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This topic was created in the Virgo forum by kitty69 on Friday, March 19, 2010 and has 39 replies.
What is it about virgo men, that they cant go the distance, with scorpio women?
Less that we can not, more that we don't want to.
I seriously take issue with the ludicrous controlling and obsessive behaviour.
I seriously take issue with the ludicrous controlling and obsessive behaviour.
How so?
Virgos are mutable, we can adjust.
The question is, is adjusting worth it?
The question is, is adjusting worth it?
Posted by Cajunspirit
Less that we can not, more that we don't want to. I seriously take issue with the ludicrous controlling and obsessive behaviour.
I agree, I was talking to a scorpio once.. She was good looking nice girl at first.. we chill some good times at her house everything was good. Well one day she ask me for money i told her i didn't have it.. I called back later on and she pick up, very rude and was like wat. I acted like i didn't hear that.. I ask if she wanted to chill bc she seem so down. She got even more rude and told me to delete her number.. I think she wanted me to argue with her I knew she was talking to other guys and she would do the same thing with them.. I think scorpio women get off when guys argue back at them. But what they don't understand is if you arguing just to play with him.. All the good guys you want in your life are going to leave you in the dust and you will be only left with players because they like to play games..
Posted by Sekhmet
I think she wanted me to argue with her I knew she was talking to other guys and she would do the same thing with them.. I think scorpio women get off when guys argue back at them. But what they don't understand is if you arguing just to play with him.. That is so wierd! Not too long before I really split up with my scorpio 1st husband, we used to get in these marathon arguments. I kept thinking if I just used logic, he would understand my points. Then one night he said that as long as we were arguing, we were communicating, and not splitting up. His own words, as best I can recall them. After that I quit engaging in that crap, because it was wearing me down. I was so mad though. So much wasted time, just so he could feel like we were 'communicating'.
Yes I notice this fald logic in scorpios alot of them believe this crap.. How do they expect love to come to them with this logic..
Boys,boys,boys - well this one, always makes for good fodder, yes! So much passion Ms Sekmet, just out of interest,was it you that left your husband?. Mr Virgo King, such bad behavior, from your scorpio friend,I personally will not tolerate, this, nor condone it, please do not let this one bad apple tarnish your opion of us. DyTryin, I can see why, you and your wife get along famously. I like you, not only are your points valid and true, but your comments are always so sweet.I'd love to hear more about, your journey and trials, in regards to dating a scorpio. I asumed Virgo men, to be of high calibar, but sadly beg to differ, I believe, we are extremely misjudged by our sheer intensity and power.???????
Im sorry for your bad experience, I luckily due not exude that horrific sting.
Gosh valeria25, some very valid points. Whilst I had a bit of a chuckle, and don't take it too seriously, I feel compelled, to add my two cent's, if you don't mind. Yes I guess, I never feel sufficiently loved, for some obscure reason. Yet, whilst I don't mind a good verbal sparring, I some how, resist the urge, with this virgo. He exudes this calming effect on me, for which I cannot explain. I am however, extremely tender and affectionate, and place, the utmost importance on his pleasure, rather than my own. And in conclusion, yes, I do resent needing anyone, he he, shoul'd have been a virgo. Thanx for your thought's.....
Posted by valeria25
..continued: (cut off)
Looking at the signs, the aquarius doesn't describe me at all, even as a joke, because I dont chase guys.
When I read the capricorn one, it frighteningly describes closer to me on a darker side...slightly...although, using my sexual powers is kind of, well, scary to me. I don't do that. Like I said, it's just all for fun, and exaggerates.
So, honestly, don't take any of this stuff seriously!!
Although, I did notice with my virgo guy, that he continually loves looking at me and gets very excited. But I dont really take this too seriously. (the virgo one IS funny LOL)
Funny? LOL, more like closer to the truth than I care to realize.
Virgo - The Censor
When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo's considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool - no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.
Ouch, hahahahah, this will not sit well, I'm sure of it.
I just luuuuuuuurve this forum, it makes, for some great late night reading and laughs. Cheers.
Oh my, I think , the moral of said piece is -
Don't put out so easily,
Look and act saucy, at all times,
Remain sexually attractive, in order to keep him,
Whilst he is being promiscuous,
Virgo's will be the ones, holding up the bar,
Don't expect romance, just a quickie,
You are only a tool,
And lastly, don't EXPECT him to love you.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAR, please, don't take offense, just having a lend!
