Posted by julietteSo they like to use women for their money?
Feed him, sex him and be rich.
Posted by julietteHe needs a maid! Lol. I've done all these things (instead of rich I'm independent) & hes still not crazy about me(so I think).
Feed him, sex him and be rich.
Posted by TaurusBull1977I'm just now kind of getting an understanding about the other planets. Can you elaborate on the Mars & Venus?
He's looking for those core traits in a woman.
They're not looking for rich women. We're Venusian species with a great deal of morals. Not opportunistic robots.
as for the Mars and Venus....
You will need to keep communication lines open, and be spontaneous, just make sure this is in moderation. A little too much spontaneity will leave him feeling insecure.
Good Luck!
Posted by TaurusBull1977Also, why would spontaneity leave him insecure?
I meant *oriented.*
Posted by Redoctober2000Well I was not trying to entertain you...so theres that... & no one asked for your opinion so if your bored there are plenty other post to comment on. :-)Posted by InquisitivemindIf you have to ask a stupid question ie the title if your thread and this question here, u have already lost the battle twice over.Posted by TaurusBull1977Also, why would spontaneity leave him insecure?
I meant *oriented.*
U might as well pack up and go home.
I'm not surprised his interest in you in waning. Iv only read your post for a couple of minutes and I'm bored already!! ?click to expand
Posted by Feral_doeHaha!
At the end of the day, if he still doesn't want you, you can pat yourself on the shoulder for trying.
Posted by TaurusBull1977I hope this answered your question.
Too much spontaneity will leave him feeling insecure.
A little spontaneity is good. It has to be in moderation.
Why would too much spontaneity be a threat and leave him feeling insecure?
It disrupts the natural order of things.
His Sun/Moon indicates some level of high conventional standards.
Conduct yourself like a lady.
BEHAVE yourself.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by TaurusBull1977I hope this answered your question.
Too much spontaneity will leave him feeling insecure.
A little spontaneity is good. It has to be in moderation.
Why would too much spontaneity be a threat and leave him feeling insecure?
It disrupts the natural order of things.
His Sun/Moon indicates some level of high conventional standards.
Conduct yourself like a lady.
BEHAVE yourself.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Do Taurus go crazy over people? Or maybe we have two different approaches when expressing love?
I didn't see a question.
Just a statement.
Posted by Redoctober2000Sorry your wrong, he gives me attention. I just wanted to know what would make him fall in love and be crazy over me. But seing that Taurus are slow, patient and calm it more than likely wont happen.Posted by Feral_doeBecause he won't be!!!!!! Lol lol lol lol lol lol
At the end of the day, if he still doesn't want you, you can pat yourself on the shoulder for trying.
Taurus hates attention seekers and the OP's Taurus is giving her none so she is desperately seeking us to give her some!!!click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000Because I am special. You going crazy over me in this thread so maybe it is possible. :-)Posted by InquisitivemindWhat makes you so special that he should go crazy over you..
I've been knowing this man for years and I just cant figure out why he hasn't went "crazy" over me yet.... & I know Taurus are more of the calm and collected type so..... Do Taurus go crazy over people? Or maybe we have two different approaches when expressing love?
How do Taurus express love? Just by being there for you when you need them?
I have cousins and close friends who are Taurus & even though they go crazy over certain individuals they would rather tell me and deal with emotions on their own than tell the person that they're crazy over them.
Perhaps he senses your HUGE ego is bigger than your personality! Taurus hates vanity especially if it's not discrete. ...click to expand
.Posted by InquisitivemindYou have two different approaches to love.
Do Taurus go crazy over people? Or maybe we have two different approaches when expressing love?
Fire =Excitement + Temporary
Earth= Realistic and Grounded + PermanentPosted by Inquisitivemind
How do Taurus express love? Just by being there for you when you need them?click to expand
The best description?
This will vary depending on the Mars and Venus.
But if you're referring to the core traits....
It lights, up, and then burns slowly....and then the match is out.
It starts off euphoric, and then the love transforms to a different type of love, unconditional, and this feeling leads to a sense of permanency.
