I have a question for all the scorpio men out there ****

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by librarenee on Thursday, August 31, 2017 and has 32 replies.
I'm a libra girl and I've been knowing my scorpio for about a year now but we didn't really start getting serious until June. It's been pretty rocky because of his jealous and possessive ways but I try to reassure him that I only want to be with him and no one else. However, we have been back and fourth because of lack of trust and communication. I am doing everything I can to try and understand my Scorpio lover cause I want to be with him.

Almost the entire month of August I didn't see him up until this last weekend when he invited me over to his friends house to watch the fight and he brought over his cousin and really good friends. Some of them I know some of them I just met. While we were at the party everything was fine I was mostly interacting with his cousins girlfriend and he was interacting with his boys.

There was another guy there who saw that I was taking shots with my Scorpio and his friends. He immediately wanted to know why I forgot to take a shot with him. Never knew or talked to this man till the night of the fight, FYI.

My Scorpio immediately became enraged when he saw the guy give me a shot and do a toast. It got so bad, I started to leave. But he eventually pulled me to the side and apologized about his behavior and said he was a Scorpio and he doesn't want to see me talk to anyone or anyone talk to me. He just went from 0-1000. His friend were even saying they would talk to him and were trying to calm him down because he just lost it that quick.

We all ended up going to a club which turned out to be fun. I stayed by my scorpio and he stayed by my side all night. Even when we went to the bathroom, he waited for me.

As we were getting ready to leave... drama happens as I was waving down a uber driver. My scorpio wasn't that far away from me. Some random guy runs past me and grabs my butt as if he stole cookie out of a jar. I didn't see who it was because it happened so fast! But my scorpio did and he immediately walked up to the guy and pushes him. Tells him that im his girl. They immediately begin fighting! The fight was so bad my scorpio ended up with a black eye.

The reason why my scorpio was avoiding to see me the month of August was because I believe he might've been seeing someone else or getting to know a different women. I just don't know how he really feels... how can my scorpio not see me the entire month of august but than when we do see each other he invites me to things that involve family and close friends and than end up fighting that same night.

I guess I am just wondering what kind of game is he playing. Is he leading me on? What's motive for me?

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He could be playing you tbh. Him getting so jealous doesn't necessary mean that he cares so deeply, Scorpios simlpy don't share.
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WTH? His response to his jealous behavior is that he's a Scorpio? Who says that irl?! I've known Scorpios to be jealous, but I've rarely seen them make a fool of themselves. They'll do something like demand you guys leave the party or club and argue about it all the way on the way home and still at the house. After they get their point across they'll ignore you for a period to reflect if they want to continue this relationship or not. They may quiet stalk you to see what you do when they're not around or obsesss consistently in their head why people keep approaching their spouse and get even more angry. I don't think this is a Scorp issue, but an immaturity issue. He's not even "intense" he's crazy. How in the hell do you start the fight, but end up with the black eye? If you start it you better be able to back it up.
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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
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Posted by EnochtheWise
He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
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That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
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And for OP - don't dig into what's going on?

If like you said you love him and want to be with him - learn how to BE with him and deal with his crazies.

It should stop after he is about 40. If you going to make it this far. Good luck!

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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
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Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

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And for OP - don't dig into what's going on?

If like you said you love him and want to be with him - learn how to BE with him and deal with his crazies.

It should stop after he is about 40. If you going to make it this far. Good luck!

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Hold on.... you're supposed to be the older wiser one and you're giving her advice to just deal with this? Like continue to deal with this drama?! Seriously? There's other more mature ways this could be handled. I guess it's true.... age doesn't equal maturity. All common sense isn't common either.
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Posted by EnochtheWise
He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

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Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
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Posted by EnochtheWise
He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
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You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

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And for OP - don't dig into what's going on?

If like you said you love him and want to be with him - learn how to BE with him and deal with his crazies.

It should stop after he is about 40. If you going to make it this far. Good luck!

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Hold on.... you're supposed to be the older wiser one and you're giving her advice to just deal with this? Like continue to deal with this drama?! Seriously? There's other more mature ways this could be handled. I guess it's true.... age doesn't equal maturity. All common sense isn't common either.
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Scorpios mature with age.

I don't advise her to deal with it.

But I know just too well how is it pointless to tell someone in love to end it, dump him, save yourself...IT DOESNT WORK!

This is why instead of advising someone on how to dealing with person they love - best way is to let them DEAL with it!

If they can - they would.

If they can't - they will walk, run, crawl...out of this. But telling them what to do is POINTLESS!
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And for OP - don't dig into what's going on?

If like you said you love him and want to be with him - learn how to BE with him and deal with his crazies.

