Why would a Taurus start ignoring you?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by haunt on Sunday, July 8, 2018 and has 9 replies.

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I’m trying to carefully peel back the past few weeks and I’m not finding anything I did offensive to warrant being ignored. I left on vacation three weeks ago, when I got back my Taurus friend seemed kinda.. off. We both work for the same company but in different areas, we don’t see each other often so we try to make plans with each other during the weekend because of this. We planned to do something on Saturday in advance after payday and when her kid was gone for the weekend to see her father.

The weekend before we planned to go to a festival and see a movie after her brother was in town, he left on the 4th and she still continued to act super distant with me, I could just feel like something wasn’t right so I gave her space until Saturday. She messaged me in the morning and I replied back by 11 saying I was free and we could go down town whenever she wanted, well the day goes by and she doesn’t open my Snapchat. Okay.. I just leave it and go about the rest of my day thinking something must’ve happened.

Around the evening time she’s on Snapchat because it updates and she still hasn’t answered my message from noon.. and she continues checking her Snapchat throughout the night and never opens mine that I sent her so I message her and asked ‘is everything okay? we made plans prior today and you’re ignoring me, there’s 0 reason for it.’ Still nothing today. I honestly don’t care if plans changed because shit happens but why ignore me all day? I don’t get it at all. I need a Taurus’s insight, I haven’t sent her a message at all today.. my last one was around midnight.

This just isn’t like her to do something like this. ☹️

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I feel like we Taureans are petty af sometimes, but maybe it’s just me?

You may have hurt her feelings in some way. That’s whaf I tend to do. Did you keep in contact with her while you were on vacation?

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Posted by RhiannonB

I feel like we Taureans are petty af sometimes, but maybe it’s just me?

You may have hurt her feelings in some way. That’s whaf I tend to do. Did you keep in contact with her while you were on vacation?

That’s what I’m scrambling to figure out.. I just can’t remember ever doing anything to hurt her. If I did I’d hope she would tell me so I could apologize to her, during my vacation I did contact her a lot. When I came back I came and seen her too, I brought her a tea and she seemed generally happy to see me. I asked her if we were still good on plans for that weekend and she said yes.

So timeline here I went on vacation from June 15th-18, came back everything was good but I didn’t see her a lot. Her brother came 25th of June until July 4th, she was pretty busy with him so we didn’t talk much, I’d message her here and there but that was it. I came to her area of work on Thursday, she seemed really off then.. like I got the vibe she didn’t want me around but then she started fighting with her ex husband about her child so I was immediately there for her and gave any insight I had on the situation, she reacts before thinking so she likes someone else’s opinion before she blows up kinda thing. So it felt fine then.. the morning that she sent me a message she said ‘I still wake up early when riya isn’t here’ and that was it, she never spoke to me after that and has ignored any attempt of contact since.

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Posted by Redbull

I know Im not really dealing with friends and such right now. Its because Im focused on doing things so I move on in life. I figure if I really focus and do it then I can move on with that done. Therefore Im working. I had an invite for 4th of July and just dont have time or to call anyone or anything right now. Dont know this person's particular thing but thats where Im at now as a Taurus. Im pretty much out of it because things need to get done. After that who knows.

I understand a Taurus’s drive to focus on a goal and get it done but.. out of the year I’ve know her she’s never acted this way to me. It’s worrying me because I’m over here thinking I’ve done something and I want to fix it because she’s an amazing friend.

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Posted by haunt

Posted by RhiannonB

I feel like we Taureans are petty af sometimes, but maybe it’s just me?

You may have hurt her feelings in some way. That’s whaf I tend to do. Did you keep in contact with her while you were on vacation?
That’s what I’m scrambling to figure out.. I just can’t remember ever doing anything to hurt her. If I did I’d hope she would tell me so I could apologize to her, during my vacation I did contact her a lot. When I came back I came and seen her too, I brought her a tea and she seemed generally happy to see me. I asked her if we were still good on plans for that weekend and she said yes.

So timeline here I went on vacation from June 15th-18, came back everything was good but I didn’t see her a lot. Her brother came 25th of June until July 4th, she was pretty busy with him so we didn’t talk much, I’d message her here and there but that was it. I came to her area of work on Thursday, she seemed really off then.. like I got the vibe she didn’t want me around but then she started fighting with her ex husband about her child so I was immediately there for her and gave any insight I had on the situation, she reacts before thinking so she likes someone else’s opinion before she blows up kinda thing. So it felt fine then.. the morning that she sent me a message she said ‘I still wake up early when riya isn’t here’ and that was it, she never spoke to me after that and has ignored any attempt of contact since.
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If this is truly a “just friends” situation which it seems to be; you have nothing to worry about. We tend to shut down when we have stuff going on. Give her some space and she’ll come around in her own time. Sometimes we have trouble with opening up and articulating what we’re feeling and going through.

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My Taurus friend has been the same in the last few weeks. I took it personal then she messaged me on my snap yesterday so idk. When I asked her what’s up a few weeks ago she said she’s not in a celebratory mood and I said to her I hope she feels better soon. Maybe I should have asked her why but it was in text and I would rather talk about those things in person. I hope she’s ok tho. I know how fough like can be sometimes.

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If she was my friend, I would just give her space.

She’ll come around when she is ready.