I WANT MY VIRGO MAN BACK

Posted by Weeds
I need your full birthdate and his if you don't mind

Posted by narayana
I don't understand, was he seeing that other girl or wasn't he?

If he was, then he's just a weak ass dude.. If he didn't have the guts to tell you the way it is, talking some roundabout shit instead. You don't need a person like that. He's a coward.

If not, then I don't know really... It's weird, just like a Cancer and Virgo would be.

Tell him you're moving on and actually mean it. I know it's painful, but you'll be fine someday.

If he'll make up his mind and choose you, he'll let you know that he cares,

if no, follow the no-contact rule and stay positive. You'll be fine

Posted by UrFavoriteCancer

Posted by Weeds
I need your full birthdate and his if you don't mind

My birthday is June 24,1999 and his September 18,1999 Im not sure about times..

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Posted by Weeds
I need your full birthdate and his if you don't mind

My birthday is June 24,1999 and his September 18,1999 Im not sure about times..

He is too prideful to put his guard down and he won't say anything first.

If you miss him then let him know that.

No apologizing anymore at this point.

Don't be over emotional just straight forward.

If he acknowledges the same then great if not move on.

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Posted by Weeds
I need your full birthdate and his if you don't mind

My birthday is June 24,1999 and his September 18,1999 Im not sure about times..

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Posted by Weeds
I need your full birthdate and his if you don't mind

My birthday is June 24,1999 and his September 18,1999 Im not sure about times..

He is too prideful to put his guard down and he won't say anything first.

If you miss him then let him know that.

No apologizing anymore at this point.

Don't be over emotional just straight forward.

If he acknowledges the same then great if not move on.

Ok but how do I tell him that without being too emotional.., just say hey I miss you..?

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

Posted by UrFavoriteCancer
Ok so I had known this virgo guy for a while before we actually dated and I had the biggest crush on him but I never told him.. And eventually we started talking as more than friends. When we first started talking he would always reinterate how he never thought I would consider going with him and that he wanted to take me to prom, he said I was perfect and that he would still like me even if I was cheating , he was very sweettt and we really cared about each other. So since we acted like we were together I was like hey why don't we just make it official so one day I just said you're my boyfriend.. And he was like ok and so we went out for a couple of months and it was really the best months ever. He was so sweet, concerning , gave the best advice, he made time for me with his busy schedule, he made me a better person. We both had took each other out of our comfort zones like we would skip school (on the unimportant days of course) and mind you were good students we've never skipped a day in our lives. We both shared things and experienced things we've never experienced we became really close. But then one day I had asked if we were still going to be together after we graduated and he responded and said yeah if we're in the same states or close to each other. But then eventually like all couples we started arguing a little more and I began to not really trust him because of other girls.. N so he had become cold n distant and I asked him about it and he said that it was because I was acting like a mother but I wasn't intentionally acting that way lol I'm a cancer. Some weeks later he FaceTime me and says what if 7 years from now we don't get married wouldnt u be disappointed and I'm like of course and then he says you know I put you first right and I was like yeah and he was like I don't want you to do anything with me that you're going to regret.. I'm not ready for the commitment and so I was just like what do u mean , how can u say that after all this time and all that we have been through and he says ywhen we first started going out you initiated the relationship I wasn't ready you might be sad now but you're going to thank me later and so I asked if there was someone else and he said no I still like you you're a great girl honestly it's not your problem it's my own personal problem and some days later I had heard that he was seeing another girl which was the reason he broke up with me and so I comfronted him aggressively out of hurt and cursed him out but some days later I apologized because I was wrong and I had said if u ever need anything or need to talk I'm here for you and I had said that maybe breaking up was best because we were about to do some things.. That we probably aren't ready for and then he said you don't have to act like you care like I don't want u to feel forced and I said this isn't a force I still care for u and I'll be here if u need me and he said I appreciate it.. Have a good day and we departed and I haven't talked to him since.. I miss him Yall it's been four months I tried to give him his space and now he just stares at me like he has something to say but he won't say it.. I miss my bestfriend I dont know anymore..

