Scorpio Women? Are we hard to love? Is it hard for (Page 3)

Ray: Yes you're both are introspective, well aware of your sign. It's always something to see you two mud fight.

Mud fight?

Here's something I've learned about Scorpio Women and Virgo Men: They actually resent that we can see into them, and that we can apply our analytical skills to their oh so secret inner selves. I will never claim to fully understand them, but I have learned a lot in the past three years, and that knowledge can be intimidating to stinger tails...

About Taurus & Scorpio: I can see a Bull being drawn to her passion, and I can see her drawn to his strength, but I don't think this pairing would last. There'd be lots of head-butting, and seething undercurrents of dissatisfaction. Bulls aren't nearly as sensitive as Virgos, and they're definitely not mutable! Compromise? Yeah, right! I don't think Taurus has that word in his vocabulary...

"I can see a Bull being drawn to her passion, and I can see her drawn to his strength, but I don't think this pairing would last. There'd be lots of head-butting, and seething undercurrents of dissatisfaction. Bulls aren't nearly as sensitive as Virgos, and they're definitely not mutable! Compromise? Yeah, right! I don't think Taurus has that word in his vocabulary..."


I agree, sun sign speaking I think a Scorpio woman has to lay back a little to make with a bull. Otherwise it won't work. Unless there are some other things in his chart that can soften him up a bit.

While I'm thinking about it: I have a Taurus Moon. Debra first got to know me at work, where I'm Master of My Domain, and much more decisive. At home, I'm pure Virgo - full of "what-ifs" and "on-the-other-hands" that drive her to distraction.

But, obviously my combination works for her, so maybe a Taurus Sun & Virgo Moon would work for Missy. She could have herself a Smart Bull, who can compromise when she's ready to go after him with her machete...

Seriously, sometimes Missy writes things on DXP that Debra could write - if she only would.

lol @ Smart bull ... A Taurus moon is strong Taurus influence. I have a brother with that placement and the Taurus stubbornness and impulsiveness is quite present. No one is fully their sun sign, so there can be something in this bull that can make it work.

Here's my take on...

Potential Mates for Scorpio Women

1. Aries. HOT! She'll love his passion, and respect his honesty. This one could make it.

2. Taurus. Great short-term, but iffy long-term. Who will lead? Who will follow? Exactly.

3. Gemini. She'll never understand him, and will regret trusting him.

4. Cancer. Probably her Best Bet. If he's not too whiny, they'll be like two peas in a pod.

5. Leo. No way! Not room for her and his ego in the same house!

6. Virgo. Her partner for life - if she can ever get him to act.

7. Libra. Big mistake. He's your heart-breaker, and you know it, so why even start it?

8. Scorpio. Fireworks short-term, but thermo-nuclear long term. He will sting, too.

9. Sagittarius. Overwhelming romance, and stellar moments - until you learn how much he's spreading the love!

10. Capricorn. Mr. Freeze will give you frostbite!

11. Aquarius. Oh, please! Might as well try to catch ether.

12. Pisces. Potential soul mate - if he's not bisexual.

Ray: No one is fully their sun sign, so there can be something in this bull that can make it work.

I agree. I feel my own Bullishness at times - especially in the Fall (when you'd think Virgo would have more influence).

1. Aries. HOT! She'll love his passion, and respect his honesty. This one could make it. - This could have a potential of working I agree. I find them honest and upfront..The two I have met so far haven't been to my taste. One just loved the sound of his own voice and the other..well that could've worked if he wasn't so insistant on being GI Jones..

2. Taurus. Great short-term, but iffy long-term. Who will lead? Who will follow? Exactly. - This I don't agree with. I think Taurus and Scorpio make a great pair. I have seen many of these marriages whereby Scorpio is the woman. Taurus will probably bulldoze their way through any other woman..but defo not the Scorpio..as long as boundaries are drawn neither party will overstep the mark or they will know the consequences that await them. This is my favourite and I cannot wait to meet a Taurus. The sensual, romantic, passionate and hot-headed Bull...YUMMY...I had a fling with a bull on holiday about 4 years ago..god he was very passionate and romantic, then I met a taurus doctor who again drew me in..but his work schedule was crazy and he was about to go to America for clinical research opportunity, I have a taurus guy friend whom I have known for nearly all my life..we have the inexplicable chemistry..it's so mad, we can't even be in the same room cos I know something will happen..(he's my dad's best friends son) he's married with 2 children (but not happily). We only see each other on family events or festivals..Crazy cat..love him to death..my heart starts pounding if he's in the same vicinity..

