Scorpio Woman in Relationships (Page 2)

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October or November scorpio??

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October or November scorpio??

November. That’s the thing I tried to force one on him too he didn’t want one!

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October or November scorpio??

November. That’s the thing I tried to force one on him too he didn’t want one!

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Lol

Yea

Strange..

Sometimes virgos could notice something that might be good for them and trick themselves into believing the opposite

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But yea, keep it moving. Too many games! Good luck with that..

I have a scorpio ex too.... 😈👿😈👿😈😈

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Posted by Missscorpio30

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October or November scorpio??

November. That’s the thing I tried to force one on him too he didn’t want one!

Lol

Yea

Strange..

Sometimes virgos could notice something that might be good for them and trick themselves into believing the opposite

🤣🤨😐

But yea, keep it moving. Too many games! Good luck with that..

I have a scorpio ex too.... 😈👿😈👿😈😈

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What happened?

I broke down and texted him this morning asking to start over and how I feel about him ☹️ Still no reply

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

@Missscorpio30

Seems you are dealing with classic aries moon/libra venus opposition

Aries moon - I want this NOW

Libra Venus - I consider you, you need to consider me too.

He isnt providing either....so scorpio sun starts to obsess and investigate.

That sounds right! I just don’t know why he can’t just act right. He is Virgo sun cancer moon Virgo Venus

Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Part of the reason, I believe, that I fancy pisces moons.

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I know two kinds of Scorp women. The one who will never leave and the savage. Funny enough they’re sisters. The older one is the savage. The younger one is too nice to men. She still hasn’t learned, but I think she will eventually transform.

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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

Part of the reason, I believe, that I fancy pisces moons.

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lol...I do.

It's like we are cut from the same cloth....except I'm a blanket and they are a sweater 😜🤣😂

I have a hard time with pisces suns though.

It could be because sun is outside and moon is inside and 12th house is always lurking in the shadows like a weirdo 🤣😂

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We gonna have to have a serious talk about this issue of yours. lol

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Posted by jezzyboo21

This is funny because my sis is a virgo and her baby daddy is a scorpio. I have to ask, what is with the scorpio/ virgo pairing? Like what of virgos attracts you guys? Is it their obessive eye for detail? Their sweet and seemingly innocuous vibes. And who's dom and sub?

Virgo and Scorpio is not a match the sex is amazing that’s it

Sadly, with time this is what it's looking like for me. 😐

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Are you a Virgo or Scorpio? What happened

So we talked and agreed to be friends he said he didn’t want to lead me on or manipulate me since he is not finding what he wants in relationships 🙄 he plays so many games but I agreed to just have sex and be cool. As bad as this sounds right now I don’t want anybody but him and me being alone has not helped. It’s been 5 months and I’m still stuck I think it has wear off on its on and I’m happy to just let it go away naturally

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I found this on social media and I can’t help but to think it’s true:

Scorpio the warrior- will never leave you no matter how badly you treat her.

I’m starting to believe it’s true! I have another Virgo that’s mistreating me. I stick around because I mistreated him first but now it’s out of hand. He has disappeared on me and I keep calling him I just can’t let go. I really feel like I’m doomed in relationships since I can’t enforce proper boundaries. I thought I had it all together but it’s like when I try to be understanding in relationships I’m always getting the short end of the stick being with someone who mistreats me.

what does he do to mistreat you?

He disappeared Saturday. We haven’t seen each other since December but talked on occasion but out of the blue he texted me and we started back being friends I couldn’t see him at the time so this Saturday we were suppose to meet he said to call when I get on his side. I called and he didn’t answer and I haven’t heard from him since. He is seeing me call and text but won’t answer. He knows how I feel I haven’t been touched in 5 months trying to get over him but something just pulls me back to him. I’m crying now can’t get him off my mind. It’s so unhealthy I just don’t know why this is happening

How is this mistreatment?

Now I’m thinking you’re just melodramatic and crying wolf because you’ve made it his fault you’re horny.

It's mistreatment because he said he would meet, she called him, and he wouldn't answer. That's the worst type of abuse/mistreatment. Come on girl...you're smarter than this!

Sorry dude, if that’s the worst that’s happened, she should consider herself lucky.

Being ghosted is definitely not abuse/mistreatment. Being ghosted is not getting attention. There’s a big friggin difference. She chose to wait that time. He isn’t beating her up or degrading her.

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He said he didn’t feel good and was not near his phone. I guess it’s kinda degrading me calling him and he is not answering

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Posted by Missscorpio30

I found this on social media and I can’t help but to think it’s true:

Scorpio the warrior- will never leave you no matter how badly you treat her.

I’m starting to believe it’s true! I have another Virgo that’s mistreating me. I stick around because I mistreated him first but now it’s out of hand. He has disappeared on me and I keep calling him I just can’t let go. I really feel like I’m doomed in relationships since I can’t enforce proper boundaries. I thought I had it all together but it’s like when I try to be understanding in relationships I’m always getting the short end of the stick being with someone who mistreats me.

what does he do to mistreat you?

He disappeared Saturday. We haven’t seen each other since December but talked on occasion but out of the blue he texted me and we started back being friends I couldn’t see him at the time so this Saturday we were suppose to meet he said to call when I get on his side. I called and he didn’t answer and I haven’t heard from him since. He is seeing me call and text but won’t answer. He knows how I feel I haven’t been touched in 5 months trying to get over him but something just pulls me back to him. I’m crying now can’t get him off my mind. It’s so unhealthy I just don’t know why this is happening

How is this mistreatment?