It should stop after he is about 40. If you going to make it this far. Good luck!

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Hold on.... you're supposed to be the older wiser one and you're giving her advice to just deal with this? Like continue to deal with this drama?! Seriously? There's other more mature ways this could be handled. I guess it's true.... age doesn't equal maturity. All common sense isn't common either.
Scorpios mature with age.

I don't advise her to deal with it.

But I know just too well how is it pointless to tell someone in love to end it, dump him, save yourself...IT DOESNT WORK!

This is why instead of advising someone on how to dealing with person they love - best way is to let them DEAL with it!

If they can - they would.

If they can't - they will walk, run, crawl...out of this. But telling them what to do is POINTLESS!
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Hmmmm ?In your own way it kind of makes logical sense.

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Posted by EnochtheWise
He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

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I am not taking it personal. I just want to understand what does it mean 'don't come back with a black eye'!

Seems like you just can't explain your own saying.
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Everything about this situation is NO.

JFC
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Op, Gemitati has made me reflect (I'm very reflective). If you're in love with this guy.... sit him down and tell him how his possessive and jealous ways may ruin you guys relationship if it continues in the way it has. Tell him that you appreciate him sticking up for you, but dont want him to misconstrue sticking up for you when it counts into just starting things with other people aimlessly. I'd also bring up the fact that he went missing for a month and tell him that didn't make you feel good. Explain to him it's not fair for him to go missing and come back all vigilante about you guys relationship. I hope this helps a little.
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lol I do get jealous but not that jealous. He's got issues of being immature at the moment don't know if he'll change as he gets older so it's a toss up. And also keep in mind he's definitely not going to change for anyone he calls the shots.
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Op, Gemitati has made me reflect (I'm very reflective). If you're in love with this guy.... sit him down and tell him how his possessive and jealous ways may ruin you guys relationship if it continues in the way it has. Tell him that you appreciate him sticking up for you, but dont want him to misconstrue sticking up for you when it counts into just starting things with other people aimlessly. I'd also bring up the fact that he went missing for a month and tell him that didn't make you feel good. Explain to him it's not fair for him to go missing and come back all vigilante about you guys relationship. I hope this helps a little.
NO! Don't sit him down and DONT tell him anything! Because Scorpios knows everything better and don't need anybody's advice on anything...

Any other sign - go ahead, I don't know, don't care, whatever!

With Scorpio if you can't deal with him - RUN!!! Telling him what to do means HE will run (he will not actually run - he will agree with you and dissapear) so - its lose/lose situation.

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Scorps mature with age?

I think most of them go crazier and close minded as time goes by.

And sounds like this scorp is going to this very direction if he continues to date libras LOL.

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Posted by EnochtheWise
He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

I am not taking it personal. I just want to understand what does it mean 'don't come back with a black eye'!

Seems like you just can't explain your own saying.
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Oh I can explain it perfectly fine. I think I have already. In my opinion, I don't think it's wise to start something and then come back with a black eye. If he didn't expect the person to be bigger and stronger, then he shouldn't have approached it in ever way. It could've turned out much worse and way more dangerous. In the past I've been with my ex, guys have come up to me while he's stepped away to the restroom or what have you, and he'd calmly say, "hey this is my wife. I'm glad you find her attractive, but she's taken." Now he's a natural charmer and a lot of guys liked him, so I guess it hard for me to understand because he wasn't confrontational, but man that didn't even know him wouldn't mess with me when we're out: I just don't find it a good look that if you're the one starting it you come back with a black eye as if you lost the fight. Yes, frhr guy was wrong for touching her butt, but to just say "that's my girlfriend" and push him is asinine to me. He could've said, " hey it's disrespectful to touch women who you don't know or know if they belong to someone. Btw the woman you just touched is mine". The guy may have been more thrown off by the fact he didn't fight or how he came to him with it. But since her boyfriend pushed him first.... it gave the other guy no choice but to protect himself.

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I can't argue with crazy. You just want to argue today. Go find someone else. I'd have to disagree with your assessment of not conversing with a Scorp. I'm not saying tell them what to do, but I have several Scorp friends, a Scorp father, Scorp exes and an interested Scorp. All of them have said they appreciate me because I'm upfront with them and they haven't disappeared for good. They may dissapear for a day, but at the most that's it. I think they respect the maturity and honesty more than just putting up with it. They can't truly respect someone who just lets them get their way, but to each its own. You're the Scorp guru ?.
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I can't argue with crazy. You just want to argue today. Go find someone else. I'd have to disagree with your assessment of not conversing with a Scorp. I'm not saying tell them what to do, but I have several Scorp friends, a Scorp father, Scorp exes and an interested Scorp. All of them have said they appreciate me because I'm upfront with them and they haven't disappeared for good. They may dissapear for a day, but at the most that's it. I think they respect the maturity and honesty more than just putting up with it. They can't truly respect someone who just lets them get their way, but to each its own. You're the Scorp guru ?.
If you're upfront yes it's well appreciated.

