Scorpio Man has Broken up with Me 117 Times in A Year
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I am a Gem female b. June 10 in a volatile year long relationship with a Scorpio male, b. Nov 1. He has said "I'm done" to me over 117 times in the one year we have been seeing each other. This last time, I think it might be for good but I'm not sure. The first 3 months were amazing but then he sreadily became more and more controlling and mean. The last straw was he told me I had to delete all my social media, Facebook, Messenger, Instagram, even Pinterest and I said no. Facebook especially was a huge problem for him as if he literally did not want me to speak to any people on this earth besides hom, male or female. I had already let him delete 200 people from my account, all males. Even very good friends of mine. He gets super mean when he's angry and rages and punches walls and breaks things. He always breaks up via text, real mean "F***k off, go away, we're done" etc but I know he must has feelings for me or I wouldn't affect him so dramatically and he wouldn't have gotten back together 117 tines.. The last text between us was from me and I said: "It's like I can't win with you. You just want everything your way. You refuse to accept it any other way. I tried really just so hard to accommodate your demands because I'm super flexible but I always gave in to your demands and you don't give back or even acknowledge. You just keep punishing and punishing. You just like punishing me. It's very sad it ended up this way. I will always remember how it was in the beginning. That was the sweetest times of my life. Like up there with becoming a mom. I'm not fishing for anything from you. Just telling you you were the sweetest lover I have ever had by far. And that I loved being wit you." 4 days and he hasn't responded. Should I reach out to him yet? I'm sorry but to me asking to delete me social media, especially when he is ALWAYS on Facebook was just cruel. I don't even have on-gay guy friends to talk to on there anymore. Why would my social media be so abhorrent to him?
You list all these red flags about this dude, and your question is why social media is such an issue?
Social media is the least of your issues with this nutcase.
Social media is the least of your issues with this nutcase.
Okay uhm..
He's abusive. So maybe you should like uhm..
I don't know. Get away while you can?
Because uhm..
He's trying to isolate you which is a trait amongst abusive men?
But what do I know?
He's abusive. So maybe you should like uhm..
I don't know. Get away while you can?
Because uhm..
He's trying to isolate you which is a trait amongst abusive men?
But what do I know?
He is abusive when he's mad, I know that. He says I drove him insane but I suspect he has Narcissistic Petsonality Disorder. But the sex is just unbelievable. Even though we fight all the time we still have crazy chemistry and I miss that. I kinda just wanna have sex with him. The longest we have gone without speaking is 10 days. Should I wait longer then that and try to text him?
are you absolutely sure it was 117?
Posted by crawlbabyYou're stupid for this.
He is abusive when he's mad, I know that. He says I drove him insane but I suspect he has Narcissistic Petsonality Disorder. But the sex is just unbelievable. Even though we fight all the time we still have crazy chemistry and I miss that. I kinda just wanna have sex with him. The longest we have gone without speaking is 10 days. Should I wait longer then that and try to text him?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYea, I'm in the same boat.
lol I don't know if this is real or you're just trolling lol
Posted by crawlbabyHe have issues...
He is abusive when he's mad, I know that. He says I drove him insane but I suspect he has Narcissistic Petsonality Disorder. But the sex is just unbelievable. Even though we fight all the time we still have crazy chemistry and I miss that. I kinda just wanna have sex with him. The longest we have gone without speaking is 10 days. Should I wait longer then that and try to text him?
But you knew that already..
Just be careful girl. Abusive men are not anything to play with.
It doesn't get better.. but if you're using him for sex well then okay. Just make sure that's all you want.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioI know right? But the the banner picture actually shows SMS searches for "im done".Posted by nikkistarLol 117x smfh seems unreal but again there are females who likes to hold onto things they think they can fix.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYea, I'm in the same boat.
lol I don't know if this is real or you're just trolling lolclick to expand
Wow!!! I know my scorp has trust issues. But he didnt isolate me like that. Isolation means you have no one left to rely on but him.
Like others said, that's just one step away from beatings.
If you believe he is a narcississt...RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!! block him completly and never ever get back with him. Narcississts are dangerous and vile. They will destroy you and then destroy you more.
Leave...please!!!
Like others said, that's just one step away from beatings.
If you believe he is a narcississt...RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK!!! block him completly and never ever get back with him. Narcississts are dangerous and vile. They will destroy you and then destroy you more.
