Thrill of the Chase .....Not Practical
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by TaurusBull1977 on Thursday, April 13, 2017 and has 32 replies.
"I am also Taurus male, and its not that we crave attention or adoration, it's that most of us are self indulgent out the ass. I see myself as a catch and I deserve good things and people around me. So why waste my time with someone who isn't that crazy about me? The truth is most other taurus people I meet, including myself, do not trust people at all, and are always in our minds wondering about your motives, even the ones close to us. So as an act of self preservation we may keep alot of women on the side who we know we can have at any moment without even trying. This doesnt mean we arent trustworthy, and it certainly does not mean that we intend on cheating on you with one of them. Its a way of saying "hey, im a prize to be had, and ill give you all of me and be great and loyal to you, but if you screw me over or decide you dont like me, its no big deal because we have the next girl lined up" (and most of us do have a magnetism about us). We will never completely put all of our cards on the table or completely be open with our emotions. WE HATE FEELING VULNERABLE. big time. We rarely let ourselves get in situations while we are at someone elses wims. I would never put myself on the line unless I knew for sure I could get what I wanted. Alot of people think that is due to fear of rejection. It's not. We dont care one way or the other about what people ultimately think of us, we just would rather spend our energy bringing ourselves and others around us, comfort and joy, then wasting our time for a chick who will turn out to be crazy or illogical. Why take the effort to jump off the diving board headfirst to find out the pool doesnt have any water in it? lol It's also best not to play games with us because we are EXTREMELY perceptive and always know whats going on around us and what people are really thinking. It's best to be direct and know what you want. If a girl cant make up her mind about me, it doesnt matter how attractive or funny she is, I lose interest and fast. My ideal meeting situation would be spotting a women from across a room, giving her certain glances and looking away and pretending im not interested, lead her over to me, make her so curious she cant resist, and she would be DIRECT. If we know for sure without a doubt that you are into us from the get go, it makes US more comfortable to let our strong silent gaurd down and be our normal charming funny comforting selves. Especially in sexual scenerios. If the right kind of woman walked up to me and said "look, this may be forward but I cant take my eyes off of you since I walked in and I can barely restrain myself from jumping your bones right here" I would say "well whats stopping you?" hint hint. best scenario. The "thrill of the chase" is illogical to us and NOT PRACTICAL. If I'm interested in a woman and I want to date her, or just hook up, the end goal is...do DATE or HOOKUP. If I'm hungry and I want to eat, I make dinner because the end result means FOOD, not because I enjoy dicing the veggies and baking the bread. If I'm interested in a woman and we go through the whole dance of meeting and hooking up or dating, the most enjoyable part is actually getting what we wanted. Not the chase or fight to get it, we dont want to fight for anything but virtue and truth. ESPECIALLY sex. Sex with a taurus is an enjoyable experience for both people involved. If you really want me then I wouldn't have to sell you the idea of being with me like I'm a used car lol. Either you want me or you dont, and if you do then take what you want like I would and stop the games and be real."
http://www.aphroditeastrology.com/2007/09/experiences-with-taurian-male.html
http://www.aphroditeastrology.com/2007/09/experiences-with-taurian-male.html
I found this comment on another site and thought this might be interesting to post. There have been many posters on this board with similar posts regarding the Taurus male and pursuing.
Your thoughts....
Your thoughts....
Posted by MrEmptyBackpackLOL.
Pics of the women he has banged or gtfo
I don't sense a feeling of grandiose or false bravado from this Taurus male, but more of a feeling of skepticism, cautiousness, self-protective and alertness.
Uhhhmm, yeah. This goes double for Taurus moon men (at least this fits right with mine).
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by sultrykittydo tell
Uhhhmm, yeah. This goes double for Taurus moon men (at least this fits right with mine).click to expand
They do NOT chase. They are confident in the sense that they know they can get any woman they want, so if you don't step up, there's someone who will. That doesn't mean that they want all women equally but they won't go to the ends of the earth to have the one they want. They need to know that the woman they're with is as into to them (or more)than they are into her. I don't think it's for an ego stroke tho, more like they actually want to settle down with THE ONE and if she's flighty or not obvious enough, then they don't feel secure.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeYup, I chased him. He was all in. Then his Aqua sun and Venus kicked in and I'd had it. Told him I was done. By that time he knew I was "it" and made the commitment.Posted by sultrykittyWTF , you had to chase your man down, why didn't you tell me this before, no wonder the LEO acts fuking strange around mePosted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by sultrykittydo tell
Uhhhmm, yeah. This goes double for Taurus moon men (at least this fits right with mine).
