Ladies if you went on a date with a guy and at the end he says to you "so let's make a movie" completely a turn off!!! is this the new norm to give it on the first date?
when on the 1st date guy wants sex
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There wasn't a connection but he is so cute.
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Sorry about that ... He is immature
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
yeah guys are like that in this generation.
no good ones left, they're all married.
I've basically just cut everyone off.
You're really pretty, btw, op.
thank you very much.
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
yeah guys are like that in this generation.
no good ones left, they're all married.
I've basically just cut everyone off.
You're really pretty, btw, op.
I can't see your pictures but I'm sure your beautiful as well
Posted by ManilaViceYou mean to find a parking slut?
i think those are for seasoned daters. like the ones who have been around the block and circled back 2x to find a parking slot lol!
I don't personally see the need of holding out if the date went really well.
If we both want to rip each other's clothes off, what's not to like? It's not like you're forcing someone to have sex with you.
If we both want to rip each other's clothes off, what's not to like? It's not like you're forcing someone to have sex with you.
It is for the tacky bitch guys. People are so classless anymore.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
why do you live in the past? @ShadowAbsorber
Posted by rockyroadicecreamSo if a human being follows his/her animalistic impulses is now considered unclassy.
It is for the tacky bitch guys. People are so classless anymore.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
Don't you think is a little extreme way of looking at the subject?
This seems to be the common attitude from men. It's disheartening. Sex doesn't make a relationship. Yes there can be a connection but those are very few and far between. The female in the situation may want to get to know the guy better ( or maybe not).
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There is the saying for guys have sex doesn't equal a relationship and women shouldn't have sex with a guy in hopes of the have cultivate feelings for her.
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There is the saying for guys have sex doesn't equal a relationship and women shouldn't have sex with a guy in hopes of the have cultivate feelings for her.
Posted by starloverImagine he's really good and you spontaneously end up in his bed before suddenly realizing it's a first date.
I would not want to have sex on a first date
Would you still abstain (given that it's first a date) from having sex with him even if he has "earned it" ? By "earned it" I mean he didn't force you in any way and everything theretofore was natural.
Posted by thinktoomuchThe sextape is just a metaphor.Posted by starloverYeah, we all know that the guy is just gonna nut on her ass or back, the girl is gonna get literally nothing out of that sextape, not even a little dime, when the guy puts it on pornhub.Posted by PalerioIt seems to be a modern throw away attitude, throw away sex, meaningless and readily availablePosted by rockyroadicecreamSo if a human being follows his/her animalistic impulses is now considered unclassy.
It is for the tacky bitch guys. People are so classless anymore.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
Don't you think is a little extreme way of looking at the subject?
Not always a good thing
And risky
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Posted by thinktoomuchIf he says that it doesn't mean is actually planning on making it.Posted by PalerioSince when?Posted by thinktoomuchThe sextape is just a metaphor.Posted by starloverYeah, we all know that the guy is just gonna nut on her ass or back, the girl is gonna get literally nothing out of that sextape, not even a little dime, when the guy puts it on pornhub.Posted by PalerioIt seems to be a modern throw away attitude, throw away sex, meaningless and readily availablePosted by rockyroadicecreamSo if a human being follows his/her animalistic impulses is now considered unclassy.
It is for the tacky bitch guys. People are so classless anymore.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
Don't you think is a little extreme way of looking at the subject?
Not always a good thing
And risky
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I'm not sure I understand, but it seems you're mixing up two things, having sex and making a sextape.
I would advise against doing a sextape on the first date or any date at all.
There's nothing wrong with having sex whenever you want.
fuck this dating ceremonial shit, what are you ? robots?
I would advise against doing a sextape on the first date or any date at all.
There's nothing wrong with having sex whenever you want.
fuck this dating ceremonial shit, what are you ? robots?
Posted by Koniucha
I have had sex on the first date and ended up with the guy for 4 years.
So it's not the end of the world.
Its not the end if the world it happens. There is no hard set rule but I feel as if its an either/or situation. Maybe because if what I've seen where a girl will give it up without a date and ends up being his plaything for 3 weeks and then tossed to the side for someone else. SOME women will sleep with the guy hoping to create a relationship or the ain't shit guys who expect sex after buying a girl one drink or talking to her for 5 minutes.
Posted by cheekyfaerieReading it this way is even more normal when you're not a native English speaker and every vowel to you has the same sound.Posted by PalerioReally glad I'm not the only one that read it like that...Posted by ManilaViceYou mean to find a parking slut?
i think those are for seasoned daters. like the ones who have been around the block and circled back 2x to find a parking slot lol!
