Scorpio guy

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Hi! I'm new on this forum and astrology, but I have a question about a scorpio guy. I met him at a party. First time I see him he was makingout with a girl and then they left and came back an hour later. Later he did the same thing to other girl and my friend and I thought it was disgusting. I didn't think he knew I was there. We didn't talk.

3 weaks later he showed up outside my place where I train. He was waiting for me and he must have done some research to find me. He had seen me at a party and he hadn't had the possibility to approach me before I left. I don't know what happened. It was like I wasn't pushed, but couldn't say no even tho I had a really bad first impression of him. I mean, why would you go out with a player? But I went with him. But it wasn't a date. He told me it wasn't. He was'nt interested in a relationship. He told me so many times it got annoying.

To be in a relationship you had to leave a part of your brain and there was just games and insecurities and he wanted nothing with that. He said he just wanted to get to know me. I had a great great great time! My best time ever! I thought he would make a move sexually, but he didn't. He didn't try to kiss me or even hug me goodbye. He just called a taxi for me and paid for it. He didn't even ask after my number or asked to see me again. I was confused, specially since I'm 1000% sure I'm not friendzoned by the look in his eyes. But it's like he want to sleep with all girls except for me. If he had tried I would have said no. I was prepared for the move and knew how to say no, but I kind of wanted him to want to. But I think he wants to. I don't know.

Two weaks later he showed up at my school and takes me on a even better "nondate." Still didn't make a move. Didn't ask for my number. Nothing! Now, EIGHT MONTHS later we have been out every or every other weak on perfect!!! nondates. He still hasn't made a move. NONE! and says again and again that he wants no relationship with anyone. He even said I should date other guys! I love to hang out with him and we're not doing anything bad, so I don't want to stop seeing him. But when I'm out with other guys I keep thinking about what he's doing. But I don't like him like that, so it's not like that.

I just feel so in tune with him. He gets me! I can tell him anything. and he is so sweet and funny and intelligent and crazy hot and caring. 2 month ago he called me. I didn't know he had my number or where he got it. He was asking me out...on a nondate of course. But I was sick. I almost throw up in his ear on the phone. He asked me if I was alright and I tried to sound good, but that I didn't want to infect him. He saw right through me as usual and asked if I had anyone to take care of me and when I hesitated he asked for my adress. 1 hour later he was at my door with food, dvds and magasines. And the magasines it was like he knew what I wanted exactly.

He took care of me for four days. He slept in my sofa. He took my temper
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I had copyd everything so I don't have to write it again. Peww.

He took care of me for four days. He slept in my sofa. He took my temperature, cooked food for me after what my doctor said on the phone and entertained me and when I was too weak he held the bucket for me. I was really sick and one time I throw up on his pants and on his hands. That was soooo embarrassing, I just wanted to die. But he just asked me if I was okay and when he knew I would be alright he went to the bathroom to wash and then asked if he could use the washing machine. So I know he cares.

He is really not my type and he's a player. I have asked him if he was seing other girls and he said not like with me. So I asked if he was sleeping with other girls and he said yes. And he is not interested in a relationship and I'm not interested in him. He's not my type. So I had dated this other guy for a month and he wanted to be exclusive with me and he is nice. I like him so I said yes. Then the guy I have talked about asked me out again and I felt bad since I have a boyfriend so I told him that I couldn't. He asked if I was okay and I said I couldn't see him because I had a boyfriend.

He got so angry!!!! and he asked if I treated all my friends like that. I have two close guy friends. I have known them since we were 3 so that's something else. But he didn't think so. We had never done anything that would make me dump him like that. He said he would have been fine with it if I had said I was already booked the night he asked me out for, but not when the reason was that I had a boyfriend. We have bumped into each other on the town after that and he doesn't even say hello. He totally ignores me. I don't know what to do.
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Okay, this is weird, I know, but I don't even have his phon number and I know nothing about him. It's like he knows everything about me and I know nothing about him. But it's like when we have been out we just don't talk about that. I have tried, but then after i don't have any information. So I can't call him or visit him or anything. I don't know what to do. What is he doing? I don't get it. I'm so confused. And it's like he's taken me everywhere in town so everywhere I go I have this memory of him.