They do NOT chase. They are confident in the sense that they know they can get any woman they want, so if you don't step up, there's someone who will. That doesn't mean that they want all women equally but they won't go to the ends of the earth to have the one they want. They need to know that the woman they're with is as into to them (or more)than they are into her. I don't think it's for an ego stroke tho, more like they actually want to settle down with THE ONE and if she's flighty or not obvious enough, then they don't feel secure.
but i refuse to chase anymore
taurus moon or not he can show me a sign besides avoiding me like a little punk.click to expand
Edited: I don't see it as chasing him though. He made the first move initially, then I was the one who followed up after. When he claimed to want free, I gave him "reasons" to change his mind. It was always push and pull in the beginning.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeLol you don't wanna know. I'm serious.Posted by sultrykittyhow long did it takePosted by CaramelizedCoffeeYup, I chased him. He was all in. Then his Aqua sun and Venus kicked in and I'd had it. Told him I was done. By that time he knew I was "it" and made the commitment.Posted by sultrykittyWTF , you had to chase your man down, why didn't you tell me this before, no wonder the LEO acts fuking strange around mePosted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by sultrykittydo tell
Uhhhmm, yeah. This goes double for Taurus moon men (at least this fits right with mine).
They do NOT chase. They are confident in the sense that they know they can get any woman they want, so if you don't step up, there's someone who will. That doesn't mean that they want all women equally but they won't go to the ends of the earth to have the one they want. They need to know that the woman they're with is as into to them (or more)than they are into her. I don't think it's for an ego stroke tho, more like they actually want to settle down with THE ONE and if she's flighty or not obvious enough, then they don't feel secure.
but i refuse to chase anymore
taurus moon or not he can show me a sign besides avoiding me like a little punk.click to expand
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeNo offense but you don't have as much time to waste as I did. Even then, I probably shouldn't have been that patient either but it is what it is. We were fated.Posted by sultrykittydamn dat cap moon is patient, tell mePosted by CaramelizedCoffeeLol you don't wanna know. I'm serious.Posted by sultrykittyhow long did it takePosted by CaramelizedCoffeeYup, I chased him. He was all in. Then his Aqua sun and Venus kicked in and I'd had it. Told him I was done. By that time he knew I was "it" and made the commitment.Posted by sultrykittyWTF , you had to chase your man down, why didn't you tell me this before, no wonder the LEO acts fuking strange around mePosted by CaramelizedCoffeePosted by sultrykittydo tell
Uhhhmm, yeah. This goes double for Taurus moon men (at least this fits right with mine).
They do NOT chase. They are confident in the sense that they know they can get any woman they want, so if you don't step up, there's someone who will. That doesn't mean that they want all women equally but they won't go to the ends of the earth to have the one they want. They need to know that the woman they're with is as into to them (or more)than they are into her. I don't think it's for an ego stroke tho, more like they actually want to settle down with THE ONE and if she's flighty or not obvious enough, then they don't feel secure.
but i refuse to chase anymore
taurus moon or not he can show me a sign besides avoiding me like a little punk.
girl you know why i stopped, cause cuffing season is over
why am i chasing an iranian, im not gonna marry him,
but now i want him even WORSEclick to expand
You should get to know him. But be bold, like you are on DXP. Not crass (Taurus is Venusian), but not a sweet, quiet wallflower either.
Posted by GC01Mine claimed that too, but he did it anyway. He just denies that he did, lol.
I agree with everything besides keeping other men or women around during your relationship just in case....thats too much work...I've tried it and failed because the guys waiting in line start to catch feelings and my heart can only truly belong to one person at a time and hurting people just isn't worth it.
Posted by ruscovaxxIt's not 'ego'....it's the 'weening process'....this has a lot more to do with preservation than an unrealistic idea of perfection.
Reading it sounds so.. grotesque.
Like "oh you're replaceable, I have others to choose from that can replace you in a line on the side that I keep tabs on."
