How do you make a Taurus uninterested in you?
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Hotgal78 on Monday, January 12, 2009 and has 24 replies.
Besides being direct and saying I do not want to be with you anymore, don't call me and ignoring them what esle can be done or said to make them lose interest?
"he has probably ALREADY lost interest in you if you had done all such stuff you mentioned above. he isn't just showing it to you YET."
- This is what I was expecting to happen really, but it has been the total opposite....It is like he is no charging full speed ahead at me like an enraged bull to get me to see things his way...He is not backing down by a long shot...
I have done every thing...I have ignored him for days and he still will text and call me, this is after telling him that I don't want to see him anymore...
Maybe its because he knows he is in the wrong...IDK...I really do like and care for him but I cannot and will not deal with him, which is what I told him...
When I talk it just seems like he hears only his own voice...If I say I do not want to see you, he will follow thru with Why?....Let's got to dinner?....He will even tell me he is coming to my house?..
I think he has come to my house too when I was ignoring him because I have awoke to multiple missed calls or text messages asking Where are you? Come out side...Pick up your phone.etc...
I have never encountered someone so intent on having their way....
- This is what I was expecting to happen really, but it has been the total opposite....It is like he is no charging full speed ahead at me like an enraged bull to get me to see things his way...He is not backing down by a long shot...
I have done every thing...I have ignored him for days and he still will text and call me, this is after telling him that I don't want to see him anymore...
Maybe its because he knows he is in the wrong...IDK...I really do like and care for him but I cannot and will not deal with him, which is what I told him...
When I talk it just seems like he hears only his own voice...If I say I do not want to see you, he will follow thru with Why?....Let's got to dinner?....He will even tell me he is coming to my house?..
I think he has come to my house too when I was ignoring him because I have awoke to multiple missed calls or text messages asking Where are you? Come out side...Pick up your phone.etc...
I have never encountered someone so intent on having their way....
GB - He has even shown up at an event I was at (IDK he was coming) an then has said "You didn't tell me you were gonna be here."
lol GB....I love it!...."I WILL BE NINJA"
lol GB....I love it!...."I WILL BE NINJA"
Isn't the purpose of ego tripping to have someone stroke your ego not have them bruise it by repeatedly rejecting you?...
I think he showed up there because I refused to see him so the only way that we would see each other is by showing up...
Thanks GB - I know I care too much often times about the wrong people....
Yes he is a Taurus. I am sure of that....Everything was going great between us and bam....I felt as though he lied to me confronted him. I explained my reasoning for my decision and actions and that I couldn't get past the situation so I honestly told him that I did not want to deal/be with/have anything to do with him anymore....
That was like talking to myself because he basically feels like he explained the situation and I should take his word as is and we should continue on our merry way.....I do not think so....
He has pushed me back into my shell, where I am trying to regain some level of peace and comfort but its as though he is trying to crack my shell open although I am pinching his lil ass all up in the face and everything....lol?
That was like talking to myself because he basically feels like he explained the situation and I should take his word as is and we should continue on our merry way.....I do not think so....
He has pushed me back into my shell, where I am trying to regain some level of peace and comfort but its as though he is trying to crack my shell open although I am pinching his lil ass all up in the face and everything....lol?
Insult their physical appearance or imply that they have no taste/class. lol
Tell him there's someone else.
If he doesnt get the hint he's definitely "stalkerish"
I'm in a similar situation. He just doesn't get that I'm not interested and I don't want to get rude. :/
If he doesnt get the hint he's definitely "stalkerish"
I'm in a similar situation. He just doesn't get that I'm not interested and I don't want to get rude. :/
The problem here is your reasoning - he believes that under the circumstances he can change your mind. As long as the issue isn't that you simply don't "like"
him he'll believe he can win you back. You have no choice but to patiently continue ignoring him and if he shows up where you are very bluntly tell him he's not welcome. It will take a while - we are stubborn as hell - but eventually he will give up; but not as long as he believes there is even the tiniest shimmer of hope. We just don't give up, and I don't just mean "easily" I mean we really won't give up..... not until we are 100% there's nothing to keep trying for. You just have to be as stubborn as he is; I'm afraid this one's not going away over night.
[I'm assuming by the way that we are talking about t2]
him he'll believe he can win you back. You have no choice but to patiently continue ignoring him and if he shows up where you are very bluntly tell him he's not welcome. It will take a while - we are stubborn as hell - but eventually he will give up; but not as long as he believes there is even the tiniest shimmer of hope. We just don't give up, and I don't just mean "easily" I mean we really won't give up..... not until we are 100% there's nothing to keep trying for. You just have to be as stubborn as he is; I'm afraid this one's not going away over night.
[I'm assuming by the way that we are talking about t2]
Please, just be straight up!!!!
I want to KILL the exes of my life who gave me the runaround.
One cancer actually had his MOTHER answer the phone & break up with me for him.
