Taurus Girls
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what could make a taurus girl disinterested???what they do not like from a guy?I've heard tha they prefer tough-men is tha a fact????
Depends on the girl. I used to be into "tough guys". I out grew that preference because tough guys can be really unstable and I hate instability. I guess the answer to your question would depend on the maturity level of the girl. But most definitely... I would get very annoyed with someone who is not stable. By unstable I mean... inconsistent behaviour (like not keeping plans with me, not spending time with me or constant moodiness; someone who is not goal oriented and has no direction (as in not sure what they want in life, a rolling stone or unable to commit). Any of these things along with the many other traits of instability will definitely keep me uninterested in a guy.
A loyal, honest, straightforward, goal oriented, achieving and affectionate man is a keeper in my books.
Good luck with the Taurus! What sign are you?
A loyal, honest, straightforward, goal oriented, achieving and affectionate man is a keeper in my books.
Good luck with the Taurus! What sign are you?
i am virgo but i think at times i am becoming boring and so i am worried about making her fell bored too!!!that's why i am asking.
Yeah, it does depend on the girl. I agree, that I need someone who is stable as well, but I definitely attract the EUM (emotionally unavailable men), but I have committment issues...
Anywho, I look at the following things, not necessarily in any particular order:
1. Intelligent
2. Good sense of humor
3. Confident w/a bit of arrogance (not too much)
4. Someone who is goal oriented and is working towards something positive to accomplish in their life
5. Let's me have my way
(not all the time, but I do like to have my way, but I do like a guy who can say "No" to me too. That means I can't run him over)
6. Appreciative & RESPECTFUL. If I do something above and beyond in the relationship, I expect a "Thank You" or a "Damn Baby, you're all that!" (lol)
7. Sexy (obviously, that's a very subjective thing, but I like different things in different men, but looks are not the end all be all to me)
8. Healthy sex drive
9. Well groomed (dresses nice and smells good - whether he has on jeans or a Hugo Boss or Armani suit)
10. Spontaneous
That's not everything, but if I don't see and/or have those things with someone, it won't work.
Anywho, I look at the following things, not necessarily in any particular order:
1. Intelligent
2. Good sense of humor
3. Confident w/a bit of arrogance (not too much)
4. Someone who is goal oriented and is working towards something positive to accomplish in their life
5. Let's me have my way
(not all the time, but I do like to have my way, but I do like a guy who can say "No" to me too. That means I can't run him over)6. Appreciative & RESPECTFUL. If I do something above and beyond in the relationship, I expect a "Thank You" or a "Damn Baby, you're all that!" (lol)
7. Sexy (obviously, that's a very subjective thing, but I like different things in different men, but looks are not the end all be all to me)
8. Healthy sex drive
9. Well groomed (dresses nice and smells good - whether he has on jeans or a Hugo Boss or Armani suit)
10. Spontaneous
That's not everything, but if I don't see and/or have those things with someone, it won't work.
To be honest I find Virgos to be boring because they are not much of a challenge. They please and compliment religiously and these things are good but sometimes I wonder if they are being genuine. I also fear getting too used to the way a Virgo man is in the beginning and then he just stops doing what he started when he gets comfortable. That's just my experience though.
USC... alot of those things are like myself as well. Especially the spoiling, sexy and well groomed qualities in a man. He HAS to smell good and look good ALWAYS. I love a guy that takes pride in himself and I guess that is where the liking of arrogance comes in for me as well.
USC... alot of those things are like myself as well. Especially the spoiling, sexy and well groomed qualities in a man. He HAS to smell good and look good ALWAYS. I love a guy that takes pride in himself and I guess that is where the liking of arrogance comes in for me as well.
I've never dated or really known too many Virgos (male or female), so I really don't know. I'm a Scorpio, Libra and Cancer magnet with a couple of Taurus' and now a Leo thrown in the mix which is a very new and different experience, but he has many of the qualities I need, as he is DEFINITELY sexy, intelligent, arrogant and smells damn good !
!Also, I agree with you about insincere compliments; that's actually a huge turn off to me. If my BS O'meter goes off, the guy is as good as toast to me. Don't say "You're the hottest/prettiest girl here." I'm NOT gonna buy it, cause I KNOW men will say anything to get na?ve women into bed. You gotta' come at me with a helluva' lot more than that! Lol.
when you are saying over and over again that he has to smell good you mean by wearing a perfume or something like that right????
sorry for asking again but do you find a taurus2taurus relationship possible?????
and by the way i do nto think tha we ever get truly comfortable!!!lol!
Hey USC how's that Leo/Taurus thing going? I have to say my own situation is extremely SLOW...I almost threw myself at him (I sald almost ok?? LOL) and he still doesnt get it.
Man!!!!
Man!!!!
Hey Chatz! Good grief, I can't believe he's not catching on! How did you almost throw yourself at him? Maybe he needs it to be direct and straightforward because some people just don't catch on to hints. If he's still hanging around you, I'm sure he likes you, but maybe he's feeling you out (figuratively, not literally ). The Leo is coming along nicely. We've had some positive breakthroughs. I've taken some great advice I've received on this board (Tiki gave me some great insight). As I discussed in another thread (goodness only knows which one ) I have a lot of pride and it's hard for me to just put things out there. I've started doing that more (with some slight missteps) and it seems to be working. Very "quid pro quo" I'll share mine if you share yours type of thing. Plus, I think there are some issues he has with me having a lot of male friends and he just probably didn't know where I was trying to go with this relationship, but I think things are more clear. Eventually I'm going to have to basically just ask him if he has any intentions of an exclusive relationship with me (we live in different states); that's when the rubber will meet the road 
I don't believe in ultimatums, and if you DO an ultimatum you damn sure better be willing to live with the results; whether they are in your favor or not). This casual dating thing has been going on now for two, almost 3 years, and he's been moved out of state now for a year. I'd be lying if I didn't say I was scared to really have that conversation because I know it's a 50% chance he'll be like "yeah, this was fun, but I don't want a serious one on one relationship so see ya!" That will break my heart, but it's a reality I have to face. He'll be here in 3 weeks, so I would want to have this conversation face to face.
