How does a Virgo girl feel when she finds out that she was a cause of a couple breaking up?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by fkpkr on Friday, October 16, 2015 and has 5 replies.
Does she feel guilty about it?
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/gemini-ex-bf-and-i-had-a-huge-fight-he-made-a-mountain-out-of-a-molehill-5779782.asp#5779783
This topic tells a different story though. You go at lengths about how you lost your shit over him going on a trip with a platonic friend. You know that was wrong of you to do, because you said it.
Then you say he told you he wanted to break up for a long time already.
So, maybe the chick had nothing to do with it and he found you insufferable to deal with. But you can't accept that, can you? Libra's all about the light.
Then you're going on about how you are going to make him pay for it, cuz roooarrrr you iz libra sun/scorpio moon.
The reality is you are a shitty dramatic person, with or without some other chick in the picture.
But by all means, don't let reality get in the way of stupidity here.
This topic tells a different story though. You go at lengths about how you lost your shit over him going on a trip with a platonic friend. You know that was wrong of you to do, because you said it.
Then you say he told you he wanted to break up for a long time already.
So, maybe the chick had nothing to do with it and he found you insufferable to deal with. But you can't accept that, can you? Libra's all about the light.
Then you're going on about how you are going to make him pay for it, cuz roooarrrr you iz libra sun/scorpio moon.
The reality is you are a shitty dramatic person, with or without some other chick in the picture.
But by all means, don't let reality get in the way of stupidity here.
As for the topic, I never wanted some other woman's man.
Only once in my life I found out a guy I recently started dating had a gf...and I broke things up immediately.
Only once in my life I found out a guy I recently started dating had a gf...and I broke things up immediately.
Posted by Damnata
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/gemini/gemini-ex-bf-and-i-had-a-huge-fight-he-made-a-mountain-out-of-a-molehill-5779782.asp#5779783
This topic tells a different story though. You go at lengths about how you lost your shit over him going on a trip with a platonic friend. You know that was wrong of you to do, because you said it.
Then you say he told you he wanted to break up for a long time already.
So, maybe the chick had nothing to do with it and he found you insufferable to deal with. But you can't accept that, can you? Libra's all about the light.
Then you're going on about how you are going to make him pay for it, cuz roooarrrr you iz libra sun/scorpio moon.
The reality is you are a shitty dramatic person, with or without some other chick in the picture.
But by all means, don't let reality get in the way of stupidity here.
i agree on some of the things you said, but because the girl is someone i never met and he never told me about, i don't think i can blame myself for being sensitive about it. it doesn't help also that we are still working on rebuilding some trust issues because i caught him having an affair with a married woman last year and i am still trying to rebuild that trust (that one he admitted) and these are all happening while I'm undergoing depression and anxiety (true story).
what i hated the most is he ignored me when we are still trying to work on our trust and communication issues from the past. as I said, i don't mind him travelling with a platonic girl. what i was upset about is that he took it against me when i reminded him that what they did is a taboo in their culture. being ignored is one of the worst things you can do to a libra.
Of course he took it against you. You are lecturing him on HIS culture.
It comes across as controlling.
There is a point where someone will ignore another not because they are doing it out of spite..but to preserve their sanity.
If he cheated before but really he would have wanted to work things out with you...you would be secure now and not have a problem with his trip.
He just isn't interested in continuing this, for whatever reasons he has.
Might just be basic incompatibility..you guys bring the worst in each other.
It comes across as controlling.
There is a point where someone will ignore another not because they are doing it out of spite..but to preserve their sanity.
If he cheated before but really he would have wanted to work things out with you...you would be secure now and not have a problem with his trip.
He just isn't interested in continuing this, for whatever reasons he has.
Might just be basic incompatibility..you guys bring the worst in each other.
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