If any Taurus man said that to me itd be a swift smack to the face and buh bye.
It's a defense mechanism for most Bulls.
Choosing to invest in the wrong person can be a llifetime of trouble.
Most Bulls would rather be safe than sorry.
@CC
Cliffnotes.
All or nothing.
Being the best partner (loyality, generosity, fidelity, reliability) to the most devoted, trusted partner.
Caution.
Hate feelings of vulnerability.
Possesses an air of love charm and mystery, attracts ( lures) the opposite sex....instead of chasing.
Logical
Be direct and persistent
Only takes a dive if there is a security net.
Cliffnotes.
All or nothing.
Being the best partner (loyality, generosity, fidelity, reliability) to the most devoted, trusted partner.
Caution.
Hate feelings of vulnerability.
Possesses an air of love charm and mystery, attracts ( lures) the opposite sex....instead of chasing.
Logical
Be direct and persistent
Only takes a dive if there is a security net.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Definitely agree.Posted by ruscovaxxIt's not 'ego'....it's the 'weening process'....this has a lot more to do with preservation than an unrealistic idea of perfection.
Reading it sounds so.. grotesque.
Like "oh you're replaceable, I have others to choose from that can replace you in a line on the side that I keep tabs on."
If any Taurus man said that to me itd be a swift smack to the face and buh bye.
It's a defense mechanism for most Bulls.
Choosing to invest in the wrong person can be a llifetime of trouble.
Most Bulls would rather be safe than sorry.click to expand
I read that article long time ago. It does really sound like most Taurus I know in that they're usually passive. I have yet to meet one who does the chasing actively (maybe not the ones with Fire placements). They do drop you signs of interest for you to take up the lead if they like you.
One thing I did notice is they dislike wasting time and energy, so they'd rather cut to the chase, get the product and spend the time save on other parts of life like making money, career building and other indulgences. In terms of people, they prefer it when others know what gives them security and give it to them cos life is short. Once you give it to them, then they will give it to you.
And they don't jump into commitment until they know you.
Only partly sounds like my partner. Definitely the case when it comes to being cautious.
Other women in the wings? No. He's too fussy and too busy.
He did chase me after I showed some interest.
Did not like things to be presented on a platter. I was testing him as much as he was testing me. If things had been easy then that would have made him back off.
Other women in the wings? No. He's too fussy and too busy.
He did chase me after I showed some interest.
Did not like things to be presented on a platter. I was testing him as much as he was testing me. If things had been easy then that would have made him back off.
I wouldn't classify straightforwardness as a Taurus only trait. It rings true for all Earth signs. Caps are too goal oriented to pay any mind to games. And if Virgos are left to ponder inconsistent behavior for too long then they are more likely to remove themselves from the situation. Earth signs are most harmonious with each other because we cut to the point. We value time like an investment. The more time invested the greater the rewards or in this case is the act of commitment. Mind games equals time wasters and a depreciation in our investment.
"as an act of self preservation we may keep alot of women on the side who we know we can have at any moment without even trying."
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
"as an act of self preservation we may keep alot of women on the side who we know we can have at any moment without even trying."
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Posted by Capri__unicornI as a Taurus will plot behind the person's back. the meter on the clock is running the other person just doesn't know that yet. They will get dumped eventually and PERMANENTLY.Posted by WhatthehellFunny a lot of the Taurus I know feel this way internally but still get duped by shitty partners. They'll end up stubbornly staying with them regardless of the harem they keep on the side.Posted by ruscovaxxIf he's a good guy, he wouldn't say it. He would just know it. He's not worried about being alone. He's worried about getting stuck with the wrong woman and feeling beholden to her. This is my sister through and through.
Reading it sounds so.. grotesque.
Like "oh you're replaceable, I have others to choose from that can replace you in a line on the side that I keep tabs on."
If any Taurus man said that to me itd be a swift smack to the face and buh bye.click to expand
really? you're currently plotting behind your bull's back and anticipate that he is plotting behind yours?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Then by your stance you are in complete agreement with your Taurus having replacements lined up for you from this mentality. Very well, have a backup if you find it best in order to protect your heart. But if you choose this route then don’t expect a person to give you 100% when you refuse to do the same. A Taurus wants all or nothing, but refusing to give his all or nothing. It’s hypocrisy.Posted by VirgoreanCome on... He is using logic. We are ALL compatible with many people.. T here are many people on this planet.. We can all be replaced and this is where people with a Taurus go wrong...