Yesterday I was at a party and we were playing an astrology game about who would match who, just for fun and I overheard two girls talking about him and then ended the talk with one of them saying she wondered what sign he was. The other said he was a scorpio and then she said also that he was a typical scorpio. i don't know what that means so I googled it and ended up here. I'm asking you now what to do. I know I can't hope for a lot. I just want to understand what is happening and this is my last chance. I'm just going nuts and I'm so sad and down. I just hope I run into him again and then I need to know what to do. I know some of the places he goes to so if I try I could probably catch him sooner or later. Please help! Do you have any comments at all about this. I am a capricorn. Is that good or bad?
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Oh, this is really long. So sorry. I hope someone will read it anyway.
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Posted by thinktoomuch
He´s outta reach. If possible just try to be happy and content with yourself and your boyfriend without ever dealing with this scorpio guy again.

Reason he got mad for you not wanting to go out with him, when you now have a boyfriend, is - in his eyes: you were never ever dating, you were just hanging out at friends, so why should it matter f you got a boyfriend or not. ... He wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody really, and that´s not gonna change unless he wants to change that himsef, but still he needs relationships to other people and the way you two did it fitt him perfectly it sounds. Never taking ir further, letting their always be mystery surrounding him (scorpios like that), knowing you´re probably a little enfatuated by him. You made it all too real with this comment about now hanging out because you have a boyfriend, there is no mystery and tension anymore, so he bounced.
He´s not interested in reality and dealing with real emotions, it´s all just the mystery and the fantasy that he´s into.

Thank you so much for your comment!!! I believe what you're saying, It just sounds weird, Why didn't he try to have sex with me then? It's not like he's too shy to or anything. And you say he wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody. Do you mean it's just how he wants people to see him and it's not really true, or does he really not have feelings to anyone? Just a fantasy? I don't get that. Why? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just so confusd.
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Posted by flowingwater
He's in your head. Weird he knows about you but you don't know him?

See, good thing Aquas don't let guards down for people who are shady like that. I've had Scorpio men tell me I've spilled myself to you and I know nothing about you... It's called not having your heart on your sleeve when the mind games start.

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Yes, it's really weird! I'm not even someone who say things about myself a lot all the time. I have told him some and then he just puts 2 and 2 together and then he knows everything. You say It's called not having your heart on your sleeve when the mind games start. First you say heart. Do you think he's got feelings for me? And mind games, what's that? Games he doesn't like. He has said it so much. Was he lying?

Thank you so much for your comment!
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Posted by BornCapricorn
But when I'm out with other guys I keep thinking about what he's doing. But I don't like him like that, so it's not like that.

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But when I'm out with other guys I keep thinking about what he's doing. But I don't like him like that, so it's not like that.

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Okay, I see how that can have sounded but I like guys who only sleep with his girlfriend and likes relationships and are steady and not all party and having fun. Okay there is nothing wrong with having fun I go to a lot of parties, but he is a guy who parties a lot lot lot. He's really not my type.
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He's in your head. Weird he knows about you but you don't know him?

See, good thing Aquas don't let guards down for people who are shady like that. I've had Scorpio men tell me I've spilled myself to you and I know nothing about you... It's called not having your heart on your sleeve when the mind games start.

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Yes, it's really weird! I'm not even someone who say things about myself a lot all the time. I have told him some and then he just puts 2 and 2 together and then he knows everything. You say It's called not having your heart on your sleeve when the mind games start. First you say heart. Do you think he's got feelings for me? And mind games, what's that? Games he doesn't like. He has said it so much. Was he lying?

Thank you so much for your comment!

No, listen YOU have your heart on your sleeve. He does not. He is playing mind games and YOU have followed along. This whole connection between you two was a lie. You have told him enough to know you and how to tug at the strings of your heart.

Your the one creating this post to make sense of everything because he has spun your head around and you can't catch yourself. Focus on the boyfriend and don't let some guy back in your life to play you like that. It's scary you know nothing of him. If some dude I barely knew popped up at my door, I would taze him.
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I never told him I was interested in him! But if he is playing mind games, why? What did he win? Why did he spend four days cleaning my vomit if I was just a game? Yes, my head is spinning around, you are right about that
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Listen to flowingwater, everything she said is on point and made so much sense. All the scorpio guys I've dealt with was like that, they are not even sure of what they want themselves.