We want 'now and forever' with a lifelong partner.
Not just for current romance and excitement.
I hope this helps.
Posted by Redoctober2000Posted by InquisitivemindIt sounds as if you are extra dramatic, clingy... If he gives you attention why is that no enough for you? Cool down your ego or the Taurus will think you are too high maintenance and walk.... U sound really insecure. A Taurus will never give you the upper hand by going "extra crazy over you"...Posted by Redoctober2000Sorry your wrong, he gives me attention. I just wanted to know what would make him fall in love and be crazy over me. But seing that Taurus are slow, patient and calm it more than likely wont happen.Posted by Feral_doeBecause he won't be!!!!!! Lol lol lol lol lol lol
At the end of the day, if he still doesn't want you, you can pat yourself on the shoulder for trying.
Taurus hates attention seekers and the OP's Taurus is giving her none so she is desperately seeking us to give her some!!!
& just because I want him to be crazy over me does not mean I'm being extra dramatic, clingy and assertive... It was just a question.
Get over yourself and stop tripping on yr ego.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977How do you know when you've found that now & forever person?
I found it...Posted by InquisitivemindYou have two different approaches to love.
Do Taurus go crazy over people? Or maybe we have two different approaches when expressing love?
Fire =Excitement + Temporary
Earth= Realistic and Grounded + PermanentPosted by Inquisitivemind
How do Taurus express love? Just by being there for you when you need them?
The best description?
This will vary depending on the Mars and Venus.
But if you're referring to the core traits....
It lights, up, and then burns slowly....and then the match is out.
It starts off euphoric, and then the love transforms to a different type of love, unconditional, and this feeling leads to a sense of permanency.
We want 'now and forever' with a lifelong partner.
Not just for current romance and excitement.
I hope this helps.click to expand
Posted by Redoctober2000Posted by InquisitivemindHuh? U lost me at the " victim " part.Posted by Redoctober2000Posted by InquisitivemindIt sounds as if you are extra dramatic, clingy... If he gives you attention why is that no enough for you? Cool down your ego or the Taurus will think you are too high maintenance and walk.... U sound really insecure. A Taurus will never give you the upper hand by going "extra crazy over you"...Posted by Redoctober2000Sorry your wrong, he gives me attention. I just wanted to know what would make him fall in love and be crazy over me. But seing that Taurus are slow, patient and calm it more than likely wont happen.Posted by Feral_doeBecause he won't be!!!!!! Lol lol lol lol lol lol
At the end of the day, if he still doesn't want you, you can pat yourself on the shoulder for trying.
Taurus hates attention seekers and the OP's Taurus is giving her none so she is desperately seeking us to give her some!!!
& just because I want him to be crazy over me does not mean I'm being extra dramatic, clingy and assertive... It was just a question.
Get over yourself and stop tripping on yr ego.
Actually I'm none of those things. Its just You're not going to come on my post & talk shit & when someone comments on it now you're the victim?
Typical Taurus.
Can't you see how pathetic and egoistic you sound? A Taurus will never go for that.. They are too down to earth for that...
If you are not in a relationship with him already, good luck trying to get him in one with you with that ego you have.. A Taurus will not feed it.
If you need that much attention, get yourself another Leo.click to expand
Posted by jeane
You've been friendzoned.
Posted by KittyKnitter
challenge taurus to think in a different way. stimulate him intellectually, make him laugh and help him to laugh at himself. surprise him.,encourage him to surprise you, do new things together, do your own thing too, that way you have more to share when you come together. sex is play. talk about it. be imaginative. have variety. he might be shy. take the initiative. and sometimes let him take the initiative. sometimes you will want to push him and that might work but there will be many times you have to let him go at his own pace. i don't know if there is any set formula, all i know is that my guy is conventional about many things, mostly because he likes security so much but underneath, he is a rebel and he is always happy when he has the chance to break out of the box. i am his playmate. and you can believe it's not all about sex. although i read somewhere that a taurus will stay with the woman who fulfills him sexually,. it is way more complicated than that.
