Bumble is doing God's work. Now women know how men feel
This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by virgoking on Thursday, February 3, 2022 and has 50 replies.
Bumble is doing gods work and now they feel the rejection men have felt forever. Because women have to message the guy first. A lot of women shoot for guys way out of their league and get unmatch or just left on seen.. welcome to man world we have fish and chips to the left and shrimp scampy on the right. https://www.google.com/amp/s/theconversation.com/amp/does-it-really-empower-women-to-expect-them-to-make-the-first-move-175032
I’ll have fish, chips and mushy peas
Please 👍
Please 👍
Oooooo, shrimp scampi please 🙋♀️
Posted by HypnotoadStaple diet of the English working class lolPosted by MyStarsShine
I’ll have fish, chips and mushy peas
Please 👍
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Posted by HypnotoadThey put them in boxes here. When I lived in England it was paper....soaked in vinegar lolPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by HypnotoadPosted by MyStarsShine
I’ll have fish, chips and mushy peas
Please 👍
Culture
Staple diet of the English working class lol
Same here, but wrapped in paper with Tomato sauce instead of peasclick to expand
Men get rejected just as much on bumble. It’s competition for everyone n it’s mostly based on looks as a first impression so if you’re hot, you get more options
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mineclick to expand
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
Do people actually reply to matches on dating sites? Damn. I always looked at them like "Awww, someone thinks I'm cute." Then continue with my life. I can't believe people actually attempt to send messages on there. How cringy. I rather eat glass then meet some random fuck from the internet.
I do remember men claiming if you message dozens of women you are guaranteed sex at some point. That was back in my early 20s though. Those men must be dead from a std by now.
I do remember men claiming if you message dozens of women you are guaranteed sex at some point. That was back in my early 20s though. Those men must be dead from a std by now.
Na.the only way women would lose would be arranged marriages. And even then it's probably some kind of win in some cases
Posted by saggurl88Sense of humour wins for me but I agree that rejection is character building.
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
It is the same for men and women: when you have 10-15 convos going and 5-7 dates scheduled, a few unanswered messages go unnoticed.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
Posted by Stony🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will pay half. But that’s about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless it’s his birthday.Posted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
You’ve never taken ME on a date..click to expand
I’ll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys I’m fine with nature dates. They don’t have to spend money if they don’t want to.
It’s hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
Posted by StonyHahaha. That actually would be a great date. A little camping date in the woods. We can walk, talk, eat, and then being the cereal killer mutable that I am. You know what comes next!!! 🔪Posted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
You’ve never taken ME on a date..
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will pay half. But that’s about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless it’s his birthday.
I’ll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys I’m fine with nature dates. They don’t have to spend money if they don’t want to.
It’s hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
Why haven’t we walked a trail together? And you made beautiful garlic bread, steak and some sort of side?click to expand
Fantastic First Date!! 🤣🤣
Posted by alexscariesLMAO!Posted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
You’ve never taken ME on a date..
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will pay half. But that’s about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless it’s his birthday.
I’ll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys I’m fine with nature dates. They don’t have to spend money if they don’t want to.
It’s hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
Why haven’t we walked a trail together? And you made beautiful garlic bread, steak and some sort of side?
Hahaha. That actually would be a great date. A little camping date in the woods. We can walk, talk, eat, and then being the cereal killer mutable that I am. You know what comes next!!! 🔪
Fantastic First Date!! 🤣🤣
I'm a cereal killer as well. I could murder a box of froot loops.click to expand
I just found some cereal bowls online that keep the cereal from getting soggy! FREAKING GENIUS!!!!
It's the little things in life that make a person happy!
Posted by alexscariesPosted by goldenfish
It is the same for men and women: when you have 10-15 convos going and 5-7 dates scheduled, a few unanswered messages go unnoticed.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
People reject for different reasons could be purely superficial, could be distance, could even be because they don't like the answers. In that situation I can see why some people take it personally, but it's best to move on.click to expand
Why do they take it personally? I'm genuinely curious.