I was also the one that spilled everything to them while knowing next to nothing about their true personalities. Yes the time I've spent with the scorpios were magical and I thought there was a connection, but it was all fake, it was all part of their little games, I think they want us to think of them as the best thing thats ever happened to us, and make us fall for them while they are not able or willing to commit.

They tend to put this shield up and suppress their true emotions and personalities, and expect us to just fall and continuously "give", but any relationship is a two way street, they cant just take all the time and we can't just focus 100% on them if they are not even willing to let us in, even if just a little.

Of course not all scorpios are like that, LOVE MY SCORPIO GIRLS, THEY ARE AMAZING HONESTLY!

And remember that it's not always a "scorpio thing" or a certain zodiac sign thing, sometimes they are just shi!tty humans and we need to see that clearly.

Move on and focus on your bf and your own happiness!!
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Posted by thinktoomuch

Thank you so much for your comment!!! I believe what you're saying, It just sounds weird, Why didn't he try to have sex with me then? It's not like he's too shy to or anything. And you say he wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody. Do you mean it's just how he wants people to see him and it's not really true, or does he really not have feelings to anyone? Just a fantasy? I don't get that. Why? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just so confusd.

If he tried to have sex with you, all the mystery surrounding him would vanish. Then you´d know, that that´s just what he wanted, and he wouldn´t be able to have this little thing going on. No doubt, he probably think´s you´re cool and all, but he´s in a totally different place mentally. He wants you to do exactly what you´re doing now: thinking about him and asking why he does this and that. Just because that´s how he gets off. Some girls he can use one way, other girls he can use this way.
And it´s definitively not something you should try and work out. When I say, that he wants to come off as not having any emotions, it is in no way meant as something that could give you some sort of hope, that he is just scared of getting hurt or anything. Not at all. I mean it as a warning: he is mentally our of reach, you will never *get* him, because he will never want you to.
He could might as well put on a hat and a trenchcoat and walk around the streets at nights, smoking cigarettes in the shadows and tell himself, that he is a tortured soul that nobody will ever get. He´s living a fantasy, a very well known scorpio fantasy (as far as I know), and the fantasy is way more interesting than anything real, like a real relationship or a real friendship, where you could also have his phonenumber and shit. Lol! I think he probably has a monologue going inside of his head everywhere he goes, just like he´s in a movie or something.
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Okay maybe I'm dense, but right now it's like I'm living in a dream or somthing. Are there really people like that who would just play me for kicks. Okay I know people plays others for sex, but I have never heard of tis. Do you mean scorpios are like this? There must be scorpios in relationships somewhere. He seemed really genuine. And if he just wanted me to come along then why did he say he had sex with other girls and that he didn't want relationships. I could have left.
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Posted by thinktoomuch
But the thing is: you´re into him, so you wish he was your type, right?! It´s always a problem for us ladies (and men too I guess) : we´re attracted to someone that we know won´t work out. It´s just our minds and hearts playing us. Aaaaand ofcours the people who are players helps this phenomenon too.

You all say I'm into him. I'm saying I'm not. Yes, it would be good if he was my type and wanted a relationship, but he isn't. He's a player. I know that since I saw him.
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fk it, has to be a troll.

Are you meaning I'm a troll?
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Posted by awkwardleo
Listen to flowingwater, everything she said is on point and made so much sense. All the scorpio guys I've dealt with was like that, they are not even sure of what they want themselves.

I was also the one that spilled everything to them while knowing next to nothing about their true personalities. Yes the time I've spent with the scorpios were magical and I thought there was a connection, but it was all fake, it was all part of their little games, I think they want us to think of them as the best thing thats ever happened to us, and make us fall for them while they are not able or willing to commit.

They tend to put this shield up and suppress their true emotions and personalities, and expect us to just fall and continuously "give", but any relationship is a two way street, they cant just take all the time and we can't just focus 100% on them if they are not even willing to let us in, even if just a little.