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I'd day you listen to him.

Scorpios are regularly implosive, and they go explosive foe 2 reasons. They has a lot of mars influence in his chart or this has been too much for him.

Scorps are not jelous, they are possessive with their partners, and it seems to me that you have allowed this drama to grow bigger. And to make evident that how possessive he is in front of his friends... is only going to make things worse. I'm not saying that he's a saint. I'm telling you that you should really listen to him.

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I don't think he's playing you I could go for months without saying a word and just show up like nothing happened. Just try to talk to him and be upfront like wineaux15 said you'll never know he prolly has doubts about you like you do with him.
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I don't think he's playing you I could go for months without saying a word and just show up like nothing happened. Just try to talk to him and be upfront like wineaux15 said you'll never know he prolly has doubts about you like you do with him.
I agree
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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

I am not taking it personal. I just want to understand what does it mean 'don't come back with a black eye'!

Seems like you just can't explain your own saying.


Oh I can explain it perfectly fine. I think I have already. In my opinion, I don't think it's wise to start something and then come back with a black eye. If he didn't expect the person to be bigger and stronger, then he shouldn't have approached it in ever way. It could've turned out much worse and way more dangerous. In the past I've been with my ex, guys have come up to me while he's stepped away to the restroom or what have you, and he'd calmly say, "hey this is my wife. I'm glad you find her attractive, but she's taken." Now he's a natural charmer and a lot of guys liked him, so I guess it hard for me to understand because he wasn't confrontational, but man that didn't even know him wouldn't mess with me when we're out: I just don't find it a good look that if you're the one starting it you come back with a black eye as if you lost the fight. Yes, frhr guy was wrong for touching her butt, but to just say "that's my girlfriend" and push him is asinine to me. He could've said, " hey it's disrespectful to touch women who you don't know or know if they belong to someone. Btw the woman you just touched is mine". The guy may have been more thrown off by the fact he didn't fight or how he came to him with it. But since her boyfriend pushed him first.... it gave the other guy no choice but to protect himself.

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Yep! Random stranger touches her butt. You come to him and say 'excuse me, this was not an appropriate move on your case and in general disrespectful to all women kind. Would that be too much to ask of you to apologize to my gf (who no one knew she HAD a bf)...but if you don't feel like apologizing may I have your permission to apologize to her FROM you because I am afraid if I punch you in...basically anywhere - I might get defeated and will get a black eye or hurt balls which I wouldn't be happy to get and...I'll buy you a drink or pay for your cab...'

FK WHAT??? Scorpio would be small and weak physically (not that I've met one) and he will fight anyway!

You millennials...darn!!!

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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

I am not taking it personal. I just want to understand what does it mean 'don't come back with a black eye'!

Seems like you just can't explain your own saying.


Oh I can explain it perfectly fine. I think I have already. In my opinion, I don't think it's wise to start something and then come back with a black eye. If he didn't expect the person to be bigger and stronger, then he shouldn't have approached it in ever way. It could've turned out much worse and way more dangerous. In the past I've been with my ex, guys have come up to me while he's stepped away to the restroom or what have you, and he'd calmly say, "hey this is my wife. I'm glad you find her attractive, but she's taken." Now he's a natural charmer and a lot of guys liked him, so I guess it hard for me to understand because he wasn't confrontational, but man that didn't even know him wouldn't mess with me when we're out: I just don't find it a good look that if you're the one starting it you come back with a black eye as if you lost the fight. Yes, frhr guy was wrong for touching her butt, but to just say "that's my girlfriend" and push him is asinine to me. He could've said, " hey it's disrespectful to touch women who you don't know or know if they belong to someone. Btw the woman you just touched is mine". The guy may have been more thrown off by the fact he didn't fight or how he came to him with it. But since her boyfriend pushed him first.... it gave the other guy no choice but to protect himself.

Yep! Random stranger touches her butt. You come to him and say 'excuse me, this was not an appropriate move on your case and in general disrespectful to all women kind. Would that be too much to ask of you to apologize to my gf (who no one knew she HAD a bf)...but if you don't feel like apologizing may I have your permission to apologize to her FROM you because I am afraid if I punch you in...basically anywhere - I might get defeated and will get a black eye or hurt balls which I wouldn't be happy to get and...I'll buy you a drink or pay for your cab...'

