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Jan 12, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 201 · Topics: 33
As I said when I found this board that I have found my new voice of empowerment. We've been having a lot of friction. But once the scales are tipped, you know how we can get. I think what he signed up for he is no longer getting it. He's trying to tell me what time to come home. The rules have been that until we are married that won't work. I come home at a reasonable time before 11. He tries to tell me when to check in. He used to bully me. I exploded on him a few times last week. My astrologer friend says that I need to stop that they love feminine women and that he may get tired of my new found voice. Does anyone here agree with her that they rather have a feminine woman more than a woman that has spoken up? We may just be growing in different directions. I love him and he is getting jealous more possessive. The more carefree I am the more he hounds me and he picks strange arguments. He observes everything that I do now and has a memory like an elephant and reads it back to me. What to do? We've been together for so long
you should be free to do what you want as long as you respect each other.. i noticed with the taurus i am dating he will always ask where i am .. i remeber once saying im home now once while talking with him on the phone.. and he replyed GOOD! i said what do you mean good that im at home (he was at work).. or if he knows there are workman coming to do work he calls to check up on me pleases know we dont live together and were just lovers..
im a taurus girl but it seems here is one rule for the men and another for women .. be strong and make yourself happy he must be insecure.. or have trust issues.
and its always alright for them to answer the phone go out and do what they want when they want...