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Posted by UrFavoriteCancer
Ok so I had known this virgo guy for a while before we actually dated and I had the biggest crush on him but I never told him.. And eventually we started talking as more than friends. When we first started talking he would always reinterate how he never thought I would consider going with him and that he wanted to take me to prom, he said I was perfect and that he would still like me even if I was cheating , he was very sweettt and we really cared about each other. So since we acted like we were together I was like hey why don't we just make it official so one day I just said you're my boyfriend.. And he was like ok and so we went out for a couple of months and it was really the best months ever. He was so sweet, concerning , gave the best advice, he made time for me with his busy schedule, he made me a better person. We both had took each other out of our comfort zones like we would skip school (on the unimportant days of course) and mind you were good students we've never skipped a day in our lives. We both shared things and experienced things we've never experienced we became really close. But then one day I had asked if we were still going to be together after we graduated and he responded and said yeah if we're in the same states or close to each other. But then eventually like all couples we started arguing a little more and I began to not really trust him because of other girls.. N so he had become cold n distant and I asked him about it and he said that it was because I was acting like a mother but I wasn't intentionally acting that way lol I'm a cancer. Some weeks later he FaceTime me and says what if 7 years from now we don't get married wouldnt u be disappointed and I'm like of course and then he says you know I put you first right and I was like yeah and he was like I don't want you to do anything with me that you're going to regret.. I'm not ready for the commitment and so I was just like what do u mean , how can u say that after all this time and all that we have been through and he says ywhen we first started going out you initiated the relationship I wasn't ready you might be sad now but you're going to thank me later and so I asked if there was someone else and he said no I still like you you're a great girl honestly it's not your problem it's my own personal problem and some days later I had heard that he was seeing another girl which was the reason he broke up with me and so I comfronted him aggressively out of hurt and cursed him out but some days later I apologized because I was wrong and I had said if u ever need anything or need to talk I'm here for you and I had said that maybe breaking up was best because we were about to do some things.. That we probably aren't ready for and then he said you don't have to act like you care like I don't want u to feel forced and I said this isn't a force I still care for u and I'll be here if u need me and he said I appreciate it.. Have a good day and we departed and I haven't talked to him since.. I miss him Yall it's been four months I tried to give him his space and now he just stares at me like he has something to say but he won't say it.. I miss my bestfriend I dont know anymore..

You could ask me lol I was born sep 18 but different year. I'll respond fully later on in the day.

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

Yeah I figured I triggered something when I asked about the future. Lol I wasn't weak I was hurt like any girl would be.. I'm human. But thanks anyways

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

duuude honestly?

get your own relationship in order before you quite possibly ruin someone else's -_-'

She asked for reasons why he probably acted the way he did so I told her. Nothing wrong with that. No one said anything when you said her relationship was merely high schoolish meaning it don't matter enough for you to give her advice. So don't talk about me getting my relationship in order or throwing cheap shots. If you want to help then help, but if not then don't.

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

Yeah I figured I triggered something when I asked about the future. Lol I wasn't weak I was hurt like any girl would be.. I'm human. But thanks anyways

I'm not calling you weak... I'm saying that he probably saw you as that. Virgos tend to take emotional outbursts in a negative way and will run the other way.

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Posted by uchiha
Right yeah I was born in 93 so my signs will be different from his. But just don't stop the contact. Communication is healthy for a relationship. Virgos and Cancers are a good match tho. He'd still be drawn to you. Check his other signs. This will give you insights on what he's attracted to. Sometimes you gotta put him in his place, he hates this but knows that it is necessary.

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Posted by uchiha
Right yeah I was born in 93 so my signs will be different from his. But just don't stop the contact. Communication is healthy for a relationship. Virgos and Cancers are a good match tho. He'd still be drawn to you. Check his other signs. This will give you insights on what he's attracted to. Sometimes you gotta put him in his place, he hates this but knows that it is necessary.

