Virgo and Aquarias (Page 3)

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Yeah Thanks lady M? damn DXP being smart ass on me again?lol

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sorry for the late response.

I know the Virguy.

VLL - if the aqua girl was so great why did you let her go?

oh lord...that is going to be fun to respond...so hold on and i'll get back with you on that one k.

vll

Thank you Lady M, virgowithlittlelibra, Scorpiogoat Q-bone:-) - "free spirit" - too many spirits!!:-) consumed.......

I am going through a strange new feeling or experience.....it's quite humbling and also empowering....and it's this.....As I walk to work, shops etc., I see people staring naturally enough at the bish-bashed bruised face etc. - they look once and then look again...it's probably the second look that makes me embarrassed and hurts....but I am getting used to it - my vanity is gone for the moment, can't wear make-up - too sore to put on and it doesn't cover - (although I still curl my eyelashes - must't let the flash and flutter go altogether!!!) and so I am free to be totally me - I'm coming to terms with the facts that good-looks are just that - they come and go - and it's what inside the person that counts:-) I know I am meandering a bit and not being too articulate - but there's a freedom in not having to look super cool and super-got-it-all together all the time......

Virgowithalittlelibra....had you a different duncan name in the past——? - well I am not surprised that you keep in touch with ex Ms. Aqua.....us aquarians have no problems remaining friends with ex lovers......other signs have big problems and will not have any contact....so you're into Ms. Aries now.....you rascal you!!!!!!! Why not.....hope it's going good:-)

As for me and Mr. Virgo.....no matter how hard I try to distance and stay away, he will always keep ringing - I've never known anyone so persistent in my life!!500 phone calls in a weekend to get me to answer is the average!!!!anyway, we remain "forever friends" - and that is probably the way it will always be........

Alana x

Bruised face..?? damn... what happened my lady..??

Just tripped and fell facedown on ground Q - after too many vino after a nite on the town!!!!...totally my own fault!!!!! No worries though...your virtual kissing on the lips is already healing my scars:-)

A x

Love you dearly? please don't make me jump off my chair like that? I really got disturbed.. I thought someone did something to you?!

I wish you well..!

alana,

no...i didn't have any other duncan's name...haha...always vll...which i wish i could change now because it is sooo long to type when i login. oh well, maybe one day!

yeah...the remaining friends part i can do, but i need to watch out, because it has to be kept very casual for me...since i do not want to have any feelings back towards her again. like you, i think we are better at remaning friends...but 2 years..it's hard to erase for me...so im sure one day we'll be able to maybe talk more...or at least not at all and be completely fine with that.

varies,

basically, the girl cheated one me...not so sure to what extent and if it was a one-time only, but while she asked ME to get back with her and silly me ended things w a libra girl i was seeing for her...after only months of getting back together...she dissapeared one weekend and i just had it.

i ended things without even knowing for sure what had happened...but later on she confessed BARELY my fears. still, she wanted another chance, but i couldn't give that to her.

my bad, for the second time, for leaving someone to work things out with her without thinking clearly.
the attraction towards our relationship has been always so strong...she had many of the "check list" qualities i liked, not all, but many...so i would always think i could handle it...but i coudn't anymore after that one weekend.

funny thing is, that same weekend, we both talked about moving in together and were planning to...and then she messed things up...and i wasn't patience anymore to deal with that..later on she said she did it because she freaked out...and that she wishes we could have dated before or many years after the bad habits she learned from her past relationships...

The girls got some issues. I don't know if she said that because she meant that or because she felt bad and guilty. Later on though, after we broke up, she tried to see me again...even tricked my friends into it. I refused to do it. It was just this on-going distress I had over time w her and her ways.

I cared for her deeply, but I don't know that I could trust her again. She had all the awesome aqua traits that I like, but she was so ME-centered and just so cold and unconsiderate at times...