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Posted by tizianiPosted by leorisingpiscesmoonSee when there's a connection, would it really be a problem? The guy was a turn off because he misread the situation. But not because this is somehow some damnation upon society.
There wasn't a connection but he is so cute.click to expand
no if there was a connection the sexual chemistry would've been there but the first date to me is too soon. I wouldn't have been taken back by his comment if he didn't say it in the manner he did. Im a sexual sensual woman so being sexy and feeling the attraction is natural but that is literally how he started the convo. "You want to make a video? Ever had a threesome, girls from your country are freaks"
lol you went on a date with a sex tourist
Posted by tizianiPosted by leorisingpiscesmoonIt's my mistake. I read the thread title only and thought the topic was sex on the first date. Now I've caught on we're talking about a different subject entirely.Posted by tizianiPosted by leorisingpiscesmoonSee when there's a connection, would it really be a problem? The guy was a turn off because he misread the situation. But not because this is somehow some damnation upon society.
There wasn't a connection but he is so cute.
no if there was a connection the sexual chemistry would've been there but the first date to me is too soon. I wouldn't have been taken back by his comment if he didn't say it in the manner he did. Im a sexual sensual woman so being sexy and feeling the attraction is natural but that is literally how he started the convo. "You want to make a video? Ever had a threesome, girls from your country are freaks"click to expand
oh I'm sorry my grammar sometimes is off
Posted by hydorah
lol you went on a date with a sex tourist
Noe that's funny
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Exactly
Posted by PalerioI'm not going to bother because you clearly do not understand or can fathom why the dude in question is a classless dick head.Posted by rockyroadicecreamSo if a human being follows his/her animalistic impulses is now considered unclassy.
It is for the tacky bitch guys. People are so classless anymore.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
Don't you think is a little extreme way of looking at the subject?
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I mean really, you think it's okay to talk like that to a woman after the first date? REALLY? You're just as bad as the gross dude she mentions.
Posted by GobshiteYet we have silly boys in this thread defending such behavior.Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
Im a sexual sensual woman so being sexy and feeling the attraction is natural but that is literally how he started the convo. "You want to make a video? Ever had a threesome, girls from your country are freaks"
Well, that has nothing to do with having sex on a first date. That's just plain disrespectful.click to expand
People are so fucking depressing...
Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou're not really following the thread.Posted by PalerioI'm not going to bother because you clearly do not understand or can fathom why the dude in question is a classless dick head.Posted by rockyroadicecreamSo if a human being follows his/her animalistic impulses is now considered unclassy.
It is for the tacky bitch guys. People are so classless anymore.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
Don't you think is a little extreme way of looking at the subject?
I mean really, you think it's okay to talk like that to a woman after the first date? REALLY? You're just as bad as the gross dude she mentions.click to expand
I'm saying there's nothing wrong in having sex first night, you're saying the guy is a dick because he asked her to make a sextape.
We're not speaking the same language here.
I've never had a guy be that outward on a first date. I think it's obvious what the intention behind "watching a movie" would be.
You did mean to say WATCH a movie and not MAKE a movie, right?
If a guy asked if I wanted to make a movie on our first date I would laugh and assume he had to be joking.
You did mean to say WATCH a movie and not MAKE a movie, right?
If a guy asked if I wanted to make a movie on our first date I would laugh and assume he had to be joking.
Posted by starloverThat's just because you've never been on a date with me 😛Posted by PalerioNoPosted by starloverImagine he's really good and you spontaneously end up in his bed before suddenly realizing it's a first date.
I would not want to have sex on a first date
Would you still abstain (given that it's first a date) from having sex with him even if he has "earned it" ? By "earned it" I mean he didn't force you in any way and everything theretofore was natural.
I am more self respecting and responsible than to put myself in that kind of scenario
Seems that other women ^^^^ here feel the same, which is good to read
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Posted by ashley1734Exactly.
If a guy asked if I wanted to make a movie on our first date I would laugh and assume he had to be joking.
It could very well be a killer joke if you convey it with the right tone.
Posted by ashley1734
I've never had a guy be that outward on a first date. I think it's obvious what the intention behind "watching a movie" would be.
You did mean to say WATCH a movie and not MAKE a movie, right?