Put him in his place how..?

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Posted by uchiha
Right yeah I was born in 93 so my signs will be different from his. But just don't stop the contact. Communication is healthy for a relationship. Virgos and Cancers are a good match tho. He'd still be drawn to you. Check his other signs. This will give you insights on what he's attracted to. Sometimes you gotta put him in his place, he hates this but knows that it is necessary.

Put him in his place how..?

Like let him know what he's doing wrong. Also just show that you support him. He needs to make sure he has your support. Find out what he needs support in. Communicate with him.

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

Posted by UrFavoriteCancer

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Posted by uchiha
Right yeah I was born in 93 so my signs will be different from his. But just don't stop the contact. Communication is healthy for a relationship. Virgos and Cancers are a good match tho. He'd still be drawn to you. Check his other signs. This will give you insights on what he's attracted to. Sometimes you gotta put him in his place, he hates this but knows that it is necessary.

Put him in his place how..?

Like let him know what he's doing wrong. Also just show that you support him. He needs to make sure he has your support. Find out what he needs support in. Communicate with him.

Lol but do u think that will really solve anything ...we aren't together anymore he probably doesn't care I told him if he ever needed anything I would be here And he hasn't said anything to me since. I feel like if I was of that much importance to his life he would have reached Lunt by now YA know..

*out

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Posted by uchiha
Right yeah I was born in 93 so my signs will be different from his. But just don't stop the contact. Communication is healthy for a relationship. Virgos and Cancers are a good match tho. He'd still be drawn to you. Check his other signs. This will give you insights on what he's attracted to. Sometimes you gotta put him in his place, he hates this but knows that it is necessary.

Put him in his place how..?

Like let him know what he's doing wrong. Also just show that you support him. He needs to make sure he has your support. Find out what he needs support in. Communicate with him.

Lol but do u think that will really solve anything ...we aren't together anymore he probably doesn't care I told him if he ever needed anything I would be here And he hasn't said anything to me since. I feel like if I was of that much importance to his life he would have reached Lunt by now YA know..

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

No he didn't he said I would still like you if you cheated on me that doesn't mean he wouldn't break up with me that just shows how much he liked me..

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He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

No he didn't he said I would still like you if you cheated on me that doesn't mean he wouldn't break up with me that just shows how much he liked me..

No. That was a line he fed you and you gobbled it up and spread your legs. No man would continue to 'like' a girl who shares her pussy with the neighborhood. Wake up.

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He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

No he didn't he said I would still like you if you cheated on me that doesn't mean he wouldn't break up with me that just shows how much he liked me..

No. That was a line he fed you and you gobbled it up and spread your legs. No man would continue to 'like' a girl who shares her pussy with the neighborhood. Wake up.

??? first of all I'm a virgin so what are u talking about lol goodbye

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Posted by uchiha
Right yeah I was born in 93 so my signs will be different from his. But just don't stop the contact. Communication is healthy for a relationship. Virgos and Cancers are a good match tho. He'd still be drawn to you. Check his other signs. This will give you insights on what he's attracted to. Sometimes you gotta put him in his place, he hates this but knows that it is necessary.

Put him in his place how..?

Like let him know what he's doing wrong. Also just show that you support him. He needs to make sure he has your support. Find out what he needs support in. Communicate with him.

Lol but do u think that will really solve anything ...we aren't together anymore he probably doesn't care I told him if he ever needed anything I would be here And he hasn't said anything to me since. I feel like if I was of that much importance to his life he would have reached Lunt by now YA know..

You shouldn't have stopped communication at all. But if you want to get him back. You gotta build back

I see what you're saying but don't you think that's chasing him?

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He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

No he didn't he said I would still like you if you cheated on me that doesn't mean he wouldn't break up with me that just shows how much he liked me..