3. Gemini. She'll never understand him, and will regret trusting him. - NO BLOODY WAY

4. Cancer. Probably her Best Bet. If he's not too whiny, they'll be like two peas in a pod - Too whiney, pathetic, manipulative head fucks who can't make up their mind if their life depended on it. Not to mention too afraid to let go of the apron strings...would happily murder one.

5. Leo. No way! Not room for her and his ego in the same house! - My longest and best relationship. 7 years and don't regret a minute of it. He was awesome. The ego is just a front for a very sensitive person underneath..but pride is their biggest downfall..they are immensely proud individuals and lean towards the traditional values for marriage and home. Something I respect.

6. Virgo. Her partner for life - if she can ever get him to act. - They are nice as friends but not sure about being a partner for life. Not for me anyway. Too negative

6. Virgo. Her partner for life - if she can ever get him to act. - They are nice as friends but not sure about being a partner for life. Not for me anyway. Too negative and critical. I like lighthearted people with depth..

7. Libra. Big mistake. He's your heart-breaker, and you know it, so why even start it? - Too fickle, airey and just idiotic...don't like

8. Scorpio. Fireworks short-term, but thermo-nuclear long term. He will sting, too. - Too signs that are sooo similar but worlds apart....My first love was a scorpio and we hate each other now. Well actually the hate is more from my side..I can't stand him..LOL..Plus I don't want to date myself...why when there are so many others to choose from.

9. Sagittarius. Overwhelming romance, and stellar moments - until you learn how much he's spreading the love! - No do't like them. They just like everyone which is just fake. They don't know the meaning of the word "no".

10. Capricorn. Mr. Freeze will give you frostbite! - I like them, but I haven't got time for their bullshit and time wasting...if you want a relationship, have one...otherwise fuck off. Simple. They dither dather too much..get on my nerves. Oh and too status obsessed...hate that..

11. Aquarius. Oh, please! Might as well try to catch ether. - This is a surprise one actually. Most of my male friends are aquarius..we just get each other...emotionally they may be retarded so based on that it might not work out..but I think with the right placement this could definitely work. I am not an emotional person at the best of times so it could work..My aqua friend told me the other day he had an erotic dream about me..I told him to get stuffed and not tell me about such things..moron...we speak to each other sooo much sometimes you'd think we were married..

12. Pisces. Potential soul mate - if he's not bisexual. - NO FUCKING WAY. Hate them..too changeable and fickle...oh did I mention idiotic? Don't respect them....and if theres no respect and admiration from me...you might as well die a quick death.

So based on the above the signs for me are:
Aries
Taurus
Leo
Aquarius

As you can see, and like I've mentioned before..I have love for the fixed signs..

I think I am in love......










with Janet Street Porter..

LOL..oi..leave her teeth alone..lol..She's wicked..love her

She's just so godamn honest and in your face blunt..love it..and she writes for my favourite paper..the independent..love her articles..Damn I just love her..

Anyways..I need to get a bike...gah!..and a car..(random i know)

i def need a scorpio mate....intense passion baby haha

o_O I see someone hasn't been stung (yet) ..

Allow me to take you under my wing Taurean 😉

LOL...together we can make beautiful music 😛

Sigh..if only you were like 7 years older!!!

I just couldn't date a man that much younger than me to be honest nihilist...I would feel too much like his mother..eeek no way...The youngest I would go is about 4 years maximum..nothing younger or it feels like paedophilia..mature or not..

You are right though..one has to be careful what they wish for...thoughts out there in the universe could take a turn for the worst..

I am reading a great book about this at the moment.."The unbearable lightness of being"..it's fab...really makes you think about every thought process.