Don't put out so easily,
Look and act saucy, at all times,
Remain sexually attractive, in order to keep him,
Whilst he is being promiscuous,
Virgo's will be the ones, holding up the bar,
Don't expect romance, just a quickie,
You are only a tool,
And lastly, don't EXPECT him to love you.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAR, please, don't take offense, just having a lend!
Posted by *~ariesgal~*Posted by valeria25
..continued: (cut off) Looking at the signs, the aquarius doesn't describe me at all, even as a joke, because I dont chase guys. When I read the capricorn one, it frighteningly describes closer to me on a darker side...slightly...although, using my sexual powers is kind of, well, scary to me. I don't do that. Like I said, it's just all for fun, and exaggerates. So, honestly, don't take any of this stuff seriously!! Although, I did notice with my virgo guy, that he continually loves looking at me and gets very excited. But I dont really take this too seriously. (the virgo one IS funny LOL)
Funny? LOL, more like closer to the truth than I care to realize. Virgo - The Censor When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo's considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool - no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.click to expand
Intresting
Posted by valeria25
Funny? LOL, more like closer to the truth than I care to realize.
Virgo - The Censor
When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo's considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool - no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.
Hahaha, I guess this means we have to give the virgo guy a new piece of Victoria Secret's underwear line every night and tiltilate his senses! Every single day! How exhausting but Oh so! exciting.
Although being used as a tool is rather degrading. (Not seriously speaking with all this)click to expand
Hey don't knock it till you try it. LOL! Mine let me know early that he was a visual person. It became really apparent once our relationship went THERE that he appreciates being able to look. I love loading up on cute stuff to give him something to look at (I don't have to do it daily though, maybe that's the difference,lol).
I'd like to believe all of that "tool" talk is just for entertainment purposes only. If these dudes would talk more maybe some of us wouldn't have to wonder so much.
Posted by virgokingPosted by *~ariesgal~*Posted by valeria25
..continued: (cut off) Looking at the signs, the aquarius doesn't describe me at all, even as a joke, because I dont chase guys. When I read the capricorn one, it frighteningly describes closer to me on a darker side...slightly...although, using my sexual powers is kind of, well, scary to me. I don't do that. Like I said, it's just all for fun, and exaggerates. So, honestly, don't take any of this stuff seriously!! Although, I did notice with my virgo guy, that he continually loves looking at me and gets very excited. But I dont really take this too seriously. (the virgo one IS funny LOL)
Funny? LOL, more like closer to the truth than I care to realize. Virgo - The Censor When Virgo falls in love it is purely for sex. The lover must be able to satisfy Virgo's considerable sexual needs. Each new image arouses sexual desire, but so long as you can remain sexually attractive to Virgo, you will retain his love. The slower you are in yielding your gifts, the longer you can keep the affair alive. Nothing is more unattractive to him than easy surrender, which stamps you as cheap and worthless. Virgo can be either chaste or promiscuous, one extreme or the other. There are many spinsters, one-man women, and confirmed bachelors in this sign, but there are also the chasers who frequent bars or pickup joints in the search of a one-night stand. This type can be quite degenerate in his sexual appetites. Despite this, Virgo ranks lowest on the scale of sexual prowess. He is not romantic except as the chase itself is romantic. Sex is something to be done as quickly and efficiently as possible. When Virgo says he loves you and behaves in a jealous manner, do not be flattered. This usually simply means that you are serving some useful role for them and are considered a piece of their property. Anyone who tries to lure you away is depriving Virgo of a useful tool - no more. For both male and female Virgos, true love is not involved; they are never tender or sympathetic unless there is something they cannot get without showing affection.
Intrestingclick to expand
You're the first male to respond and that's all we can get out of you?
My sentiments exactly, can you hear the crickets, not a peep, apart from interesting, I feel, we may have struck a chord perhaps. C'mon boy's engage me.....
ummmmm im just going to leave it as intresting :p
C'moooooooooooooooooooooon don't leave us hanging, please, pretty please.
Yeah, I'm new to this whole forum thang. why is it, that people hide their posts? Yes, I'm dxpnet illiterate, I know.
