Lost my big girl pants...
This topic was created in the Travel forum by LibraLovesHim on Tuesday, August 22, 2017 and has 20 replies.
Bf has invited me to NY to meet his fam and friends. The only prob is, its a 20+hr journey and ALONE. Is it bad that I am seriously feeling like I cant do it? The longest journey I take on a plane is around 12 hours and im pooped, so its like getting off that flight and being told okay you have to do the same again, and now.
FUUUUUCK!! Help me!?! I feel rotten, and he doesnt want me to feel bad. He also said it is pretty brutal if he's to be honest to me, so I know to expect that. Im so sick of travelling alone also, since before I met him I knew this, ive been doing it for years SO over it. God I sound so selfish right now. ARGH!
FUUUUUCK!! Help me!?! I feel rotten, and he doesnt want me to feel bad. He also said it is pretty brutal if he's to be honest to me, so I know to expect that. Im so sick of travelling alone also, since before I met him I knew this, ive been doing it for years SO over it. God I sound so selfish right now. ARGH!
You can sleep a lot of the time ?
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
Posted by MyStarsShineI wish! Not at that earning potential yet
You can sleep a lot of the time ?
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
Seriously considering dropping the cash for business class myself. Posted by mehI can do it I guess, I think it's just more enjoyable and take the edge off a near 24hr trip if we are in it together. Eating, laughing, movies, fall asleep drooling on his shoulder crouched up uncomfy the 2 of us LOL!
What is it about traveling alone that you find taxing?
I just feel like *sigh* here I go on my own again, more airports, more planes, more journeys-solo. When I was younger I guess I saw it as more of an adventure and very liberating. Now i'm just over it. It was one of the things that I was looking forward to when i finally meet someone-something to share this kinda stuff with, long overdue.
Posted by LibraLovesHimMay be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?Posted by MyStarsShineI wish! Not at that earning potential yet
You can sleep a lot of the time ?
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortableclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)Posted by LibraLovesHimMay be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?Posted by MyStarsShineI wish! Not at that earning potential yet
You can sleep a lot of the time ?
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortableclick to expand
Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!
Posted by LibraLovesHimAre you stupid or what?
Bf has invited me to NY to meet his fam and friends. The only prob is, its a 20+hr journey and ALONE. Is it bad that I am seriously feeling like I cant do it? The longest journey I take on a plane is around 12 hours and im pooped, so its like getting off that flight and being told okay you have to do the same again, and now.
FUUUUUCK!! Help me!?! I feel rotten, and he doesnt want me to feel bad. He also said it is pretty brutal if he's to be honest to me, so I know to expect that. Im so sick of travelling alone also, since before I met him I knew this, ive been doing it for years SO over it. God I sound so selfish right now. ARGH!
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!
'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'
'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'
'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'
'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?
What a lucky fella!!' ???
'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'
'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'
'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'
'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?
What a lucky fella!!' ???
Posted by GemitatiIts questionable...depends on the time of the month? Whats up with your face? BF not left his wife yet? Anyway do proceed....Posted by LibraLovesHimAre you stupid or what?
Bf has invited me to NY to meet his fam and friends. The only prob is, its a 20+hr journey and ALONE. Is it bad that I am seriously feeling like I cant do it? The longest journey I take on a plane is around 12 hours and im pooped, so its like getting off that flight and being told okay you have to do the same again, and now.
FUUUUUCK!! Help me!?! I feel rotten, and he doesnt want me to feel bad. He also said it is pretty brutal if he's to be honest to me, so I know to expect that. Im so sick of travelling alone also, since before I met him I knew this, ive been doing it for years SO over it. God I sound so selfish right now. ARGH!click to expand
Posted by GemitatiOhhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!
'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'
'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'
'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'
'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?
What a lucky fella!!' ???
^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?Posted by GemitatiOhhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!
'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'
'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'
'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'
'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?
What a lucky fella!!' ???
^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiMy weight is as constant as my decision making skills. ^^ see your own post.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?Posted by GemitatiOhhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!
'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'
'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'
'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'
'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?
