Should I give him another chance?
Keep in mind, people accuse others of what they are guilty of themselves. Food for thought.
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Thanks 88Pisces! You've got my back! 
I think that is what happened, the reality didn't match his dream. Oh well! I did feel super rejected but I am a Virgo and we chin up and move on! I have read that my sign moves on very quickly. I am already feeling a whole lot better than last week. Thanks for cheering me up!
I have a Pisces Moon too so I think this is why I have some kind of connexion with the fishes. So I know I do the same, I dream, and have an elaborate fantasy and end up feeling a lot of pain too. It is my sun in Virgo that helps me to move on quickly....we rationalize it so it makes sense to us to move on and then our feelings sort of follow....a handy technique! But I can sense the pain Pisces go thru.....my Pisces friend who calls me from time to time goes thru a lot of that. A couple of months ago when he called, he sounded terrible. His voice was dark and low and had no energy. He didn't want me to do anything but to listen to him. He couldn't take any advice. Then I didn't hear from him for a few weeks and I was concerned, so I called him, and he actually said he was feeling better and didn't want to talk about it because it would remind him of how bad he was! So we ended the conversation. I just let him call now.
I think that is what happened, the reality didn't match his dream. Oh well! I did feel super rejected but I am a Virgo and we chin up and move on! I have read that my sign moves on very quickly. I am already feeling a whole lot better than last week. Thanks for cheering me up!
I have a Pisces Moon too so I think this is why I have some kind of connexion with the fishes. So I know I do the same, I dream, and have an elaborate fantasy and end up feeling a lot of pain too. It is my sun in Virgo that helps me to move on quickly....we rationalize it so it makes sense to us to move on and then our feelings sort of follow....a handy technique! But I can sense the pain Pisces go thru.....my Pisces friend who calls me from time to time goes thru a lot of that. A couple of months ago when he called, he sounded terrible. His voice was dark and low and had no energy. He didn't want me to do anything but to listen to him. He couldn't take any advice. Then I didn't hear from him for a few weeks and I was concerned, so I called him, and he actually said he was feeling better and didn't want to talk about it because it would remind him of how bad he was! So we ended the conversation. I just let him call now.
See? :p
And it's not just your Mars that's involved. It's conjunct Mercury and the Moon so you could say your Grand Trine is something like this:
Moon-Mercury-Mars stellium (planets conjunct each other) trine Pluto trine Asc
Also there's a Sun-Uranus&Neptune-Asc T-square in your chart. But the orbs seems a little too wide so the aspects shouldn't be as stressful as they look.
And it's not just your Mars that's involved. It's conjunct Mercury and the Moon so you could say your Grand Trine is something like this:
Moon-Mercury-Mars stellium (planets conjunct each other) trine Pluto trine Asc
Also there's a Sun-Uranus&Neptune-Asc T-square in your chart. But the orbs seems a little too wide so the aspects shouldn't be as stressful as they look.
Posted by WaterboyCancepio
I think psychos probably have less voices than most, they probably have only one.
thats something that my comforting voice would say.
Elusive: Funny......because I am a bit weirded out by them!
You ladies are so inspiring!
how i would operate is that i would start to feel even the slightest emotion, and my mind would kick in and take over and make me a totally different person, it would tell me how i feel and ive come to realize that it is hard for me( or my mind) to realize how i feel, and that it would argue internally with my heart and logically determine why i dont feel this and that, and even convince myself that i dont feel this way. my mood when i am this way is especially grumpy, angry, and i dont like myself when i amlike it, which is why i am trying to come to terms with how i feel. this use to be a way of life for me, and i used to not think anything of it when i did it but now i see. i sometimes compare it to things i learned when reading about abhraham lincoln because he was the same way, also an INTP.
can i hide from them? for a time, and i know when im doing it now subconciously and i still do it sometimes, but when i am alone they start to catch up with me. the longer i run the worse i get, and the harder it is to accept. thanks for the understanding and support earthy
Thanks for the input so far. He reappeared today.
He commented on a picture I posted on Facebook. I sent him a text, asked him again what his deal was, he said he was playing nice because he still considered me a friend. I told him what I posted here, that being civil and being friends is not the same thing to me, and if he wanted us to be friends, a visit and a cookie weren't gonna cut it. I forgave him for the past, and I would be civil, but if he couldn't or didn't want to make the effort to earn my trust again, I would rather he left me alone instead of popping in and out of my life like there's a revolving door on it.
He asked what it would take to gain my trust again, I said consistency. Honesty. Dependability. I said it would probably not be easy because he had a lot to undo - the last time I let him into my life, I got a gigantic slap in the face, and he couldn't blame me for having hesitations, even just as a friend. I told him while he might not have emotional bonds with his friends, I care about the people I spend time with, and don't see the point of having superficial relationships of any kind. I also said, "And no, that does not mean I want to do you" (he knows snark is normal coming from me).
He replied, "Good thing...I'm a terrible lay. I think I can do all of those things as a friend."
I said, "Glad we agree on something, and I guess we'll see."
So there you have it. We'll see if he can put up or shut up, and if I can trust him again. At least there seems to be a little bit more clarity on what he keeps coming around for (assuming he's being honest about his intentions).
He commented on a picture I posted on Facebook. I sent him a text, asked him again what his deal was, he said he was playing nice because he still considered me a friend. I told him what I posted here, that being civil and being friends is not the same thing to me, and if he wanted us to be friends, a visit and a cookie weren't gonna cut it. I forgave him for the past, and I would be civil, but if he couldn't or didn't want to make the effort to earn my trust again, I would rather he left me alone instead of popping in and out of my life like there's a revolving door on it.
He asked what it would take to gain my trust again, I said consistency. Honesty. Dependability. I said it would probably not be easy because he had a lot to undo - the last time I let him into my life, I got a gigantic slap in the face, and he couldn't blame me for having hesitations, even just as a friend. I told him while he might not have emotional bonds with his friends, I care about the people I spend time with, and don't see the point of having superficial relationships of any kind. I also said, "And no, that does not mean I want to do you" (he knows snark is normal coming from me).
He replied, "Good thing...I'm a terrible lay. I think I can do all of those things as a friend."
I said, "Glad we agree on something, and I guess we'll see."
So there you have it. We'll see if he can put up or shut up, and if I can trust him again. At least there seems to be a little bit more clarity on what he keeps coming around for (assuming he's being honest about his intentions).
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We all have voices in our heads. You two, Waterboy and Westside, are just a bit (or in WC's case, a lot) more aware of your own. Not psychotic at all.