the challenge for my taurus and me was to learn how to get along in a relationship when we were so used to being loners. we have similar sex drives and were physically attracted but working out what we both like took time. we had common values so we became great friends. that helped us through rough patches. we give each other space and time when we are upset. and there is no all or nothing talk. usually we like to see each other every day but we might only get to say hello and goodbye. doesn't matter. all those little things that don't seem to matter, they do matter. because they build the bond. show taurus that you respect and like him for being different. that he can be free to be himself. he usually likes to do his own thing at his own pace in his own way. taurus is very sexual but you can let him know you are interested in him for more than his body. i have been telling my guy i am with him for his mind for years and he still laughs and cracks a sexual joke. never fake it with taurus. be authentic you. not an easy match for some, worth every effort.
Posted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
Posted by InquisitivemindFall in love with a cancer man. Works everytime.
how do I make a taurus man want/miss me more? Distance?
Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.click to expand
Posted by KodakDistance gets a cancer?Posted by InquisitivemindFall in love with a cancer man. Works everytime.
how do I make a taurus man want/miss me more? Distance?click to expand
Posted by InquisitivemindSure probably.Posted by KodakDistance gets a cancer?Posted by InquisitivemindFall in love with a cancer man. Works everytime.
how do I make a taurus man want/miss me more? Distance?click to expand
Posted by InquisitivemindIf you have their heart they are not hot and cold. They are consistent. It is hot hot hot all the way.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
It's complicated. Lol. I'm confused. I bet if we were compatible sun signs I would understand. We treat each other like we're in a relationship, we break up then make up... I go to families house every holiday. His mom calls me everyday.
Long story short I know I have this mans heart its just the hot/cold nature that throws me off. I was moreso needing a opinion from other tauruses to figure out how I could make him be hot over me all the time? Or is this just a personality trait I have to deal with?click to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindIf you have their heart they are not hot and cold. They are consistent. It is hot hot hot all the way.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
It's complicated. Lol. I'm confused. I bet if we were compatible sun signs I would understand. We treat each other like we're in a relationship, we break up then make up... I go to families house every holiday. His mom calls me everyday.
Long story short I know I have this mans heart its just the hot/cold nature that throws me off. I was moreso needing a opinion from other tauruses to figure out how I could make him be hot over me all the time? Or is this just a personality trait I have to deal with?click to expand
Posted by InquisitivemindPoor thing you're in a relationship trap (you being the emotionally trapped one) called an imaginary relationship.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
It's complicated. Lol. I'm confused. I bet if we were compatible sun signs I would understand. We treat each other like we're in a relationship, we break up then make up... I go to families house every holiday. His mom calls me everyday.
Long story short I know I have this mans heart its just the hot/cold nature that throws me off. I was moreso needing a opinion from other tauruses to figure out how I could make him be hot over me all the time? Or is this just a personality trait I have to deal with?click to expand
Posted by InquisitivemindThat's not been my experience. The longer you are together the less cold there is. I don't mean hot as in passionate, I mean hot as attentive, committed, communicative, devoted and loyal. From those things a Taurus man is crazy about you because he is always there, right by your side. Passion subsides yes I suppose, although I have yet to cross that bridge with my partner. We are as passionate as the first day.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindIf you have their heart they are not hot and cold. They are consistent. It is hot hot hot all the way.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
It's complicated. Lol. I'm confused. I bet if we were compatible sun signs I would understand. We treat each other like we're in a relationship, we break up then make up... I go to families house every holiday. His mom calls me everyday.
Long story short I know I have this mans heart its just the hot/cold nature that throws me off. I was moreso needing a opinion from other tauruses to figure out how I could make him be hot over me all the time? Or is this just a personality trait I have to deal with?