). The Leo is coming along nicely. We've had some positive breakthroughs. I've taken some great advice I've received on this board (Tiki gave me some great insight). As I discussed in another thread (goodness only knows which one ) I have a lot of pride and it's hard for me to just put things out there. I've started doing that more (with some slight missteps) and it seems to be working. Very "quid pro quo" I'll share mine if you share yours type of thing. Plus, I think there are some issues he has with me having a lot of male friends and he just probably didn't know where I was trying to go with this relationship, but I think things are more clear. Eventually I'm going to have to basically just ask him if he has any intentions of an exclusive relationship with me (we live in different states); that's when the rubber will meet the road I don't believe in ultimatums, and if you DO an ultimatum you damn sure better be willing to live with the results; whether they are in your favor or not). This casual dating thing has been going on now for two, almost 3 years, and he's been moved out of state now for a year. I'd be lying if I didn't say I was scared to really have that conversation because I know it's a 50% chance he'll be like "yeah, this was fun, but I don't want a serious one on one relationship so see ya!" That will break my heart, but it's a reality I have to face. He'll be here in 3 weeks, so I would want to have this conversation face to face.axa.axa
Taurus girls are hot nuff said. Well when I say that I have my crush on my mind... And she is damn SEXY! WOW
what's your sun sign shishno?
Cancer =P
"You know what sign bores me? Virgo!"
Hahaha...
Hahaha...
"what could make a taurus girl disinterested???"
Well, I have no interest in men with;
No money
No style
No class
No manners
what they do not like from a guy?
See first response
I've heard tha they prefer tough-men is tha a fact????
Yep, I like men with balls. All sissys need not apply...or if I inadvertently found out that I'd fallen in love with a sissy, I'd just mould his balls into steel...or...he'd get the boot.
C'est tout!
Well, I have no interest in men with;
No money
No style
No class
No manners
what they do not like from a guy?
See first response
I've heard tha they prefer tough-men is tha a fact????
Yep, I like men with balls. All sissys need not apply...or if I inadvertently found out that I'd fallen in love with a sissy, I'd just mould his balls into steel...or...he'd get the boot.
C'est tout!
i've already read your story thecontessinano money no style no class.....mmmmm....this sounds like a capricorn....
no money no style no class.....mmmmm....this sounds like a capricorn....ohhhh boy!!!!Don't you think that you are ovrreacting telling that virgos are boring!!!It's preety harsh you know!!!!By the way if you think that virgos are boring then what others are you in for!??????
"I like a man with balls too!!
I need a man that is going to step up to the plate and not
let anyone push him around. I need someone that is mature.
Someone that talks, someone that isn't wishy/washy. Tough.
Brawny man. Has that edge I love!! I guess someone
just like me! LOL!!"
Ferdy, I am very much like this too... I guess that's why I am attracted to "bad boys". Just recently I have been trying to look for the opposite, because those bad boys can really hurt you. So I became attracted to a sensitive Crab, although he's a little too emotional, they tend to withdraw into their shells, which becomes a challenge for me. I don't like the unreachable, or to be told no. So I guess he is sensitive enough to please my wants, and challenging enough to keep me coming back.
I think Virgos may come across boring because, to me they seem so predictable and easy. They leave no room for me to wonder, they let all their feelings out immediately upon meeting me. A good trait to some, but not challenging enough for me. I think over all they would be a good catch for a more mature Taurus... later in life, when the Taurus is ready for marriage and kids. I think Virgos can help Taurus achieve alot, they have alot of similarities when it comes to stability.
I need a man that is going to step up to the plate and not
let anyone push him around. I need someone that is mature.
Someone that talks, someone that isn't wishy/washy. Tough.
Brawny man. Has that edge I love!! I guess someone
just like me! LOL!!"
Ferdy, I am very much like this too... I guess that's why I am attracted to "bad boys". Just recently I have been trying to look for the opposite, because those bad boys can really hurt you. So I became attracted to a sensitive Crab, although he's a little too emotional, they tend to withdraw into their shells, which becomes a challenge for me. I don't like the unreachable, or to be told no. So I guess he is sensitive enough to please my wants, and challenging enough to keep me coming back.
I think Virgos may come across boring because, to me they seem so predictable and easy. They leave no room for me to wonder, they let all their feelings out immediately upon meeting me. A good trait to some, but not challenging enough for me. I think over all they would be a good catch for a more mature Taurus... later in life, when the Taurus is ready for marriage and kids. I think Virgos can help Taurus achieve alot, they have alot of similarities when it comes to stability.
Yep me too! I like a protector...
My Cancer guy is all about his mom, I knew his mom after a couple of months of meeting him. It was very important for him that his mom liked me, because it would determine whether I was a keeper. LOL Cancers. He's not too bad with it... he talks to her on the phone everyday and lives 5 minutes away from her but he doesn't see her everyday and he only does thing with her on important occasions. So she is there, but she is not too much in his life.
We have been together for a year and a half.
