Are all Taurus Like this???
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by King_with_a_Sting on Sunday, October 25, 2009 and has 7 replies.
Feel free to correct me if I am wrong but it seems like Taurus women are nuts. My Mom is a Taurus and she is the most selfish, self-centered, greedy, annoying, pushy, hard-headed, stubborn, not-to-bright, whiney, co-dependant drama queen I have ever seen.
I'm sure some of her traits have to do with other factors of her psychoticness (she has done drugs her whole life including when she was pregnant with me)but I read somewhere that if a Taurus is unhappy that they're negative traits tend to show a little more. And this is what Im trying to get at, she is a very unhappy person, she has done nothing with her life, she has nothing, she always pushes people away from her with her prissy b1tchy attitude, so she has no friends. She is "seeing" a Gemini man who doesn't love her and constantly cheats on her, but she will do everything she possibly can to try and make him happy and to get him to love her while she spits in not only my face, but her mothers, and my brothers. She uses people out her own selfishness. She complains about everything, everything is huge deal I mean a drop of water can spill on the floor and she will cause a huge scene over it. People have done alot for her but she never wants to do anything for anyone else, and then its always someone else s fault never hers. I mean for f*cks sake when we were kids she gave up custody of us so she could marry a child molester! she is very inconsiderate and thinks of none but herself, unless she is trying to get something from someone. And if she ever does anything for you even the smallest thing, you owe her for that! at first she'll make it seem like she does it out of generosity but then later on she throws it in your face and then you suddenly owe her for that.
The biggest thing is the drama queen factor, like I said everything is a HUGE DEAL, and then when it escalates into large problems then she goes around and blames everyone else saying its their fault she does blah blah blah. That's why she has no friends cause she steps on everybody and pisses them off. Strangely enough my EX GF was exactly the same way, not everything but about 95% of those things I mentioned above apply directly to my EX too who was a Taurus. This Is why I ask are all Taurus Women like this? I know another Taurus girl I was interested in till I got the 411 that she was the same way. She likes to use people to get what she want's and pretends to be interested in them so she can, and always follows someone who can.
I'm sure some of her traits have to do with other factors of her psychoticness (she has done drugs her whole life including when she was pregnant with me)but I read somewhere that if a Taurus is unhappy that they're negative traits tend to show a little more. And this is what Im trying to get at, she is a very unhappy person, she has done nothing with her life, she has nothing, she always pushes people away from her with her prissy b1tchy attitude, so she has no friends. She is "seeing" a Gemini man who doesn't love her and constantly cheats on her, but she will do everything she possibly can to try and make him happy and to get him to love her while she spits in not only my face, but her mothers, and my brothers. She uses people out her own selfishness. She complains about everything, everything is huge deal I mean a drop of water can spill on the floor and she will cause a huge scene over it. People have done alot for her but she never wants to do anything for anyone else, and then its always someone else s fault never hers. I mean for f*cks sake when we were kids she gave up custody of us so she could marry a child molester! she is very inconsiderate and thinks of none but herself, unless she is trying to get something from someone. And if she ever does anything for you even the smallest thing, you owe her for that! at first she'll make it seem like she does it out of generosity but then later on she throws it in your face and then you suddenly owe her for that.
The biggest thing is the drama queen factor, like I said everything is a HUGE DEAL, and then when it escalates into large problems then she goes around and blames everyone else saying its their fault she does blah blah blah. That's why she has no friends cause she steps on everybody and pisses them off. Strangely enough my EX GF was exactly the same way, not everything but about 95% of those things I mentioned above apply directly to my EX too who was a Taurus. This Is why I ask are all Taurus Women like this? I know another Taurus girl I was interested in till I got the 411 that she was the same way. She likes to use people to get what she want's and pretends to be interested in them so she can, and always follows someone who can.
Well, to begin with, every sign has basic qualities that every member of the sign shares; however it depends on the person whether they take those qualities and turn them into something good or something bad.
