WHAT IS THIS TAURUS DISAPEARING THING???

DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We...

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by ellynac on Saturday, May 28, 2016 and has 69 replies.
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could be right! The sex is great and he cant control himself when he is with me...I am prob just a booty call...i dont know why he gets jealous when guys look at me then
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Posted by ellynac
could be...but his communication sucks

I have a very close Taurus friend. She has communication issues in love relationships as well. She's also an Aries/Taurus Cusp
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Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?


Sounds like he likes to spend time with u & the sex is good but from what I'm reading here he's either a commitment phobe or just doesn't want to be committed to u
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That's not it, it doesn't sound like it.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?


Sounds like he likes to spend time with u & the sex is good but from what I'm reading here he's either a commitment phobe or just doesn't want to be committed to u

That's not it, it doesn't sound like it.
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He sounds like a commitment phobe to me. She has to directly ask him what's up. It's the only way or else it may keep going on like this for months
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It really sounds like they speak different languages verbally, emotionally, and that is most important other than sexual compatibility. It had to be emotional, mental, spiritual connection or growth right? 100 sexually compatible first right.

So @Op how's the sex?
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He has a wife and kids that are priority over you.
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Posted by ellynac
could be right! The sex is great and he cant control himself when he is with me...I am prob just a booty call...i dont know why he gets jealous when guys look at me then

Ask him to his face in a non threatening way what the deal is. Not saying you're a threatening Kinda person just a heads up LOL
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
It really sounds like they speak different languages verbally, emotionally, and that is most important other than sexual compatibility. It had to be emotional, mental, spiritual connection or growth right? 100 sexually compatible first right.

So @Op how's the sex?

LOL yes how is the sex OP ?
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Posted by LadyNeptune
He has a wife and kids that are priority over you.

If he had a wife and kids, you have to wonder what they think he is up to for the long periods of time-- weeks, even, he spends with her, and then only a few days to a week away from her for what... his wife and kids?

Nah.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
He has a wife and kids that are priority over you.

If he had a wife and kids, you have to wonder what they think he is up to for the long periods of time-- weeks, even, he spends with her, and then only a few days to a week away from her for what... his wife and kids?

Nah.
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I read the first post and nothing more lol.

But that would be my first thought if a dude i was dating kept going ghost on me.

He has other people (wife/kids, gf/finance etc) more important than you.
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Where does it say kids at.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Where does it say kids at.

It doesn't. It was LadyNeptune's thoughts on how she would feel if she were in this situation.
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Well yeah if he has kids. Lol it would be different indeed.
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Talk to him. If you haven't spoken about what page you are on how can you have any idea what is a reasonable expectation?

Don't start labelling yourself yet as a booty call, or just friends. Don't use our judgement when you should be going straight to the source.

Taurus guys don't talk. They will just come and go because you are not their only focus. You are part of it but they got shit to do as well! They are incredibly independent. Like I said before, he sees nothing wrong with this. You're the one who has to stop being clingy (for a Taurus).

Just ask him. They are straight talkers.
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Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?


This isn't Hot and Cold behavior.
His behavior according to the current nature of the relationship (which is no stipulations on sex) is quite consistent.
Bulls operate linear, in a fixed position, with very little gray areas to take that flight risk.

We're never confused or indecisive, just very cautious and selective, but it's rare when our thoughts are wandering in a fog.
The only confusion that sets in for a Bull, is when the other individual is inconsistent, changeable, & indecisive.
This is what causes us to pull back.

If he seems to have his quiet periods, don't mistaken him for a deer in headlights, he's absorbing every word, action, and attention to detail, retaining this information for his memory bank. He will fact check, and cross reference anything for inconsistencies.

If a Bull chooses you, it's because we have absolute certainty. It really depends on YOU!

Know who you are and know what you want.

You can't be all over the place. We can't make that decision for you.
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@Dancewithme....

"All Over the Place" can indicate a myriad of things that does not represent 'stability.'

1. Words are not aligned with your actions.
2. Past brief courtships that leads to serial dating with no tangible evidence for longevity.
3. Clueless about whether you're coming in or going, expecting someone to dot the I's or cross the T's.
4. Changeable, you're someone we met on Monday, you became someone else on Tuesday, and now we're figuring "who the bleep are you?"
5.You may have issues that may be considered as too much emotional work for us, and we may not be in the business of sitting you on the couch, and spending the entire relationship trying to fix your problems...this is only applicable AFTER a Bull is already emotionally invested in you. Fat chance at attempting to get us to fix you in the beginning.

We're not going to respect you.

Look at George Clooney.
He indulged in many beautiful women in the past, after all he's a Venusian Bull.

However, he settled down and married an Aqua, a humanitarian lawyer.
The consistency, declaration of self-identity, and knowing what you want is what motivates a Bull to take it to the next level.
We go a lot deeper than what is said about us.
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We're never confused about deciding what we want.
Caution doesn't indicate "indecisiveness."

We're fixed Earth.

We know our minds very well.
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Let me try to help you out here.. I am a cancer and I have been with my Taurus for almost a year now. We have had our moments and have went through this issue in particular.. I would have to agree with a previous comment made and that is "To him it's normal to you it's not..."

I have called my guy out about it in the past and he told me that sometimes he needs time to himself. He usually disappears when he has something going on in his life.

Taurus Bulls like to resolve their issues on their own with no distractions.. I would say make the decision now if this is something you can tolerate because you can't change them. They will only change if they want to on their own. I will say that over time they will get better.. Just know that even when he is away he is always thinking of you or missing you.. I'm sure your guy tells you he missed you while he was away lol.. It's ironic because in your mind you're like why didn't you just call!!

You have to be very strong and secure to be with a Bull most importantly you have to be able to show them that you are a person outside of the relationship.. Since I have been with my guy for a while I've learned if we don't talk for a couple days that he will most definitely be back. Just takes a lot of PATIENCE.
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Posted by ellynac
DEAL WITH TAURUS DISAPPEARING? I have been having a sexual relationship with a Taurus. I am a scorpio. I havent gotten too clingy or weird. I havent shown it, but I do have feelings for him He will come around and wont leave for long periods of time. We get very close, do everything together for weeks and then he without word, freaking leaves for a few days to a week, then shows up again like nothing is wrong. When he returns he asks if im mad or anything? I say "no i was a little worried you were ok or not"....he says..."yeah just had to go home for a while and take care of stuff".....so he is hot and cold and i am confused...wtf?


My boyfriend is a taurus. He does the typical disappearing act but only when hes angry or hurt about something hewont talk to me for days. And then he will start talking again like nothing has happened and when i mention the thing he was angry about he wont talk about it. Also, they dont like having to explain themselves etc so maybe he was genuinely busy and just didnt feel the need to tell you, they like there own space and days to themselves just in general to chill out, or when angry or hurt, or when busy and may seem like they have disappeared but they just havent spoke bcus they dont feel they need to tell you where they have been and why lol he always does it.
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