On the other hand, I just had my own fears I guess...and I wanted for things to be finally more settle...because I thought she wanted that. I wasn't even sure that I wanted that (continued)

but when you go through so much...like we did...you just want to offer or have a place of safety and rest you know...

i don't know if it was a search for a place to rest for us...maybe it was simply a place to rest for me. so it had to be one way or the other.
either me being a patient person and once again allow her to explain, apologize, and for us to move on....or i needed to end things for good and stand very firm this time and change my life around.

i just felt like i didn't have anything left to give...

i dont think she realizes to this day, how much i was willing to give and how much i wanted for things to work out..even though i had to ended it.

so that sums it up.

she isn't a bad person. she just got some issues...and she just wasn't the best for me always...i don't know what she thinks about me...but i can only speak of my own experience.

hope this gives you some insight into it.

vll

p.s. i think aquas are very loyal people, there is all sorts of like in every sign, we are all able to be very good or very bad you know. so please don't get scared of them, they come in all sort of commitment levels and phobias...there are ones that the clearly more committed than others..and it all stems from fears we all have.

so varies, if this girl seems the good type, go for it, but in order to figure out, get to know her really well first i would say. they are lovely people who capture attention and fun fun.

it all comes down to the rigth time sometimes...i also hurted people in the past and i don't think i'm a bad person, the people i hurted just met me in a time where my life wasn't very settle...so that is the way i see it.
dissapointment doesn't always come from physical cheating only, but also emotional, and just so many other ways...

sometimes you meet great people, just at the wrong time.

be smart though and stay firm in grounds you can't compromise that's all.

vll

well. my virguy is finally warming up to me, over the phone he was cold, all the bad stuff he did to me was because I cut off communication with him so he gave me hell. But then he said it all turned upside down the moment he saw me again. Now he went from cold to warm and now he's hot for me....

I knew waiting for a virg was going to be worth it! ^_^

And this Aqua is martyr-type loyal!! hehe I love the relationship we have, it is blessed astrologically believe it or not. (who would have figured Aqua and Virgo?)

We don't have a scattered chart at all. Most of the third entity is in ONE sign and in ONE house and in the appropriate houses too.


Sun is 3 degrees in Sag/Scorpio cusp
moon, mercury and venus are in Scorpio and all are conjunct to Pluto in scorpio, and sun, moon and mercury are all in house 8 and venus is, thankfully, in house 7, the original venus house and conjunct to pluto in the same sign and same house.

sun sag/scorp house 8
moon scorpio house 8
mercury scorpio house 8
venus scorpio house 7
pluto scorpio house 7
mars is in cancer at the end of house 3, so interpreted in house 4

the general aspects of this is deep, loving and bonding.

I want to marry this relationship!

does anyone else have a cool relationship with a Virgo?

reiniba,

you are so into this guy right now...haha...i told ya how this combo gets...i hope things stay like that or not to the other extreme.

i have to say, if you two share common interests and believes then problems may be fewere and better handled that with my ex situation.

i think a huge part of the problem was our VERY different perspectives on expectations and boundaries in relationships...so maybe you guys can handled that much better than we did 🙂

best of luck mi amiga.

vll

geez, i hate when people cheat. people need to grow up.

i think a huge part of the problem was our VERY different perspectives on expectations and boundaries in relationships...so maybe you guys can handled that much better than we did

yeah. 🙂 Darling, we have serious conversations...aaaaaall, and I really mean, ALL the time.

I would ask it like this..."So, how would you define cheating, what does it involve, where are the limits..."

Thing was though, he told me and it didn't conflict with any of my own beliefs. o.O

We have essentially the same perspective, and if we don't it's only very very very slightly different.

I think it's because we both have the same amount of earth in our chart and my moon is conjunct his saturn and pluto.

I am an Aqua with Earth and Water precedent in my chart. He has the same weighted amount of earth as I do.

But still, the aspects in our chart are quite amazing to me considering I'm Aqua and he's virgo.

yeah...cheating is not fun...for anyone towards the end.

if i know a relationship is not working out or i find myself in a position where im in a bad spot, i rather talk and end things there...cheating it isn't worth the drama and really damages relationships and trust...not worth it.

i can forgive and forget, but trust takes time to build up again you know...but then again i know couples who have gone through that over and over...i couldn't...i just didn't have it in me anymore...

