My Scorpio is confusing me... (Page 2)

QS:

Move on***

I get it...and I know that in the long run this could very well turn out to be disastrous.

***He's not your Scorpio....he belongs to someone else.

I know this too...just like I'm not his completely either...

''SS, this is true if the situation is doable. What if the situation doesn't allow the scorp to have the relationship they might want and their feelings are getting deeper and deeper involved but it isn't the right time - This my dear, is when I find they put the guard up, but will express to you the reason as well as stress how much they love you and go as far to say they will love you forever. But the circumstances at the time don't allow them to act on those feelings. Get it''


Then he is NOT IN LOVE. A Scorpion's love is very Deep, intense, loyal.

They may love you but not IN LOVE with you.

PeanutBrown: This is a tricky situation seeing as you BOTH have partners. Scorpios and Cancers NEED Trust and Loyalty above all.

This has already been breached when you had feelings for someone outside your current relationships (both you and him).

IF you two get together, whats to stop the cycle happening again? I would be thinking ''If he can do it to her, he may do it to me too''.

Who are YOU IN LOVE WITH? And who do you think HE is IN LOVE with?

Oh, SS I know too well how deep a scorp love runs, from personal experiences I once was in a situation similar, not married. No I didn't cheat either, but for a particular reason couldn't be with a person who was madly in love with me and I them. The situation didn't allow us to be together, but it doesn't mean I wasn't "in love" with that person. Smart decisions don't change the way you feel about someone per se.

SS good question.

Very interesting point SS:

**Then he is NOT IN LOVE. A Scorpion's love is very Deep, intense, loyal.

So does that mean he's not "in love" with his significant other? Because if he had all those feelings for his "other", he wouldn't be stepping outside the relationship? Right?

**Who are YOU IN LOVE WITH? And who do you think HE is IN LOVE with?

Being on this message board has made me do a lot of thinking and has given me much needed insight.

Honestly...Both he and I are probably really fooling ourselves. It's passionate, fun, loving and exciting and because there are certain elements that's missing in our current relationships, it's so easy for us to feed off of each other and to fall into something that we think is the most absolute perfect situation. It just feels so right...There really is a deep connection...but how will that last if neither one of us is willing to leave...WOW! I think I really got it now!

To answer your question SS now that some common sense is starting to finally sink in...Especially after Queen's comments too?

Do I love him? Yes...
Am I in love? Hmmm...

Damn! Now I really feel f_ _cked up. I still can't turn off my feelings so easily?

Its great that youre being very honest with yourself.

I suppose only time will tell. One thing I always remember though.. is that Actions speak louder than words.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do. Keep us updated.

Thanks SS...The feedback is much appreciated.