Cancers can be tough to be with in the beginning, although Taurus is supposed to be their best match. Supposingly, both signs require stability, which they both offer, they crave affection and they are both domestic. Oh... and both loves food, cooking and all the finer things in life. Most Cancers are also neat freaks, so that means they always look good, smell good and keep their place clean. I love him
My Cancer guy is all about his mom, I knew his mom after a couple of months of meeting him. It was very important for him that his mom liked me, because it would determine whether I was a keeper. LOL Cancers. He's not too bad with it... he talks to her on the phone everyday and lives 5 minutes away from her but he doesn't see her everyday and he only does thing with her on important occasions. So she is there, but she is not too much in his life.
We have been together for a year and a half.
Cancers can be tough to be with in the beginning, although Taurus is supposed to be their best match. Supposingly, both signs require stability, which they both offer, they crave affection and they are both domestic. Oh... and both loves food, cooking and all the finer things in life. Most Cancers are also neat freaks, so that means they always look good, smell good and keep their place clean. I love him
OK edge? So that's it? I have EDGE! I'm just cautious in front of girls I'm crushing. But if that's all it takes. Ohh man. I've been holding back. I'll try it on my crush. But I tend to be an ass when I'm myself in front of girls I'm not interested in. Like if they ask me to get something or taste something. I tell the; umm you got t two legs don't you? Do it your self! And or when they ask me to taste something I tell them. Eww I don't want that. Or I will for get there name and I would ask for it and in return they will say Guess (as me to guess there name) so I call them Guess until they tell me there name. I'm an ass when I'm not crushing on someone. Tho more people approach me and feel more comfortable to be around me. Now when my crush is around I have no personality and quiet! I don't wanna do anything to make her not like me. So I do completely nothing! Wow I just figured myself out. Ok EDGS. It's going to be hard. But I think I can do it. But I'll be shy doing it?.. f'in hell! This will be amusing! Lol. I'll f'in show her edge damnit! If that's what it take's I'll do it no matter how shy I am I'll still F'in do it! It's going to be hard tho! I mean, bc she's my crush! No wonder Taurus are attracted too Leos and Sagittarius? There (in your eyes) the bad boys? I have 4 planets in Sagittarius in my charts! I can do this!! >L
woot woot
^^^ um...as long as you're being respectful while showing that EDGE, you'll be fine. Just dont tell her to go fetch the water by herself...lol.
It's all about being able to take the lead...respectfully.
It's all about being able to take the lead...respectfully.
LOL LOL LOL....Shishno... you are too funny!!!!
Funny enough.... this is exactly how my Cancer guy was when I first met him. He was very rude to other women that he wasn't interested in... he would walk off from them as they stepped to him and make smart remarks like what you said. He'd be like "I ain't getting nothing for you. What do I look like... your mother?" But towards me he was so cautious and quiet. Just recently he is becoming more friendly and is more approachable. I actually did a post on this... because I was wondering what happened to the guy I knew that blew off other women. Woman can't stand him... they call him an A'hole. But yet they find themselves so attracted to him. He is a chick magnet and that annoys me sometimes.
I like a little edge yes but like Newbie said... as long as you are respectful to me and you consider my feelings we're cool. But no brainiacs, oddly quiet , anti-social men need to apply. LOL... nothing against anyone in particular.
For the record Shishno, I have been with one Leo... he craved the spotlight too much, Crabs sensitivity has nothing over a Leo's pride when someone has hurt the Lion's ego. And I have never been with a Sagittarius, but I have known a few and know I would definitely have issues with them. I find myself more attracted to Capricorns... who can be bad boys when they are ready, Aries, Taurus and Libra. Aries is wild, Taurus is party happy and Libras can be unstable.
Neither of them I can make it with as a boyfriend.
I love me some Cancers!!!! Taurus women love Cancers and Cancers love us bulls
Funny enough.... this is exactly how my Cancer guy was when I first met him. He was very rude to other women that he wasn't interested in... he would walk off from them as they stepped to him and make smart remarks like what you said. He'd be like "I ain't getting nothing for you. What do I look like... your mother?" But towards me he was so cautious and quiet. Just recently he is becoming more friendly and is more approachable. I actually did a post on this... because I was wondering what happened to the guy I knew that blew off other women. Woman can't stand him... they call him an A'hole. But yet they find themselves so attracted to him. He is a chick magnet and that annoys me sometimes.
I like a little edge yes but like Newbie said... as long as you are respectful to me and you consider my feelings we're cool. But no brainiacs, oddly quiet , anti-social men need to apply. LOL... nothing against anyone in particular.
For the record Shishno, I have been with one Leo... he craved the spotlight too much, Crabs sensitivity has nothing over a Leo's pride when someone has hurt the Lion's ego. And I have never been with a Sagittarius, but I have known a few and know I would definitely have issues with them. I find myself more attracted to Capricorns... who can be bad boys when they are ready, Aries, Taurus and Libra. Aries is wild, Taurus is party happy and Libras can be unstable.
Neither of them I can make it with as a boyfriend.
I love me some Cancers!!!! Taurus women love Cancers and Cancers love us bulls
Poor Shish... he is just smitten by this girl and he doesn't even realise that all he has to do is just be himself. But Shish don't do the whole rude thing with the one you like... A Taurus won't take this very well. We are proud... and we ain't gonna make no man talk down on us.
I love a Cancer's demeanour. I feel challenged when they ignore, they appear so strong and unneedy and it's like that they don't really need anybody. I love that about a guy. The guy that stands on the sidelines and is quite doing his own thing attracts me the most. The ones that come across as needy and desperate would never get my attention. I know this "unneediness" view on Cancers is a front, cuz really they are just guarding their hearts because they are so sensitive. But it just challenges me more because I just wanna break that shell and get in at them.