Hehe..I will stick him on my vision board..howzat?!..he's already on my laptop desktop...makes me laugh..it's as though he's already mine..muahahha...but you are right Ni..I need to keep the messages to the universe going...

You're so easy to love and it's such a treat when you open up. I feel I need to be very careful and delicate when that happens and I like being that way. A scorpio female is so sensitive when they open up.

cancer male

What the HELL! 2005?

lololol

Posted by SamSamSam
You're so easy to love and it's such a treat when you open up. I feel I need to be very careful and delicate when that happens and I like being that way. A scorpio female is so sensitive when they open up.

cancer male

Awww, do you cry at movies too? Would you like a flower?

Posted by cancerguy

Posted by SamSamSam
You're so easy to love and it's such a treat when you open up. I feel I need to be very careful and delicate when that happens and I like being that way. A scorpio female is so sensitive when they open up.

cancer male

Awww, do you cry at movies too? Would you like a flower?

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No, I don't think we have that in common, fellow cancer.

todays my first day on this forum and i hope it can help me in my quest in finding out more about the virgo male. i need help on the male virgo and scorpio female relationship. so i hope someone can help! (the grammer and spellings a bit off, so please ignore)(i've posted this on a few other forums)

i am or was seeing a virgo for about 2-3 months. although i dont know much about horescopes but from what i have read he your typical virgo.
he told me from the very begining that he wasnt looking for anything serious which i was ok with at the time. but i after a while i've developed more feelings for him. he talked alot about his previous girldfriends and opend up to me very quickly which iwas quite surprised with. but it felt good that he could trust me. it took me a little while longer to open up but i did tell him some personal stuff about myself. not much.i dont really open up to new people very quickly thats just the way i am. i find it hard to talk about my feelings and stuff espcially to new people.

anyways, he talked about previous girls and the ones he was chatting to at the time. he's a bit on a player. it was weird at first but he used to tell me everything about these girls and was very open with things. it did hurt me but i thought it was important to him to chat about them so i listened. (i think thats why he initially liked me becuase i listened to him) we went out a few times but that was it. i used to see him at his place for a meal or just hang out. he was chatting to another girl last year and started chatting to her again a few weeks ago.he was really into her. he said to me that he saw her as 'partner material' she had good values and qualities. she's blown him off a few times and said shes not interested in him which really pissed him off. i listened to him rant on about her. i feel like he wants to keep me and play with other girls at the same time.

what really bugs me is that he used to say stuff like 'you'll be a good wife, lover' or 'mother'. it was like he was ticking a check list in his head, and my 'profile' seem to fit whatever he is looking for. but then he started chatting about other girls and i would get confused as to what he wanted and more intrigued and why he acted like this. we get along well. although he talks more than i do.!

Also forgot to mention that having close friends is really impotatnt to him as he doesnt really have many and said from the begining that whatever happens he wants us to remain frie

thanks

Posted by ScornedScorp
Hey, I'm a scorpio woman, I was wondering if there are any opinons on whether we are just hard to love or is it that we just can't find a suitable mate? Please include you sign with your response. Thanks.

Yes you are...because you never never never say how you feel or what you NEED.

That is why I am the only one who luvs you ... because I already KNOW.

( I also know enough not to luv you TOO much. )

I am a young scorpio, I possess every aspect of my sign it is almost scary. Since, I was in high school I was told by a guy that I was "undatable" in that fact that I was too alluring, basically, and anyone who got involved with me would get there heart broken. And that did happen several times, but whenever it did not work out I always thought it was my fault. I have been hurt by almost every guy I was with because the relationship did not work out. Now that I am older, I see its because I was bored with them and pushed them away without knowing it. I recently got my heart broken by an Aquarius who had some insecurity issues and eventually told me I was again "undatable" because I could not settle down from my wild ways. I will be graduating college next year without having had a serious relationship over 6 months. I know myself, and I know the intense love that I am capable. And I just keep wondering why no man wants to be a part of that. Am I really just too much to handle? Too intimidating? Is a true scorpio like me really that hard to love?

