I was about to do something so stupid ! Venting

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by BeautyandTheBull on Monday, July 9, 2018 and has 5 replies.
So I am sun Taurus Virgo rising Venus in Taurus ... I almost fell into desperation just to have somebody around ...

I don’t have sex at all... I haven’t since 2016 .. of course no guys wants me because of it ... just fear getting used and it’s not a good feeling ... so I stopped having sex unless I wanted to do it .. I dont wanna do it just because someone else wants it ... I want a mental connection first ... of course I haven’t got it ... like ever ! So Tried to convince myself to have sex with this guy only because I want him around longer but of course when the time came it didn’t feel right so I didn’t go through with it ... ... I just can’t help but think how in and out he is in my life. and I kno having sex with him wouldn’t change that ...especially if he isn’t looking for anything serious anyways ...


How would they even know what ?


Posted by Impulsv

How would they even know


I’m sure.. just feels like it these days ...I’m attracting these horny dogs .. for the last few years every guy i hang out with never talks to me long because they want a physical connection

Posted by Toti

The thought no man wants you because you haven't had sex for two years is not true. That's you over thinking.

Posted by BeautyandTheBull

So I am sun Taurus Virgo rising Venus in Taurus ... I almost fell into desperation just to have somebody around ...

I don’t have sex at all... I haven’t since 2016 .. of course no guys wants me because of it ... just fear getting used and it’s not a good feeling ... so I stopped having sex unless I wanted to do it .. I dont wanna do it just because someone else wants it ... I want a mental connection first ... of course I haven’t got it ... like ever ! So Tried to convince myself to have sex with this guy only because I want him around longer but of course when the time came it didn’t feel right so I didn’t go through with it ... ... I just can’t help but think how in and out he is in my life. and I kno having sex with him wouldn’t change that ...especially if he isn’t looking for anything serious anyways ...
As someone who has dated multiple venus in Taurus, what kind of energy are you giving off?

Does the energy you give off align with what you want? Consistently?

Imo, venus in Taurus is always jumping in and out my life but it's tough to get them to honest and consistent with what they really want.

Almost like, they're mutable and not fixed. Constantly changing

So in my mind, I determine that they are only interested in a sexual relationship, so that's how I proceed.

Posted by BeautyandTheBull

So I am sun Taurus Virgo rising Venus in Taurus ... I almost fell into desperation just to have somebody around ...

I don’t have sex at all... I haven’t since 2016 .. of course no guys wants me because of it ... just fear getting used and it’s not a good feeling ... so I stopped having sex unless I wanted to do it .. I dont wanna do it just because someone else wants it ... I want a mental connection first ... of course I haven’t got it ... like ever ! So Tried to convince myself to have sex with this guy only because I want him around longer but of course when the time came it didn’t feel right so I didn’t go through with it ... ... I just can’t help but think how in and out he is in my life. and I kno having sex with him wouldn’t change that ...especially if he isn’t looking for anything serious anyways ...
can totally relate....your hesitation seems perfectly normal and justified to me....