Capricorn woman needs some insight

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Cappygrl70 on Friday, October 18, 2013 and has 20 replies.
I have been seeing this Virgo male for months now. Both of our lives have undergone some changes. Needless to say, he's pushing me away. I know this man has feelings for me, how long do I keep from choking him?
I think he's subconsciously asking for it..
I'm hearing what he says... But this man has his own dictionary.. Soooo him drifting out to a sea, is telling me to step it up with whips and chains?
The emotions between Caps and Virgo are very intense. Virgo men are oft put off by the intenseness of it. Cap female Virgo male relationship is one of extreme compatibility that he may be waiting for the other shoe to drop. Once that is past it is my belief that he will be yours for life.
But people are people so tell us how it goes.
He can't stand it either...lol I just stand there smh. Your are correct, it's amazing how intense we are.. But with a mix of childlike flare. I have to always have confirmation, bxs of my safe nature. He shows it to me in every way, but when he gets cornered emotionally, I just melt! I know what he's going through. I'm starting to think that he needs me and he's brake check'n my ass.
Kinda cute to me... I'm just gonna lay low and let him take the wheel.
Thanks Winking
Well .. then Ill be left with the conclusion he needs to man up. Not good!
Virgo's hate to be cornered just breathe and stay calm. He'll come around in his own way. Just be a stable Cap that you are and you will see.
I know it... I give him his space due to me being a workaholic. I'm extremely career orientated and don't have time to go looking for him. I just don't want to waist my time.
Plus, I'm not gonna chase any man. I think we're too much alike lol
I don't mind waiting... Not too long though, we cappy's move up and on. I'll be sad though
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Well to be honest, you might as well just move on now if waiting isn't your theme because mark my words you "will" have to wait again.


I disagree. I can't tell what this guy is thinking but as a Virgo you know we are slow. Sometimes because we are wrong in our slowness doesn't mean people are wrong in waiting for us. Today everybody wants everything now. She likes him and i am assuming the same from him. I think they should just hang out and just be in each other's presence and see what transpires. If he's being a jerk then she knows if he's ackward then she knows he likes her but has the Virgo curse.
Don't be so dismissive.
being selfish bxs I am loyal to the man and he hasn't a clue. We come from two totally different back grounds, I think with me being so independent mixed with my high drive. I'm thinking he's trying to make me stop and go get him. I'm just a lil gun shy on making myself that vulnerable. I believe if you want something, get up and make it happen. I respect his space and his in depth process of eliminating fears. I don't want to get mad and say "you know what, get over it!"
Very awkward loving this man, I don't want anyone else. I chose him the first moment I laid eyes on him.
I don't need him .. I just miss him

Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by miamivirgo
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Well to be honest, you might as well just move on now if waiting isn't your theme because mark my words you "will" have to wait again.


I disagree. I can't tell what this guy is thinking but as a Virgo you know we are slow. Sometimes because we are wrong in our slowness doesn't mean people are wrong in waiting for us. Today everybody wants everything now. She likes him and i am assuming the same from him. I think they should just hang out and just be in each other's presence and see what transpires. If he's being a jerk then she knows if he's ackward then she knows he likes her but has the Virgo curse.
Don't be so dismissive.


I AGREE!!! She should chill out and wait for everything great to unfold. However, since she's so set on "not waiting or chasing any man", the Virgo will probably take too long and on top of that you know we are generally slow at the pace of love. That's why I said she will probably have to wait again, so if she's not for it now, then she should just bounce.
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Yep, you are so right...he's been damaged, i don't like to dwell on anything that isn't healthy for me. I don't think it's fair that I get shot down verbally but the man doesn't let me go. He gets weird on me
Virgo curse?
I think if it's meant to happen it wouldn't be so difficult on his end. He is younger than me, maybe it's a maturity gap
Posted by miamivirgo
The emotions between Caps and Virgo are very intense. Virgo men are oft put off by the intenseness of it. Cap female Virgo male relationship is one of extreme compatibility that he may be waiting for the other shoe to drop. Once that is past it is my belief that he will be yours for life.
But people are people so tell us how it goes.


Posted by xvll27
Yeah Capricorn females some times drive me crazy not in a good way but incredibly they are also caring ,romantic and observe every move which Virgo men make when Capricorn attach them selves with Virgos they get bit too much clingy
I never doubt on their loyalty they can become good friends,wives/gfs but It takes a lot of tolerance from both side before they get on such level smile
You need to give your Virgo guy alot of space at least for a month no contact and see what happens smile


Posted by Cappygrl70
I don't mind waiting... Not too long though, we cappy's move up and on. I'll be sad though


Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Well to be honest, you might as well just move on now if waiting isn't your theme because mark my words you "will" have to wait again.
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*Jealous*
It would seem the opposite with Moons, or maybe Moons simply don't affect this at all. And so it has to be Suns.
Boooo. But, good for you if yours can work out. 0:-)
All Virgos are damaged. We are just too sensitive not to be even though everyone thinks we're heartless. Its just our shields.
Two things about Virgos 1.) We don't like to get involved if we think it won't work. 2.) If do get involved and it doesn't work out even though we break up with you we blame ourselves mercilessly.
So we take our time.
The most destructive and evil woman I have ever been with is a Capricorn.
Posted by VirgoMerlot
The most destructive and evil woman I have ever been with is a Capricorn.


I am so sorry on her behalf. What did she do exactly?

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