Marrying Scorpios
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Gemma2 on Sunday, May 26, 2013 and has 21 replies.
Would like some insight into my life with my scorp. We couldn't resist each other when we met online, I was supposed to marry his older brother but it didn't work out. We became close again and it was a MAGNETIC strong l. attraction, I pushed him away cuz I was scared but he came back and finally revealed his feelings for me. He asked me to marry him & work in Dubai with him. Any insight to the middle eastern scorp as a hubby? I'm not the typical Gemini, I have a lot of water in my chart & I'm just as intuitive & moody as water signs. I'm 8 years older and at a place where I'm READY to settle down. We have things in common too, it's not just sex I'm after
Being a mutable sign I get along we'll with others. I'm very sensitive but able to stand up for myself. I like and want the protectiveness of middle eastern men, his culture, and already met the family. We are both honest and kind and I've been looking for over13 years for a husband. So, I'm not letting a damn good man get away so easily! I do have lots of Scorpio traits and always attract water signs, I lielke the Scorpio strength the most cuz I need a man stronger than me.
Be careful...
He asked me to marry him & work in Dubai with him.
WTF? WARNING!! SIGN!!!
Posted by Gemma2
Would like some insight into my life with my scorp. We couldn't resist each other when we met online, I was supposed to marry his older brother but it didn't work out. We became close again and it was a MAGNETIC strong l. attraction, I pushed him away cuz I was scared but he came back and finally revealed his feelings for me. He asked me to marry him & work in Dubai with him. Any insight to the middle eastern scorp as a hubby? I'm not the typical Gemini, I have a lot of water in my chart & I'm just as intuitive & moody as water signs. I'm 8 years older and at a place where I'm READY to settle down. We have things in common too, it's not just sex I'm after
"I was supposed to marry his older brother but it didn't work out. "
Pardon me, but do they air the Jerry Springer show in your country?
Posted by ShakenNotStirred
He asked me to marry him & work in Dubai with him.
WTF? WARNING!! SIGN!!!
I know, right?
^ This is a red flag.
So is this --- > "... I was supposed to marry his older brother but it didn't work out.
He asked me to marry him & work in Dubai with him."
Ok so why is this a bad thing to live & work in Dubai? Lots of expats from all over the world go there to work. They have competitive salary & benefits, some employers even provide housing accommodations or housing allowance. They also have no taxes and I would be within the pay rate of not having to pay taxes upon returning to the US! It's a great way to see the world, it's a safe country, I've been to the Middle East before and have experience with the culture. It's also a work experience and a good way to learn the language, plus when I come back home I will have money to start my life here.
As far as the brother thing, I was more compatible with the younger brother. We were attracted during the time I dated his brother, that's why I pushed him away the first time. The older brother fudged up and because of that I broke it off with him.
Posted by Gemma2
As far as the brother thing, I was more compatible with the younger brother. We were attracted during the time I dated his brother, that's why I pushed him away the first time. The older brother fudged up and because of that I broke it off with him.
That's the problem... it doesn't fly! Major code violation.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by Gemma2
Ok so why is this a bad thing to live & work in Dubai? Lots of expats from all over the world go there to work. They have competitive salary & benefits, some employers even provide housing accommodations or housing allowance. They also have no taxes and I would be within the pay rate of not having to pay taxes upon returning to the US! It's a great way to see the world, it's a safe country, I've been to the Middle East before and have experience with the culture. It's also a work experience and a good way to learn the language, plus when I come back home I will have money to start my life here.
I'm saying you've dabbled with both brothers and are now thinking of moving to dubai to be with one of them durrrr
That doesn't sound suss to you? not even in the slightest?click to expand
She's a Gem, E.
I'm not going until I find work so it could be a year or a little more than a year. My guy is ok with this and his brother is in the past, he won't be in the same country. Regardless of the relationship I'm going to Dubai. Trust me I've never done this situation before and never expected to come between brothers this was not planned. My ex already told me to find someone better than him.....I did, his brother.
Posted by Gemma2
I'm not going until I find work so it could be a year or a little more than a year. My guy is ok with this and his brother is in the past, he won't be in the same country. Regardless of the relationship I'm going to Dubai. Trust me I've never done this situation before and never expected to come between brothers this was not planned. My ex already told me to find someone better than him.....I did, his brother.
Do they have reality shows in Dubai???
Umm so your gonna be rich after marrying this guy and saving money on taxes and rent. And you wont be able to make a life for yourself now...wow!!
Whats wrong with him up rooting himself from his tax free job and free rent apartment to come to the U.S.to marry you? And how come you cant make a life for yourself now? Whats stopping you?
Ummm this is definately a red flag...this sound strange to me, like one of those episodes from criminal minds or cold case. Well make sure after the wedding bells you come back to dxp and keep us posted.