And women are doing exactly what men have been doing to us for centuries....we don't give a fuck anymore about relationships, getting married, having kids etc. We out here for the streets now...and you should see and hear all the butthurt dudes 🤷🏼♀️
I’ll just place this here 😇
Posted by nanobotz🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Any man who says this type of things is not someone in my income bracket anyways 😅💅🏽Posted by saggurl88
I’ll just place this here 😇
My personal favorite: being called a “gold digger” for not wanting to date a broke guy, when you’re literally an engineer with a nice salary 💀💀💀💀click to expand
Men that have great financial positions/jobs never complain.
Posted by alexscariesOh. 🥴 Wow, someone has to be very sensitive to think of that as rejection.Posted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by goldenfish
It is the same for men and women: when you have 10-15 convos going and 5-7 dates scheduled, a few unanswered messages go unnoticed.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
People reject for different reasons could be purely superficial, could be distance, could even be because they don't like the answers. In that situation I can see why some people take it personally, but it's best to move on.
Why do they take it personally? I'm genuinely curious.
I can't speak for anyone as I've said before I'm not active on any dating sites, but anywhere you take time to post pictures and write a bio a pass is technically rejecting someone's looks and personality. As I've said before it could be because someone is 50km away, but how would anyone know the reason unless it is said?click to expand
The ego has to be enormous on a person to think that they're every ones type and that they should have a look at the profile and read what they wrote lol
Dating sites are just like this website or Yahoo! You look at what grabs your attention, and that's about it.
Posted by alexscariesI haven't used them a lot at all, I used it twice so far, 2 years apart. I get overwhelmed when I have to make quick decisions and there are a sea of faces to scroll through.Posted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88Posted by alexscariesPosted by goldenfish
It is the same for men and women: when you have 10-15 convos going and 5-7 dates scheduled, a few unanswered messages go unnoticed.
If you only have a match once in a blue moon it is a different story. Also, I think it is a pretty strong wording "rejection" for something so small like unmatch/no reply.
People reject for different reasons could be purely superficial, could be distance, could even be because they don't like the answers. In that situation I can see why some people take it personally, but it's best to move on.
Why do they take it personally? I'm genuinely curious.
I can't speak for anyone as I've said before I'm not active on any dating sites, but anywhere you take time to post pictures and write a bio a pass is technically rejecting someone's looks and personality. As I've said before it could be because someone is 50km away, but how would anyone know the reason unless it is said?
Oh. 🥴 Wow, someone has to be very sensitive to think of that as rejection.
The ego has to be enormous on a person to think that they're every ones type and that they should have a look at the profile and read what they wrote lol
Dating sites are just like this website or Yahoo! You look at what grabs your attention, and that's about it.
The impression I get is a lot of people treat like Instagram, post pics get told they are sexy, but never meet anyone.click to expand
But I guess that can be true, some use it just to chat and get attention. No telling how many catfishes there are on those sites who are lonely and never meet because it's not their picture.
I mean that would be the only reason for most women, I would think.
For men who do this, they are probably married and bored.
Anyone not willing to meet up should have a grace period of chatting in the app for a week tops, before meet up.
Instead people try to take it slow and get to know a person inside the app lol
And yet women aren't constantly in the news for murdering the men who rejected them.
Posted by saggurl88
...I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
*like*
All of this.
Posted by Gobbie
A word of warning to men using Bumble: if you're ever banned, rightly or wrongly, be prepared to be publicly ridiculed.
https://bumble.com/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-connor
https://bumble.com/en/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-michael
Wow! They ban people lol I had no clue!
This is why people should meet in person, instead of trying to vet them inside the app. All of it could be avoided. Why as first date question in an app. You either show enough interest to go out or move the hell on.
If people are being cautious and getting a creep vibe, they shouldn't want to chat or meet with them. Why keep up appearances?
A friend of mine met her fiancé on Bumble. He is honestly the best guy she’s been with so far.
Such a strange name to call a dating site 🥴
Bumble ~ : blunder specifically : to speak ineptly in a stuttering and faltering manner.
