Posted by WarAngel
For me: what women say they want, and what they respond to are almost never the same thing.
As I get older, it rings more and more true for me.
Posted by virgoking
Facts the old heads know what's up. Now that I'm an old head lol. I have some cold things I can tell youngins but I'm to scared to share it on dxp lol. Men would understand but the women would go crazy lol.
Posted by virgokingWhat a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
Posted by MyStarsShineCold as in.. he was rightPosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶click to expand
Posted by rotiCold as in his approach ....Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was rightclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineCold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’tPosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....click to expand
Posted by virgokingThere's really nothing cold about what he said. It is simply the way of things, but I can see how it was eye-opening.
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
Posted by rotiMaybePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’tclick to expand
Posted by HypnotoadThat's not cold. That sound scary to me. Imagine anybody telling me I'm gonna go bald. That'll be enough to make me cry.
My Dad telling me I'm gonna go bald
Posted by MyStarsShineWe live in hope 🙏🏼 or copePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’t
Maybe
Hopefully not all?click to expand
Posted by Hypnotoad
Why do women get so offended at being told they aren't all perfect angels.
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by virgokingPosted by WarAngel
For me: what women say they want, and what they respond to are almost never the same thing.
As I get older, it rings more and more true for me.
Facts the old heads know what's up. Now that I'm an old head lol. I have some cold things I can tell youngins but I'm to scared to share it on dxp lol. Men would understand but the women would go crazy lol.
Do it, ill denfed your honorclick to expand
Posted by rotiThe women he deals with, yes. Like attracts like.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’tclick to expand
Posted by IxiPosted by Hypnotoad
Why do women get so offended at being told they aren't all perfect angels.
I find this an interesting hot take because I know that I have observed many guys, especially straight men, get understandably upset when they who are presumably NOT abusive or toxic are unfairly lumped into a stereotype about abusive and toxic men, that start with "All men _____". It looks a lot like a double standard from here.click to expand
Posted by GammaArietis
What do men expect of women during a breakup?
“A bitch wouldn’t feel sorry for you”
So, what exactly do you want? What can a woman do to show that she does feel sorry for the breakup? Stay with you despite her unhappiness?
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by virgokingPosted by IxiPosted by Hypnotoad
Why do women get so offended at being told they aren't all perfect angels.
I find this an interesting hot take because I know that I have observed many guys, especially straight men, get understandably upset when they who are presumably NOT abusive or toxic are unfairly lumped into a stereotype about abusive and toxic men, that start with "All men _____". It looks a lot like a double standard from here.
it's not a double standard women get to choice the men that they want to date. Where as most men have to date the women that choice them. Most men are not with their first choice or second. Where as women choice the men they want. They knew he was no good she thought he was going to change for her. Not going to happen.
Not really dude most women never get the dude they want, not even close.click to expand
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by virgokingPosted by HypnotoadPosted by virgokingPosted by IxiPosted by Hypnotoad
Why do women get so offended at being told they aren't all perfect angels.
I find this an interesting hot take because I know that I have observed many guys, especially straight men, get understandably upset when they who are presumably NOT abusive or toxic are unfairly lumped into a stereotype about abusive and toxic men, that start with "All men _____". It looks a lot like a double standard from here.
it's not a double standard women get to choice the men that they want to date. Where as most men have to date the women that choice them. Most men are not with their first choice or second. Where as women choice the men they want. They knew he was no good she thought he was going to change for her. Not going to happen.
Not really dude most women never get the dude they want, not even close.
yes they do I don't know where you been. Women have way more options than men do.truth is most women don't have the skill to keep the men they want that's closer to the truth.
Everyone settles.click to expand
Posted by GammaArietisPosted by virgokingPosted by GammaArietis
What do men expect of women during a breakup?
“A bitch wouldn’t feel sorry for you”
So, what exactly do you want? What can a woman do to show that she does feel sorry for the breakup? Stay with you despite her unhappiness?
most women blind side men when the break up is about to happen. Women say they give hints... bs most women do passive aggressive acts that some how men are suppose to decode. Men only understand direct communication so if your trying to warn your man he is fucking up. Please be direct.
There is a drop of truth here. I do believe some men are blind sided by breakups but if we were to be direct it would be considered “bitching and nagging” so it’s really a no-win situation for us. We’re taught not to be too direct about our wants and needs because that makes us high maintenance.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneMost likely yes.Posted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’t
The women he deals with, yes. Like attracts like.click to expand
Posted by HypnotoadIt’s going to be okay
Okay yeah Im a little bit bitter lol
Posted by Hypnotoad
Okay yeah Im a little bit bitter lol
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by HypnotoadPosted by GammaArietisPosted by HypnotoadPosted by GammaArietis
What do men expect of women during a breakup?
“A bitch wouldn’t feel sorry for you”
So, what exactly do you want? What can a woman do to show that she does feel sorry for the breakup? Stay with you despite her unhappiness?