Of course not all scorpios are like that, LOVE MY SCORPIO GIRLS, THEY ARE AMAZING HONESTLY!

And remember that it's not always a "scorpio thing" or a certain zodiac sign thing, sometimes they are just shi!tty humans and we need to see that clearly.

Move on and focus on your bf and your own happiness!!

Omg this is so weird. If you're playing a joke on me, please someone tell me because this is the weirdest thing I ever herd. Who does that! Okay I'm getting angry! Do you REALLY think that's what he did?
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Listen to flowingwater, everything she said is on point and made so much sense. All the scorpio guys I've dealt with was like that, they are not even sure of what they want themselves.

I was also the one that spilled everything to them while knowing next to nothing about their true personalities. Yes the time I've spent with the scorpios were magical and I thought there was a connection, but it was all fake, it was all part of their little games, I think they want us to think of them as the best thing thats ever happened to us, and make us fall for them while they are not able or willing to commit.

They tend to put this shield up and suppress their true emotions and personalities, and expect us to just fall and continuously "give", but any relationship is a two way street, they cant just take all the time and we can't just focus 100% on them if they are not even willing to let us in, even if just a little.

Of course not all scorpios are like that, LOVE MY SCORPIO GIRLS, THEY ARE AMAZING HONESTLY!

And remember that it's not always a "scorpio thing" or a certain zodiac sign thing, sometimes they are just shi!tty humans and we need to see that clearly.

Move on and focus on your bf and your own happiness!!

Omg this is so weird. If you're playing a joke on me, please someone tell me because this is the weirdest thing I ever herd. Who does that! Okay I'm getting angry! Do you REALLY think that's what he did?
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Yes, i am dead serious, I finally learned after getting my heart broken many times by scorpios. And they always say the same thing "I don't want a relationship right now" but they always acted like they cared so much and everything they did was in contradiction to what they said. They used our romantic side to their advantage, making us think that they are the best thing ever by doing textbook "perfect boyfriend" things and saying they don't want to date us or that they just want something casual while expecting us to be exclusive ti them. It's so confusing and not worth our time at all. I would say forget about him and just move on! They can and will break your heart if you go any deeper. IT'S UNFAIR TO YOURSELF!
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thinktoomuch and awkwardleo! Thank you so much for your comments! They were not very fun to read, but I like the honesty. Honesty is what I wanted.

I'm not naiv! My friends tells me that I'm too resisting when it comes to guys. They say I should take a chance, but I don't. It's just so weird to think I got playd. I'm never talking to a scorpio guy again! What's their goal in life just playing around with people.

If there is a scorpio guy reading this, why do you do that? I hope I see him again, he will get the talk of his life!
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Sorry I have a question. Where do I look for good information about scorpio guys? There's a lot on the net, so what place would you look in that is not bad?
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Don't be sorry. You said what I should hear. You didn't hurt my feelings, that was him. And if someone is writing like butter it's me. I'm not english like I'm sure you have seen from this and english is my worst subject in school, so I know I'm bad. I think I'm angry with myself the most because I have this great boyfriend(libra. Is he also a player? Had to ask. Sad ) and I spend all this time on the other guy. I just feel so stupid. I think he has been in my head too much. It's like I'm cheating on my boyfriend or somting. I just wish I understood how he thinks.
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don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/
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he did take care of you while you were sick for 4 days, didn't he? that alone would make him someone special. I'd talk to him like a true friend, open and direct. if no friendship after that, so be it. at lease you try.
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Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/

Thank you ICloud9! Sorry to be so dense, but does cap mean capricorn? Okay, I think I like him. When I read your comments I get all smily. This is so bad! Mixed feelings overload. I have to talk to him. And I'll read your links. Thank you again!
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Posted by iCloud9
he did take care of you while you were sick for 4 days, didn't he? that alone would make him someone special. I'd talk to him like a true friend, open and direct. if no friendship after that, so be it. at lease you try.