Branh, you're looking at this all wrong....it's not SECONDARY it's BINARY; they look at you the way they see anyone else; depending on the way the Aqua is, they will treat you as they treat everyone; like spit, or gold, but really couldn't the same be said for anyone? and on that note, why get so bent outta shape over this? It's a trait that exists within us all really man.

sorry RC, I was pissy. I read my post, and it was that; I don't believe I've ever apologized to someone on here before....hmmm....; sometimes Virguys have to expect a visit from 'Aunt Flo' too...lol 😛

Forgiveness? 😛 lol

okay...

so back into my aqua analysis...i really think these girls are cool...
i just think they get scared, like we do, but react differently...so towards the end that's why we end up hurting each other.

ive been told today, by an ex, that i can be very good at times, and very not good at others...interesting enough that is exactly how id describe my ex aqua....

so, i wonder if our very good badness and our very good goodness is part of the attraction...hmmm...

i also like the mistery this relationship brings up, you never know what happens next, haha...my poor confused friends...by the end of the relationship i think we all were confused with whatever happened...we went from making plans to move together that weekend, to breaking up...yikes.

im done with that for now though, phew, i can forsee this story continuing months or years from now though if i were weak again. right now im an observant more than a participant when it comes to relationships...and cheers to that!!

vll

sorry RC, I was pissy. I read my post, and it was that; I don't believe I've ever apologized to someone on here before....hmmm....; sometimes Virguys have to expect a visit from 'Aunt Flo' too...lol

Forgiveness? lol

Sure, why not. 😛

You and I are pals, no need to take attacks seriously, they're just harmless fun fun board rants, tis all. 😉

^_^ you were brutally honest with me, and I like that about you virgs, tell the truth, damned or not.

I would thank you rather than hold a grudge. True friends are the ones that tell you like it is instead of draggin it on all sugar-coated, so it's okay to be cruel sometimes. You can't paint life with roses anyway, that will never be reality, or at least not while we're here...

I knew you were just moody, you can tell me how you feel anytime, darlin 😉

anywho! Moving on!

VLL, I'm glad you don't hold a grudge with Aquas, reacting with observation is always best.

ithelle,

not my way jose either that's why i had to end it! as hot as it was, i had to drop it.

either way though, the eye for an eye thing, isn't a matter of being used or not if i don't do something back...i just rather not spend more energy on that and move on with my life into something better ya know. so if someone takes something from me, i won't take something back, lol, i'll just leave them and move one, that's all 🙂

plus cheating is a sub-sequent action steamed from some sort of insecurity...so in the end, the people who do that lie to themselves as well (regardless of what sign) because they are acting in a way that is contradictory to what they either say or feel in a reltionship they have...so who is hurting or being used more towards the end? not so sure...

all i know is that we all are capable of doing great things and not-so-great ones too...and so at the end we can only be responsible for ourselves and our actions towards anything others may do...

I am aqua female, and just recently got attached to a virgo...
I like him so much, that i feel i am giving in to his whims at the moment, which is against my nature...
I want more from him..but i donno how to let him know....

Reading these earlier msgs....i donno...more confused than ever....

I dont wanna let him go, at the same time i know i can live without him.....
How shld i handle him?

You have to be straight-forward with him. Tell him exactly what satisfies you in all aspects of life. That's what I told my virguy, and he gets the picture. ^_^ He takes advantage of my feelings all the time. Yes, on purpose. X_X

so it looks like the virgo guy that i know is actually engage to this aquarius girl. he was dating her while he was seeing me then finally told me about her, but it was girlfriend which i soon later found out it's his fiancee. he ratted him out and he finally told me the truth. he wanted my friendship and was not "strong" enough to tell me. if he only told me the truth in the beginning we could of had a really good friendship and i would never have crossed the friendship line. his financee found out about me and they're still getting married. wow, people are strange. would you stay with someone who has cheated on you?

Aqua woman here:

nope wouldnt stay...too much pride.
(who knows though never been married and/or cheated on)

varies, what does your virgo do for a living??

Reiniba-Chan, why do you ask? does it matter or do you know this virgo?

now there's paranoia😉 for you RC?:-)
A x

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