Tick tock, a girl could die waiting.Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
why do u want to know 
U'gh, I really don't know, I just love hearing all your thoughts. The more knowledge,, the better off you are, I love to learn, I really do whant to know virg-goki, and virgo king, just give me a taste. I'm feeling very fiesty, cheeky and adventurous tonight, Is it a full moon, per chance.
ill put it like this good sex always makes a man keep cumming back if you know what I mean..
Yes, yes I do, one of my flaws as well!!!!!
Oh really have you had sex with your virgo
Now I'm blushing, but yes, we were together for over a year.
humm intresting has he ever disappear on you... and by the way do you mind if i ask how old you are kitty
No, not at all, I'm forty and fabulous hehehe. And yes sadly twice, during the course of our relationship. Having said that, funnily enough on both occasions, we had deep communications, initiated by him, professing, how he could see me in his future, that he needed, to sort through his poop first. He cried, both times, and I got up ready to walk away, but he would not let go of me, and made me stay with him. What is that all about, granted, they are really, the only times, that he has been upfront with me, enlighten me.
Im surprise you only had sex twice but you said he has money problems.. Its a earth guy thing we don't have money we feel like crap.. I don't cry in front of no one. The last time I cry was with my first love.. I think he loves you we hate crying.. Unless he has a pisces moon it make a virgo much weaker and easy to cry..
Oh your fourty i guess you was around that age i notice v and s works better when the scorpio is mature..
Woah, hang on just one second, I think you may be confused. We were extremely together, intimate [every day] for the whole year, we were together. No, he didn't have financial problems {wrong guy}We, would cry together, on many occasions, which I found very endearing, it did make me feel loved - although he never told me. Iv'e never come across a man, that didn't tell me, I found that very difficult. His moon is in virgo, what does that mean? I never really felt, I knew how he felt about me, very sad on my part. What makes you think he loved me?.
sorry kitty i guess i got confuse by the way you replyed. You said sadly but twice so i thought you ment sex.. And than you said he has to get his poop togeather.. Most of the time that means money. So what kind of crap is bothering him..
How long have you got, we broke up ten months ago when I left, the place we were working.We were both just out of ten year relationships, my father was ill, then passed away, his father has just passed away two months ago. He has been back to see me three times since, talk about unfinished business. I really don't know how we lasted,for as long as we did. So many outside influences, came between us, and I guess when he sent me a text no less, stating, good luck with the rest of my life, hope you find some one, who will give you way more than I could, but I will miss you, I had no other choice, but to lose him. I was devasted. I didn't chase him. I love this man, more than I have ever loved another. He came to visit me straight from the airport, after his father died. But no contact since. Not a day goes by, that I dont think of him and want him. He just, continues messing with my heart and mind. Any thoughts?
sounds like he wanted you to chase after him.. Base off what he said it sounds like he cares a lot about you but not sure if you care as much as he does.. That was his little test to see if you would put your pride down to go after him..
Kitty, you make yourself sound desperate.
Scorpios insecurity is becoming very irritating ...... do you not have any pride?
Scorpios insecurity is becoming very irritating ...... do you not have any pride?
Posted by P-Angel
Kitty, you make yourself sound desperate. Scorpios insecurity is becoming very irritating ...... do you not have any pride?
That sounds like jealousy on your part p how is she desperate I would love to hear this..
Cheers guys, for your sweet words. I didn't chase him, because, I was absolutely guttered, I read this, as him telling me, he was no longer interested, and that being the case, what was I meant to think. I also, was the one, who did, all of the chasing. I always felt, as if I loved him way more, than he did. I want to be with him now, but the fact is, yes he came back three times, but nothing was discussed, or resolved. I was waiting for him to broach the subject, but he didn't, and I was too afraid, to tell him my feelings, knowing, he'd run. So since his last visit, a month ago, he has not contacted me. I was texting, him for a month prior, and have now decided, to let him contact me if he chooses, if he doesn't I'll have my answer I guess.
Hey DyTryin, I agree, there are certain hurdles that do exist in this combination, but the underlying basics, are one of the same. The chemistry is amazing, and works, but my question is, why does it stop. I am at a loss, as to why we have'nt continued. Albeit, the communication between us, is tricky. You can taste the tension, between us, with both of us, holding onto our emotions for dear life. Did you and Debra have this problem?
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