FK WHAT??? Scorpio would be small and weak physically (not that I've met one) and he will fight anyway!

You millennials...darn!!!

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WTF, that's not what I was saying at all. But I'm done. This conversation with you is over.
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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

I am not taking it personal. I just want to understand what does it mean 'don't come back with a black eye'!

Seems like you just can't explain your own saying.


Oh I can explain it perfectly fine. I think I have already. In my opinion, I don't think it's wise to start something and then come back with a black eye. If he didn't expect the person to be bigger and stronger, then he shouldn't have approached it in ever way. It could've turned out much worse and way more dangerous. In the past I've been with my ex, guys have come up to me while he's stepped away to the restroom or what have you, and he'd calmly say, "hey this is my wife. I'm glad you find her attractive, but she's taken." Now he's a natural charmer and a lot of guys liked him, so I guess it hard for me to understand because he wasn't confrontational, but man that didn't even know him wouldn't mess with me when we're out: I just don't find it a good look that if you're the one starting it you come back with a black eye as if you lost the fight. Yes, frhr guy was wrong for touching her butt, but to just say "that's my girlfriend" and push him is asinine to me. He could've said, " hey it's disrespectful to touch women who you don't know or know if they belong to someone. Btw the woman you just touched is mine". The guy may have been more thrown off by the fact he didn't fight or how he came to him with it. But since her boyfriend pushed him first.... it gave the other guy no choice but to protect himself.

Yep! Random stranger touches her butt. You come to him and say 'excuse me, this was not an appropriate move on your case and in general disrespectful to all women kind. Would that be too much to ask of you to apologize to my gf (who no one knew she HAD a bf)...but if you don't feel like apologizing may I have your permission to apologize to her FROM you because I am afraid if I punch you in...basically anywhere - I might get defeated and will get a black eye or hurt balls which I wouldn't be happy to get and...I'll buy you a drink or pay for your cab...'

FK WHAT??? Scorpio would be small and weak physically (not that I've met one) and he will fight anyway!

You millennials...darn!!!

WTF, that's not what I was saying at all. But I'm done. This conversation with you is over.
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You are welcome! Hope you grow some balls or boobs or whatever is that you have underdeveloped at this time?
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"said he was a Scorpio and he doesn't want to see me talk to anyone or anyone talk to me."

lol. i'd tell him that's the funniest joke i heard in a month. sounds like a drama king punk. he needs to go to an anger management class instead of broadcasting that he is a scorpio


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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

I am not taking it personal. I just want to understand what does it mean 'don't come back with a black eye'!

Seems like you just can't explain your own saying.


Oh I can explain it perfectly fine. I think I have already. In my opinion, I don't think it's wise to start something and then come back with a black eye. If he didn't expect the person to be bigger and stronger, then he shouldn't have approached it in ever way. It could've turned out much worse and way more dangerous. In the past I've been with my ex, guys have come up to me while he's stepped away to the restroom or what have you, and he'd calmly say, "hey this is my wife. I'm glad you find her attractive, but she's taken." Now he's a natural charmer and a lot of guys liked him, so I guess it hard for me to understand because he wasn't confrontational, but man that didn't even know him wouldn't mess with me when we're out: I just don't find it a good look that if you're the one starting it you come back with a black eye as if you lost the fight. Yes, frhr guy was wrong for touching her butt, but to just say "that's my girlfriend" and push him is asinine to me. He could've said, " hey it's disrespectful to touch women who you don't know or know if they belong to someone. Btw the woman you just touched is mine". The guy may have been more thrown off by the fact he didn't fight or how he came to him with it. But since her boyfriend pushed him first.... it gave the other guy no choice but to protect himself.

Yep! Random stranger touches her butt. You come to him and say 'excuse me, this was not an appropriate move on your case and in general disrespectful to all women kind. Would that be too much to ask of you to apologize to my gf (who no one knew she HAD a bf)...but if you don't feel like apologizing may I have your permission to apologize to her FROM you because I am afraid if I punch you in...basically anywhere - I might get defeated and will get a black eye or hurt balls which I wouldn't be happy to get and...I'll buy you a drink or pay for your cab...'

FK WHAT??? Scorpio would be small and weak physically (not that I've met one) and he will fight anyway!

You millennials...darn!!!

WTF, that's not what I was saying at all. But I'm done. This conversation with you is over.
You are welcome! Hope you grow some balls or boobs or whatever is that you have underdeveloped at this time?
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I was going to let that go BUT you keep coming for me. Go find some dick to suck and get off my nuts! You don't even make sense. You're finding small shit to argue over... this ain't even your thread. You're probably mad you're not getting enough attention, but that isn't MY issue.