Nothing, it's literally not about getting anything out of it at all. It's an entirely pragmatic approach to get on with the break up and move on with your life.
Do you know what you’re arguing? You said women are not perfect angels. What about women ending a relationship with a man makes her not a “perfect angel”?
Ofc I know what I'm saying. Did you read the OP, it's about that a woman is not going to feel sorry for you when she breaks up with you so you shouldn't let feeling sorry for her get in the way of breaking up.
She doesn't have to show anything to feel sorry for the break up, to answer your first question. She doesn't have to be a perfect angel, it's not important at all its some social construct bs. Society tells men that a woman is going to be kind and loving no matter what, that a woman is going to give him unconditional love and all that shit, that she is gonna care deeply about his feelings in any situation. Its all a lie.
Do any other animals in the animal kingdom give a fuck after another male moves in and scraps off the other one? No.
I ain't even being bitter, my POV is that a woman has been biologically wired to think about herself and her babys needs first and that is really how it should be. When people hear this they get so butthurt because it doesn't fit the narative that says how a woman is this or whatever and they get offendedclick to expand
Posted by rotiI don’t think it’s a gender or age thing. Some people be like that. And thank fuck for them! Cause without the shit people we wouldn’t be as appreciative of the good ones when they enter our lives.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’t
The women he deals with, yes. Like attracts like.
Most likely yes.
In this instance the advice is given to a high school kid I’m assuming. Girls around that age can be extremely callous once they’re bored and over you. They might ghost or fuck someone else or both, before communicating they’ve lost interest in you. Or you’re supposed to know that already
He’s saying don’t sweat it for those reasons. Now, whether he meant to say let her down gently or bounce I can’t sayclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by rotiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’t
The women he deals with, yes. Like attracts like.
Most likely yes.
In this instance the advice is given to a high school kid I’m assuming. Girls around that age can be extremely callous once they’re bored and over you. They might ghost or fuck someone else or both, before communicating they’ve lost interest in you. Or you’re supposed to know that already
He’s saying don’t sweat it for those reasons. Now, whether he meant to say let her down gently or bounce I can’t say
I don’t think it’s a gender or age thing. Some people be like that. And thank fuck for them! Cause without the shit people we wouldn’t be as appreciative of the good ones when they enter our lives.
Op’s friends pops seems like he’s living his peak bitter divorced dad years. god blessclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneWoW what a catch 🥴🙃
A friend of a friend, literal stranger to me, was bemoaning the “lack of pussy” in his area. Because apparently he’s “run through” all the women in his small town. And being a low key alcoholic who doesn’t drive and mooching off his ex (living in her converted shed for free) doesn’t give him many options.
I was a few drinks in and feeling a bit 😈 so I told him he should try treating women as more than just a hole to fill. Change up his approach.
Or just get a sex doll to service him with a smile since that’s more his vibe.
He’s definitely an over sharer cause I got his whole life story. At least he’s got that goin for him
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by rotiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’t
The women he deals with, yes. Like attracts like.
Most likely yes.
In this instance the advice is given to a high school kid I’m assuming. Girls around that age can be extremely callous once they’re bored and over you. They might ghost or fuck someone else or both, before communicating they’ve lost interest in you. Or you’re supposed to know that already
He’s saying don’t sweat it for those reasons. Now, whether he meant to say let her down gently or bounce I can’t say
I don’t think it’s a gender or age thing. Some people be like that. And thank fuck for them! Cause without the shit people we wouldn’t be as appreciative of the good ones when they enter our lives.
Op’s friends pops seems like he’s living his peak bitter divorced dad years. god blessclick to expand
Posted by rotiMeh. I’m an optimistic pessimist as best.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by rotiPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by rotiPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoking
My best friend father is a ladies man he could pull any women he wants. My friend didn't want to date this girl any more and he didn't know how to break up with her. He told him never feel sorry for a bit ch because if she was in your position she wouldn't feel sorry for you. To me that's the coldest shit I ever heard but the older I get I see he was right.
What a terrible role model of a father to call women bitches ... sounds like he never grew up/resolved his women issues.
Yes i agree with you....very cold 🥶
Cold as in.. he was right
Cold as in his approach ....
Cold as in the logic behind what he said. If the shoe was on the other foot, that girl would not have given a shit. Most wouldn’t
The women he deals with, yes. Like attracts like.
Most likely yes.
In this instance the advice is given to a high school kid I’m assuming. Girls around that age can be extremely callous once they’re bored and over you. They might ghost or fuck someone else or both, before communicating they’ve lost interest in you. Or you’re supposed to know that already
He’s saying don’t sweat it for those reasons. Now, whether he meant to say let her down gently or bounce I can’t say
I don’t think it’s a gender or age thing. Some people be like that. And thank fuck for them! Cause without the shit people we wouldn’t be as appreciative of the good ones when they enter our lives.
Op’s friends pops seems like he’s living his peak bitter divorced dad years. god bless
I wish I shared your optimism about people. Respectclick to expand