Yes, you're right. He has been very good to me. But he made me confused for kicks. I really have to talk to him!
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yes cap is Capricorn (yes that's a bit dense lol Tongue). sounds like you should sort out your own feelings towards your libra bf and the scorp guy. when you yourself don't know what you want, how you feel, you will confuse the guys that's for sure. ask yourself what you are going to do before you ask him to not make a mess. I think honesty and sincerity go a long way with scorpios in general. of course, if he is too damaged then that's another story. but hey you try.

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Posted by iCloud9
yes cap is Capricorn (yes that's a bit dense lol Tongue). sounds like you should sort out your own feelings towards your libra bf and the scorp guy. when you yourself don't know what you want, how you feel, you will confuse the guys that's for sure. ask yourself what you are going to do before you ask him to not make a mess. I think honesty and sincerity go a long way with scorpios in general. of course, if he is too damaged then that's another story. but hey you try.

good luck!







My first thought is to break up with my boyfriend. I think I'm too confused now about this. But he is great. He just isn't in my mind so much as the scorpio. This is so bad!

It's great to hear that you are having a great relationship and it's a capricorn with a scorpio! Great! smile

I have looked at the links very fast and astrology is a lot! Omg! I didn't understand anything. But I'm going to read more. Thank you again!

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your heart wants what it wants. it's unfair to your libra bf if another man is in your mind when you are together and it'd become a growing pain for you. now is the time to be brave and sort it out.

you are welcome! have fun reading about astrology! once you learn about the basics, you can go to www.astro.com to setup your profile and enter all the guys' birthdays to see how you match up lol!

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The first thing I should find is how to get a scorpio to tell his birthday then. lol.

Thank you! smile
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Sounds like he just want to be your friend and got mad that you say you can't hangout with him anymore. If you want to keep him as a friend you can do that don't get rid of guy friends just bc you have a boyfriend bc your boyfriend will most likely have girls as friends. You guys never crossed the line with sex or kissing which would make you friends. Also stop denying that you like him your actions says differently. It's easy for people to get hook to the "mysterious" guys or girls. We can give you advice all day long but you won't know the truth until you speak with him.
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OP, after 8 months of weekly non-dates, you dont know anything about him really......

is he a student? have you been to his place? what are you talking about usually when you are on those non-dates?
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Posted by Octoberbaby91
Sounds like he just want to be your friend and got mad that you say you can't hangout with him anymore. If you want to keep him as a friend you can do that don't get rid of guy friends just bc you have a boyfriend bc your boyfriend will most likely have girls as friends. You guys never crossed the line with sex or kissing which would make you friends. Also stop denying that you like him your actions says differently. It's easy for people to get hook to the "mysterious" guys or girls. We can give you advice all day long but you won't know the truth until you speak with him.

I was just so sure I wasn´t in the friendzone by the look in his eyes, but maybe that was just a game too. I don't know. I was confused by him and now I'm confused by him AND me.

I have guy friends before and I didn't get rid of them. I think you and him is right. I shouldn't have left him. But that's just if I was feeling friends with him. If there was more I can't see him and have a boyfriend at the same time. I have stop denying that I like him. I have read all comments and my own comments again and everyone here except me saw it and the feelings when I read iCloud9 comments was that I was feeling hope. And he is in my mind a lot. But it's like my heart tells me to try with him and my brain screems NO!!! I'm meeting my boyfriend tomorrow and I will break up with him then, but he's great, but I can't be together with him.

Do you think he was playing games when he was being my friend or do you think he was just a friend?

Are typical scorpio guys cheaters? I have looked on the net and half says that they are and half says that they are not, no middle. I have to think about that since I know about his story with girls. And how do I talk to him? He's ignoring me . He is really really really angry!!! So many questions.
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Posted by Pandora101
OP, after 8 months of weekly non-dates, you dont know anything about him really......

is he a student? have you been to his place? what are you talking about usually when you are on those non-dates?

He's working as a carpenter. I thought that was weird because he's so smart and it's like he knows everything, so I told him that and he didn't like that!!! He said he worked as a carpenter because he loves it and he can support himself and he was angry that I have those thoughts. I'm studying medicine(first year) and he knows that most guys I have seen have been what he calls wannabe doctors. When he said why he was a carpenter I totally got it and said I was sorry. It's like that with him. He makes me think in a different good way.