If a guy asked if I wanted to make a movie on our first date I would laugh and assume he had to be joking.
no he said make a movie
I really thought he was joking so I said now that's funny. He then said I'm not joking its been a fantasy of mine since I saw you
Posted by starloverIf men started using their creativity they would find out there's a myriad of ways of not making it so obvious.
...and one of the reasons i wouldn't do it, is because it is so predictable and makes it so obvious where a guy is coming from......
Give me something new
Posted by leorisingpiscesmoonI'd never dare to try sex on 1st....actually I've never really dated, I've either met girls at school, or around town, at work, or at my favorite bar...and often after talking we'd just go and have sex. Only once it led to relationship and marriage. We said no sex first night, and almost moved in immediately.
Ladies if you went on a date with a guy and at the end he says to you "so let's make a movie" completely a turn off!!! is this the new norm to give it on the first date?
Posted by PalerioUm...also...only women could be so absurd as to not like sex enough that a pitiful excuse like "it wasnt creative enough" could cancel the deal....Posted by starloverIf men started using their creativity they would find out there's a myriad of ways of not making it so obvious.
...and one of the reasons i wouldn't do it, is because it is so predictable and makes it so obvious where a guy is coming from......
Give me something new
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Posted by thinktoomuchLOLPosted by leorisingpiscesmoonOh no no no, because Palerio says it´s a METAPHOR!!!....
I really thought he was joking so I said now that's funny. He then said I'm not joking its been a fantasy of mine since I saw you
Poor guy, can´t see through others guys´ very straight forward intentions. Auch, that´s gotta hurt!click to expand
Posted by GetMisted
Side note: I misread the OP.
No problem
Posted by starwars
I laughed so hard at this
Posted by PalerioNah, it's you who's not following it.Posted by rockyroadicecreamYou're not really following the thread.Posted by PalerioI'm not going to bother because you clearly do not understand or can fathom why the dude in question is a classless dick head.Posted by rockyroadicecreamSo if a human being follows his/her animalistic impulses is now considered unclassy.
It is for the tacky bitch guys. People are so classless anymore.
But guys do it because it's worked before and/or someone has told them this is how you do it.
Don't you think is a little extreme way of looking at the subject?
I mean really, you think it's okay to talk like that to a woman after the first date? REALLY? You're just as bad as the gross dude she mentions.
I'm saying there's nothing wrong in having sex first night, you're saying the guy is a dick because he asked her to make a sextape.
We're not speaking the same language here.click to expand
She's wtf about this guy bringing up such language on the first date. This isn't about "is sex on the first date bad?"
Nice try deflecting, but you seriously have no concept of what it's like for a female to date, hence just shrugging this off and turning the topic into something easier for you to explain away due to your lack of overall understanding of what the OP was talking about.
Posted by MagicMonaI'm gonna go with a "yes" to this approach haha. Classic.
sure, go ahead and make that movie. make him strip first, tie him up, blindfold that fool, turn on the camera, and walk out. let him watch that on repeat.
I'd tell him to lose my number, and if he.comes near me again, I'll get a restraining order.
Posted by rockyroadicecream She's wtf about this guy bringing up such language on the first date. This isn't about "is sex on the first date bad?"I was deflecting because it's pointless to argue with someone with whom you share a similar point of view (What are we arguing about?).
Nice try deflecting, but you seriously have no concept of what it's like for a female to date, hence just shrugging this off and turning the topic into something easier for you to explain away due to your lack of overall understanding of what the OP was talking about.
You really reminded me of when I used to argue with my little Taurus sister (still do) who couldn't grasp that we were saying the same things just using different words. She yelled at me because she would misinterpret my words (I do have a twisted way of expressing so it's very possible), while I was always "mad" because of something else, I was annoyed by her tone.
Contents vs modalities basically, a similar conversation doesn't lead to anything expect frustration and anger.
Anyway, if you had followed the topic you would have noticed that a lot people in here were misled by the title, even the OP's first post was "confusing" because she was putting in correlation the request of making a sextape and the "giving it away on first date". Most thought, before she explained he wasn't, he had to be joking (she even thought herself at first), so we automatically assumed the matter at issue was sex on first night and we all started talking about that as a result.
There's nothing to add as regards sextapes, although hiding the camera is definitely a good advice. You don't need a concept on "what is like for a female to date" to understand, given that he wasn't joking, that he was rude on every level...