Example...Have you ever tried chasing a real beach Crab. He backs up... he runs side ways... backs up some more.... then runs in his hole. You'd just sit there waiting for him to come out... cause you just wanna snatch the little bugger. LOL... Then you'd sit there even more, because he'd sit in his hole and peep out... almost out but not enough for you to grab him... yeah... everybody wants to say that they captured this Crab.
I love a Cancer's demeanour. I feel challenged when they ignore, they appear so strong and unneedy and it's like that they don't really need anybody. I love that about a guy. The guy that stands on the sidelines and is quite doing his own thing attracts me the most. The ones that come across as needy and desperate would never get my attention. I know this "unneediness" view on Cancers is a front, cuz really they are just guarding their hearts because they are so sensitive. But it just challenges me more because I just wanna break that shell and get in at them.
Example...Have you ever tried chasing a real beach Crab. He backs up... he runs side ways... backs up some more.... then runs in his hole. You'd just sit there waiting for him to come out... cause you just wanna snatch the little bugger. LOL... Then you'd sit there even more, because he'd sit in his hole and peep out... almost out but not enough for you to grab him... yeah... everybody wants to say that they captured this Crab.
Ferdy... OMG isn't it so hard to resist the Crabs? And most of them are hot and dress really well, which bulls love.
Our relationship can be rocky... but I am thankful. The beginning stages were the worst. His mom is an advantage to me... because if the Cancer and I are having issues I run to her. She'd call him up and talk some sense in him. So he'd often come back around feeling guilty but then he'd play it off by saying "If it weren't for my mom.... " LOL
Our relationship can be rocky... but I am thankful. The beginning stages were the worst. His mom is an advantage to me... because if the Cancer and I are having issues I run to her. She'd call him up and talk some sense in him. So he'd often come back around feeling guilty
but then he'd play it off by saying "If it weren't for my mom.... " LOLLike wat GBull?
"Cancer needs roots. They resist change to an extent, and concern themselves about being secure and safe in most everything they do. Cancer is a very sensitive sign, and they don't always appreciate it when you are blunt with them. Their reactions to hurt will depend on how thick a shell they have developed. Most Cancers react by withdrawing or retreating. Cancers are, in fact, quite yielding and soft when you have them in the right mood. They are one of the more hospitable signs of the zodiac. Sure, they can be touchy and indirect, but they are also very dependable, caring souls."
So basically, although they have their bad... which everybody does... once they warm up to you they are the best lovers ever. The reason Cancers seem so cold in the beginning is because they are guarding their heart. But as a Bull... we can see through everything. At least I can. And I know when someone is a prize. Other signs out there may come across as perfect in the beginning and just end up being the opposite and then some others you just can't make it with.
It took me a while but I now know what Cancers are about, so therefore, if I know that my future will be beautiful and everlasting with someone... I'll do whatever I can and put up with as much as I can just to make it work.
So basically, although they have their bad... which everybody does... once they warm up to you they are the best lovers ever. The reason Cancers seem so cold in the beginning is because they are guarding their heart. But as a Bull... we can see through everything. At least I can. And I know when someone is a prize. Other signs out there may come across as perfect in the beginning and just end up being the opposite and then some others you just can't make it with.
It took me a while but I now know what Cancers are about, so therefore, if I know that my future will be beautiful and everlasting with someone... I'll do whatever I can and put up with as much as I can just to make it work.
Ok Gbull I can see where it can get confusing. I like Cancers because they are dependable, domestic, nurturing, affectionate, stable and genuinely loving. To me... they are very close to being perfect. But they come with a twist. To each their own but I get bored easy. When my Cancer withdraws he keeps me guessing and by withdrawing they aim for your constant attention and love, which I have no problem working hard to keep him happy by not withdrawing. This is a challenge. This prevents me from being bored. I accept him withdrawing because I understand why a cancer withdraws... it's because of emotions... not instability. I would not tolerate a guy backing off because of infidelity. I don't like moodiness... which by this I mean argumentative, aggressive, and just plain miserable. Cancers are moody because they have highs and lows. But are rarely aggressive. They retreat... so some may see that as moody.
If one can deal with the lows of a Cancer then they are good... because the highs are definitely worth it.
At the end of the day... other factors contribute to a person's personality. So what someone may find in a Cancer I may not and what I do find? someone else may not.
If one can deal with the lows of a Cancer then they are good... because the highs are definitely worth it.
At the end of the day... other factors contribute to a person's personality. So what someone may find in a Cancer I may not and what I do find? someone else may not.
Sorry Siyia for going off the subject and talking about Cancers... but at least you'll get a better idea as to what some Taurus women are about.
Some women are like that Ferdy... they are insecure about themselves... so they allow their men to go out any all how so that other women wouldn't be attracted to them. Preferably, I like when my man ALWAYS look good... he may attract other women but... that's where the trust, security and respect that our relationship is based on should come in.
Thanks Ferdy... my Moon is in Virgo and Venus in Taurus. Wats yours?
Thanks Ferdy... my Moon is in Virgo and Venus in Taurus. Wats yours?
Thank you! Although, even with our different alignments it's funny how alike you and I are I would not want to be any other sign but a bull, we are so true to ourselves and can only be "real". It's so weird how we are all like that.
I would not want to be any other sign but a bull, we are so true to ourselves and can only be "real". It's so weird how we are all like that."Do you find yourself irritated with people that
don't say exactly what they mean?"
OMG! I can't stand when people beat around the bush and don't say what they really want to say. It's corny, but I quote this Jack Nicholson line from the movie, "A Few Good Men," he said "YOU (people) can't handle the truth."