I haven't been to his place. I don't know where he lives but I think it's pretty in the central of town because of the time it takes for him to go from one place to the next.

We talk about everything! He brings up relationships every time like how stupid people get when they are there. I'm not complaining that he's trying to make me come along in a way that makes me think that he wants to be in a relationship. lol

It's like our last non date he took me rock climbing and then we were sitting on the mountain and ate and looked at the sun and the sky that was blue and we talked about why we saw it as blue. Things like that. And when we at an art exibit we talked about why abstract art was good. And he took me to a convent that was in ruins from the 14th century and we were walking around talked about the people buildning it and the people living there. How it must have been and then how we live today. And he tells me storys and years about everything. And I wasn't even that interrested before, but now I'm. And then we went to a laserdome and was fighting in sumo suits and we talked about that and he always asks me about what is up with me and he knows what I have said. Every time!!!! And remembers!

When I was sick he brought a magasine that was not a normal one. I had said something about it like months before and he remembered. And when I was sick we watched tv because I couldn't do something else and he hates watchin tv and he falls asleep after like 5 minutes if we don't talk so we watched a Jerry Springer show Baggage and then we talked about what baggage you have. He said some things, but really little and all was back on me again. He is really good at saying nothing and I don't notice it until after.

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Posted by elllesque
you are interested in a scorpio but you want to know if he's a player.

you have libra boyfriend and want to know if he's a player too.

*hands you a mirror* quick, look! there goes the player.............

I know he's slept around a lot and that is a player, I think. Maybe I used the wrong word. But that's not against me so I didn't mean that. I don't think he plays me in a way that he's lying, but he's maybe playing with my head. And I want to know if he is doing that.

The comment of my boyfriend was a everythingisagainstme joke.

I'm not a player. Why do you think so?
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Posted by thinktoomuch

Thank you so much for your comment!!! I believe what you're saying, It just sounds weird, Why didn't he try to have sex with me then? It's not like he's too shy to or anything. And you say he wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody. Do you mean it's just how he wants people to see him and it's not really true, or does he really not have feelings to anyone? Just a fantasy? I don't get that. Why? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just so confusd.

If he tried to have sex with you, all the mystery surrounding him would vanish. Then you´d know, that that´s just what he wanted, and he wouldn´t be able to have this little thing going on. No doubt, he probably think´s you´re cool and all, but he´s in a totally different place mentally. He wants you to do exactly what you´re doing now: thinking about him and asking why he does this and that. Just because that´s how he gets off. Some girls he can use one way, other girls he can use this way.
And it´s definitively not something you should try and work out. When I say, that he wants to come off as not having any emotions, it is in no way meant as something that could give you some sort of hope, that he is just scared of getting hurt or anything. Not at all. I mean it as a warning: he is mentally our of reach, you will never *get* him, because he will never want you to.
He could might as well put on a hat and a trenchcoat and walk around the streets at nights, smoking cigarettes in the shadows and tell himself, that he is a tortured soul that nobody will ever get. He´s living a fantasy, a very well known scorpio fantasy (as far as I know), and the fantasy is way more interesting than anything real, like a real relationship or a real friendship, where you could also have his phonenumber and shit. Lol! I think he probably has a monologue going inside of his head everywhere he goes, just like he´s in a movie or something.
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you know too much...how?
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Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself
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Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself
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It would be great if you could comment to this situation! If you did something like this, why and what is the reason? Do you think also that he just want to be friends?
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Posted by BornCapricorn
Posted by elllesque
you are interested in a scorpio but you want to know if he's a player.

you have libra boyfriend and want to know if he's a player too.

*hands you a mirror* quick, look! there goes the player.............

I know he's slept around a lot and that is a player, I think. Maybe I used the wrong word. But that's not against me so I didn't mean that. I don't think he plays me in a way that he's lying, but he's maybe playing with my head. And I want to know if he is doing that.

The comment of my boyfriend was a everythingisagainstme joke.

I'm not a player. Why do you think so?

because you have a boyfriend and your nose is planted in this scorpio man's butt.
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I didn't know it was so bad, but now when I do I will break up with my boyfriend. I'm not going to do it on the phone or something I have to meet him and I will see him tomorrow. Do you think I should send a phone message, or somthing? No I'm not!
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Posted by thinktoomuch
Or what Ellesque said!