Posted by queenscorpio12
I am a young scorpio, I possess every aspect of my sign it is almost scary. Since, I was in high school I was told by a guy that I was "undatable" in that fact that I was too alluring, basically, and anyone who got involved with me would get there heart broken. And that did happen several times, but whenever it did not work out I always thought it was my fault. I have been hurt by almost every guy I was with because the relationship did not work out. Now that I am older, I see its because I was bored with them and pushed them away without knowing it. I recently got my heart broken by an Aquarius who had some insecurity issues and eventually told me I was again "undatable" because I could not settle down from my wild ways. I will be graduating college next year without having had a serious relationship over 6 months. I know myself, and I know the intense love that I am capable. And I just keep wondering why no man wants to be a part of that. Am I really just too much to handle? Too intimidating? Is a true scorpio like me really that hard to love?

If you're a wild woman then... you might be too much for Tarzan.
by the way.... I hope you are NOT a 12 year old. This topic is a little bit too advanced for you, yet.
Don't laugh, anyone can say "since I was in high school" and still be a 12 year old.
Anyway, just sayin'.

Posted by Rays Heart
I They have that presence and are attractive for the the most part. I think the female scorpios that remain single are those who can't submit wan. I think a scorpio partner is only good when she completely falls for you. Anything less than that is not good. If a female scorpio doesn't fully respect you, I don't think you should stay around. I've never seen a scorpio female fall for a so so type guy. A guy who's safe to go with. Sooner or later they get pushed on the side or disrepect in some kind of way.

True🙂

Posted by missmorals
The biggest difference between scorps and Virgos is that whilst we hate to make mistakes, we take risks and are fully aware that it may turn out to be a mistake..but we take it anyway..because we need to experience it...and we know we can handle it should it not turn out in our favour..Virgos are petrified of making a mistake..so as a result make some stupid decisions because of this fear. Fear inhibits.

It's not just our intuition that serves us well, it's our fearless and determined nature and the thirst and search for knowledge. It does irritate me highly when others think emotion drives us...it does to some extent..but we aren't ruled by emotion..we are ruled by passion...the astrologers need to get this right..The difference again between virgo and scorpio is Scorpio can admit we can be wrong..we have incredible sense of justice and fairness..if we have made a mistake and someone else proves to us that we have, we will admit it..Virgo can NEVER admit to a mistake..that's their biggest downfall..if you can't admit to a mistake or realise you've even made one..how can you learn and improve as an individual? As for making mistakes on individuals we choose to spend our life with...well life is a game of poker, you just have to play well and know when to fold. . Individuals we encounter shape us throughout our life..Emotions can at times override our decisions but always bear in mind, our emotions are very controlled...we know exactly when to let them loose and when to maintain composure. We are extremely astute on adapting..

100+

Personally, for me.....it's that I am bored of the same relationship skits. Call me jaded or what not, but romantic relationships have turned too predictable for me.
It's like watching one of those old 80's early 90's teeny bopper love movies......We all know how the story ends; even though its ten minutes into the beginning of the storyline.
Unfortunately, in the real world, there is no synchronized flash-mob wishing you well. And definitely no happily ever after...🙂

I can relate.. I'm finding it difficult to find love. I know that nothing is wrong with me. Its that connection I cant seem to get with another guy.

Kafka,

You are speaking my language completely! You just told the story of me. I'm Scorp with Gemini Moon.

Posted by incitatus

I am a Scorpio man and have loved a green-eyed Scorpio woman for 35 years. Each being too strong for each other to coral we parted a few years after giving birth to a Libra daughter.



We have recently celebrated our second grandchild. We've shared single-parenting and marriages and now are both single and happy to spend some time with each other and our grandchildren.



In my absence she has been influenced by men that have dulled her energy levels.



I meet Scorpio women and often fall deeply into a hopeless love with them, especially if they have the same deep penetrating energy flowing through their eyes that they excite in me.



A Scorpio woman with deep excitement would be wise to seek a Scorpio man to kindle her flame.



Incitatus

why you both got separated? I heared two scorpios can't live with each other because mostly scorpio males got bored .

this thread is 5 years younger than me wtf