2 : to proceed unsteadily : stumble.
Lol 😂
Bumble ~ : blunder specifically : to speak ineptly in a stuttering and faltering manner.
2 : to proceed unsteadily : stumble.
Lol 😂
Posted by alexscariesLolPosted by MyStarsShine
Such a strange name to call a dating site 🥴
Bumble ~ : blunder specifically : to speak ineptly in a stuttering and faltering manner.
2 : to proceed unsteadily : stumble.
Lol 😂
It's based off a bumble bee, as in like bees round honey or a hive of activity.click to expand
I think the meaning above could be more apt 😀
It's been around for 8 years now, the respond within a day thing is tough for those of us who are super busy.
Posted by saggurl88First I have to say that I thought Bumble was an user here...Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
You’ve never taken ME on a date..
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will pay half. But that’s about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless it’s his birthday.
I’ll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys I’m fine with nature dates. They don’t have to spend money if they don’t want to.
It’s hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.click to expand
@saggurl88
Well if you have in mind how much we as women spend on our bodies because of biology and social constructs ( menstruation, depilation, make up and maintenance ) it's fair that they give more in the dating scene 🤟
Posted by GenericUsername🤣🤣🤣 I thought bumble was global. I like it cause I swipe on what I like and no one else has contact with me unless I want them to 😅😅Posted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
You’ve never taken ME on a date..
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will pay half. But that’s about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless it’s his birthday.
I’ll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys I’m fine with nature dates. They don’t have to spend money if they don’t want to.
It’s hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
First I have to say that I thought Bumble was an user here...
@saggurl88
Well if you have in mind how much we as women spend on our bodies because of biology and social constructs ( menstruation, depilation, make up and maintenance ) it's fair that they give more in the dating scene 🤟click to expand
It’s a great filter. I never see who is interested. So I don’t know why guys take this as some sort of rejection.
They can’t even message you if the woman doesn’t swipe on them and message first.
Works for me! 🤪
I’m not up for endless chats with 10 different guys.
And like some guys here, they assume a woman is talking to tons of men. They lose before the race even starts.
How can they draw interest from a woman starting out with such a negative mind set?
Sucks for them. 🥴
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALMoney makes the world go round.Posted by saggurl88Posted by nanobotzPosted by saggurl88
I’ll just place this here 😇
My personal favorite: being called a “gold digger” for not wanting to date a broke guy, when you’re literally an engineer with a nice salary 💀💀💀💀
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Any man who says this type of things is not someone in my income bracket anyways 😅💅🏽
Men that have great financial positions/jobs never complain.
it isnt about money it's about feeling aliveclick to expand
What happens if your job told you that it’s not about money it’s about feeling?
You can’t get anywhere without money. Someone has to have some!
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALTrue, but you can do a lot with it. There's too many limits without it.Posted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88Posted by nanobotzPosted by saggurl88
I’ll just place this here 😇
My personal favorite: being called a “gold digger” for not wanting to date a broke guy, when you’re literally an engineer with a nice salary 💀💀💀💀
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Any man who says this type of things is not someone in my income bracket anyways 😅💅🏽
Men that have great financial positions/jobs never complain.
it isnt about money it's about feeling alive
Money makes the world go round.
What happens if your job told you that it’s not about money it’s about feeling?
You can’t get anywhere without money. Someone has to have some!
This world is slavery because of money,click to expand
I need freedom, so I need money.
Posted by rabidtalkerIf you can't respond within a day, your probably too busy to meet new people anyways lol
It's been around for 8 years now, the respond within a day thing is tough for those of us who are super busy.
You should hop on and date with a profile that says "One night only" when you have the time
Become a libra like me and you wont need a dating app lol. Srsly they just seem to radiate into me and its constant chatter boxes it's so annoying(aries rising) it literally makes my head hurt. It's never the shy sweet ones I'll have to make the first move there but I think I scare/intimidat them that theyll run away.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by GenericUsernamePosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
You’ve never taken ME on a date..
