Just wanna let my fellow Taurus know..and any other signs

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by T4taurus on Thursday, April 13, 2017 and has 8 replies.
It's okay to be sensitive and overly emotional. It's okay to put yourself first and most importantly say NO and be okay with it.

I find myself and other tauruses blocking our emotions, subsiding US and catering to other people or putting others before ourselves.

I often feel unsatisfied with myself, although it makes me happy making others feel happy. Often times feeling like "they" are never there for me like I am for them and realizing it's okay!! to feel that way.

The only way to change it is being comfortable doing things for others and not expecting anything in return. I think l/we have a lot of strength that others don't possess and sometimes it takes a tool on us.

*venting*
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Posted by Nevermore
Posted by T4taurus

I often feel unsatisfied with myself, although it makes me happy making others feel happy. Often times feeling like "they" are never there for me like I am for them and realizing it's okay!! to feel that way.

I have read the quote somewhere..

it goes like this:

"If you ever expected return from other after you gave the kindness to them. Thats not kindness, but business."

Or something.
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. It got to a point where I've given so much when I DIDNT want to I had to LEARN to say no!


I've learned to give and not expect things back

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100



I am totally like this in intimate relationships but not with family and friends.

I have learnt many lessons and am more discerning now as to whom I "sacrifice" myself for ie "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours"...

In fact because of the way I am in intimate relationships I have learnt to take my time very very slowly before even getting into any kind of platonic friendship let alone intimate relationship.. People are selfish... Got to study people really hard before diving in...

What's interesting is I'm the opposite

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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100


I am totally like this in intimate relationships but not with family and friends.

I have learnt many lessons and am more discerning now as to whom I "sacrifice" myself for ie "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours"...

In fact because of the way I am in intimate relationships I have learnt to take my time very very slowly before even getting into any kind of platonic friendship let alone intimate relationship.. People are selfish... Got to study people really hard before diving in...

At any point in human evolution, this is hard. I find that while most people can render little help on a daily basis, to have that someone who will look out for you or take a bullet for you is extremely difficult. Most people are takers not givers, or simply they are very bad at sensing others' needs.

Among the zodiac, I have found Taurus and Scorps to be the most loyal so far in that they have the belief of sacrificing their lives for the ones they love or if you need a favour in times of need, they'd be there if you're considered a bro/good friend.

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Posted by T4taurus
It's okay to be sensitive and overly emotional. It's okay to put yourself first and most importantly say NO and be okay with it.

I find myself and other tauruses blocking our emotions, subsiding US and catering to other people or putting others before ourselves.

I often feel unsatisfied with myself, although it makes me happy making others feel happy. Often times feeling like "they" are never there for me like I am for them and realizing it's okay!! to feel that way.

The only way to change it is being comfortable doing things for others and not expecting anything in return. I think l/we have a lot of strength that others don't possess and sometimes it takes a tool on us.

*venting*
Never put yourself second and expect people to be kind and lovely. People are generally selfish and horrible. I know how conflicting for us as Tauruses is trying to be selfish - like for an Aries or Sagittarius for example is their own very being.

I can't wait for next year when Uranus will FINALLY move in our house, the Second house and personally i can't wait to be revolutionized and change my roots.

Never take shit from people. I have ALWAYS been a warrior and bullied back the one who bullied me. That was the only language they knew and talked. So I put them in their place. Be nice with nice people and horrible with horrible people. Either if they are God, your mother, your family, your lover, your child, your boss, or strangers. I always treat people the very same way they're treating me. In this sense I'm very close to the Libran principle of "fairness". be a mirror and a good observer of people.
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Posted by T4taurus
Posted by Nevermore
Posted by T4taurus

I often feel unsatisfied with myself, although it makes me happy making others feel happy. Often times feeling like "they" are never there for me like I am for them and realizing it's okay!! to feel that way.

I have read the quote somewhere..

it goes like this:

"If you ever expected return from other after you gave the kindness to them. Thats not kindness, but business."

Or something.
. It got to a point where I've given so much when I DIDNT want to I had to LEARN to say no!


I've learned to give and not expect things back

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It is good to give. But do it consciously when you know that you're not expecting anything back in return.

Also: learn to TAKE. I personally think this is a lifetime lesson Taurus has to learn themselves ESPECIALLY because we're such givers!

Learn to take and to ask for your rights.

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Ugh I needed this. I just seriously got into it with my Cap guy because he says I'm being over sensitive and I think he's being inconsiderate. He wants a sweet loving woman but doesn't realize he cannot relate to a woman who gives him peace the same as the women who gave him hell. He may learn the hard way.
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Posted by T4taurus
It's okay to be sensitive and overly emotional. It's okay to put yourself first and most importantly say NO and be okay with it.

I find myself and other tauruses blocking our emotions, subsiding US and catering to other people or putting others before ourselves.

I often feel unsatisfied with myself, although it makes me happy making others feel happy. Often times feeling like "they" are never there for me like I am for them and realizing it's okay!! to feel that way.

The only way to change it is being comfortable doing things for others and not expecting anything in return. I think l/we have a lot of strength that others don't possess and sometimes it takes a tool on us.

*venting*
I feel u completely.. only difference is I'm Sagittarius tho.

Always feel that I'm always there for everyone no ones there for me.....Wear my heart on sleeves at time.

And a very sensitive person.. always try to put myself in other people shoes. Never what anybody going through.

Just try to look things on the bright... God bless ppl for being humble and genuine...



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