Posted by AbbyNormal
I found it amusing and adorable that my ex fiancé had girls gone wild dvds and nothing worse than that lol. Especially after my first love was a porn addict who downloaded thousands of images to MY computer—mfker had them categorized into folders there were so many!!! So as long as a dude isn’t going overboard, who the fuck cares. I’d rather be his porn but I know that I can’t always be around when he wants to get loose. I can be.... just sayin’.... for the right guy, I am one phone call away lol and if we are in love, you probably have a photo/video or two of me you can always fall back on lol
Posted by jeane
obviously this is while in a relationship.
if your partner looks at porn or masturbates to images of women that are not you, do you consider that cheating?
Posted by jeane
what would your reaction be?click to expand
Posted by HoneyLemon
If you are hiding it from your partner because it would upset them then, yes, it’s a form of cheating.
Posted by _Dazedthis is not a troll thread.
No.
Is this thread serious?
Posted by hydorahPosted by AbbyNormal
I found it amusing and adorable that my ex fiancé had girls gone wild dvds and nothing worse than that lol. Especially after my first love was a porn addict who downloaded thousands of images to MY computer—mfker had them categorized into folders there were so many!!! So as long as a dude isn’t going overboard, who the fuck cares. I’d rather be his porn but I know that I can’t always be around when he wants to get loose. I can be.... just sayin’.... for the right guy, I am one phone call away lol and if we are in love, you probably have a photo/video or two of me you can always fall back on lol
You think they're different, then you are wrong. They're both addicted to porn the same way.
BTW girls gone wild seems worse to me because it's very young girls exploited for money by this pornographer, probably drugged, degrading themselves at such a young age for the world to see. They were barely consenting. It's the worst example of porn I've seen.
OTOH the dude who categorized it in folders showed a real aesthetic appreciation for the art, in addition to trying to control his inner chaos through higher functioning skills. This is comendable, except for the fact that he shouldn't have saved porn pics on someone else's computer.click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormalPosted by hydorahPosted by AbbyNormal
I found it amusing and adorable that my ex fiancé had girls gone wild dvds and nothing worse than that lol. Especially after my first love was a porn addict who downloaded thousands of images to MY computer—mfker had them categorized into folders there were so many!!! So as long as a dude isn’t going overboard, who the fuck cares. I’d rather be his porn but I know that I can’t always be around when he wants to get loose. I can be.... just sayin’.... for the right guy, I am one phone call away lol and if we are in love, you probably have a photo/video or two of me you can always fall back on lol
You think they're different, then you are wrong. They're both addicted to porn the same way.
BTW girls gone wild seems worse to me because it's very young girls exploited for money by this pornographer, probably drugged, degrading themselves at such a young age for the world to see. They were barely consenting. It's the worst example of porn I've seen.
OTOH the dude who categorized it in folders showed a real aesthetic appreciation for the art, in addition to trying to control his inner chaos through higher functioning skills. This is comendable, except for the fact that he shouldn't have saved porn pics on someone else's computer.
I disagree completely. First of all, my ex fiancé and I got engaged in his early 20s and I found these at his parents house while helping him clean. Buried away, old dvds of women around his age since these girls are found drunk at bars and concerts from what I recall. I’m not saying they aren’t exploitative, I’m just saying they are rather harmless in content in comparison. He wasn’t a grown adult watching these. When we moved in together, they didn’t come with lol. He had me and work to occupy nearly all of his time, and we were very active so nothing needed. No harm there in my POV.
My first love was and is a sex addict. That’s a problem for me. Someone who that is all they think about, that rubbed themselves raw sometimes. That disgusts me. No self control. It’s not like he wasn’t getting sex either. And the sheer amount of pictures I found on my computer was appalling. No art there, sheer bulk quantity. I see nothing beautiful, impressive, etc about it. This is someone who still asks me to see my body parts as a married man, at least once every time we chat. To me, he is worse because he was/is constantly objectifying me and other women. My ex fiancé was/is harmless so it comes down to the person and intention.click to expand
Posted by hydorahPosted by AbbyNormalPosted by hydorahPosted by AbbyNormal
I found it amusing and adorable that my ex fiancé had girls gone wild dvds and nothing worse than that lol. Especially after my first love was a porn addict who downloaded thousands of images to MY computer—mfker had them categorized into folders there were so many!!! So as long as a dude isn’t going overboard, who the fuck cares. I’d rather be his porn but I know that I can’t always be around when he wants to get loose. I can be.... just sayin’.... for the right guy, I am one phone call away lol and if we are in love, you probably have a photo/video or two of me you can always fall back on lol
You think they're different, then you are wrong. They're both addicted to porn the same way.