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will pay half. But that’s about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless it’s his birthday.
I’ll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys I’m fine with nature dates. They don’t have to spend money if they don’t want to.
It’s hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
First I have to say that I thought Bumble was an user here...
@saggurl88
Well if you have in mind how much we as women spend on our bodies because of biology and social constructs ( menstruation, depilation, make up and maintenance ) it's fair that they give more in the dating scene 🤟
🤣🤣🤣 I thought bumble was global. I like it cause I swipe on what I like and no one else has contact with me unless I want them to 😅😅
It’s a great filter. I never see who is interested. So I don’t know why guys take this as some sort of rejection.
They can’t even message you if the woman doesn’t swipe on them and message first.
Works for me! 🤪
I’m not up for endless chats with 10 different guys.
And like some guys here, they assume a woman is talking to tons of men. They lose before the race even starts.
How can they draw interest from a woman starting out with such a negative mind set?
Sucks for them. 🥴click to expand
I don't use such apps because I am simply not interested, but because my country is so small, population of 600 000 we have a weird mentality, so I know that there is a hacked Tinder version, and mostly homosexual men use it.
Posted by GammaArietis
The only takeaway I got from this article is that men ruin the dating experience every chance they get. Men are swiping right on everyone and I’m sure the algorithm then shows women the people who are swiping on them to give them the opportunity to swipe back to make a match.
Men are destroying the algorithm so women are being bombarded with matches who haven’t even taken 2 seconds to read their profile to see if they are compatible.
When men can’t have their way they ruin the experience for everyone.
“Rather than evaluating profiles carefully and swiping “yes” on women they’re serious about, men are often likely to swipe right based only on the profile photo.
In addition, many men approach online dating as a numbers game and practice what some call “power swiping” or “shotgun swiping” by saying “yes” to everyone and seeing who shows interest and matches with them. Many of them will only read a women’s profile information after matching.“
most who DM me on IG just comment stories with selfies...it escalates from 😘, you are beautiful to send pics 😋 real quick depending on the ethnicity, social and educational status of the sender.
Posted by GenericUsernameOh wow lolPosted by saggurl88Posted by GenericUsernamePosted by saggurl88Posted by StonyPosted by saggurl88Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by saggurl88
Like with everything- this depends on looks. For some Bumble is a life saver, cause they only get the matches they’ve swiped on, instead filtering through PM’s that looks like a damn spam folder.
I don’t know why people care about rejection so much. Just try again, they don’t even know you.
You could’ve had a shirt on that reminded them of a mean elementary school teacher and now you’re all butthurt about them rejecting you over some nonsense.
Rejection is supposed to build character and help you work on your personality, so you can be unstoppable.
Instead people take a strangers opinion to heart and get insecure. Smh
Confidence trumps looks any day of the week!
show me ur bumble profile im lazy af to do mine
I currently don’t have one. Lol.
Mine was serious and boring.
A few pics and it said “I go on dates, I’m not trying to text all day with a penpal.”
Short and to the point lol.
You’ve never taken ME on a date..
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will pay half. But that’s about it. I never pay for a date with a man unless it’s his birthday.
I’ll walk a trail in a park for free on a date before I pay for one.
I tell guys I’m fine with nature dates. They don’t have to spend money if they don’t want to.
It’s hard on mens wallets when it comes to dating and expectations.
First I have to say that I thought Bumble was an user here...
@saggurl88
Well if you have in mind how much we as women spend on our bodies because of biology and social constructs ( menstruation, depilation, make up and maintenance ) it's fair that they give more in the dating scene 🤟
🤣🤣🤣 I thought bumble was global. I like it cause I swipe on what I like and no one else has contact with me unless I want them to 😅😅
It’s a great filter. I never see who is interested. So I don’t know why guys take this as some sort of rejection.
They can’t even message you if the woman doesn’t swipe on them and message first.
Works for me! 🤪
I’m not up for endless chats with 10 different guys.
And like some guys here, they assume a woman is talking to tons of men. They lose before the race even starts.
How can they draw interest from a woman starting out with such a negative mind set?