Also
Make sure your family can trace your where abouts just in case you dont make it back to the U.S.for some odd reason.
Whats wrong with him up rooting himself from his tax free job and free rent apartment to come to the U.S.to marry you? And how come you cant make a life for yourself now? Whats stopping you?
Ummm this is definately a red flag...this sound strange to me, like one of those episodes from criminal minds or cold case. Well make sure after the wedding bells you come back to dxp and keep us posted.
Also
Make sure your family can trace your where abouts just in case you dont make it back to the U.S.for some odd reason.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by Gemma2
I'm not going until I find work so it could be a year or a little more than a year. My guy is ok with this and his brother is in the past, he won't be in the same country. Regardless of the relationship I'm going to Dubai. Trust me I've never done this situation before and never expected to come between brothers this was not planned. My ex already told me to find someone better than him.....I did, his brother.
Do they have reality shows in Dubai???click to expand
If not...they will when she gets there
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by Gemma2
Ok so why is this a bad thing to live & work in Dubai? Lots of expats from all over the world go there to work. They have competitive salary & benefits, some employers even provide housing accommodations or housing allowance. They also have no taxes and I would be within the pay rate of not having to pay taxes upon returning to the US! It's a great way to see the world, it's a safe country, I've been to the Middle East before and have experience with the culture. It's also a work experience and a good way to learn the language, plus when I come back home I will have money to start my life here.
I'm saying you've dabbled with both brothers and are now thinking of moving to dubai to be with one of them durrrr
That doesn't sound suss to you? not even in the slightest?
She's a Gem, E.
Is there something with the planets that's derping geminis at present?click to expand
Close, but I don't think it's the planets. However, I do think it's the marbles floating around out there.
@everevolv. there is nothing wrong with the planets or our charts, checked both and our charts are compatible. Piggy I never said that I couldn't start a life for myself here, I have a lot of student loan debt to pay off when I complete my degree. Who wouldn't like a chance to pay off their debt in 2 years? I'm sure I can find a position here after I finish college but I also will have lots of bills& debt to start out with too. I also will not be rich either ! I just would like to have both of us save together so that when we come home we won't need to depend family for help! @ Starlover yes he's Muslim, no I'm not not being forced to convert nor do I have wear hijab. As far as him coming here, has anyone tried to go through the visa process? Well I have done the research and it can take up to 2 years. There is a lot of waiting to go through and why not be near him during the process? In Dubai many positions are contracted and the average length is 2 years. I've consulted with teachers about working abroad and I'm able to teach with my degree. It sounds like everyone is biased against Arabs and the Middle East than about insight into Scorpio. I see the "fixed" part of this sign in the postings.
In the majority of cases, wives are on their husband's sponsorship, this means they are the man's property and can't do anything without written permission like buy alcohol, get a job or a driver's license.
If a woman is under her husband's sponsorship (as opposed to having her own emplyment related visa) then she does require a No Objection Certificate (NOC), a brief letter, from him in order to take a job or get a driving licence.
I'd do my research
If a woman is under her husband's sponsorship (as opposed to having her own emplyment related visa) then she does require a No Objection Certificate (NOC), a brief letter, from him in order to take a job or get a driving licence.
I'd do my research
Shell shocker I have! I'm getting my own sponsorship.
Stinger baby I'm wide awake, you look like you use some shut eye
A few questions first, here goes:-
1)Did you meet the Scorpio in question or his older brother online?
2)Have you and the Scorpio spent time together or has it been more of online communication?
3)What I gather from your posts is that you've been seeking a suitable husband since the last 13 years,finally chanced upon this Scorpio and hence want to be with him permanently.If you were to find a just as nice man in your country, would you still move to be with this Scorpio?You changed your mind about his brother,are you sure you won't change it about him?
4)(I mean no offense when I say this) but is it the desperate need to be 'officially hitched' that is prompting you to move with the Scorpio?
1)Did you meet the Scorpio in question or his older brother online?
2)Have you and the Scorpio spent time together or has it been more of online communication?
3)What I gather from your posts is that you've been seeking a suitable husband since the last 13 years,finally chanced upon this Scorpio and hence want to be with him permanently.If you were to find a just as nice man in your country, would you still move to be with this Scorpio?You changed your mind about his brother,are you sure you won't change it about him?
4)(I mean no offense when I say this) but is it the desperate need to be 'officially hitched' that is prompting you to move with the Scorpio?
Posted by everevolvingepithet
lol, a little loose space maybe haha.
Could be. You know... there was time when man thought the world was flat. They thought the planets revolved around the earth and a few other things.
Perhaps some day, they will rethink the universe and say that it is space, itself, that moves and not the contents, therein, afterall.
BTW, did you know that SPACE does not need us. We need space, Space doesn't need anything, but EVERYTHING in it, needs Space.
Think on that.
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