BTW girls gone wild seems worse to me because it's very young girls exploited for money by this pornographer, probably drugged, degrading themselves at such a young age for the world to see. They were barely consenting. It's the worst example of porn I've seen.
OTOH the dude who categorized it in folders showed a real aesthetic appreciation for the art, in addition to trying to control his inner chaos through higher functioning skills. This is comendable, except for the fact that he shouldn't have saved porn pics on someone else's computer.
I disagree completely. First of all, my ex fiancé and I got engaged in his early 20s and I found these at his parents house while helping him clean. Buried away, old dvds of women around his age since these girls are found drunk at bars and concerts from what I recall. I’m not saying they aren’t exploitative, I’m just saying they are rather harmless in content in comparison. He wasn’t a grown adult watching these. When we moved in together, they didn’t come with lol. He had me and work to occupy nearly all of his time, and we were very active so nothing needed. No harm there in my POV.
My first love was and is a sex addict. That’s a problem for me. Someone who that is all they think about, that rubbed themselves raw sometimes. That disgusts me. No self control. It’s not like he wasn’t getting sex either. And the sheer amount of pictures I found on my computer was appalling. No art there, sheer bulk quantity. I see nothing beautiful, impressive, etc about it. This is someone who still asks me to see my body parts as a married man, at least once every time we chat. To me, he is worse because he was/is constantly objectifying me and other women. My ex fiancé was/is harmless so it comes down to the person and intention.
I prefer the second guy, even if it's obvious he's an addict. There's something glorious about engaging your demons frontallyclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneEdit:
Unless its of people I know personally aka family friends, then I'm not trippin.
Posted by Dread_Pirate_PhantaPosted by SassyKiwi
No.
Now you have porn more easily accessible than ever through digital platforms. Back then they had magazines, VHS, DVDs.. and then before that you just had the real stuff like brothels, hookers and prostitutes which are still a thing now. I don't think on average male sex drives can really compare to female sex drives no matter how much some women want to toot their own horns. It is what it is. It should not be taken personal. Also just because a man doesn't enjoy pornagraphy doesn't imply he has some greater moral compass comparatively. Cause he could be the type going out and preferring the real thing but hides it well (plenty of men like this in my parents' generation). "A man is only as faithful as his options." 🤷♀️
False.
What is true is that men who are like that will insist that all men are like that.click to expand
Posted by Hypnotoad
What if he's got an only fans account?
Posted by jeanePosted by _Dazed
No.
Is this thread serious?
this is not a troll thread.
i was watching 90 day fiance and one of the couples came up against this issue. he was masturbating to pictures of naked women on his phone. she said that was cheating and made him delete all the photos.
i also come across this when listening to a podcast one day. he had a fantasy she wasn't interested in. he watched porn of that fetish. she found out. was furious and told him he can never watch porn again.
dr phil considers watching porn to be cheating. it is a frequent point of debate for some couples.
i was keen to learn what the women of dxp thought.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911🤣🤣🤣 bingoPosted by jeanePosted by _Dazed
No.
Is this thread serious?
this is not a troll thread.
i was watching 90 day fiance and one of the couples came up against this issue. he was masturbating to pictures of naked women on his phone. she said that was cheating and made him delete all the photos.
i also come across this when listening to a podcast one day. he had a fantasy she wasn't interested in. he watched porn of that fetish. she found out. was furious and told him he can never watch porn again.
dr phil considers watching porn to be cheating. it is a frequent point of debate for some couples.
i was keen to learn what the women of dxp thought.
😂😂😂 Jihoon & Deavanclick to expand
Posted by jeaneLove a bit of 90 Day! I'm all up to date with it, even the Facebook watch stuff 😁 dedicated!Posted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by _Dazed
No.
Is this thread serious?
this is not a troll thread.
i was watching 90 day fiance and one of the couples came up against this issue. he was masturbating to pictures of naked women on his phone. she said that was cheating and made him delete all the photos.
i also come across this when listening to a podcast one day. he had a fantasy she wasn't interested in. he watched porn of that fetish. she found out. was furious and told him he can never watch porn again.
dr phil considers watching porn to be cheating. it is a frequent point of debate for some couples.
i was keen to learn what the women of dxp thought.