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Controlling as hell.... Drama! ... Nothing like a mature Scorpio ... Nerp.... My bew carries himself well... And definitely doesn't put on a show.... You can put on a show for him... But he definitely wouldn't make himself look like an azz publicly .... Very well vexed with his emotions ... Has the best poker face in the world... Shewt ... His presence alone would have scared dude off top... The bew has a powerful presence ... Something I love about my King... A butt snatch would have never happened trust ... My Scorpio be so up on me... Hand and hand ... He may need some maturing ... He may be going through something
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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
No... I'd want him to protect me, but how he went about it was just weird to me. Plus, if you do protect me don't come out of it with a black eye. I'm sorry OP.... I don't mean to talk about your guy.
That's really silly 'don't come back with a black eye?' What?

What if that 'grabber' was faster or a stronger? Impossible?

What was Scorpio supposed to do when heve gotten a black eye? Run away from OP...?

You guys sound immature...
Yes ma'am. I've learned to not argue with elders.

Don't argue unless uou are always sure black eye will not happen to you ever!
You're taking this pretty personal. But whstevs yes ma'am.

I am not taking it personal. I just want to understand what does it mean 'don't come back with a black eye'!

Seems like you just can't explain your own saying.


Oh I can explain it perfectly fine. I think I have already. In my opinion, I don't think it's wise to start something and then come back with a black eye. If he didn't expect the person to be bigger and stronger, then he shouldn't have approached it in ever way. It could've turned out much worse and way more dangerous. In the past I've been with my ex, guys have come up to me while he's stepped away to the restroom or what have you, and he'd calmly say, "hey this is my wife. I'm glad you find her attractive, but she's taken." Now he's a natural charmer and a lot of guys liked him, so I guess it hard for me to understand because he wasn't confrontational, but man that didn't even know him wouldn't mess with me when we're out: I just don't find it a good look that if you're the one starting it you come back with a black eye as if you lost the fight. Yes, frhr guy was wrong for touching her butt, but to just say "that's my girlfriend" and push him is asinine to me. He could've said, " hey it's disrespectful to touch women who you don't know or know if they belong to someone. Btw the woman you just touched is mine". The guy may have been more thrown off by the fact he didn't fight or how he came to him with it. But since her boyfriend pushed him first.... it gave the other guy no choice but to protect himself.

Yep! Random stranger touches her butt. You come to him and say 'excuse me, this was not an appropriate move on your case and in general disrespectful to all women kind. Would that be too much to ask of you to apologize to my gf (who no one knew she HAD a bf)...but if you don't feel like apologizing may I have your permission to apologize to her FROM you because I am afraid if I punch you in...basically anywhere - I might get defeated and will get a black eye or hurt balls which I wouldn't be happy to get and...I'll buy you a drink or pay for your cab...'

FK WHAT??? Scorpio would be small and weak physically (not that I've met one) and he will fight anyway!

You millennials...darn!!!

WTF, that's not what I was saying at all. But I'm done. This conversation with you is over.
You are welcome! Hope you grow some balls or boobs or whatever is that you have underdeveloped at this time?
I was going to let that go BUT you keep coming for me. Go find some dick to suck and get off my nuts! You don't even make sense. You're finding small shit to argue over... this ain't even your thread. You're probably mad you're not getting enough attention, but that isn't MY issue.

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He sounds immature to me as well but serious question for the ladies or anyone really - what is it exactly that you are supposed to do if a dude grabbed your woman's ass like this? You would expect him to just let that slide?
Have him stand behind be imposingly while I whip said gorgeous ass around and defend myself first.

Cause at the end of the day, it's my ass. Give me a chance to stand up for myself and educate a miscreant before going he-man and getting hot headed.

That's just me tho.
And if he is drunk and belligerent, disrespects you further, what then?



depends. Is he belligerent as in physically continuing to grope and assault me? Well then yes by all means do what's necessary to subdue a legitimate physical threat. At least till we can throw his ass in jail.

Is he just drunk, sloppy and shouting obsecenities? That's child's play. Nothing I've never been able to handle on my own after years of customer service dealing with drunks in both a professional and personal capacity. Should I approve of a man I love to commit violence in the name of perceived honor? Nah. A drunk is a drunk. Why cause stress or trouble for the man I love simply because someone who probably is already miserable is simply shooting off at the mouth. Not worth the possible trouble it could put my S/O through if the fight is perceived as equal when reviewed in a legal setting. Especially when I have a history of protecting myself in the past.
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