Should I give him another chance?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ohfiddlesticks on Monday, September 10, 2012 and has 3 replies.
I am trying to decide whether I should give him another chance. It turns out he thought I was cheating on him with a friend I consider more like a little brother. He decided to retaliate by flirting with other women online. He told a girl I went to high school with that he dreams of being with her. I know the girl, but I don't have her as a friend on Facebook. She told me about it. While he was sleeping I snooped thru his cellphone to confirm and I read it all. I read it at 2am, I sat on his balcony crying my eyes out and by 4am I decided I was going to leave and go somewhere else because I was soooo disgusted by it. I didn't tell him anything in fear that he would try to convince me to stay. I even left his basic military training graduation ring that he wanted me to wear on a necklace. By 6am he was calling me over and over again. He eventually showed up to my best-friend's house and was crying to her and her boyfriend because I left.
I've never cheated on him and I have had soooo many opportunities to do it, but I don't want to because it's not right. He ASSumes I'm cheating on him and starts looking for opportunities. My biggest concern is if I give him another chance he will think it's okay to do it.
I haven't spoken to him about it yet. I don't want to see him yet because I'm so upset. I'm gonna loose it and I don't want to. I want to be calm when I do speak to him.
He keeps begging me for another chance and he keeps asking to see me.
He's 24 and a Scorpio Sun, Sagg Moon. I am a Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon and 21.
What do I do?
I've never cheated on him and I have had soooo many opportunities to do it, but I don't want to because it's not right. He ASSumes I'm cheating on him and starts looking for opportunities. My biggest concern is if I give him another chance he will think it's okay to do it.
I haven't spoken to him about it yet. I don't want to see him yet because I'm so upset. I'm gonna loose it and I don't want to. I want to be calm when I do speak to him.
He keeps begging me for another chance and he keeps asking to see me.
He's 24 and a Scorpio Sun, Sagg Moon. I am a Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon and 21.
What do I do?
Keep in mind, people accuse others of what they are guilty of themselves. Food for thought.
absolutely!!! ^^^^^^^ for YEARS my aries ex more or less persecuted me cos he thought i was cheating on him. he accused me of going with absolutely everyone. anyhow, i caught him cheating at the end of the day and cos he didn't admit it, i stayed with him (we have kids)....then after there was an incident where someone in our village told him i was having an affair with some man in the village. my ex immediately stormed off to the bar in the village square and was more or less taking guys out as he accused them of sleeping with me.
meanwhile, i'm comforting our kids cos this had all unravelled in a restaurant on christmas day.
anyhow...the day after the person who'd told him that shit about me confessed they'd 'got the wrong person'.
that was the pivotal moment for me cos it was when i KNEW he'd had the affair i'd suspected he was lying about and cos he showed me such MASSIVE disrespect in how he'd reacted to rumour, i lost it and told him to leave.
and he went straight to her, lol!
soooooooo....irrational jealousy is a mahoooosive red flag. personally, i've found scorp men to be like this too. they listen and react to rumour without one reference to the subject of it.
meanwhile, i'm comforting our kids cos this had all unravelled in a restaurant on christmas day.
anyhow...the day after the person who'd told him that shit about me confessed they'd 'got the wrong person'.
that was the pivotal moment for me cos it was when i KNEW he'd had the affair i'd suspected he was lying about and cos he showed me such MASSIVE disrespect in how he'd reacted to rumour, i lost it and told him to leave.
and he went straight to her, lol!
soooooooo....irrational jealousy is a mahoooosive red flag. personally, i've found scorp men to be like this too. they listen and react to rumour without one reference to the subject of it.
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