Now I’m thinking you’re just melodramatic and crying wolf because you’ve made it his fault you’re horny.

It's mistreatment because he said he would meet, she called him, and he wouldn't answer. That's the worst type of abuse/mistreatment. Come on girl...you're smarter than this!

Sorry dude, if that’s the worst that’s happened, she should consider herself lucky.

Being ghosted is definitely not abuse/mistreatment. Being ghosted is not getting attention. There’s a big friggin difference. She chose to wait that time. He isn’t beating her up or degrading her.

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I completely disagree. Ghosting someone is new age abuse of the highest degree.

Guys that do this are losers, with no ability to deal with a relationship in a mature manner.

I do agree, given this turds modus operadi , she should consider herself lucky.

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Posted by mrfish23

@Mareinfame isn't this exactly what I told you that day? See... I'm not the only one who shares this opinion.

I've seen countless times Scorpio both men and women clinging on to toxic partners who take their advantage.

Lol... yes, I remember you sharing this with me.

I personally don’t know any Scorpio females in toxic relationships... they all seem to have solid partners, one of them even being a Scorpio with a Leo male. Power couple and he adores her. Also an Aqua man with Scorpio and he also adores her! But, one never knows what happens in closed doors... so, I’ve just never seen anything obvious. The obvious is usually that they are loved and even adored by their partners (even when not traditionally compatible by sun sign).

BUT... I do have one Scorpio male friend that had the most toxic relationship that nearly killed him and it was with a Scorpio woman. I never met her... but we had to meet in secret and he gave me his passport and credit cards to protect because he was so scared of her. He was obsessed and scared of her.... it was the craziest dynamic I had ever heard someone share with me.

So... I’m not one to deny it’s possibility.

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I was married to a Scorpio so I definitely agree two scorpios are hell together it’s too much drama and hostility it was secrets drama too I called it a Cold War. He secretly sabotaged me it was the worst. And I think you are right! I’m too controlling and I try to let him have things his way and you might be also right about the love thing and digging inside myself it’s so hard for me to feel the way I need to when someone can’t do what I want lol. I do have so much love for him I can’t even have sex with someone else it’s more than sex he just does it for me but I hate the fact that everything has to go his way. Him not answering hurt me because I was really looking forward to seeing him I don’t think I overreacted I think he should of communicated better that’s all I want from him. He doesn’t want to date me he said it’s sex so I’m good with that

Posted by Missscorpio30

I found this on social media and I can’t help but to think it’s true:

Scorpio the warrior- will never leave you no matter how badly you treat her.

Considering I ended things with a long term FWB [I thought I cared about] all because one night he invited me over to suck his dick without returning the favor, I’d say it is not true. I think scorpios have a line drawn regarding how we expect to be treated, though I don’t think we are always aware of that line until someone does mistreat us a certain way.

If you want to White Knight, that’s fine, but ghosting is not abuse.

It’s wanting to avoid someone’s reaction, because they’ve already been exposed to it. The reaction is most likely manipulation or verbal putdowns or accusations.

Op was melodramatic in her first post about all the mistreatment she gets from “all the men”. She’s the common denominator, so she needs to check her reactions.

No one is entitled to anyone’s attention if they don’t want to give it.

Im not validating people who blame everyone else for how they're treated when they’re obviously taking zero accountability for their part in the interaction.

And op just seems to expect something/attention because she demands sex. So she minimizes these men to just be motivated by sex.

From my perspective, she’s mistreating and they are ghosting because they are done with her shallow interactions.

Man or woman, people avoid those that treat them badly.

This place is a lot of women leading with sex and expecting or demanding a commitment.

That’s not how things work.



>>I'm more sensitive to "ghosting", or being ignored by people in relationships. Apparently you've never let that bother you, and just move on. Or perhaps you've never experienced it.

Nobody trying to white knight anybody, it's just offering an opinion from ones personal perspective.

I think ignoring someone you've had a relationship with is psychological abuse. JMO

Nobody says we all have to agree here. I don't believe there's right or wrong in these matters.

It's just a matter of personal perspective, and what's important to us.

It would be just as easy for anybody to answer the phone and say why they don't want to talk.

The texting and calling "hundreds" of times is problematic, and could be some sort of obsessive thing that drove him away.

That one there is a red flag, and may change my opinion, depending on the degree of exaggeration.

Ghosting is just weak and lacking the courage to face someone.

Run run as fast as you can you won’t catch me i’m the cowardly man/woman

🥴

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Posted by Missscorpio30

I found this on social media and I can’t help but to think it’s true:

Scorpio the warrior- will never leave you no matter how badly you treat her.

Considering I ended things with a long term FWB [I thought I cared about] all because one night he invited me over to suck his dick without returning the favor, I’d say it is not true. I think scorpios have a line drawn regarding how we expect to be treated, though I don’t think we are always aware of that line until someone does mistreat us a certain way.

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I don’t stay either but I do fine myself having to leave someone more than I would like. Not all my relationships end bad but my last 2 situation-ships is kinda making me feel like I have to take a break bcuz In order to deal with Virgos you have to take their mistreatment. No other men give me these problems right off the back like Virgo. I think you are right it just takes a certain thing that make Scorpio women feel like it’s mistreatment nobody understands becuz they are probably cool with getting the proper respect or treatment at all times. Some times I do feel like my standards may be too high since people say well that’s not a big deal and I’m making a fuss for nothing. I think I great others well all the time so I expect the same 🤷🏽‍♀️

Posted by Black-Mamba

i thought scorpios were fetishized.

just lol

What’s does this mean?