I totally agree with that statement. I can't tell you how many times a friend or colleague has said, "I want to know the truth, no matter what!" It's typically women...sorry to say; however, when faced with the truth, they can come up with some of the most absurd crap in the book to justify their actions or the inactions of another - regardless of the circumstances. My personal fav is one of my girlfriends liked this guy...blah, blah, blah. He never really was that interested and told her POINT blank that he didn't want to get into a relationship with ANYONE and that they could chill (which meant "have sex"), but that was it. She would tell me time and time again that even though he SAID that, he didn't mean it, because he was always nice to her, and perhaps she could wait him out and wear him down??? Seriously, I just don't personally get it. If a guy said to me, "I'm not interested in you and I don't want anything serious, nor do I want a girlfriend." Then I would believe what he says, and if I wanted a boyfriend, then I'd just have to let him go. I am definitely not judging anybody who wants to just hang out (have sex) with someone, if both parties are on the same page about it; hell, I've done it myself. My frustration with my female friends is that they complain about what they want, but they hardly ever tell the guy the truth or they beat around the bush and HOPE he "gets it." I can see why it's frustrating for men sometimes, because some of my friends drive me nuts with this crap.(rant over)
don't say exactly what they mean?"
OMG! I can't stand when people beat around the bush and don't say what they really want to say. It's corny, but I quote this Jack Nicholson line from the movie, "A Few Good Men," he said "YOU (people) can't handle the truth."
I totally agree with that statement. I can't tell you how many times a friend or colleague has said, "I want to know the truth, no matter what!" It's typically women...sorry to say; however, when faced with the truth, they can come up with some of the most absurd crap in the book to justify their actions or the inactions of another - regardless of the circumstances. My personal fav is one of my girlfriends liked this guy...blah, blah, blah. He never really was that interested and told her POINT blank that he didn't want to get into a relationship with ANYONE and that they could chill (which meant "have sex"), but that was it. She would tell me time and time again that even though he SAID that, he didn't mean it, because he was always nice to her, and perhaps she could wait him out and wear him down??? Seriously, I just don't personally get it. If a guy said to me, "I'm not interested in you and I don't want anything serious, nor do I want a girlfriend." Then I would believe what he says, and if I wanted a boyfriend, then I'd just have to let him go. I am definitely not judging anybody who wants to just hang out (have sex) with someone, if both parties are on the same page about it; hell, I've done it myself. My frustration with my female friends is that they complain about what they want, but they hardly ever tell the guy the truth or they beat around the bush and HOPE he "gets it." I can see why it's frustrating for men sometimes, because some of my friends drive me nuts with this crap.(rant over)
Forgot to add; I'm not rude to people and I try to stay away from giving unsolicited advise, but all my friends know that if they ask me a question, I'm going to give them the truth. I even ask them, "Do you want it real, or do you want me to sugar coat it?" They all look annoyed, but ask for it "real."
Trust me Ferdy, she will not learn by you telling her, she will have to learn the hard way, but she can't say she wasn't forewarned by you. When I was in highschool, I had a friend who had a HAWT brother. She told me he was a dog, but NO, I had to learn it on my own. I wasn't mad at her, I was pissed at myself after I got played! It was my own fault; however, it's also bad too, because I really have a hard time trusting people in general, but particularly guys, as I have a lot of male friends and I listen to all their stories, and I'm like "why even bother anymore." Once this Leo thing runs it's course, which will probably happen by the end of this year, I'm gonna' step outta' this game and just concentrate on building my business and to hell with all of this dating crap!
"I'm done falling for games!"
Preach it Ferdy! I've been done with games for about 10 years.....
*I'm sending you a PM*
Preach it Ferdy! I've been done with games for about 10 years.....
*I'm sending you a PM*
"Do you find yourself irritated with people that
don't say exactly what they mean?"
Do I? Man is that an understatement. I hate, hate fake people, people that say one thing behind your back and another in your face, friends that manipulate you and other friends to have things going their way and just plain old dishonesty.
Like you guys, I am very upfront and straightforward. People actually like my straightness. I try not to be rude but I am very blunt... so they can take it how they like. If I like you, I like you, but if I don't, I can't even pretend to pretend. With someone that I can't stand, I ignore them, I won't even so much look at them. I find that by doing this alot of girls try to get my attention, but I don't give them the time of day. So I get called proud. I don't care; I just can't deal with pettiness.
I appreciate honest people. Those are the friends that I hold close to my heart. Everyone has flaws, but I'd accept you more if you are upfront about the true you. I can smell BS coming from a mile, so when someone comes with it I quickly decide whether I want his or her friendship or not. I am also very private, so someone that is sneaky wouldn't fit well in my company.
Ladies, sometimes you can't tell other women anything about a man. Even if they are your best friend. I gave up with that whole seek and rescue sh**t with my friends. I leave them alone and when they ask for advice or come to vent then I am there. Sometimes telling a girl about a guy can cost the friendship... because automatically they think that you're trying to jeopardise the relationship or that you're jealous. If it is something like I saw my bestfriend's guy all up in another girl, yeah I'd tell her, but just like I like to find out about a guy myself, I allow my friends to do the same.
don't say exactly what they mean?"
Do I? Man is that an understatement. I hate, hate fake people, people that say one thing behind your back and another in your face, friends that manipulate you and other friends to have things going their way and just plain old dishonesty.
Like you guys, I am very upfront and straightforward. People actually like my straightness. I try not to be rude but I am very blunt... so they can take it how they like. If I like you, I like you, but if I don't, I can't even pretend to pretend. With someone that I can't stand, I ignore them, I won't even so much look at them. I find that by doing this alot of girls try to get my attention, but I don't give them the time of day. So I get called proud. I don't care; I just can't deal with pettiness.