😂😂😂 Jihoon & Deavan
🤣🤣🤣 bingoclick to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by _Dazed
No.
Is this thread serious?
this is not a troll thread.
i was watching 90 day fiance and one of the couples came up against this issue. he was masturbating to pictures of naked women on his phone. she said that was cheating and made him delete all the photos.
i also come across this when listening to a podcast one day. he had a fantasy she wasn't interested in. he watched porn of that fetish. she found out. was furious and told him he can never watch porn again.
dr phil considers watching porn to be cheating. it is a frequent point of debate for some couples.
i was keen to learn what the women of dxp thought.
😂😂😂 Jihoon & Deavan
🤣🤣🤣 bingo
Love a bit of 90 Day! I'm all up to date with it, even the Facebook watch stuff 😁 dedicated!click to expand
Posted by jeaneThe Annie & David cooking show on Facebook Watch is really good to watch. I like those two plus it's food based so even better! I've recorded the latest What Now? series that was on at the weekend so that's my next weekend viewing with six hours!Posted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by _Dazed
No.
Is this thread serious?
this is not a troll thread.
i was watching 90 day fiance and one of the couples came up against this issue. he was masturbating to pictures of naked women on his phone. she said that was cheating and made him delete all the photos.
i also come across this when listening to a podcast one day. he had a fantasy she wasn't interested in. he watched porn of that fetish. she found out. was furious and told him he can never watch porn again.
dr phil considers watching porn to be cheating. it is a frequent point of debate for some couples.
i was keen to learn what the women of dxp thought.
😂😂😂 Jihoon & Deavan
🤣🤣🤣 bingo
Love a bit of 90 Day! I'm all up to date with it, even the Facebook watch stuff 😁 dedicated!
I'm slightly addicted now. Its a fucking rabbit hole all those series. I haven't been on Facebook but have you been on reddit??click to expand
Posted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by AgentP911Posted by jeanePosted by _Dazed
No.
Is this thread serious?
this is not a troll thread.
i was watching 90 day fiance and one of the couples came up against this issue. he was masturbating to pictures of naked women on his phone. she said that was cheating and made him delete all the photos.
i also come across this when listening to a podcast one day. he had a fantasy she wasn't interested in. he watched porn of that fetish. she found out. was furious and told him he can never watch porn again.
dr phil considers watching porn to be cheating. it is a frequent point of debate for some couples.
i was keen to learn what the women of dxp thought.
😂😂😂 Jihoon & Deavan
🤣🤣🤣 bingo
Love a bit of 90 Day! I'm all up to date with it, even the Facebook watch stuff 😁 dedicated!
I'm slightly addicted now. Its a fucking rabbit hole all those series. I haven't been on Facebook but have you been on reddit??
The Annie & David cooking show on Facebook Watch is really good to watch. I like those two plus it's food based so even better! I've recorded the latest What Now? series that was on at the weekend so that's my next weekend viewing with six hours!
Not been on Reddit. What's on there? There's some hilarious groups on FB that slate the show (in a good way).click to expand
Posted by HoneyLemon
That’s why I think it’s best to determine between couples. Some say yes, and others say no.
The only reason why I think it’s a ‘form’ of cheating is because when one person in the relationship is against the porn-watching and the other does it + hides, it is acting dishonestly and unfairly towards the other person, which is one of the definitions of cheating.
Looking at my own relationships, in the past it went either way for me, it really depended on the person and what we had agreed upon. I am currently in a relationship where my partner doesn’t want that and I respect that. But the last 3 relationships, we had watched it together, and two relationships ago that partner had somewhat of an addiction and it affected our relationship towards the end.
Posted by AbbyNormal
... I’d rather be his porn but I know that I can’t always be around when he wants to get loose. I can be.... just sayin’.... for the right guy, I am one phone call away lol and if we are in love, you probably have a photo/video or two of me you can always fall back on lol
Posted by PhoenixStormSo you think about nothing at all? Just blank?Posted by virghost
No, women can do the same. Women who masturbate if they're not watching porn they're defo imagining a picture or listening to sultry audios or reading some sexy ass books.
This isn’t true. Sometimes I do it just to cum and sleep better or relieve stress. I can come to full orgasm without thinking of a man at all, all I have to do is focus on how good it feels and then BAM. 💦🤣🤷♀️click to expand