No. That was a line he fed you and you gobbled it up and spread your legs. No man would continue to 'like' a girl who shares her pussy with the neighborhood. Wake up.

??? first of all I'm a virgin so what are u talking about lol goodbye

I'm talking about how your man said he would continue to like you even if you cheated on him.

Now it makes sense why he cut you loose. He's not gonna wait around for your kisses when there's a world of college pussy waiting to be experienced.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

No he didn't he said I would still like you if you cheated on me that doesn't mean he wouldn't break up with me that just shows how much he liked me..

No. That was a line he fed you and you gobbled it up and spread your legs. No man would continue to 'like' a girl who shares her pussy with the neighborhood. Wake up.

??? first of all I'm a virgin so what are u talking about lol goodbye

I'm talking about how your man said he would continue to like you even if you cheated on him.

Now it makes sense why he cut you loose. He's not gonna wait around for your kisses when there's a world of college pussy waiting to be experienced.

Ok lol that's his problem I cherish my body

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

No he didn't he said I would still like you if you cheated on me that doesn't mean he wouldn't break up with me that just shows how much he liked me..

No. That was a line he fed you and you gobbled it up and spread your legs. No man would continue to 'like' a girl who shares her pussy with the neighborhood. Wake up.

??? first of all I'm a virgin so what are u talking about lol goodbye

I'm talking about how your man said he would continue to like you even if you cheated on him.

Now it makes sense why he cut you loose. He's not gonna wait around for your kisses when there's a world of college pussy waiting to be experienced.

Ok lol that's his problem I cherish my body

Good. Now take that self respect and let it strengthen your resolve. Let him go. Stop chasing after someone who no longer wants you.

Your young and have the next 60/70 years to fall in love. He's just the beginning of your story.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

No he didn't he said I would still like you if you cheated on me that doesn't mean he wouldn't break up with me that just shows how much he liked me..

No. That was a line he fed you and you gobbled it up and spread your legs. No man would continue to 'like' a girl who shares her pussy with the neighborhood. Wake up.

??? first of all I'm a virgin so what are u talking about lol goodbye

I'm talking about how your man said he would continue to like you even if you cheated on him.

Now it makes sense why he cut you loose. He's not gonna wait around for your kisses when there's a world of college pussy waiting to be experienced.

Ok lol that's his problem I cherish my body

Good. Now take that self respect and let it strengthen your resolve. Let him go. Stop chasing after someone who no longer wants you.

Your young and have the next 60/70 years to fall in love. He's just the beginning of your story.

The heart wants what it wants

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Posted by narayana
I don't understand, was he seeing that other girl or wasn't he?

If he was, then he's just a weak ass dude.. If he didn't have the guts to tell you the way it is, talking some roundabout shit instead. You don't need a person like that. He's a coward.

If not, then I don't know really... It's weird, just like a Cancer and Virgo would be.

Tell him you're moving on and actually mean it. I know it's painful, but you'll be fine someday.

If he'll make up his mind and choose you, he'll let you know that he cares,

if no, follow the no-contact rule and stay positive. You'll be fine

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

duuude honestly?

get your own relationship in order before you quite possibly ruin someone else's -_-'

She asked for reasons why he probably acted the way he did so I told her. Nothing wrong with that. No one said anything when you said her relationship was merely high schoolish meaning it don't matter enough for you to give her advice. So don't talk about me getting my relationship in order or throwing cheap shots. If you want to help then help, but if not then don't.

