Is Possible fair Taurus woman & Scorpio man to have a long lasting relationship?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by mskuran on Tuesday, May 10, 2016 and has 33 replies.
I met this Scorpio guy at work, at first glance I find him really attractive. The way he looks is like he's trying to undress you or something. Hahaha idk! We do get along.. smile he's fun to be around even tho he always annoys me & makes fun of me at work. So when I decided to quit in that workplace he started to message me & he asked me out to eat somewhere. & then after that we didn't stop seeing each other till we made out & we almost had sex. Till I found out that he's a player.. Well I know he attracts a lot of women. One of my previous co worker said he's just gonna bed me & he was once told me he don't want a relationship? So am I just a fling? We're like good friends tho. I've decided to stop seeing & talking to him.. Cause I want a relationship.. Something that lasts.. I don't sleep around!
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What's the best thing to do? Should I stop talking to him? Cause I cut him off.
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Do you want the cold harder truth?
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Take your time. You determine the speed.

Just date and get to know him. Ask questions LISTEN to his responses.

If your wants dont align with his, move on.
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If he said he doesnt want a relationship, believe him
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She sa8d it best. Listen to her
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
She said it best. Listen to her

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Not if he doesn't want a relationship...........
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You know what I was going complete opposite but I don't want to sound bitter. You know.
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There's always more to the story. People post and forget and then I get only one side. Soto be fair there really isn't anything OP can do but talk it out and see take it from there.
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I cut off a friend like that because other woman too. But it's true I don't trust him no longer I trust woman though. It's sad I want to trust what comes out the mouth but cant. So I go to the next best thing people that know about him longer than i.
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She wants a relationship and she has standards too. I mean promiscuous behaviour is a result red flag.
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Posted by mskuran
& he was once told me he don't want a relationship? So am I just a fling? We're like good friends tho. I've decided to stop seeing & talking to him.. Cause I want a relationship.. Something that lasts.. I don't sleep around!

@Infinite8 I took this statement as being from her, maybe I mis-read, is she saying the friend told her this? I love the Scorp/Taurus relationship but if this is him saying this - then you can't make someone want something if they aren't ready.
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So especially if they are fwb they can leave at any time.
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I get you I do.
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Posted by Infinite8
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Posted by mskuran
& he was once told me he don't want a relationship? So am I just a fling? We're like good friends tho. I've decided to stop seeing & talking to him.. Cause I want a relationship.. Something that lasts.. I don't sleep around!

@Infinite8 I took this statement as being from her, maybe I mis-read, is she saying the friend told her this? I love the Scorp/Taurus relationship but if this is him saying this - then you can't make someone want something if they aren't ready.

Yeah, I agree 100% with you if he said that to her.


But OP said a co-worker said "he will sleep with you and leave you". Which is something to consider and look into. I would if someone said that to me about a guy I'm going out with... BUT, I won't cut him off for it... That's not fair to him at all And not fair to OP either. We have to consider the co-workers intentions. We also have to consider trying proper communication.


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I completely agree with not taking the friends perspective - even the most well meaning friend will color it with their experiences/opinions and while hearing people out is one thing, using that to solely base a decision on, isn't fair.
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Even though they are just fwb anyways? Go live life @OP.
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Since u guys are good friends & have already fooled around, there's no reason why u can't directly ask him what is up. Communication I key. I noticed that my Taurus girl friends have a hard time communicating their feelings which in turn can mess up relationships. Be direct
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Is key*
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I have a good friend that is a Taurus that has been in a long term relationship with a Scorpio man. They have things in common but more things that are NOT in common. That goes with everything. The way they both go about communicating is terrible. The only reason I think they're still together is mainly for stability. The spark has died years ago.
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There are lots of rumour about this Scorpio guy being with couple of women. (I think just hookups) & that colleague that told me knows him better.Because they've been working together. & when we were still friends (b4 physical touching) he keeps telling me stories about those women. But he didn't told me about him being in a relationship with them.. I don't know what to do next? I'm afraid that if he already got everything, he'll just leave? But to others( people at work) he's very secretive about his personal life.. Like he don't even want me to tell them about us... Seeing each other? I don't get him. Do you guys think I'm just a fling? I don't know where to stand.
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I dont like that he talks to you about other girls.