Leave...please!!!
He's never been physically violent. I am 100% sure that scenario won't happen, seriously. He hits objects instead. And PeanutButterandElly, yup. Soo good in bed. Best lover I've ever had and I've had..well a lot of lovers. Ironic ain't it? BUT the sex I need to get off is on the freaky side. We do a lot of shit most guys just aren't comfortable with but we also have lovey dovey sex sometimes. For 6 hours at a time. Like no one Ive ever had before. I'm a Gemini Decan 2, ruled by Mars and Venus. I like freaky sex.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioWell ya, but if the OP is real then she's a moron cause she is still asking how to get him back because her vagina is content. So she will stay and try and play captain save a hoe and thinks she is the "one" to change him.Posted by nikkistarIf op is real then she should run or else she might get OJ simpsonedPosted by EvoxxxscorpioI know right? But the the banner picture actually shows SMS searches for "im done".Posted by nikkistarLol 117x smfh seems unreal but again there are females who likes to hold onto things they think they can fix.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYea, I'm in the same boat.
lol I don't know if this is real or you're just trolling lolclick to expand
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioLMAO, so true.Posted by nikkistarlol it's the Scorpio curse.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioWell ya, but if the OP is real then she's a moron cause she is still asking how to get him back because her vagina is content. So she will stay and try and play captain save a hoe and thinks she is the "one" to change him.Posted by nikkistarIf op is real then she should run or else she might get OJ simpsonedPosted by EvoxxxscorpioI know right? But the the banner picture actually shows SMS searches for "im done".Posted by nikkistarLol 117x smfh seems unreal but again there are females who likes to hold onto things they think they can fix.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYea, I'm in the same boat.
lol I don't know if this is real or you're just trolling lolclick to expand
Posted by crawlbabyNot saying this is you...but some women love this type of drama and consider it cute for a man to rage over them. Nothing is cute about a mentally abusive man who might become physical if you stay. I would be scared for my life.
I am a Gem female b. June 10 in a volatile year long relationship with a Scorpio male, b. Nov 1. He has said "I'm done" to me over 117 times in the one year we have been seeing each other. This last time, I think it might be for good but I'm not sure. The first 3 months were amazing but then he sreadily became more and more controlling and mean. The last straw was he told me I had to delete all my social media, Facebook, Messenger, Instagram, even Pinterest and I said no. Facebook especially was a huge problem for him as if he literally did not want me to speak to any people on this earth besides hom, male or female. I had already let him delete 200 people from my account, all males. Even very good friends of mine. He gets super mean when he's angry and rages and punches walls and breaks things. He always breaks up via text, real mean "F***k off, go away, we're done" etc but I know he must has feelings for me or I wouldn't affect him so dramatically and he wouldn't have gotten back together 117 tines.. The last text between us was from me and I said: "It's like I can't win with you. You just want everything your way. You refuse to accept it any other way. I tried really just so hard to accommodate your demands because I'm super flexible but I always gave in to your demands and you don't give back or even acknowledge. You just keep punishing and punishing. You just like punishing me. It's very sad it ended up this way. I will always remember how it was in the beginning. That was the sweetest times of my life. Like up there with becoming a mom. I'm not fishing for anything from you. Just telling you you were the sweetest lover I have ever had by far. And that I loved being wit you." 4 days and he hasn't responded. Should I reach out to him yet? I'm sorry but to me asking to delete me social media, especially when he is ALWAYS on Facebook was just cruel. I don't even have on-gay guy friends to talk to on there anymore. Why would my social media be so abhorrent to him?
I thought Scorps were so known to be controlling and mean when pissed off or hurt and I'm saying that's how he is. I'm really not worried about getting shanked here guys. I've dated physically abusive men and women and it would have happened by now. I have issues. I'm this way, I need him. it ain't changing anytime soon.
Just my question is, if he's said "I'm done" over 117 tines it doesn't seem like he's ever really been done. I just wanna give him time to simmer down. I know he misses the sex too
Posted by crawlbabyIn what idiotic book or forum did you read this?
I thought Scorps were so known to be controlling and mean when pissed off or hurt and I'm saying that's how he is. I'm really not worried about getting shanked here guys. I've dated physically abusive men and women and it would have happened by now. I have issues. I'm this way, I need him. it ain't changing anytime soon.