What I said to Ellesque.
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Thank you so much for your comment!!! I believe what you're saying, It just sounds weird, Why didn't he try to have sex with me then? It's not like he's too shy to or anything. And you say he wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody. Do you mean it's just how he wants people to see him and it's not really true, or does he really not have feelings to anyone? Just a fantasy? I don't get that. Why? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just so confusd.

If he tried to have sex with you, all the mystery surrounding him would vanish. Then you´d know, that that´s just what he wanted, and he wouldn´t be able to have this little thing going on. No doubt, he probably think´s you´re cool and all, but he´s in a totally different place mentally. He wants you to do exactly what you´re doing now: thinking about him and asking why he does this and that. Just because that´s how he gets off. Some girls he can use one way, other girls he can use this way.
And it´s definitively not something you should try and work out. When I say, that he wants to come off as not having any emotions, it is in no way meant as something that could give you some sort of hope, that he is just scared of getting hurt or anything. Not at all. I mean it as a warning: he is mentally our of reach, you will never *get* him, because he will never want you to.
He could might as well put on a hat and a trenchcoat and walk around the streets at nights, smoking cigarettes in the shadows and tell himself, that he is a tortured soul that nobody will ever get. He´s living a fantasy, a very well known scorpio fantasy (as far as I know), and the fantasy is way more interesting than anything real, like a real relationship or a real friendship, where you could also have his phonenumber and shit. Lol! I think he probably has a monologue going inside of his head everywhere he goes, just like he´s in a movie or something.





you know too much...how?

Experience. The guy reminds me of a guy, I used to know. Thought he was a mysterious, suffering, troubled man with revolutionary ideas. Lmfao! He was just a horny boy praying on the weak. Still is I believe.
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lol......
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Posted by 13th
Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself

It would be great if you could comment to this situation! If you did something like this, why and what is the reason? Do you think also that he just want to be friends?
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contradiction!! we say one thing, but mean another....I honestly believe we dont know (scorp men) what we truly want so therefore we life the "player" life til we figure out what it is we really want.....but untl we do figure it out the panties must come off lol smile
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Posted by 13th
Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself

It would be great if you could comment to this situation! If you did something like this, why and what is the reason? Do you think also that he just want to be friends?
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contradiction!! we say one thing, but mean another....I honestly believe we dont know (scorp men) what we truly want so therefore we life the "player" life til we figure out what it is we really want.....but untl we do figure it out the panties must come off lol smile
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*live the "player" life...............being a player is so much easier than dealin with real emotions....
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Posted by elllesque
Posted by BornCapricorn
Posted by elllesque
Posted by BornCapricorn
Posted by elllesque
you are interested in a scorpio but you want to know if he's a player.

you have libra boyfriend and want to know if he's a player too.

*hands you a mirror* quick, look! there goes the player.............

I know he's slept around a lot and that is a player, I think. Maybe I used the wrong word. But that's not against me so I didn't mean that. I don't think he plays me in a way that he's lying, but he's maybe playing with my head. And I want to know if he is doing that.

The comment of my boyfriend was a everythingisagainstme joke.

I'm not a player. Why do you think so?

because you have a boyfriend and your nose is planted in this scorpio man's butt.

I didn't know it was so bad, but now when I do I will break up with my boyfriend. I'm not going to do it on the phone or something I have to meet him and I will see him tomorrow. Do you think I should send a phone message, or somthing? No I'm not!

so, the scorpio said he wasn't interested in being in a relationship with you. you break up with your boyfriend to pursue the scorpio anyways.

what happens when you finally accept the fact that the scorpio isn't looking for a relationship with you.

go back to your boyfriend?
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I'm not going back with my boyfriend. It doesent matter what scorpio says I still like him and then I can't be with a second guy.
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Posted by BornCapricorn
Posted by thinktoomuch
Or what Ellesque said!

What I said to Ellesque.