Its weird.

How does that make you feel when he does that?
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I'd disappear it's retrograde and it worked for me and it may help you too@Op.
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In did based this type of bullshit or red flags and promiscuous red flag behavior on experience. Most have here I think.
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I think you should just be friends of course he not going to tell you everything like you got to pick his brain to see if he is genuine for you or its just a flirty behaviour trait he has.
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Ok she said he wasn't ready but she is. Lol if she did screw him it was more of casual type of thing.
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Just bc he was that way with ur co workers doesn't mean u will get the same results. Be clear in what u want and COMMUNICATE! It isn't fair that u are judging him off from other ppl n not ur own judgment. You are a grown woman. Like said previously, women can be manipulative esp when it comes to feelings. Talk to him and see where his head is
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He already told her though. Trust when I say people waste time on what could be it's not even about communication workers gossiping fuck them. It's about ties to not ready but drama if it didn't work out because one had feelings and the other didn't really.
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If the tables turned where they were both ready and talked less around work because people are nosy. Then okay both want each other and a better way of observing a person better is if they work together. You can see actions, thoughts, facial expression, a bunch of females trying to get in between them. But you got to have trust cause this is still a work environment.
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He told me he likes me... But he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship.. I think since the first time we met, we already like each other. We just both deny it.. the reason why I cut him off is I don't want to get too attached. I'm scared to get hurt.. before when we still work together, he's always on his phone while on break talking to a woman I heard him saying "she's the only one? " stuffs like that? It seems like they're in a relationship. I've seen it myself he's a player..but when we're together he takes good care of me. I don't know... I miss him tho. Sad
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Posted by SofiaV87
I have a good friend that is a Taurus that has been in a long term relationship with a Scorpio man. They have things in common but more things that are NOT in common. That goes with everything. The way they both go about communicating is terrible. The only reason I think they're still together is mainly for stability. The spark has died years ago.

This is why I believe that the taurus-scorpio relationship heavily depends on constant communication.
Additionally, it is crucial that there is a compatible intellectual and emotional rapport. Without it, the relationship will go up in flames...and I would expect there to be actual flames.
These two are too stubborn and strong-willed, that if they aren't on the same page the majority of the time, these attributes will do nothing but drive a bigger wedge between them as time passes.

Not only that, but one has to be more flexible than the other...and...that's not gonna be me.

Kidding, but not really, but kidding...but...
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You hit the nail on the head. They're both VERY stubborn. That wedge has been between them for years. They aren't happy except for comfort/stability/financial which is huge with both Taurus & Scorpio
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Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by mskuran
He told me he likes me... But he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship.. I think since the first time we met, we already like each other. We just both deny it.. the reason why I cut him off is I don't want to get too attached. I'm scared to get hurt.. before when we still work together, he's always on his phone while on break talking to a woman I heard him saying "she's the only one? " stuffs like that? It seems like they're in a relationship. I've seen it myself he's a player..but when we're together he takes good care of me. I don't know... I miss him tho. Sad

Apparently you miss this guy, but don't be too eager. Just do the eye contact thing and be mysterious when you see him. He'll come chase you.

When he chases, make it verbally clear that you would only consider a man who wants a committed relationship. Be sweet but direct about it. Rinse and repeat until it gets into his thick skull.

If nothing happens, you didn't really waste your time.
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Mmm how to be mysterious?i heard Scorpios likes mysteries.
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That way you get to appreciate all the good things of being near him without seeing him as anything deep. It's just a matter of shifting your point of view of him. It should be easy if it turns you off that he has playerish or flirtatious ways that you don't appreciate in a potential mate.

That way, you get to know him and be his friend but don't complicate things by putting yourself in a position where you might get hurt by him.


Thank you!! I really do appreciate it❤ thanks a lot. But I heard Taurus & Scorpio attracts each other sexually/physically ? Is it just in the sexual level? Cause I want emotional connection too. Is there a chance for a Scorpio to fall in love with a Taurus?
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