Sucks for them. 🥴
I don't use such apps because I am simply not interested, but because my country is so small, population of 600 000 we have a weird mentality, so I know that there is a hacked Tinder version, and mostly homosexual men use it.click to expand
Well meeting people off apps is better anyways. At least you see them in person and don't waste time messaging back and forth with no clue who the person is.
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotz
I downloaded bumble but didn’t use it. I found way too much effort and not in my personality type to be the pursuer. I prefer to just have messages come in as a woman does, and then I end up ignoring them because how many times can you honestly answer a disingenuous “how are you?” before it gets too boring 🙄
Having some interesting or weird shit going on in your photos/bio for a guy to make some stupid joke about is great, anything at all. You'd be amazed at how little there is to talk about in chicks bio photos. Most girls bios are literally just one big "how are you?"
yeah tinder is just an extension of linkedlin its cringe meclick to expand
I'm pretty sure you have zero idea what LinkedIn is
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALOh look! "not all men" has entered the chat.Posted by LadyNeptune
And yet women aren't constantly in the news for murdering the men who rejected them.
so all men are murderer and women are angels with no sins ?click to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALYou got me. I am a ghost haunting this site. Boom you solved the case sherlockPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptune
And yet women aren't constantly in the news for murdering the men who rejected them.
so all men are murderer and women are angels with no sins ?
Oh look! "not all men" has entered the chat.
No im phase with reality, did your boyfriend raped you and murdered u ? Or maybe hes not a man after all.
At the end ive met more women with an awful entitled attitude than rapist and murderer. Pretty weird.
Keep watching news'click to expand
Posted by IMNOTEVENREALB O OPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by IMNOTEVENREALPosted by LadyNeptune
And yet women aren't constantly in the news for murdering the men who rejected them.
so all men are murderer and women are angels with no sins ?
Oh look! "not all men" has entered the chat.
No im phase with reality, did your boyfriend raped you and murdered u ? Or maybe hes not a man after all.
At the end ive met more women with an awful entitled attitude than rapist and murderer. Pretty weird.
Keep watching news'
You got me. I am a ghost haunting this site. Boom you solved the case sherlock
D E L U S I O N A Lclick to expand
Posted by Gobbie
A word of warning to men using Bumble: if you're ever banned, rightly or wrongly, be prepared to be publicly ridiculed.
https://bumble.com/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-connor
https://bumble.com/en/the-buzz/an-open-letter-to-michael
oh wow I'm not surprised bumble was created by a feminist.
Some pointer to get more swipes 
Hahahaha! LEO's!!!!!
Posted by saggurl88Oh God 😂🥴
Hahahaha! LEO's!!!!!
Posted by alexscariesPosted by saggurl88
Some pointer to get more swipes
The guy's ripped. The second is a potentially great photo just too much headroom and stuff in the background.click to expand
Its the pose, I think. Looks a little douchy.
He needs a book in his hand or something
I don't mind any pic in profiles-as long as they don't have women in them. Sisters, cousins, ex's, wives- No thank you.
You don't need a female accessory in your pic unless it's your kid.
This style is good- It's all about the pose. casual vs trying too hard.
Posted by saggurl88actually you're right. I ended up going on a few but couldnt follow through with more because of being so busy, hah. Most understood, a few were angry, oh well. I always tried to keep it classy though and not lead anyone on.Posted by rabidtalker
It's been around for 8 years now, the respond within a day thing is tough for those of us who are super busy.
If you can't respond within a day, your probably too busy to meet new people anyways lol
You should hop on and date with a profile that says "One night only" when you have the timeclick to expand
I tried it about 2 years ago when we first had to isolate, I actually didn’t like making the first move and very rarely did. I don’t normally, unless it’s eye contact across the room or chit chat. The weird thing is, I downloaded and open it up again a couple months ago and I recognised a lot of the same people still there. Now, they either have not found someone or they have never closed their profiles… curious as to what? But also the reason I shut it back down again. I’m not comfortable with the whole online dating.
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