Morals has a dilemma (Page 2)

I can't stand cheapness in a guy. I don't need gifts all the time or expensive dinners or any of that, but when the time comes that we are out together if he acts at all weird about getting the tab, it's all over for me. I don't know, I'm so attracted to gentlemanly behavior and so repulsed by anything less that it would be an instant deal-breaker for me. And yes, I do attempt to pay when it isn't clear who asked who, but it never ends up happening (unless I insist as an anniversary gift or whatever). I dated one guy forever ago for maybe a couple weeks or something (he was a Pisces...) who got weird about paying ON OUR FIRST DATE...and I was pretty much disgusted with him because of it. lol. I think it's a huge indicator of things to come...

LOL @ GL...I blame the hormones...

SL - I am sure they'll find out soon enough. The new cap I was talking to said "I want someone to control me, will you do that?"..I just sent him back a cheesy grin!..hehe

I let it be known before I go out who is paying buying etc. I don't need suprises like that.

My mo has always told me a lady never leaves the house with any money to get home she did not say anything about having money to eat with. lol

SL, too funny!

The Scorp who has been pursuing me has paid everytime. I offered to pay for half a time or two and the whole check another time, but he refuses and each time has said "If I allow you to pay, then that tells me that you haven't enjoyed my company and I can't leave knowing that"..awwww

awww that was sweet and cute, he's a keeper at for when you are hungry. When I was seeing the Taurus and we went to breakfast and he paid he bought had a fit....I was not paying jack and I meant it. I drove. LOL

I know what you mean phoenix_rising..the thing is, if it was a real date..I guess I would've had a problem..but it was a quick coffee after work. Not a date..He'd been pestering me for weeks on end so I agreed..when I saw him, it was a jaw to the floor moment..he was gorgeous..lol....the proper date hasn't happened..and don't think will unless he proves himself..not the end of the world..

Pluto - LOL..yes that grin..speaks volumes doesn't it..

HP - One of my close friends Scorpio guy (known him 5 years) has never in those 5 years let me pay for anything..In fact he stopped talking to me for 2 days when I insisted on paying one day. I felt terrible that he kept paying but he just won't allow me. He said if you so much as reach for your purse I am going to have to physically beat you up..

He also buys me lavish presents, never misses a birthday or christmas..I have never known scorpios to be stingy with their cash..I guess theres always a first time..

I can't remember which post, but yesterday I typed that he's moving into a new house and I asked him what he needed/wanted and he said he wanted a coffee maker...but not just ANY coffee maker. He knew the make and model of a specific one from Williams Sonoma that costs $ 400! uh uh...no way, sorry...can't fork that much money out.

Hey, I just had a thought...We can all pitch in and buy this coffee maker for Scorp guy, invite all of you over and pay for MM's coffee! What do you say?

Anyway, I forgot where I was going with this thread...it's a Taurus trait to have ADD.

LMAO @ "Hey, I just had a thought...We can all pitch in and buy this coffee maker for Scorp guy, invite all of you over and pay for MM's coffee! What do you say?"

HAHHA..that was funny!

"Hey, I just had a thought...We can all pitch in and buy this coffee maker for Scorp guy, invite all of you over and pay for MM's coffee! What do you say?"

I will pitch in. where do I send the money. LOL

We all finally get to mean. Shall we come to houston, DC on London?

i'll bring the music.. lol

i met a scorp who was cheaper then cheap... i left him at the movies and never spoke to him again..after he split the bill in half for dinner & then the movies too on a first date?..Lol no thanks

Pluto, the Scorp did the same thing with me. I went to the ladies' room twice during one date and when I came back he said "You look as good going as you do coming"...how sweet


But wait, I wonder if that was innuendo......

LOL I don't care - still think it was sweet.

why did you wait until after the dinner? Your light bulb should have we off then.

you must was feeling that scorp LOL

no i felt bad...i felt like giving him a second chance lol...and then the movies was it... i was like you have a nice life buddy..lol

MM, you said he lied about his age....by how much?

I had a virgo lie to me about his age and when I found out that he was actually 4 years older than me I was not made I figure he was going through a mid-life crisis and wanted to be young at least 2 years younger than he really was after about 4 years I found out is really age...

Well to one lady he said he was 31 and to me he said 29. I think he just needs to get laid and will go for any age you want him to be. Sad really. Thats why I said he's trying to hide something..Not my idea of an ideal partner..and defo not marriage material..he's too immature..

I need deep and meaningful conversations..

"realised what a fuckin catch I am and decided that ok, lets still pursue and test how far this woman is prepared to go..Little does he know that he's met his match and then some!"

"Thats why I said he's trying to hide something..Not my idea of an ideal partner..and defo not marriage material..he's too immature.."

So why do you want him to realize what a great catch you are— Remind me again.

Your analysing too much HP. That was just a figure of speech.

Whats that?

Perhaps I am, but I think you are, too...

Afterall you titled this thread "Morals has a dilemma"

I guess I sincerely don't understand what your dilemma is...LOL

OmG, I just looked at the calendar and I haven't had sex in 4 months! No wonder I'm moody.