I wouldn't classify straightforwardness as a Taurus only trait. It rings true for all Earth signs. Caps are too goal oriented to pay any mind to games. And if Virgos are left to ponder inconsistent behavior for too long then they are more likely to remove themselves from the situation. Earth signs are most harmonious with each other because we cut to the point. We value time like an investment. The more time invested the greater the rewards or in this case is the act of commitment. Mind games equals time wasters and a depreciation in our investment.
"as an act of self preservation we may keep alot of women on the side who we know we can have at any moment without even trying."
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk taker of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
A Taurus does not have to have "people lined up"...
I'm not boasting but in a good week minding my own business, I could collect 4 different digits in a week doing nothing on a weekly basis... This could be down to my Leo rising and moon. We attracted A LOT of people.. Male and female .. So if a Taurus choses you... It means a lot...click to expand
Posted by Virgorean
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
I love this response.This is indeed very accurate in regards to takings risks in the realms of love.
However, most Tauruses are not risk takers.
Instead of looking at it from the perspective of computer files....
See if from this point of view.
Imagine yourself falling backwards.
You will have to trust in the person to catch you.
This will require 'blind trust.'...and a 'leap of faith.'
Now a Taurus is getting ready to take that dive.
There are several women who are offering him a safety net.
He hears words ONLY, but sees no safety net.
He will hold off taking that dive, until one of the ladies pulls out that safety net.
I hope this makes sense.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100So that just means the ones on the side are just 'on the side', because to Taurus having them on the side just occurs naturally without trying. The main girl/guy will not get replaced unless something goes very wrong, but as long as Taurus has a relationship with the chosen, they are committed and it takes a lot for them to lose this person.Posted by VirgoreanCome on... He is using logic. We are ALL compatible with many people.. T here are many people on this planet.. We can all be replaced and this is where people with a Taurus go wrong...
I wouldn't classify straightforwardness as a Taurus only trait. It rings true for all Earth signs. Caps are too goal oriented to pay any mind to games. And if Virgos are left to ponder inconsistent behavior for too long then they are more likely to remove themselves from the situation. Earth signs are most harmonious with each other because we cut to the point. We value time like an investment. The more time invested the greater the rewards or in this case is the act of commitment. Mind games equals time wasters and a depreciation in our investment.
"as an act of self preservation we may keep alot of women on the side who we know we can have at any moment without even trying."
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk taker of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
A Taurus does not have to have "people lined up"...
I'm not boasting but in a good week minding my own business, I could collect 4 different digits in a week doing nothing on a weekly basis... This could be down to my Leo rising and moon. We attracted A LOT of people.. Male and female .. So if a Taurus choses you... It means a lot...click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Definitely understand how it feels, especially when you are in the habit of helping others and they say 'i owe you one', but never repaying the favour or getting down to action.Posted by Virgorean
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
I love this response.This is indeed very accurate in regards to takings risks in the realms of love.
However, most Tauruses are not risk takers.
Instead of looking at it from the perspective of computer files....
See if from this point of view.
Imagine yourself falling backwards.
You will have to trust in the person to catch you.
This will require 'blind trust.'...and a 'leap of faith.'
Now a Taurus is getting ready to take that dive.
There are several women who are offering him a safety net.
He hears words ONLY, but sees no safety net.
He will hold off taking that dive, until one of the ladies pulls out that safety net.
I hope this makes sense.click to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977It makes sense. I guess the part where I'm looking for more clarification is once he lands in a safety net, is if he will keep other safety nets around incase the one he currently lands on breaks.Posted by Virgorean
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
I love this response.This is indeed very accurate in regards to takings risks in the realms of love.
However, most Tauruses are not risk takers.
Instead of looking at it from the perspective of computer files....
See if from this point of view.
Imagine yourself falling backwards.
You will have to trust in the person to catch you.
This will require 'blind trust.'...and a 'leap of faith.'
Now a Taurus is getting ready to take that dive.
There are several women who are offering him a safety net.
He hears words ONLY, but sees no safety net.
He will hold off taking that dive, until one of the ladies pulls out that safety net.
