Man with Moon in Scorpio... Vengeful? (Page 2)

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Gingerscorp
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LOL You all are giving Scorpio moons too much credit. Only you can feel "punished" if you allow yourself to.

You apologized for whatever offended him. He can either take it or leave it and apparently he's "leaving" it. We make no apologies for who we are and we don't like feeling like we owe anyone an explanation. *shrug* It's who we are.

But don't feel like you are being punished. You apologized ... what else can you do? You can't force him to accept it. If he wants to be a baby about it that's his decision.
In reality though... you did offend him no matter if you meant to or not. I understand that you tried to make things right but obviously he's not a very forgiving type. But he doesn't owe you nor will you make him feel he does. In his mind you created the problem and he's just not "going there" with you.

Harsh but true. I just wanted to add my 2 cents being a Scorp moon myself.
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Gingerscorp
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BTW if you really made an impression on him I'm willing to bet he'd have overlooked your "insult". Yes it's easy to offend us but if we care enough to believe that you didn't mean to hurt us we let it go. Personally my nature is very forgiving when it comes to someone I care about almost to the point of them being able to walk all over me............almost 😉

Sorry.

Maybe he needs more time. Give it another week and if you don't hear from him I'd let him know (again) that you said you were sorry about the "insult" once, you meant it, and if he can't accept it it's his problem.... not yours. And then leave it at that 😉 We don't like people to grovel even though we are suppose to be "control freaks and ego maniacs". Don't listen to those who don't know 😉
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Babykaykesiam
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Thanks Gingerscorp... tell me more about scorpio moons please !
Are there positives..

Ok tonight he saw me on line and imed me how are you baby?
.. and then he said he is geeting his strength back from the flu and wants to make it up to me and cook me dinner.
he tells me again i misunderstood him, and he wanted to make sure that I understood him now...

i said Yes of course...

anyway, what do you guys think of this exchange... how should I handle this type of man... should i be scared of a scorp moon? after all i am a pisces with virgo moon///

thanks for your help!!!
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Gingerscorp
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LOL No tricks to Scorp moons. We're just people ya know 😉 I'd like to think there are positives... LOL but we can be a pain in the ass alot.

The WORST thing you could do is show fear or insecurities to us though. Personally I like people who are REAL and confident with who they are. Sometimes I get insulted at stupid shit but I realize that mostly it's MY problem unless someone is insulting just to be a jackass. If they don't mean to be mean so to speak.... then I sulk and get over it in time.

Take your situation for example. Like I said. You didn't mean to insult him and you told him that. You said what you had to say and now it's up to him to take it or leave it. If you grovel over and over he's gonna think you are a push over and he'll lose respect for you and maybe even throw more test your way to see what your boundries are. THAT is the negatives to Scorp moons. We push people until we run them off or they stand up to us. Even I annoy myself with that. 😛

For now just go with the flow and don't bring up this little "tiff" again. But if he tries to make you feel bad DON'T!! You have nothing to feel bad for once you told him you didn't mean to insult him.


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Babykaykesiam
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Thanks GingerScorpio for the interesting and cool advice. I have an affinity for all those scorpio planets. I had an astrologer with 4 planets in scorpio... cool guy.


Tasha, wow! Where do I begin? Thanks so much for investing all that time on my situation. You seem to have a lot of experience with tons of scorpio moons.

Actually I don't feel it is the wrong board as, Like you said, Leos are a piece of cake (see how little number of posts there are on Leo baords compared to scorpio boards)!!!
His moon in scorpio fascinates me esp after reading so much about them. I think it is important to understand these moons as that is what colors the sign in emotional situations, and can make any sun "heavy and darker", no?
I a learning a lot.
I am glad you have that leo sun and scorp moon ex you can tell me about. Cool!!!

I really appreciate your posts!
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Babykaykesiam
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Tasha and GingerScorp I am not sure if you saw my post about him finally contacting me yesterday.

He said he wanted to make sure I didnt feel bad about what happened. He said he had good intentions, and he was sorry I misread him.
That must be the "Leo" part of him right? Tasha, it sounds like what you described regarding your ex.
So your Leo/Scorp guy never got really dark or creepy or obsessive?


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Ok tonight he saw me on line and imed me how are you baby?
.. and then he said he is geeting his strength back from the flu and wants to make it up to me and cook me dinner.
he tells me again i misunderstood him, and he wanted to make sure that I understood him now...

i said Yes of course...

anyway, what do you guys think of this exchange... how should I handle this type of man... should i be scared of a scorp moon? after all i am a pisces with virgo moon///

thanks for your help!!!