In this situation though I think the drugs and possibly other psychological issues are magnifying what otherwise might be just irritating traits. I've never known or hear dof a taurus like this before.
Another thing to consider is that you may be subconsciously seeking out women like your mother because you're hoping to surrogate their love in place of the love and caring you didn't get from your mother.
As for the girl you "heard" about - sometimes people can be too nice.... and when that happens rumors are bound to spread. I've been accused of pretending to be nice to get what I want, but the people who really know me tell me all the time I'm the most self-less person they've ever met. I'm just not capable of putting myself first, even when I know I should. What happens is people see a good hearted person and get jealous and tell people "oh they're only doing that to get something from you". Now I don't know that is the case of this girl - but if you don't know it for yourself then why not get to know her as a friend before trying to date her and find out first hand if she uses people?
In this situation though I think the drugs and possibly other psychological issues are magnifying what otherwise might be just irritating traits. I've never known or hear dof a taurus like this before.
Another thing to consider is that you may be subconsciously seeking out women like your mother because you're hoping to surrogate their love in place of the love and caring you didn't get from your mother.
As for the girl you "heard" about - sometimes people can be too nice.... and when that happens rumors are bound to spread. I've been accused of pretending to be nice to get what I want, but the people who really know me tell me all the time I'm the most self-less person they've ever met. I'm just not capable of putting myself first, even when I know I should. What happens is people see a good hearted person and get jealous and tell people "oh they're only doing that to get something from you". Now I don't know that is the case of this girl - but if you don't know it for yourself then why not get to know her as a friend before trying to date her and find out first hand if she uses people?
i used to be close friends with a taurus girl just like u described. she was psycho before she started doing drugs but her family is seriously dysfunctional and i think that is why she turned out the way she did.
most of it does depend on a person's childhood.
how much do you know of your mom & the other taurus girls past?
if we've been tortured beyond our means as a child then yes, we do end up like that.
tortured beyond means can go anywhere from molestations, rape, abusive child hoods, being taken advantage of at a younger age etc etc.
how much do you know of your mom & the other taurus girls past?
if we've been tortured beyond our means as a child then yes, we do end up like that.
tortured beyond means can go anywhere from molestations, rape, abusive child hoods, being taken advantage of at a younger age etc etc.
My best female friend for the past 20 years is a taurus. She doesnt sound AT all like those described here. She's had a horrible life, very difficult, but has always maintained her self esteem and inner beauty. I admire her for all she has gone through and still is georgous on the inside and out.
She is still single, and that's unfortunate because she deserves the world. But she don't trust guys, because EVERY SINGLE one of them have let her down, abused her and even worse. So she has these walls up that makes it almost impossible for a man to break through. SO i can see a man thinking she might be Snobby, Conceded, and even selfish. But that is only because she don't want you in, she doesn't want you close. To those she loves and who are in her circle, she is radient.
She is still single, and that's unfortunate because she deserves the world. But she don't trust guys, because EVERY SINGLE one of them have let her down, abused her and even worse. So she has these walls up that makes it almost impossible for a man to break through. SO i can see a man thinking she might be Snobby, Conceded, and even selfish. But that is only because she don't want you in, she doesn't want you close. To those she loves and who are in her circle, she is radient.
Wow, that sounds a lot like the taurus in my life. You hit the mark with every word you described your mother with. I can't help but turn the tables on her everytime she throws a hissy fit or is feeling just plain grumpy. I learned what kind of person she is as I was growing up and now I feel nothing but coldness and sarcasm towards everything she ever says or does. You're right about the part where some of them only try to be nice to get what they want. What I despise the most though is their possessiveness and jealousy. Some taurus (only the cuckoo ones) need to have it drilled into their minds that just because some of us disappear, aren't 'on schedule', act 'erratic' (in their point of view, erratic equals 'not boring' = intolerable), talk to other people, we're not going to drop off the face of the planet! Seriously, these guys need some security therapy... love kind of bulls.
*scratching arm* Where in the HELL is my lithium?
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