I hope this makes sense.click to expand
Posted by VirgoreanOnce the safety net is present, and the Bull is evolved emotionally, there will be nothing to prevent this Bull from committing. No insecurity, no emotional blockage, no feelings of inadequacy...
It makes sense. I guess the part where I'm looking for more clarification is once he lands in a safety net, is if he will keep other safety nets around incase the one he currently lands on breaks.
The Bull will just CHAAARGE!
The harem disappears.
Keep in mind, the Bull can be both a simplistic and complex subject.
The Venusian charm often gives an air of confidence about the Bull.
But don't be fooled.
Underneath lies an individual who is quite the introvert, shy, insecure, self conscious at times and has many feelings of inadequacy.
The safety net is needed.
Posted by VirgoreanMy interpretation of "keep" is not in the sense that he will continue to entertain those women after exclusivity has been established, but more in the sense that these women will always be around. It's a process outside of his control. So you won't catch him beating them off with a stick, but that doesn't mean he isn't fully committed to you.Posted by TaurusBull1977It makes sense. I guess the part where I'm looking for more clarification is once he lands in a safety net, is if he will keep other safety nets around incase the one he currently lands on breaks.Posted by Virgorean
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
I love this response.This is indeed very accurate in regards to takings risks in the realms of love.
However, most Tauruses are not risk takers.
Instead of looking at it from the perspective of computer files....
See if from this point of view.
Imagine yourself falling backwards.
You will have to trust in the person to catch you.
This will require 'blind trust.'...and a 'leap of faith.'
Now a Taurus is getting ready to take that dive.
There are several women who are offering him a safety net.
He hears words ONLY, but sees no safety net.
He will hold off taking that dive, until one of the ladies pulls out that safety net.
I hope this makes sense.click to expand
Once a Taurus is certain about you, those other options, while there, don't really matter. They only matter if the safety net does happen to break.
Posted by TaurusBull1977I rather agree with this interpretation than the one you've quoted in your OP. From his perspective it sounds like he will still keep a harem around after committing.Posted by VirgoreanOnce the safety net is present, and the Bull is evolved emotionally, there will be nothing to prevent this Bull from committing. No insecurity, no emotional blockage, no feelings of inadequacy...
It makes sense. I guess the part where I'm looking for more clarification is once he lands in a safety net, is if he will keep other safety nets around incase the one he currently lands on breaks.
The Bull will just CHAAARGE!
The harem disappears.
Keep in mind, the Bull can be both a simplistic and complex subject.
The Venusian charm often gives an air of confidence about the Bull.
But don't be fooled.
Underneath lies an individual who is quite the introvert, shy, insecure, self conscious at times and has many feelings of inadequacy.
The safety net is needed.click to expand
I have very much seen under the bulls' masks of what you described. A slight comment, although made in a joking manner, can be taken very sensitively to them. You know you've increased their comfort when you're able to see that side of them.
Posted by FleshpotPosted by VirgoreanMy interpretation of "keep" is not in the sense that he will continue to entertain those women after exclusivity has been established, but more in the sense that these women will always be around. It's a process outside of his control.Posted by TaurusBull1977It makes sense. I guess the part where I'm looking for more clarification is once he lands in a safety net, is if he will keep other safety nets around incase the one he currently lands on breaks.Posted by Virgorean
He is confusing self preservation with self pride. I am drawn to Taurus men, but this is offputting. How can a Taurus claim complete devotion to an SO when he revels in the idea of having replacements? From a practical stance, it'd be logical similar to backing up files in the event of a computer crash. It assures years of work are not wiped clean, but when dealing with matters of love there is no logic. It is selfless and irrational. Love is the biggest risk of all and therefore, deserves the greatest reward of all: Full commitment. A Taurus should receive 100% on his return when he lets go of his 'replacements.' Until then he better settle for 90/10.
I love this response.This is indeed very accurate in regards to takings risks in the realms of love.
However, most Tauruses are not risk takers.
Instead of looking at it from the perspective of computer files....
See if from this point of view.
Imagine yourself falling backwards.
You will have to trust in the person to catch you.
This will require 'blind trust.'...and a 'leap of faith.'
Now a Taurus is getting ready to take that dive.
There are several women who are offering him a safety net.
He hears words ONLY, but sees no safety net.