You have a dependency issue, since you use words like "I need him".
You're an idiot, we can't help you.
But somehow, I think you are that troll that was TaurusGal
Wow, no, not trolling, hand to God. This is my real situation. Don't judge. I'm aware he's got problems, don't really care. Don't wanna marry the guy.
Posted by PeanutButterandEllyOur signs just interact like that!
Also, is Capricorn season like the harvest time for Scorpio/Gemini relationships? Do you gems have a shit ton of lovelorn Scorpios on your boards rn?
Cause the volume here lately is a bit batty.
OP has to wait about 25 years for him to grow up and start blaming him for all of her problems and this is what it is!
@Evoxxxscorpio
That shit made me spit out my coffee, damnit. lol
That shit made me spit out my coffee, damnit. lol
As a scorpio i am telling you, NO.
Don't reach out to him. He wont learn anything if you do. He took things too far because you didnt try to leave him sooner. But if he comes back to you on his own, then you can state your demands...like that he needs to calm the F down and trust you instead of deleting everyone from your life. And he will listen, because if you let him come to you, he understands he was wrong and will feel guilty. If he doesnt come back then you will know he didnt love you enougb anyway. Win-win.
Don't reach out to him. He wont learn anything if you do. He took things too far because you didnt try to leave him sooner. But if he comes back to you on his own, then you can state your demands...like that he needs to calm the F down and trust you instead of deleting everyone from your life. And he will listen, because if you let him come to you, he understands he was wrong and will feel guilty. If he doesnt come back then you will know he didnt love you enougb anyway. Win-win.
117 times...Assuming the number isn't exaggerated, you accepted him back after the first issue. So the fact that you've been played like a yo-yo is all on you.
Can none of you people just answer my question please? Because he told me to delete my Facebook and punches walls I should run away like I'm scared? I ain't scared. Dont live with the guy. It's not as dramatic as you're all making it out to be. All I wanted was a FWB situation at first but it just morphed into this control thing with him. Don't you understand my life style here? I AM INTO that sorta thing I'm a submissive. I like being doninated. It's my thing. You people are so judgey. I am aware of his problems, just want my Dom back.
117. I tried posting a screenshot of my SMS log showing the number but it didn't load. The point is, I have long since stopped taking his breakups seriously because the issues are all in his mind so whatever. But I an usually the sub and I've always done what he's asked. Until now. Seriously, not one of you guys knows about BDSM?
Posted by crawlbabyYeah, so like i said, wait until he comes to you. You have to put your foot down at least a little bit with scorps. Now is a good time for that. Its okay to be with someone who is dominating...funny enough, im a scorp and i love my cap who dominates me. But if you let him go too overboard and dont draw any lines for him, it will become a chaotic abuse eventually. We are completelt emotion driven, so sometimes we appreciate someone putting their foot down so we can see the logic of a situation. Im not judging, just trying to look out for you. But ultimately its all up to you.
Can none of you people just answer my question please? Because he told me to delete my Facebook and punches walls I should run away like I'm scared? I ain't scared. Dont live with the guy. It's not as dramatic as you're all making it out to be. All I wanted was a FWB situation at first but it just morphed into this control thing with him. Don't you understand my life style here? I AM INTO that sorta thing I'm a submissive. I like being doninated. It's my thing. You people are so judgey. I am aware of his problems, just want my Dom back.
He seems like a man of great follow through. A real dependable type.
Posted by arose32Are you being serious?Posted by crawlbabyHe have issues...
He is abusive when he's mad, I know that. He says I drove him insane but I suspect he has Narcissistic Petsonality Disorder. But the sex is just unbelievable. Even though we fight all the time we still have crazy chemistry and I miss that. I kinda just wanna have sex with him. The longest we have gone without speaking is 10 days. Should I wait longer then that and try to text him?
But you knew that already..
Just be careful girl. Abusive men are not anything to play with.
It doesn't get better.. but if you're using him for sex well then okay. Just make sure that's all you want.click to expand
Encouraging her to further engage with this abusive & controlling man "just for sex" ?
There's no such thing as "just sex" with men like this!
If you're having sex, then as far as they're concerned, you're theirs!
She needs to get out now.
scorpio24356 THANK YOU. Finally someone who gets it. That is what I believe, that I had to put my foot down on this one. He's abusing his dom role. This is his first BDSM relationship so..yeah PootyButt if you are so sheltered and lily white that my post about MY life, MY relationship ofiends you tgen stop trolling IT. Seriously say something helpful or be on your way.