LOL

OmG, I just looked at the calendar and I haven't had sex in 4 months! No wonder I'm moody.

LOL don't feel bad HP I am right behind you with 2 month and I started getting moody just as soon as I decided not to sleep with any one for a while after my bad experinece with a Taurus. ugh

ok , you win Pluto

LOL

awwwwww lol

Missmorals,
It may be that all he wants is to get you in bed. Then again, would you like to have a steady relationship with a guy that annoys you so much, right at first? If you want to get him in bed too, then go for it. But if you feel like you may fall for him, then it doesn't seem like the kind of guy you should trust (someone you can trust does not have to tell you that he's been honest with you. Is he not honest with everyone? Is he making an exeption just for you—). You only have two options, go for it and see what happens, knowing that you risk of having your heart and your pride hurt (or simply having fun and letting it go), or move on. The last option is only possible before you fall for him, once you do, moving on is ohhhh so bloody hard!

pluto, wait as long as you can.

i thought she meant virgin as in virgo..woops

no im a real virgin...
a virgo virgin...lol

LMAO

ok I wish you much happines

I think Pluto hit the nail on the head..he was originally supposed to be someone I talked to..none of this..then he came on full on...really strong..I guess I was like woah..is he for real!..lol..and the fact that he was attractive..

I wanted to know whether its normal for them guys to come on soooo strong..and was it just for sex..if so, then I am not interested as I don't throw my body around that..

So I answered my own question..

gotcha...well the coffee party is still gonna be at my house here in Houston....tell your friends!

I am catching the next thing smoking of DC to be there, what are we drinking with the coffee?

shall I bring some ribs, BBQ chicken, Chips and Dips.

oh honey please, it's Texas...we have nothing but BBQ, chips, dips, and beer!

LOL

Neither can I..double pout

missmorals > Why did you pay for the coffee? I had a guy try that once. He wanted to go dutch. (or wanted me to pay, I know not which) Didn't actually ask me to split the check, but I could tell. He kept mentioning that the bill is here, and I kept waiting for him to pay it. Finally he made it clear that I was expected to pay it using body language. At which point I made it clear that I didn't think I should be expected to pay anything by getting up and ignorantly saying, "Oh, I didn't know you got it already, let's go." And started walking out without waiting for him. He quickly paid the bill and followed me out. It was a blind date, so I figured that he wasn't interested. When we got out to the car he actually asked me out again! I couldn't believe it! I told him to give me a call and did a "screen and delete." You should do this too. Don't ever pay, not on a date! It sets a bad tone for the whole relationship (if there is ever going to be one). Basically, what a guy is telling you is that he has no intention of taking care of you, now or in the future. And if you do have sex, and he get you pregnant or something. You can pretty much assume that your on your own there too! I think that not only should you not go out with him again. But treat him with all the disrespect that he is showing you.

why you are even considering going out with him again, only tells me that you don't really like this guy, your just into his looks, which, of course, he knows, that's why he acts that way!

Ps - the date i mentioned earlier, was a doctor. No reason he couldn't pay a 25.00 luch bill.

I'm getting off topic here but Pluto you are a virgin!!!!!! OMG! I wish i was. Hold onto it dear and don't give it to the wrong one! Please... I lost mine a little later in life. I was 20 going on 21 but the longer you wait the more painful. Good Luck my dear 🙂

MM really doesn't have a dilemma she was just being cute 🙂 it's all good.

Wow..can't believe my topic reached 123 comments so far..thats fantastic!..people usually ignore me after 50!..lol

You will know the right moment. Just make sure it's one that you won't regret, on the contrary, that you'll cherish. Do it for yourself, and please, be in love with him 🙂

Pluto, be madly in love with him!

Ok Mr Scorpio is back!...after a break of 2 weeks. And he's a totally different guy. Sweet, charming..Just had a really good conversation with him..an adult conversation. He said, lets meet for coffee and I insist on paying..lol!..hahahah...Oh boy..

lol @ Bling..yeah free coffee...I had to ask him what drugs he'd taken over the weeks..lol..he said nah this is me..but seeing as you flipped out and said I was immature and tight, thought I would show you the other side..nobody else has seen it but your a scorpio so I know you know I have one..lol..

Right...well done..pat on the back for me..Well he is rather gorgeous..

But I am sticking with my virgo...who was just utterly adorable from day 1..

hmm, i'm beginning to wonder that maybe younger men aren't the route to go.

This virgo guy I am talking to is actually younger than me by a year but he's very mature. I am usually not keen on guys younger than me. It just doesn't feel right, but oh well, I will make an exception in this case. Poor guy has just driven back and is extremely tired but he text me 3 times during his drive to ask me how I am and that he'll be online later. He did come online (true to his word) and started conversation "hello baby"..awwwwww..but was very tired so I told him to go sleep it off and I will talk to him tonight as I am incredibly busy at work. Gosh he's lubly..I want to eat him for dinner.

Scorpio guy. I know what his game is and I am not buying.
Cap - your right, I picked up on that too...Show is not good enough.