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Posted by UrFavoriteCancer
Ok so I had known this virgo guy for a while before we actually dated and I had the biggest crush on him but I never told him.. And eventually we started talking as more than friends. When we first started talking he would always reinterate how he never thought I would consider going with him and that he wanted to take me to prom, he said I was perfect and that he would still like me even if I was cheating , he was very sweettt and we really cared about each other. So since we acted like we were together I was like hey why don't we just make it official so one day I just said you're my boyfriend.. And he was like ok and so we went out for a couple of months and it was really the best months ever. He was so sweet, concerning , gave the best advice, he made time for me with his busy schedule, he made me a better person. We both had took each other out of our comfort zones like we would skip school (on the unimportant days of course) and mind you were good students we've never skipped a day in our lives. We both shared things and experienced things we've never experienced we became really close. But then one day I had asked if we were still going to be together after we graduated and he responded and said yeah if we're in the same states or close to each other. But then eventually like all couples we started arguing a little more and I began to not really trust him because of other girls.. N so he had become cold n distant and I asked him about it and he said that it was because I was acting like a mother but I wasn't intentionally acting that way lol I'm a cancer. Some weeks later he FaceTime me and says what if 7 years from now we don't get married wouldnt u be disappointed and I'm like of course and then he says you know I put you first right and I was like yeah and he was like I don't want you to do anything with me that you're going to regret.. I'm not ready for the commitment and so I was just like what do u mean , how can u say that after all this time and all that we have been through and he says ywhen we first started going out you initiated the relationship I wasn't ready you might be sad now but you're going to thank me later and so I asked if there was someone else and he said no I still like you you're a great girl honestly it's not your problem it's my own personal problem and some days later I had heard that he was seeing another girl which was the reason he broke up with me and so I comfronted him aggressively out of hurt and cursed him out but some days later I apologized because I was wrong and I had said if u ever need anything or need to talk I'm here for you and I had said that maybe breaking up was best because we were about to do some things.. That we probably aren't ready for and then he said you don't have to act like you care like I don't want u to feel forced and I said this isn't a force I still care for u and I'll be here if u need me and he said I appreciate it.. Have a good day and we departed and I haven't talked to him since.. I miss him Yall it's been four months I tried to give him his space and now he just stares at me like he has something to say but he won't say it.. I miss my bestfriend I dont know anymore..

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would skip school (on the unimportant days of course) and mind you were good students we've never skipped a day in our lives.

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But then eventually like all couples we started arguing a little more and I began to not really trust him because of other girls.. N so he had become cold n distant and I asked him about it and he said that it was because I was acting like a mother but I wasn't intentionally acting that way lol I'm a cancer.

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

No all that is hogwash. That's the stereotypical description of a Virgo. I always make the first move. I'm not shy neither lacking emotions. We don't want someone who benefits us. We live to serve and want to serve our lover. You were turned down by a Virgo and I see why. You still know nothing about them. We don't like people for money neither. You sound like a stereotypical hater like cc.

I know virgos having interacted with and dated most of my life

They're lame

Especially for cancers. She thinks she's winning a prize cause he's tough nut to Crack. When she gets him. All she gets is a dud. A robot. A boring clone of a card board.

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Posted by UrFavoriteCancer

would skip school (on the unimportant days of course) and mind you were good students we've never skipped a day in our lives.

The underlined part of your quote above, implies that you two were skipping a lot.

To say "would skip" is plural ... if it has been one time, you would have said "we skipped"

And then of course, "days" is plural. What grade are you in? Because you don't seem to be able to recognize your own writing ..... to then turn around and obviously lie, to say you two have never skipped a day in our lives.

As if you are aware of every day of his life.

"It's like" you don't even know what you're saying while expecting people to take you seriously, as if you have something important to impart.

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But then eventually like all couples we started arguing a little more and I began to not really trust him because of other girls.. N so he had become cold n distant and I asked him about it and he said that it was because I was acting like a mother but I wasn't intentionally acting that way lol I'm a cancer.

All couples don't eventually start arguing more. So, now you're talking for adults who actually have life experience?

And then you turn around and make the excuse of being Cancer to get away with you acting smothering and clingy?


dude seriously ....... he dodged a bullet with you, you just make shit as you go along, it appears.

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

No all that is hogwash. That's the stereotypical description of a Virgo. I always make the first move. I'm not shy neither lacking emotions. We don't want someone who benefits us. We live to serve and want to serve our lover. You were turned down by a Virgo and I see why. You still know nothing about them. We don't like people for money neither. You sound like a stereotypical hater like cc.