If I hear one more woman say *but the sex was fantastic*
'he is a jerk, but the sex......
'he beats the crap out of me but the sex.....
'he is a sociopath, but the sex....
'he is cheating on his wife for me but the sex......
Are some women really this stupid?
Smh
'he is a jerk, but the sex......
'he beats the crap out of me but the sex.....
'he is a sociopath, but the sex....
'he is cheating on his wife for me but the sex......
Are some women really this stupid?
Smh
Posted by HareWould 125 be stretching it?
GTFO....
The cut off is 120 times.
Come back when you reach that.
Posted by HarePosted by MyStarsShineThat's shallow grave level.Posted by HareWould 125 be stretching it?
GTFO....
The cut off is 120 times.
Come back when you reach that.click to expand
Lol
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioHaha...hangs head in shame for themPosted by MyStarsShineYou'll be surprised lol
If I hear one more woman say *but the sex was fantastic*
'he is a jerk, but the sex......
'he beats the crap out of me but the sex.....
'he is a sociopath, but the sex....
'he is cheating on his wife for me but the sex......
Are some women really this stupid?
Smhclick to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I'm 48 lol. Too late for me honey, this is what I need to get off. Ive had plenty of therapy, I like the life style . I took the left hand path a long time ago. And how old are you? Why would you ask that? You think age somehow factors into any of this?
Are you stupid??? How old are you??? That behaviour is not down to his sun sign. You need to leave his ass now before that relationship turns even more abusive.
You need medical help.
Posted by crawlbabyWell the idea is we gain wisdom with agePosted by JohnTheBaptist100I'm 48 lol. Too late for me honey, this is what I need to get off. Ive had plenty of therapy, I like the life style . I took the left hand path a long time ago. And how old are you? Why would you ask that? You think age somehow factors into any of this?
Are you stupid??? How old are you??? That behaviour is not down to his sun sign. You need to leave his ass now before that relationship turns even more abusive.
You need medical help.click to expand
"Scorpio Man has Broken up with Me 117 Times in A Year"
Tell him to fuck off then. Unless you're an emotional masochist or sex is too lit (in which case just fwb him)
Tell him to fuck off then. Unless you're an emotional masochist or sex is too lit (in which case just fwb him)
This has to be the thread of the year .... Winning title...lol
Posted by crawlbabyNo one is leaving you with this guy!!!
Can none of you people just answer my question please? Because he told me to delete my Facebook and punches walls I should run away like I'm scared? I ain't scared. Dont live with the guy. It's not as dramatic as you're all making it out to be. All I wanted was a FWB situation at first but it just morphed into this control thing with him. Don't you understand my life style here? I AM INTO that sorta thing I'm a submissive. I like being doninated. It's my thing. You people are so judgey. I am aware of his problems, just want my Dom back.
You staying with this guy!
Go to shelter!
Or submit to your Dom and shut up until he will shut you up for good!
Read up on these relationship! Dom don't hurt subs! You are stupid! Get a book and get out! Read it in shelter. They probably have those books there!
You don't know what you are IN!
Run!
I am beginning to dread looking at the Scorpio board lol
It's becoming worse than a horror movie
It's becoming worse than a horror movie
Posted by GemitatiHurrah !Posted by crawlbabyNo one is leaving you with this guy!!!
Can none of you people just answer my question please? Because he told me to delete my Facebook and punches walls I should run away like I'm scared? I ain't scared. Dont live with the guy. It's not as dramatic as you're all making it out to be. All I wanted was a FWB situation at first but it just morphed into this control thing with him. Don't you understand my life style here? I AM INTO that sorta thing I'm a submissive. I like being doninated. It's my thing. You people are so judgey. I am aware of his problems, just want my Dom back.
You staying with this guy!
Go to shelter!
Or submit to your Dom and shut up until he will shut you up for good!
Read up on these relationship! Dom don't hurt subs! You are stupid! Get a book and get out! Read it in shelter. They probably have those books there!
You don't know what you are IN!