Gotchasmile

Some general knowledge though, that we all have to learn at one point in our lives: when somebody says, they don´t want a relationship, they don´t want a relationship. Neither does this guy. So yes: he just wants to be friends, like he has told you several times.
I´m not sure, why it´s so hard for us women to understand? Maybe we just think, that guys are stupid and cannot express their true needs and wants and feelings, ´cause it happens all the time: he said he just wanted to be friends, but he´s being super nice to me. Doesn´t that mean, that he is in love with me and wants to pursue a relationship with me? No. No it does not.
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No I know you're right. But I have to talk to him. I have said I wasn't interested and what if that's why he said he hasnt been interested. i know it's not a lot of chance but I have to talk to him.
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I can't tell if you are this oblivious or if you are just trying to toy with the board.

Respect is pretty important in the scorpio world. Your behaviours and patterns are well noted way before we even speak a single word to you.

Do you think he doesn't know about your boyfriend? Bottom line, he has zero respect for you due to your actions and will entertain himself regardless because he also knows you have none for yourself.

I don't understand this. What actions? Yes he knows about my boyfriend I told him. And I commented that here. What have I done wrong? I know I have been dense that I like him and I feel stupid. What else?
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Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself
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sure I believe it. I think I omitted another experience I had lol. I was in high school. there was this married scorpio teacher went after me. he waited for me everyday after class to drive me around. he later disappeared maybe because his conscious bothered him that he didn't want to go to hell lol


the funny thing is he has the some birthday as my scorp. life is interesting eh? lol


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Posted by BornCapricorn
Posted by 13th
Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself

It would be great if you could comment to this situation! If you did something like this, why and what is the reason? Do you think also that he just want to be friends?

contradiction!! we say one thing, but mean another....I honestly believe we dont know (scorp men) what we truly want so therefore we life the "player" life til we figure out what it is we really want.....but untl we do figure it out the panties must come off lol smile
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Okay. When you say we say one thing, but mean another... Okay. Just to really understand this, you don't mean that he is interested, right?

What do you think he want from me?
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Posted by 13th
Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself


sure I believe it. I think I omitted another experience I had lol. I was in high school. there was this married scorpio teacher went after me. he waited for me everyday after class to drive me around. he later disappeared maybe because his conscious bothered him that he didn't want to go to hell lol


the funny thing is he has the some birthday as my scorp. life is interesting eh? lol



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lol
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Posted by 13th
Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself


sure I believe it. I think I omitted another experience I had lol. I was in high school. there was this married scorpio teacher went after me. he waited for me everyday after class to drive me around. he later disappeared maybe because his conscious bothered him that he didn't want to go to hell lol


the funny thing is he has the some birthday as my scorp. life is interesting eh? lol



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wow! That's bad!
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Posted by BornCapricorn
Posted by 13th
Posted by BornCapricorn
Posted by 13th
Posted by iCloud9
don't generalize. there are good and bad ones in every sign. I did know a scoripo guy who was living a life like your scorpio friend but also know other scorpios who are the most loyal and romantic. My hubby is scorpio (i'm a cap. the clingy kind I think lol) and we are attached at the hip. great emotional compatibility and understanding. I cannot imagine my life without him.


you can start with the following sites to learn more about astrology I guess -

http://www.cafeastrology.com/
http://www.astro.com/



theres tons of scorpio men like the guy in the op....and myself

It would be great if you could comment to this situation! If you did something like this, why and what is the reason? Do you think also that he just want to be friends?

contradiction!! we say one thing, but mean another....I honestly believe we dont know (scorp men) what we truly want so therefore we life the "player" life til we figure out what it is we really want.....but untl we do figure it out the panties must come off lol smile

Okay. When you say we say one thing, but mean another... Okay. Just to really understand this, you don't mean that he is interested, right?

What do you think he want from me?
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just to throw it out there.

when we first started getting to know each other, i told my scorp i was not ready for a relationship to take it slow. after several months I thought we were progressing I just didn't go out of my way to declare a change of status, one day after some movie-like romantic time together, scorp suddenly told me it has been always his dream to be a play toy for someone like me. wha??!! i burst out laughing and told he is not a play toy lmaf and he better committed o me and me only and just like i do to him. i.do.not.play. get that straight lol. he never said anything stupid like that again.
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