He will hold off taking that dive, until one of the ladies pulls out that safety net.
I hope this makes sense.click to expand
Great explanation, thank you.
I know that my true node is in taurus. I can learn a lot from them.
For friendship, they are perfect.
As for that guy quoted, if he says those things to my face, I have a question for him then, if he is a catch and has 'supplies', then why taurus men I've dealt with seriously always came back?
If they wanna put me as 'dispensable', they had better make it clear.
For friendship, they are perfect.
As for that guy quoted, if he says those things to my face, I have a question for him then, if he is a catch and has 'supplies', then why taurus men I've dealt with seriously always came back?
If they wanna put me as 'dispensable', they had better make it clear.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100It is not worth the effort.Posted by DepthAndDeathU "read" it.. But you still don't "get it"...
I know that my true node is in taurus. I can learn a lot from them.
For friendship, they are perfect.
As for that guy quoted, if he says those things to my face, I have a question for him then, if he is a catch and has 'supplies', then why taurus men I've dealt with seriously always came back?
If they wanna put me as 'dispensable', they had better make it clear.click to expand
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100Lol why you so uptight? I was just jokin. I love taurus peeps. They are sensitive.Posted by DepthAndDeathWhatever... No one told you to come one here...Posted by JohnTheBaptist100It is not worth the effort.Posted by DepthAndDeathU "read" it.. But you still don't "get it"...
I know that my true node is in taurus. I can learn a lot from them.
For friendship, they are perfect.
As for that guy quoted, if he says those things to my face, I have a question for him then, if he is a catch and has 'supplies', then why taurus men I've dealt with seriously always came back?
If they wanna put me as 'dispensable', they had better make it clear.click to expand
*peck a kiss*
The Taurus males I have known chased in their subtle way.
A few not so subtle but direct and straightforward.
Taurus moon is another story.
Pursued in a sneaky way that went over my head.
Taurus men with fire moons FTW!!!
A few not so subtle but direct and straightforward.
Taurus moon is another story.
Pursued in a sneaky way that went over my head.
Taurus men with fire moons FTW!!!
Posted by TaurusBull1977Definitely agree with this line! My Bull claims to be an extrovert who needs a harem all the time, and gives off an over-confident vibe. Also considered a work elite, but there'd be times when he feels inadequate and at a loss, and that is when he needs me.
Keep in mind, the Bull can be both a simplistic and complex subject.
The Venusian charm often gives an air of confidence about the Bull.
But don't be fooled.
Underneath lies an individual who is quite the introvert, shy, insecure, self conscious at times and has many feelings of inadequacy.
The safety net is needed.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100OMG, I think exactly like this as well! When my Taurus got careless, I sort of think it as a blue chip investment turned bad and not generating the interest that it should and short of posting it on my FB page! That's just so funny and I'm not even a Taurus. Maybe all those conversations about money and investments with my Taurus turned me into a pseudo-Taurus.
Basically, yes! Taurus attracts a lot of people without trying... We are very friendly charming people. Even females will say how charming I am....
But because we are fixed those people will stay on the side.. As acquaintances, friends... We are fixed and keen to have any kind of investments grow...
Relationships to us are like investing in a bank account with a high interest. We want a high interest bank account and the more we put in the more our money will grow... We will only change this account and swap it with another if we have been informed that another bank account can offer us more.... Relationships are the same which means we will stick to what we know we are a fixed sign, however if that person fails to deliver (as in a low interest bank account) we will go elsewhere....
Everyone is replaceable... It just makes us strive to be the very best we can for flawed human beings to work at our relationships and please our SO...
I def agree that Taurus are charming people. I always feel at home here in this Taurus forum around you Taurus ladies even more than at the Virgo forum. Taurus make me feel very relaxed.
The part about 'everyone is replaceable', a Scorp once told me 'friendships are incidental'. I often felt I have reciprocated enough and have been very generous with my friends, but being with my Taurus has taught me not to give so freely to everyone because obviously not everybody appreciates you giving and might even think of you as dumb or stupid in doing so. And people will just take advantage of your kindness.
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100I dated one, and I also have my Venus in the second house, so I can really relate to the ways in which Taurus views relationships.
Are you with a Taurus? Or are you u a Taurus? U understand Taurus so well...
So many people do not understand out way of thinking
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