What a lucky fella!!' ???
^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.click to expand
"I cant go to the kitchen"-theres too many sweets
"I cant eat this sandwich" - theres not enough cheese
"I can't be pregnant" - Ill get fat
"I can't do anything"-because I want to eat everything.
Posted by LibraLovesHimHave i said you are stupid?Posted by GemitatiMy weight is as constant as my decision making skills. ^^ see your own post.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?Posted by GemitatiOhhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!
'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'
'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'
'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'
'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?
What a lucky fella!!' ???
^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
"I cant go to the kitchen"-theres too many sweets
"I cant eat this sandwich" - theres not enough cheese
"I can't be pregnant" - Ill get fat
"I can't do anything"-because I want to eat everything.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiNo ma'am but I believe you asked...if that's the same thing as "saying" in your language.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave i said you are stupid?Posted by GemitatiMy weight is as constant as my decision making skills. ^^ see your own post.Posted by LibraLovesHimHave you lost weight? Otherwise how are you a big girl?Posted by GemitatiOhhhhh I see! Yes he is a lucky fella, and i'm a lucky girl. Lucky for us what we have is for us to understand and not a side hoe.
OMG! I am imagining this marriage!
'I can't go to the kitchen! It's too white'
'I can't eat this sandwich - my mouth is too small'
'I can be pregnant - it's not pretty'
'I can't...do anything...because I cant'?
What a lucky fella!!' ???
^^ I tried to put emojis in there to make that sound a little less harsh but it wouldnt post them and i'm sure you can handle it! Maybe you stole my big girl pants.
"I cant go to the kitchen"-theres too many sweets
"I cant eat this sandwich" - theres not enough cheese
"I can't be pregnant" - Ill get fat
"I can't do anything"-because I want to eat everything.click to expand
Posted by LibraLovesHimHas he offered to help you out with the fare, Libra ?Posted by MyStarsShine3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)Posted by LibraLovesHimMay be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?Posted by MyStarsShineI wish! Not at that earning potential yet
You can sleep a lot of the time ?
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!click to expand
Life is not about doing ONLY what you want, or what suits you.
In this case is just 24 hrs.....really, get over yourself, it's laughable.
I agree with Gemitati.
In this case is just 24 hrs.....really, get over yourself, it's laughable.
I agree with Gemitati.
Posted by UndineThanks for the positive input!
Life is not about doing ONLY what you want, or what suits you.
In this case is just 24 hrs.....really, get over yourself, it's laughable.
I agree with Gemitati.
Posted by MyStarsShineHe has but I know his current financial situation, he is paying off student debt also, but he doesnt want to seem like he cant help me. He is offering but I know its not in his best interest to be out of that kind of money. I think ill take a back seat for this trip because we really cant afford now and again over Christmas, esp since we just had a pretty well travelled summer. I shall stay here and hold the fort, keep our plants alive lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimHas he offered to help you out with the fare, Libra ?Posted by MyStarsShine3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)Posted by LibraLovesHimMay be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?Posted by MyStarsShineI wish! Not at that earning potential yet
You can sleep a lot of the time ?
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShineSo my Mr it turns out has received a bonus at work, and he wants to use it for me to come home with himPosted by LibraLovesHimHas he offered to help you out with the fare, Libra ?Posted by MyStarsShine3 stops. Theres various routes but the one i'm looking at has little transit time which helps. Economy will cost $ 706 and business $ 2563 (pretty major)Posted by LibraLovesHimMay be a good investment Libra. How many flights are you due to take....or is it straight through ?Posted by MyStarsShineI wish! Not at that earning potential yet
You can sleep a lot of the time ?
Get him to book you into first class....more comfortable
Honestly beginning to think better to wait until fall and meet up with the parents in Europe somewhere. I cant really afford both trips anyway and i've already had a mega summer of jaunting around! Just thought I should grab the opportunity whilst he is going home, to see the place he grew up, see the man in his natural habitat hehe!click to expand
Seems like quotes aint working
That is great to hear......have a blast, Libra
That is great to hear......have a blast, Libra
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