F'n PUSSY, just TELL the bull!
I want to KILL the exes of my life who gave me the runaround.
One cancer actually had his MOTHER answer the phone & break up with me for him.
F'n PUSSY, just TELL the bull!
How do you make a Taurus uninterested in you?
act like a crazy aries or gemini chick
act like a crazy aries or gemini chick
or this is good too...
Do something disrespectful to her in public.
do something to cause a scene or start dressing like the opposite of what he likes...
Do something disrespectful to her in public.
do something to cause a scene or start dressing like the opposite of what he likes...
...we dont let go until we're ready....truuuust me. I cant let go *crying* we wont until we're ready cuz we have a small voice in the back of our heads that say "he doesnt mean it, she just isnt ready to accept this love"...especially if its a Cancer we're chasing lmao. Sorry homie I had to comment
^ haha fixed signs, they think patience can win all 
You guys can be stubborn as hell and won't budge even a little bit...I still like you guys though.
My neice is a taurus and I coulnd't ask for a better one
My neice is a taurus and I coulnd't ask for a better one
basically if were interested in you we will make easy conversation but if were not then will try our best to get away and ignore you or just act like we got an attitude with everything that you say
My boyfriend told me that some random girl was trying to get with him, and he basically brushed her off and said "nah I'm good" and she got mad and called him stuck up...
he just laughed @ her...
he just laughed @ her...
Taurus guy just won't quit....He texts/calls, not daily anymore...Its more like every 3 days or 5 days if I am lucky....He told me that he still persist because one day I might change my mind....He said he cares for me alot and he had mad love for me....
I have done all things from being outright rude, to telling him to go fuck himself, to ignoring his calls/texts and he still persist....He persist even more so when I do not respond.....If he sends a text and I ignore it I can expect 5 more texts within the next hour, a phone call and maybe more text afterwards, all of which I ignore??_.In a few days, the same??_..
Me and a mutual friend of Taurus and I were talking recently (mutual male friend is one of Taurus male's closest friends)....I figure mutual friend knows Taurus and I used to talk although I never told him...
Mutual friend starts talking generically about how sometimes men make mistakes and they live to regret it and try hard to make right their wrongs, which are a major reason why sometimes they try to correct the wrong by asking for another chance....He says "we are all human, we make mistakes and bad choices. Others should see it in their hearts to forgive and give a second chance becuz you never know if this time maybe the right timing for a chance at a meaningful relationship."...
I laughed and wondered whether mutual friend was trying to see where I stood to go back and tell Taurus....I just listened and responded by saying: Fool me once, shame on you....Fool me twice, shame on me....
Mutual friend then says to me to stop being so difficult...lol...which the same phrase Taurus has been saying to me when I decline him....
I will say this, Taurus?? are fixed alright??_..Once they set their mind on something or someone, nothing/no one will change it unless they are ready to
I have done all things from being outright rude, to telling him to go fuck himself, to ignoring his calls/texts and he still persist....He persist even more so when I do not respond.....If he sends a text and I ignore it I can expect 5 more texts within the next hour, a phone call and maybe more text afterwards, all of which I ignore??_.In a few days, the same??_..
Me and a mutual friend of Taurus and I were talking recently (mutual male friend is one of Taurus male's closest friends)....I figure mutual friend knows Taurus and I used to talk although I never told him...
Mutual friend starts talking generically about how sometimes men make mistakes and they live to regret it and try hard to make right their wrongs, which are a major reason why sometimes they try to correct the wrong by asking for another chance....He says "we are all human, we make mistakes and bad choices. Others should see it in their hearts to forgive and give a second chance becuz you never know if this time maybe the right timing for a chance at a meaningful relationship."...
I laughed and wondered whether mutual friend was trying to see where I stood to go back and tell Taurus....I just listened and responded by saying: Fool me once, shame on you....Fool me twice, shame on me....
Mutual friend then says to me to stop being so difficult...lol...which the same phrase Taurus has been saying to me when I decline him....
I will say this, Taurus?? are fixed alright??_..Once they set their mind on something or someone, nothing/no one will change it unless they are ready to
I agree with GB, this well outside the reasonableness realm even for us stubborn Taurus types. Despite the stubborness and wanting to not let our love go, we DO have egos and a lot of pride, so I don't think this is down to a sign thing anymore, it basically sounds like a stalker and is quite frankly even scaring me.
If it continues I may have to threaten him with the RO, altho I was hoping that he would just go away by now....
He sure acts as if he has no pride at all....I would have never thought that he would be this way...He seems like the IDGAF type....boy was I wrong...
IDGAF = i dont give a fuck
Constantly challenging them and disagreeing to all their conventions will do it. You'll know you're on the right track when they start to insist that you have mental problems. If they're the old fashioned type, acting the opposite of that will also do wonders. You beat down everything they stand for and they will peace out faster than than a fainthearted kid in a house of horrors.
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