I appreciate honest people. Those are the friends that I hold close to my heart. Everyone has flaws, but I'd accept you more if you are upfront about the true you. I can smell BS coming from a mile, so when someone comes with it I quickly decide whether I want his or her friendship or not. I am also very private, so someone that is sneaky wouldn't fit well in my company.
Ladies, sometimes you can't tell other women anything about a man. Even if they are your best friend. I gave up with that whole seek and rescue sh**t with my friends. I leave them alone and when they ask for advice or come to vent then I am there. Sometimes telling a girl about a guy can cost the friendship... because automatically they think that you're trying to jeopardise the relationship or that you're jealous. If it is something like I saw my bestfriend's guy all up in another girl, yeah I'd tell her, but just like I like to find out about a guy myself, I allow my friends to do the same.
GBull... it can be hard... trust me.
Ferdy... I did the same thing with a friedship and something similar happened, although that was a long time ago... once bitten, twice shy. I am very cautious with women friends. Just last year when I started dating the Cancer guy... I had a full circle of friends... unfortunatly they had all been eliminated because of their ways. I almost ripped the face off of one of my Aries best friend and you all know how an Aries woman can be. That was a year agao.. and I have not spoken to her since. So yeah I totally understand you... lol you pull this Bull's tail and she's gonna send you flying.
Ferdy... I did the same thing with a friedship and something similar happened, although that was a long time ago... once bitten, twice shy. I am very cautious with women friends. Just last year when I started dating the Cancer guy... I had a full circle of friends... unfortunatly they had all been eliminated because of their ways. I almost ripped the face off of one of my Aries best friend and you all know how an Aries woman can be. That was a year agao.. and I have not spoken to her since. So yeah I totally understand you... lol you pull this Bull's tail and she's gonna send you flying.
Ferdy ! been reading your blogs and your WELL FUNNY! love taurus but they can struggle to understand cancers to start with. l am a Cancer and straight to the point is my game , l ain't got time for be soft with the truth feedback ,
I have a Taurus friend ! and right now we are stale mate although we exchange the odd text from me , with you hurt me crap!! get over it if you cared then you would , don't know if she is just being a drama Queen Help me on this one. ,long story ,but l have blogs on it, but seriously she just said leave her alone tonight,,,..she may need a few years to recover from my so called betrayal, this after she chased me,guess what! she can burn in HELL now as hard as it is to let go of this person l love so much! three months trying.
When we cancers finally let go you can go jump out of a areoplane with no parachute for all we care !we ain't coming to the funeral. the Love! is dead. ... and we Cancers would do anything to protect our friends , so l understand what you mean when you say you don't like being made out to be a Blind Fool ! make her pay Big time! she don't deserve your company USER! now a loser,
I spent months trying to build the friendship back with this Taurus , but no more , Leave me alone comment and CRAP! I will and Yes! l am Mad....but she knows were to find me. in HAPPY WORLD AMEN!
I have a Taurus friend ! and right now we are stale mate although we exchange the odd text from me , with you hurt me crap!! get over it if you cared then you would , don't know if she is just being a drama Queen Help me on this one. ,long story ,but l have blogs on it, but seriously she just said leave her alone tonight,,,..she may need a few years to recover from my so called betrayal, this after she chased me,guess what! she can burn in HELL now as hard as it is to let go of this person l love so much! three months trying.
When we cancers finally let go you can go jump out of a areoplane with no parachute for all we care !we ain't coming to the funeral. the Love! is dead. ... and we Cancers would do anything to protect our friends , so l understand what you mean when you say you don't like being made out to be a Blind Fool ! make her pay Big time! she don't deserve your company USER! now a loser,
I spent months trying to build the friendship back with this Taurus , but no more , Leave me alone comment and CRAP! I will and Yes! l am Mad....but she knows were to find me. in HAPPY WORLD AMEN!
FERDY! I'm April 26th no wonder we have this kismet connection! Also, one of my close friends from high school was April 24th. I loved him!!!! Yip
And yes, Rocket1968 Ferdy is funny, and great too!!!
And yes, Rocket1968 Ferdy is funny, and great too!!!
So USCTaurusGal have you read my story Crazy , But Ferdy has gone Quiet! ( cancer insecurity ) kicking in, based in United Kingdom , and you guys sure know how to sort a complexed situation out New to this so , need to ease up on the long messages maybe. ( there l go again ) that Cancer thinking of everyones feelings but mine! its shit!.
@ rocket 1968 - No, I haven't read your story. You can write as much as you need to get your point across; you'll get the hang of things soon.
Hi everyone (Cancer 30th June ) does any one know my rising sigh not sure how it work's she is a ( Taurus born 24th April)
l am going to blog this again, l have shared with a chosen few! and" USC Taurus" gal said l can blog as much as l need so l will, as l need to thrust this out my system , but need big input as its my future and l do not understand a woman in love with a woman as l normally go for guys' , so being confronted with my own tactics when in love as a woman is hard to work-out ,as we women play a lot of mind games. l cannot workout whats real or not , Big Love to Ferdy for replying to me you get Big 5 Girl.
This Russian Taurus at the moment is pretty awful, its driving me crazy, bit long winded but give it your best shot.!
l meet her( Taurus) in Dec 2007 after christmas day so drunk but happy .she was singing in the bar were she works, guys around me saying shes hot ! l said out loud she is gay big time !, were all laughing then she starts to walk over to me everyones like Ooohhhhh... and l knew it my heart was racing as l knew my (Cancer) intuition was right. S**t .. she did declare to me she was into me in a big way the next morning l was leaving my holiday,kinda freaked me, but l felt the vibe pretty much anyway.
