Boy Do I Need Some Advice With My Virgo... (Page 2)

Actually, you're just full of shit, and we all know it because I am pointing it out.


just like on your other thread ... you said you provided 10 pages of legal documents to prove your character to the Virgo ... the innocent, who has integrity wouldn't stoop to that.

You have nothing except the need to prove yourself ... which means he's seeing the same thing I'm seeing = trash trying to look classy


You failed .... a person only has to look at the OP to see that he told you he'd been seeing another woman the whole with you, and then chose the other woman ... your reaction was to tell him you love him.

A winner doesn't do something like that ... a person who thinks of themselves as a piece of shit does act like that and that person would also shove proof of it into another's face because having something to prove is all they got, since they don't have the integrity to step away.


You've got nothing. I read another thread in here where you were whining about the Virgo not believing you while you were out dating other men ... and nobody responded to you at all, because you are that piece of shit that you own for yourself by your actions of not owning any dignity.

Posted by Hairazor

-So I respond with...

Thank you for letting me know. If I said this didn't hurt I would be lying. I care and want the best for you so all I can do at this point is to back out. I can't fight for what belongs to someone else. Do know... that I miss you terribly. I wish I had known. My heart really hurts..... I don't know what else to say... except that I love you. You know where to reach me. I may or may not be around. I am just sad that your feelings are stronger than the connection that we had.

Any person who can read gets what you did right here. He dumps you for a woman he'd been seeing the whole time ... and you tell him that it's ok to come back and he knows where to find you and that you'll miss him terribly, and that you love him.

that makes you a douchebag who has zero pride or integrity ....

And I'm not backing away from that assertion because it's the truth. You're emotionally playing around, fucking with men's heads and trying to act innocent ... you're a failure at convincing me or them, since they are dumping you, and/or making you prove yourself to them.

And it makes no difference whether you admit it or not .. the proof is in the pudding = the men are dumping you for your lack of intregity

Honestly I would not have responded to his email, I sure wouldn't have REWARDED him with more love, more of my heart if I were you, this was the time to protect your heart, not display your heart to him about your feelings for him, he's being selfish so why give a selfish person more, he wasn't going to change his mind no matter how much you said to him "I love you" and "miss you dearly".

Out of sight out of mind, he didn't deserve the little bit you gave to him. So from this point going forward, he can't have you after he's chose another woman, meaning, no more expressing your heart to a man that's shut his heart off from you.

Don't tell him you miss him anymore, matter of fact don't talk to him and DROP him completely, because here's the thing, he expect you to wait around, he expect you to keep him on your social networks etc, don't do it, he made his decision so you must move on, delete delete delete, all of it, delete it all, he chose her over you, no need to stick around but what you will see is him running back to you once he recognize and realize why he dumped her in the first place, he'll be back but you must give him ZERO access to you, he'll miss you and he'll be back and if he doesn't come back so what, you've moved on.

Don't torture yourself by being in love ALONE, don't turn into a miserable person by holding onto a guy that's holding onto somebody else. Maintain your self respect and dignity, don't turn into a desperate mess over some guy that probably just wanted to be FREE from any one woman so he used his ex as an excuse, DON'T OWN THAT, losing you is his loss, hold your head up high and don't look back.

Sorry Hairazor just read that this issue is old as in 6 months old, you've moved on, good for you, I was going to hide my post but nah I'll keep it up.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Hairazor

-So I respond with...

Thank you for letting me know. If I said this didn't hurt I would be lying. I care and want the best for you so all I can do at this point is to back out. I can't fight for what belongs to someone else. Do know... that I miss you terribly. I wish I had known. My heart really hurts..... I don't know what else to say... except that I love you. You know where to reach me. I may or may not be around. I am just sad that your feelings are stronger than the connection that we had.

Any person who can read gets what you did right here. He dumps you for a woman he'd been seeing the whole time ... and you tell him that it's ok to come back and he knows where to find you and that you'll miss him terribly, and that you love him.

that makes you a douchebag who has zero pride or integrity ....

And I'm not backing away from that assertion because it's the truth. You're emotionally playing around, fucking with men's heads and trying to act innocent ... you're a failure at convincing me or them, since they are dumping you, and/or making you prove yourself to them.

And it makes no difference whether you admit it or not .. the proof is in the pudding = the men are dumping you for your lack of intregity

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"I may or may not be around" You omitted this part....And now your turning a single instance single into plural? Lmao!! No... I see 😉

Posted by tiki33
Honestly I would not have responded to his email, I sure wouldn't have REWARDED him with more love, more of my heart if I were you, this was the time to protect your heart, not display your heart to him about your feelings for him, he's being selfish so why give a selfish person more, he wasn't going to change his mind no matter how much you said to him "I love you" and "miss you dearly".

Out of sight out of mind, he didn't deserve the little bit you gave to him. So from this point going forward, he can't have you after he's chose another woman, meaning, no more expressing your heart to a man that's shut his heart off from you.

Don't tell him you miss him anymore, matter of fact don't talk to him and DROP him completely, because here's the thing, he expect you to wait around, he expect you to keep him on your social networks etc, don't do it, he made his decision so you must move on, delete delete delete, all of it, delete it all, he chose her over you, no need to stick around but what you will see is him running back to you once he recognize and realize why he dumped her in the first place, he'll be back but you must give him ZERO access to you, he'll miss you and he'll be back and if he doesn't come back so what, you've moved on.

Don't torture yourself by being in love ALONE, don't turn into a miserable person by holding onto a guy that's holding onto somebody else. Maintain your self respect and dignity, don't turn into a desperate mess over some guy that probably just wanted to be FREE from any one woman so he used his ex as an excuse, DON'T OWN THAT, losing you is his loss, hold your head up high and don't look back.

You are absolutely correct. What I wrote to him was directly after he told me. Things had "seemed" great between us and I was shocked and very very hurt. I took me a minute to gather my composure and when I did, I did exactly what you stated above and have not looked back. 🙂