,

Whilst looking very foolish.


Sayōnara, butthurt fool.

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My husband says don't forget

your hankies for all the cream

for your butt you will get later.

Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
Stating the obvious

is not needed ever.

Instigating it was.

Mind your business

or you will be my new

focus when I am done

with idiot number one.


Now you relax and do

go find a life while at it.



You make threats,

For having an opinion

On a public forum.

Hello, true colours!

I still have those hankies.

Stop bleeding and crying.



Your husband

Is one very unlucky man.

Still have those hankies for you.

My husband laughed at your post.

He asks why you sound like a girl?



Please continue.

Get all that butthurt

Out of your system...

Until tomorrow.

My husband says what remedy

did you use to heal all the hurt

in your ass? It was not enough.


The entire house is laughing now.

Thank you for free entertainment.


dxp is for entertainment.

Did you not realise that?

Or maybe you are

Too butthurt to realise.

He asks why you keep mentioning butts?

He says the perversion is ever revealing.

Really I do not make up his words at all.

Mr. Tachibana says to go out and find

your boyfriend to heal your backside.

Maybe all your frustrations will heal.


You do realise that you have exhibited

All the vindictive traits of a typical Scorpio.

You have only contradicted yourself,

Whilst looking very foolish.


Sayōnara, butthurt fool.

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Too stupid to realize

we don't use Western

astrology in the East.
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Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Surely his attempt is obvious.

You cannot make fun of those

who are not bothered by idiots.

Not my fault he lacks intelligence

and will to get over his issues.

Lacking self awareness he is.


Sure thing Yoda

User Submitted Image

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I have your Yoda,

Chewbacca.

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Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Instigate not.


Instigating I was not

Stating the obvious I was

Relax, you may
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Now that one smoke cleared,

where is the other idiot that

I wish to lay into?


I do not hear your chirping now.
You are not being irrational, but true to yourself. Sorry if I didn't go through all answers, but I want to add something if it hasn't said aleady.


Some people say we first feel and then we look for "rational" explanations to why we feel like that. If his behaviour disgusts you...no amount of "rational" input will make you FEEL differently.


On the other hand, he stopped doing it once you asked him to. Why don't you FEEL proud of what you achieved?
I have no constructive advice to give to the OP because it's all been given but I fucking loved the poetically poised roasting by @tachibanasun Bravo ?


In all seriousness OP, just talk to your husband. Like you I'm guilty of complicating things by not communicating but I would 100% trust your gut.
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by VampScorp

I have no constructive advice to give to the OP because it's all been given but I fucking loved the poetically poised roasting by @tachibanasun Bravo ?



Roasting...?! LOL!


It was more like humourous antagonism that severely missed the mark..

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Where I'm from, someone who is being roasted should take the jokes/insults in good humour.


Anyway I found it very funny, which was my point of 'roasting', but whatever you think/say/feel.


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Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Fire
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
Posted by TachibanaSan
Posted by Gob_Shite
When are Scorpio women ever rational?

Who hurt you?

Go get them,

not all of us.


Oldest trick in the book,

Self-awareness you lack.

Butthurt and childish

You are.

Says the hypocrite idiot who

holds grudges to strangers

just because of their sign.

You ultimate hurt ass child.

But keep missing the irony.
He was making fun of how you write lol
Surely his attempt is obvious.

You cannot make fun of those

who are not bothered by idiots.

Not my fault he lacks intelligence

and will to get over his issues.

Lacking self awareness he is.


MY JAPANESE QUEEN WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?!!! Hug Girl, dont pay any mind to that whack a troll. Him and other motherfuckers just want attention. Probably living in their mom's basement, mad about their failures in life. His sour grapes dont make you any less sweet. Don't feed the troll.

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You praise me too much.

Arigatou gozaimasu dear.

Lol I do not feed trolls any.

I merely bat them around.

He needs attention. And what he should have done instead of going online and making female friends is letting you know "hey babe, i need more attention from you." I believe if he did that from the beginning instead of trying to make you jealous, which male aquarius can me guilty of, you wouldn't be as withdrawn as you are now.


You both need to communicate more.


Take your space and decided whether or not its something that you think you'll ever be able to fully get over. considering he hasn't cheated or shown signs of wanting to. If you love him and believe you can. sit and have a talk with him. don't keep any feelings hostage. Initially it will be a lot for him but he will love the straight forwardness.


He's chasing you, he wants you.

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