I thought if you've been with someone for a long time you'll eventually grow cold sometimes. I didnt know you can be in a hot relationship for 5,10,20 years.click to expand
Posted by tiki33Thank you. ❤️Posted by InquisitivemindPoor thing you're in a relationship trap (you being the emotionally trapped one) called an imaginary relationship.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
It's complicated. Lol. I'm confused. I bet if we were compatible sun signs I would understand. We treat each other like we're in a relationship, we break up then make up... I go to families house every holiday. His mom calls me everyday.
Long story short I know I have this mans heart its just the hot/cold nature that throws me off. I was moreso needing a opinion from other tauruses to figure out how I could make him be hot over me all the time? Or is this just a personality trait I have to deal with?
These kind of situations feel real b/c everything you do with him from meeting the family, dates, him initiating attention and sex and maybe he even says "I love you" from time to time but through it all the woman whose becoming emotionally trapped never gets a verbal confirmation that she's in a committed monogamous relationship.
He's not that into you so he blows hot and then cold to reset the situation back to the beginning therefore the sex continues to flow without him having to sacrifice his freedom. If he's not being consistent with you and has one foot in and one foot out then you may not have his heart. Try not to project your love for him onto his feelings for you b/c men that give their hearts are not this wishy washy hot cold types.
You cannot make him love you more, !Ike you more, want you more, you can't turn yourself into what he wants b/c that would mean you just being yourself is not enough, trust that you're enough, you're a beautiful Leo.
Consequently being in these type of situation ship eventually make women feel bad about themselves, not pretty enough or good enough.click to expand
Posted by tiki33Posted by InquisitivemindPoor thing you're in a relationship trap (you being the emotionally trapped one) called an imaginary relationship.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
It's complicated. Lol. I'm confused. I bet if we were compatible sun signs I would understand. We treat each other like we're in a relationship, we break up then make up... I go to families house every holiday. His mom calls me everyday.
Long story short I know I have this mans heart its just the hot/cold nature that throws me off. I was moreso needing a opinion from other tauruses to figure out how I could make him be hot over me all the time? Or is this just a personality trait I have to deal with?
These kind of situations feel real b/c everything you do with him from meeting the family, dates, him initiating attention and sex and maybe he even says "I love you" from time to time but through it all the woman whose becoming emotionally trapped never gets a verbal confirmation that she's in a committed monogamous relationship.
He's not that into you so he blows hot and then cold to reset the situation back to the beginning therefore the sex continues to flow without him having to sacrifice his freedom. If he's not being consistent with you and has one foot in and one foot out then you may not have his heart. Try not to project your love for him onto his feelings for you b/c men that give their hearts are not this wishy washy hot cold types.
You cannot make him love you more, !Ike you more, want you more, you can't turn yourself into what he wants b/c that would mean you just being yourself is not enough, trust that you're enough, you're a beautiful Leo.
Consequently being in these type of situation ship eventually make women feel bad about themselves, not pretty enough or good enough.click to expand
Posted by InquisitivemindRelationships do tend to have a cool down period but both people feel safe and feel secure with one another. They respect one another by consistently demonstrating how much they care for one another, love one another by showing up for one another.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindIf you have their heart they are not hot and cold. They are consistent. It is hot hot hot all the way.Posted by jeanePosted by InquisitivemindI think I missed that. Are you in a relationship?
Thank you!!!! I agree they are very difficult. The only real problem between us is what you said when hes mad you two give each other space. I'm more of a lets communicate like mature adults & fix it type of lover.
Tell me how you feel, cry if you have to etc... & i hate being ignored. I feel if you're in a relationship you should want to be around each other everyday even if you're mad. I react to being ignored but I'm learning to just give him space & not overthink.
It's complicated. Lol. I'm confused. I bet if we were compatible sun signs I would understand. We treat each other like we're in a relationship, we break up then make up... I go to families house every holiday. His mom calls me everyday.
Long story short I know I have this mans heart its just the hot/cold nature that throws me off. I was moreso needing a opinion from other tauruses to figure out how I could make him be hot over me all the time? Or is this just a personality trait I have to deal with?
I thought if you've been with someone for a long time you'll eventually grow cold sometimes. I didnt know you can be in a hot relationship for 5,10,20 years.click to expand