Posted by Greentea
I'd tell him to lose my number, and if he.comes near me again, I'll get a restraining order.
no I was nice about it didn't want to be rude. He has since moved on to a coworker was he flat out sent her pics of his olive branch
Posted by thinktoomuchRead above.Posted by PalerioGreat comeback for your failed attempt to make this topic about something animalistic and natural, when in fact it´s just about a guy who wats to nut on someone and upload it to pornhub. Yeah, real classy!Posted by thinktoomuchLOLPosted by leorisingpiscesmoonOh no no no, because Palerio says it´s a METAPHOR!!!....
I really thought he was joking so I said now that's funny. He then said I'm not joking its been a fantasy of mine since I saw you
Poor guy, can´t see through others guys´ very straight forward intentions. Auch, that´s gotta hurt!click to expand
P.s. Also just stop here with your attempt to make other people look like the perverted ass they're not.
For the record to each own do what you please. Not saying it horrible if you do have sex on the 1st date. I'm just not like that compared to my friends and some people I've met on here. I've got a lot to learn. Idk maybe its a bad thing or I just have a wall up but it takes me a while to get to that point, once I'm there though well that's for behind close doors
Intimacy with you has to be earned. When you feel it is, that's the right time.
Unless you're just going through the motions.
Unless you're just going through the motions.
Posted by leorisingpiscesmoonYou know what's interesting?
For the record to each own do what you please. Not saying it horrible if you do have sex on the 1st date. I'm just not like that compared to my friends and some people I've met on here. I've got a lot to learn. Idk maybe its a bad thing or I just have a wall up but it takes me a while to get to that point, once I'm there though well that's for behind close doors
That the more we get older the more people we meet willing to have sex on the 1st date. It's funny because those people are usually the same who are willing to wait endlessly for that to happen. All they care, in the end, is that they have found someone with whom they share a genuine connection, they know sex will come, whether is the first or tenth date, it doesn't matter.
Posted by starloverIt still stands. WOmen will refuse a guy for such shallow reasons. Guys never refuse because we're connected to our bodies and really enjoy them.Posted by bricklemarkYou misread .... It was referring to the approach and not the actual sexPosted by PalerioUm...also...only women could be so absurd as to not like sex enough that a pitiful excuse like "it wasnt creative enough" could cancel the deal....Posted by starloverIf men started using their creativity they would find out there's a myriad of ways of not making it so obvious.
...and one of the reasons i wouldn't do it, is because it is so predictable and makes it so obvious where a guy is coming from......
Give me something new
I got what he saidclick to expand
Posted by thinktoomuchI see. Well I don't "get mine", cause I figured out it's a mistake. Men can orgasm without ejaclating. And that way, all the energy stays inside and is recycled, also, it makes us less desperate.Posted by bricklemarkOy ve!Posted by starloverIt still stands. WOmen will refuse a guy for such shallow reasons. Guys never refuse because we're connected to our bodies and really enjoy them.Posted by bricklemarkYou misread .... It was referring to the approach and not the actual sexPosted by PalerioUm...also...only women could be so absurd as to not like sex enough that a pitiful excuse like "it wasnt creative enough" could cancel the deal....Posted by starloverIf men started using their creativity they would find out there's a myriad of ways of not making it so obvious.
...and one of the reasons i wouldn't do it, is because it is so predictable and makes it so obvious where a guy is coming from......
Give me something new
I got what he said
Women rarely think less of men when they have sex, whereas women "lose" their "dignity" when having sex. I´m not saying that´s how it really REALLY is, but culturally speaking that´s how it is. I don´t think not wanting to have sex is a shallow reason. After all, having sex is the closest you can ever get with someone physically. Also: women have to let a mans penis INSIDE their bodies. Men can´t really understand that. ... And risk being called a cumpumpster afterwards. Nice.
Guys never refuse because it´s so much easier for you to orgasm too. Rarely does any woman do that first time having sex with a stranger, so what would be the point for her to have sex? Basically: women are connected to their bodies in a different way. But still men have to have and opinion on it, and either we are prudes who just need some dick, or we are sluts who deserve whatever we got coming. Men don´t really understand the struggle - and why should you, when you get yours? But how you get yours, is not how most women get theirs. We´re just different.click to expand
But if guys just "f-k" and get theirs and don't give a shet about the other person, then I understand why you wouldnt want it...also the slut shaming l don't get...I've never done that. My philosophy is the more sluts, the better...lol
Posted by leorisingpiscesmoonHe's either a douche or one hell of a jokester.
Ladies if you went on a date with a guy and at the end he says to you "so let's make a movie" completely a turn off!!! is this the new norm to give it on the first date?
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