I know virgos having interacted with and dated most of my life

They're lame

Especially for cancers. She thinks she's winning a prize cause he's tough nut to Crack. When she gets him. All she gets is a dud. A robot. A boring clone of a card board.

You cannot talk about virgos because you're single, you could never keep one. Let the virgos who are in relationships or people who are in relationships talk. There are people out there who are making it work, cancers too. Plus I've never been called boring in my life by non of my exes. Virgos are boring to those who we don't like. Because we want you think we're boring so you don't like us. Girls with virgos are winning out there. Maybe it's just that virgos don't like you. Maybe it's just that no sign likes you. You're old and in no relationship. You need to look at yourself because YOU are the problem.

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Posted by desilove333
Sound like typical Virgo behavior if you ask me....

They shy away from you at first because they secretly have major insecurity issues and then once given a chance, a instant boost of confidence fills their bodies and they want to love, cherish and draw you into their ways. They will go all out expressing interest in the beginning as long as the relationship stays on their time and is going the way they want. You triggered something when you started talking about a future with him, something not good. Virgos are concerned about THEIR future and if they can benefit from you in it, then you're welcome to be apart of it. You messed up by yelling and cursing him out. Virgos don't take kindly at all to this emotional behavior and now he thinks you are too weak of a woman for him. He is logical and you are emotional. Not a good mixture. I have read once Virgos move on, they are gone UNLESS they feel like you benefit them. And unfortunate sweety as of now you don't. I think you should move on, but if you insist on wanting him back then you must be attractive to him. Build up your confidence by learning something new, become knowledgeable in Hus favorite subject or get a job that pays lots of money. (Virgos love money) Now... You will be attractive to him, but for the wrong reasons unfortunately. Its up to you sweetheart.

No all that is hogwash. That's the stereotypical description of a Virgo. I always make the first move. I'm not shy neither lacking emotions. We don't want someone who benefits us. We live to serve and want to serve our lover. You were turned down by a Virgo and I see why. You still know nothing about them. We don't like people for money neither. You sound like a stereotypical hater like cc.

I know virgos having interacted with and dated most of my life

They're lame

Especially for cancers. She thinks she's winning a prize cause he's tough nut to Crack. When she gets him. All she gets is a dud. A robot. A boring clone of a card board.

You cannot talk about virgos because you're single, you could never keep one. Let the virgos who are in relationships or people who are in relationships talk. There are people out there who are making it work, cancers too. Plus I've never been called boring in my life by non of my exes. Virgos are boring to those who we don't like. Because we want you think we're boring so you don't like us. Girls with virgos are winning out there. Maybe it's just that virgos don't like you. Maybe it's just that no sign likes you. You're old and in no relationship. You need to look at yourself because YOU are the problem.

Exactly they trippin on big rocks virgos are really cool and the one I'm referring to is not boring AT ALL he may be critical but he knows how to have fun lets just ignore this shenanigans because they don't what their talking about lol

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Posted by P-Angel

title: I WANT MY VIRGO MAN BACK



Correction: I want my little school boy back




Oh and btw .. it's not really "back" because you never had him. Casually, and seeming as a joke you said let's be official. And just like I took it, he thought you were playing.


then you turned around and started acting like you own him and getting upset and starting fights over your insecurities and inability to be a woman.


Oh wait ... you're just a child

Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

Firs time i heard that expression

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

Firs time i heard that expression

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Posted by LadyNeptune
He told you he wouldn't care if you cheated on him...I mean obviously he's not the sharpest crayon in the box.

Actually, he was pretty smart in saying it - to her - she lapped it up like a dog, believing it means that she is liked more.

It's a sad state of affairs, that we are raising such clueless people these days.

A guy can literally tell a girl this ... and she's practically breaking her fucking neck to get his attention.

Let's hope she grows some common sense.

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