Run!click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineNope. Some of us just get sicker and more embittered. I can not even believe the level of condescension on this boatd. I dont need parenting here. I made my life choices. You don't know a thing about my history, just that I have specific life style tastes, now in my older adult life. Stop with the judging already if you don't know about this type of relationship, seriously, you are not gonna get it. Anyway, I got my answer, thanks for caring enough to patronize me for 5 pages all of you.Posted by crawlbabyWell the idea is we gain wisdom with agePosted by JohnTheBaptist100I'm 48 lol. Too late for me honey, this is what I need to get off. Ive had plenty of therapy, I like the life style . I took the left hand path a long time ago. And how old are you? Why would you ask that? You think age somehow factors into any of this?
Are you stupid??? How old are you??? That behaviour is not down to his sun sign. You need to leave his ass now before that relationship turns even more abusive.
You need medical help.click to expand
Posted by crawlbabyPosted by MyStarsShineNope. Some of us just get sicker and more embittered. I can not even believe the level of condescension on this boatd. I dont need parenting here. I made my life choices. You don't know a thing about my history, just that I have specific life style tastes, now in my older adult life. Stop with the judging already if you don't know about this type of relationship, seriously, you are not gonna get it. Anyway, I got my answer, thanks for caring enough to patronize me for 5 pages all of you.Posted by crawlbabyWell the idea is we gain wisdom with agePosted by JohnTheBaptist100I'm 48 lol. Too late for me honey, this is what I need to get off. Ive had plenty of therapy, I like the life style . I took the left hand path a long time ago. And how old are you? Why would you ask that? You think age somehow factors into any of this?
Are you stupid??? How old are you??? That behaviour is not down to his sun sign. You need to leave his ass now before that relationship turns even more abusive.
You need medical help.
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Aaaahh come on lady, what did you expect with that title thread, for everyone to cheer you on?
You asked and people commented .....
Posted by Hare
Maybe him breaking up with you 117 times is just his way of trying to get you to understand what it's like to deal with a Gemini trying to make a decision.
What the fuck would it be like if she was a Libra?
Lol
PeanutButterandElly Yes I'm aware of that. I introduced him to the whole thing and he now likes it but he's got no experience other then our relationship. I'm his first.
Its onvious he was alrady controlling and jealous to begin with so the life appealed to him, he's just abusing his role now. I want him to realize he's out of lime or we can't do this anyore.
Its onvious he was alrady controlling and jealous to begin with so the life appealed to him, he's just abusing his role now. I want him to realize he's out of lime or we can't do this anyore.
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioEspecially about the men.....what's going on?Posted by MyStarsShinelol everything is just bad Scorpio this and that ???
I am beginning to dread looking at the Scorpio board lol
It's becoming worse than a horror movieclick to expand
Lol
Posted by MyStarsShineHe is just old impotent. Don't mind him. Ever! LolPosted by Hare
Maybe him breaking up with you 117 times is just his way of trying to get you to understand what it's like to deal with a Gemini trying to make a decision.
What the fuck would it be like if she was a Libra?
Lolclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by MyStarsShineHe is just old impotent. Don't mind him. Ever! LolPosted by Hare
Maybe him breaking up with you 117 times is just his way of trying to get you to understand what it's like to deal with a Gemini trying to make a decision.
What the fuck would it be like if she was a Libra?
Lolclick to expand
Who?
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioYeah. Whoever get into with Scorpios and stupid - gets out dead or mental!Posted by MyStarsShinelol everything is just bad Scorpio this and that ???
I am beginning to dread looking at the Scorpio board lol
It's becoming worse than a horror movieclick to expand
Read your books or shut ta hell up!
117 times?
even though my math is not horrible, i'd have a mental block to count after the 1st one lol
even though my math is not horrible, i'd have a mental block to count after the 1st one lol
Posted by EvoxxxscorpioJust as well the women are perfectoPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by EvoxxxscorpioEspecially about the men.....what's going on?Posted by MyStarsShinelol everything is just bad Scorpio this and that ???
I am beginning to dread looking at the Scorpio board lol
It's becoming worse than a horror movie
Lol
Lol ? It's just they're picking the bad apples that's all lolclick to expand
Posted by HareThat fart in your face took a huge toll on you right?
That's terrible he's out of lime.
You can't make a proper Dark and Stormy without lime.
Why don't you check into rehab?
Bwhajaja
Imagine call to insurance company?
My wife farted in my face during sex and I can't get over a pleasure! I want more but she can't deliver!!! Lol
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