She harassed me for six whole weeks with text's messages and phone call's but l did reply and play also after l left ,telling me of her love and passion to see me and sex flirting (Big Shame) . and have never thought of a woman this way or considered it , Well after much deliberation l went back to visit her to see how l felt about the whole thing as it was so intense that l could not stop thinking about her,. after a few solid drinks had the experience, and to be honest in the morning l was in a daze it was amazing and so different , for her she said she never had such an intense experience with any other women or man she had slept with.From there on ,could not get her out my room she took every opportunity to be with me for fourteen days we never left each others side while l stayed at the hotel were she worked, so much so ,it got a bit to much for me at the end. l had her breaking down into a bag of tears and telling me not to leave and all sorts of drama , she even got drunk as not to face the pain of seeing me leave for the airport.
After my arrival home my fiance told me she had text him to say she missed us and she never had a friend like me and how much she loved me more than her self! me HORROR!
l am going to blog this again, l have shared with a chosen few! and" USC Taurus" gal said l can blog as much as l need so l will, as l need to thrust this out my system , but need big input as its my future and l do not understand a woman in love with a woman as l normally go for guys' , so being confronted with my own tactics when in love as a woman is hard to work-out ,as we women play a lot of mind games. l cannot workout whats real or not , Big Love to Ferdy for replying to me you get Big 5 Girl.
This Russian Taurus at the moment is pretty awful, its driving me crazy, bit long winded but give it your best shot.!
l meet her( Taurus) in Dec 2007 after christmas day so drunk but happy .she was singing in the bar were she works, guys around me saying shes hot ! l said out loud she is gay big time !, were all laughing then she starts to walk over to me everyones like Ooohhhhh... and l knew it my heart was racing as l knew my (Cancer) intuition was right. S**t .. she did declare to me she was into me in a big way the next morning l was leaving my holiday,kinda freaked me, but l felt the vibe pretty much anyway.
She harassed me for six whole weeks with text's messages and phone call's but l did reply and play also after l left ,telling me of her love and passion to see me and sex flirting (Big Shame) . and have never thought of a woman this way or considered it , Well after much deliberation l went back to visit her to see how l felt about the whole thing as it was so intense that l could not stop thinking about her,. after a few solid drinks had the experience, and to be honest in the morning l was in a daze it was amazing and so different , for her she said she never had such an intense experience with any other women or man she had slept with.From there on ,could not get her out my room she took every opportunity to be with me for fourteen days we never left each others side while l stayed at the hotel were she worked, so much so ,it got a bit to much for me at the end. l had her breaking down into a bag of tears and telling me not to leave and all sorts of drama , she even got drunk as not to face the pain of seeing me leave for the airport.
After my arrival home my fiance told me she had text him to say she missed us and she never had a friend like me and how much she loved me more than her self! me HORROR!
l have since returned again,and all of the pretense to fly out to see her as a friend, to my fiance and lie's and phone calls , every night , she seemed to forget in a whisk . l have tried to reason with her ,while there , tried to talk with her but all l get is a blank cold look and no emotion , the total oppressive to how we meet. but my fiance was there a few days before me, and she wanted to know if l was coming there and she would wake him at One am in the morning asking if l was there.
when l did arrive she just spoke to me once and sat in my room with a longing stare , with the odd sentence , all this after telling me three weeks prior ,that she hoped she would never see me again!.
Next seven days after my guy left for work back in the UK ,was followed with a assault of flirting with another girl in front of me , no contact while l was there alone and sending her man over to sit with her only to play it cold and not Talking.( he does everything she wants ,he his like her Dog ! but l know he knows thats how to keep her.
She and l went to dinner one night without him and she said she slept with many women casually and married at 18 into a turbulent relationship , and came to EGYPT THEN , THATS HOW SHE MEET THIS MANAGER GUY. we talked for hours , before we knew it it was 4-am in the morning ,!,she called him but he ignored her calls knowing she would not stay with me that night if he did not answer, as it would make her worry, so l told her after we hich a lift to go back to her room she was so angry as she waned to stay with me. in the morning she said he said he was drunk etc etc.. yeah right! he got his result , he knows how to manipulate her.!
She came to my room the next night after work in the bar singing and he followed her , it ended with him trying to kiss her in the hall of my room and her saying leave her alone , and she told him she wanted to be with me, l could tell it was killing him but he just kept it inside. l know now she really fell hard for me, and never expected to ,and now she hates me for making her feel this way, she won't allow friendship in any capacity, although l can tell she is fighting to not like me , as a complaint came in about her behavior towards a guest in the toilets, while l was away by email to the management,and she seems to think it's all from me.
when l did arrive she just spoke to me once and sat in my room with a longing stare , with the odd sentence , all this after telling me three weeks prior ,that she hoped she would never see me again!.
Next seven days after my guy left for work back in the UK ,was followed with a assault of flirting with another girl in front of me , no contact while l was there alone and sending her man over to sit with her only to play it cold and not Talking.( he does everything she wants ,he his like her Dog ! but l know he knows thats how to keep her.
She and l went to dinner one night without him and she said she slept with many women casually and married at 18 into a turbulent relationship , and came to EGYPT THEN , THATS HOW SHE MEET THIS MANAGER GUY. we talked for hours , before we knew it it was 4-am in the morning ,!,she called him but he ignored her calls knowing she would not stay with me that night if he did not answer, as it would make her worry, so l told her after we hich a lift to go back to her room she was so angry as she waned to stay with me. in the morning she said he said he was drunk etc etc.. yeah right! he got his result , he knows how to manipulate her.!
She came to my room the next night after work in the bar singing and he followed her , it ended with him trying to kiss her in the hall of my room and her saying leave her alone , and she told him she wanted to be with me, l could tell it was killing him but he just kept it inside. l know now she really fell hard for me, and never expected to ,and now she hates me for making her feel this way, she won't allow friendship in any capacity, although l can tell she is fighting to not like me , as a complaint came in about her behavior towards a guest in the toilets, while l was away by email to the management,and she seems to think it's all from me.
l have tried to build the bridges, she as given into me ,but very slowly with just the odd sign that she still likes me, with kisses on the cheek ,and wink kissed me to my mobile one night, l suppose she was thinking of me after all she was only across the pool with her man in her room and this email as freaked her and allowed him to say she cannot go near me as it must be me.
l go back in October and we text each other the other night , agin she said she may need years! to recover and she was not ready to have contact with me, l now have to stay true to my word and not contact her as l said l would , otherwise she will just see me as being week , God what is it with Taurus women ,if you cannot have what you want you cut it out your life. we gel like a glove yet she can just dump a love that strong without fear, Maybe l was just a crush and a fling of interest.
Tell me your views guys because if me and her buy some miracle do strike massive attraction again ,l need to know how to prepare,with out messing it u considering the other factors. l need her like water needs the earth! HELP..
Elena90 is right. We can sulk/pout terribly bad. I will be the first to admit that I'm spoiled; I can control it more as I get older, but it takes a LOT! She's mad because she wants it all, and can't have it. Plus, it's an incredible ego boost (I imagine) to have you admiring/loving/lusting over her as well as her man obsessing/loving over her. We are good at ignoring people, and will sometimes "cut off our own nose to spite our face" because we are so stubborn. I don't know how this is going to work out for you, so good luck.
so how do l turn the tied guys, Yes l know shes playing me , she's a spolit brat so do l carry on and really cut her out my life mentally, and if she comes running out of curiosity (Maybe!) IN October juast stick to my Guns , because to be frank l cannot telll weather she really wanted me or she is playing me now she had me, sorry , l wanna see her suffer now !...
Ok elena90
l have looked at your description , yeah your right some folk don't like the truth ,and basically l told the mini bull with a big ego , you wanna play , then l will play but this ain''t going no were because l know your playing me ! and l ain't no dog like your man or the other hussy's you sleep with .,so if you sleep with me expect no mercy l play hard to , no way is a person like that going treat me like that just because she cannot have it all her way, it's called compromise ! she wants to mess me up now! and walk away undamaged, so right now l know she thinks lm totally love sick , and will call again in a few weeks or when l arrive will be stalking her, not gonna happen usc l told me what l knew all along. after l realized she was a player ,to be honest this for me is about winning, if she cracks and l will work on that,, l have waited years sometimes waiting just to get revenge ,( thats the dark side of Cancer most don't see, and she will get dropped into a big pile of Crap ! but if she does not l will move on anyway, and play from time to time, dip my foot in the water so to speck and see how the water lies ,weather its one year or three years from now when it suits me, she's the one stuck in a hotel in a desert with a Old man from Turkey with no Prospects of being happy.So October if she ain't moved on l will bend her mind till it hunts her! , don't mess with a angry crab, we will make your life hell! and u won't know whos behind it. she won't even get a look never mind Hello! yeah lm bitter and not ashamed , but sometimes these type of people need to meet their match ,l see them mess others up all the time now she as meet her match ,and she as done this before and seems to get off on it so elena90 l will give her a new face to deal with and its called Dead ! no mercy no emotion.... sorry but do you Taurus guys even think about these hearts you try to destroy , l almost believed the little ****don't tell someone u love them then shut the door in there face ,if you really loved them then u would at least respect that. if you anyone can tell me different then let it out , ready for a vent that goes way beyond tonight...!!!
l have looked at your description , yeah your right some folk don't like the truth ,and basically l told the mini bull with a big ego , you wanna play , then l will play but this ain''t going no were because l know your playing me ! and l ain't no dog like your man or the other hussy's you sleep with .,so if you sleep with me expect no mercy l play hard to , no way is a person like that going treat me like that just because she cannot have it all her way, it's called compromise ! she wants to mess me up now! and walk away undamaged, so right now l know she thinks lm totally love sick , and will call again in a few weeks or when l arrive will be stalking her, not gonna happen usc l told me what l knew all along. after l realized she was a player ,to be honest this for me is about winning, if she cracks and l will work on that,, l have waited years sometimes waiting just to get revenge ,( thats the dark side of Cancer most don't see, and she will get dropped into a big pile of Crap ! but if she does not l will move on anyway, and play from time to time, dip my foot in the water so to speck and see how the water lies ,weather its one year or three years from now when it suits me, she's the one stuck in a hotel in a desert with a Old man from Turkey with no Prospects of being happy.So October if she ain't moved on l will bend her mind till it hunts her! , don't mess with a angry crab, we will make your life hell! and u won't know whos behind it. she won't even get a look never mind Hello! yeah lm bitter and not ashamed , but sometimes these type of people need to meet their match ,l see them mess others up all the time now she as meet her match ,and she as done this before and seems to get off on it so elena90 l will give her a new face to deal with and its called Dead ! no mercy no emotion.... sorry but do you Taurus guys even think about these hearts you try to destroy , l almost believed the little ****don't tell someone u love them then shut the door in there face ,if you really loved them then u would at least respect that. if you anyone can tell me different then let it out , ready for a vent that goes way beyond tonight...!!!
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